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1-Mangaiter na-mehram hay, laihaza merd k liay na-mehram aurtoon ka jism daikhna or isi terah on k baalo ko daikhna chahay lazzat k iraday se ho ya is k baghair, haraam main mubtila hone ka khoof ho ya nah ho, haram hay. In k chehray per nigah daalna or hatho ko kala,eyoon(palm) tak daikhna agar lazzat k iraday se ho ya haraam main mubtila hone ka khoof ho tu haram hay.isi terah aurat k liay na-mehram merd k jism per nazar daalna lazzat k iraday se or haraam main mubtila hone k khoof k saath haram hay.balkeh ehtiyaat e wajib ye hay k lazzat ka irada or haraam main mubtila hone ka khoof nah ho tub bhi nigah nahi daalni chahiay.Laikin aurat merd k jism k on hisso maslan sar, dono haath or dono pindliyoon per jinhain aam taur per merd hazraat nahi chupatay, lazzat iraday k baghair nazar dalay or haram main mubtila hone ka khoof nah ho tu koe haraj nahi hay.(Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397)
2-Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253)
3-First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
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