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Mujtahid Name shadi 
Question mai aik larkai ko bht zada pasand krti hoon,or us sai shadi krna chahti hoon.magar meari parents nai meri shadi kahien aur teh kr di hai.or jis larkai ko pasand krti hoon us k parents b nahe maan rahai.jahan mairai pparents nai meri shadi k=teh ki hai mujai wo log or larka bilkul ne pasand .plz meri madad karain koe as wazifa bata dain jo bht zada effective hoo jis sai us larkai k parents b khud ba khud maan jahain or merai parents b yahan sai rishta khatam kr k wahan meri shadi kr dain .plz do reply  
Answer Is tarha ki mohabbat o dosti jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69).Or ager ap ke waldain ap se mohabbat ki waja se wahan shadi karne ki waja se inkaar kar rahe hain (jo ziyada ter esa hi hota hai) or ap ki na-farmani se un ko takleef hoti ho to ap ka un ki baat na-maanna haraam hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 1387). Is ke bawajood is wazife par amal karian or Allah Taala ke faisle per bharosa rakhain, Sura e Ahzaab (sura # 33) ko hath say likh kar ik dabbay(box) mai band kar ke apne ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz ik bar parh kar dua mangain. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai). 

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