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Question As/wa Sir Maine ab tak itne mastrubution kiya hai is ka mai andaza bhi nahi laga sakta 4-5 salón se contineo. Maine sex bhi kiya hai lekin Maine in sáb ko chod diya 1mahine tak Sir bad me Maine ek bar sex kiya tab Sir Maine bus 2-3 martaba andhr bhahar kiya Sir mai farig hojata hun Sir mai bahot pareshan hun Sir mai koi sexy cheez dekhne k bad meri sharm gah par koi asar nahi hota sir mai abhi 22 saal ka hun meri Yeh 2-3 saal se shadi hone wali hai mai bahot pareshan hun Sir maine......sáb gunah karna chod diya hun Sir isse 2-3 mahine hogae hain mai allah k fazal se 4-5 time ki namaz padhta hun plz plz plz mujhe is pareshani ka hal baten mai bahot pareshan hun.... 
Answer 1) Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zarie se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 2) First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Wazifa : Aik shaks ne Imam jaffer sadiq(a.s) ki khidmat main arz kia k main chahta hoon k jinsi lazzat se bohot ziyada luft uthaon laikin aisa nahi hota, mujahy koe aisa hal batain k jis se meri ye tamanna pori ho jay tu Imam(a.s) ne fermaya k “ safaid piyaaz kaat ker ghee main tal lo, os k baad aik bertan main anda(egg) daal ker thorha sa namak daal lain or phir osi anday ko surukh ki hoe piyaaz main daal dain or khuch dair pakne dain .ye ghiza khane se aap ko jinsi lazzat hasil ho jay gi.” Os shaks ka kehna hay k main ne imam(a.s) k kehne k mutabiq amal kia or is ghiza ki barkat se apni muraad ko paa lia.( Ref : tib be islami or jaded medical science , pg # 54). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  

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