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Question sir mai hafta me 3 martaba hasthamaithun kar deta hoo aur mai abhi 20 saal ka hun aur mai jab hasthamaithun karta hun to bahot jaldi mera draw bahar aa jata hai aur mai darta hun ki kahi meri shadi ko lekar koi pareshaniya to nahi na khadi hogi mai apni biwi ke sath safalta purwak sex karpaunga ki nahi mai bahot darta hoo shadi ke naam se kya karu aaphi bataiye aur meri ye adat mera pichha nahi chhodtee  
Answer 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253) 2)Jo shakhs shadi na krnay ki wajah sai fail e haram mai mubtila hota ho os par shadi krna wajib hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407) 3)Sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-farmani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).  

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