assalamolakum mufti sahab main 12 saal ki shadi kay baad widow ho gai hoon magar aik sawal sonay hi nahi daita ka mera husband ko shuru say hi mujh main koi dilchaspi nahi thi aur humaray durmian koi pyar ya sex wagaira nahi hota tha aik murtaba bus gussa keh lain ya josh main aa kar main nay do murtaba kisi aur ka saath sex kar lia kia isay zana kahain gain aur kai bar josh main apnay ap say sex karti rehti hoon aur yeh sochti hoon ka mera kia gunha hain main bhi insaan hoon do shadian hueen magar shohar jism ka saath nahi bana sakay mujhay kuch samajh main nahi aaya ka meri hi kismat kuon aisi hay kay main apna husband ko hur wakt taiyar milti magar unhain hi mujh sa kuch nahi karna tha ab ap say mera sawal hai ka main widow hoon aur ab 3rd shadi nahi kar sakti hoon magar apnay jazbaat ko kahan chupaoon bus month main do murtaba apnay ap ko relax khud hi kar laiti hoon kia yeh islam main jaiz hay ya nahi main kamuzkam yeh sochti hoon ka main kisi gair murd say tou sex nahi kar rahi na.please rehnumai karain thanku allahhafiz . Masla # 13962


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Question	assalamolakum mufti sahab main 12 saal ki shadi kay baad widow ho gai hoon magar aik sawal sonay hi nahi daita ka mera husband ko shuru say hi mujh main koi dilchaspi nahi thi aur humaray durmian koi pyar ya sex wagaira nahi hota tha aik murtaba bus gussa keh lain ya josh main aa kar main nay do murtaba kisi aur ka saath sex kar lia kia isay zana kahain gain aur kai bar josh main apnay ap say sex karti rehti hoon aur yeh sochti hoon ka mera kia gunha hain main bhi insaan hoon do shadian hueen magar shohar jism ka saath nahi bana sakay mujhay kuch samajh main nahi aaya ka meri hi kismat kuon aisi hay kay main apna husband ko hur wakt taiyar milti magar unhain hi mujh sa kuch nahi karna tha ab ap say mera sawal hai ka main widow hoon aur ab 3rd shadi nahi kar sakti hoon magar apnay jazbaat ko kahan chupaoon bus month main do murtaba apnay ap ko relax khud hi kar laiti hoon kia yeh islam main jaiz hay ya nahi main kamuzkam yeh sochti hoon ka main kisi gair murd say tou sex nahi kar rahi na.please rehnumai karain thanku allahhafiz
Answer	1-Istimna(Masturbation) haram hai.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 462 ). 2-First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
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