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1-Zina karna gunah e azeem hai .(Ref. Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah# 30 Ayatullah Sistani(d.b)). 2- jo insaan shadi na kar na ki waja say haram kaam karta ho as par shadi karna wajib hai .(Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407).
2-Bivi k alawa kisi bhi mehram ko lazzat k iraday se chomna ya os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna haram hay or isi terah kisi bhi na-mehram aurat ko chooma or os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna ghunah e azeem.or zina kerna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 )(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 )
3- First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport, reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se phele shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
Note: Jaisa k aap ne biyaan kia k aap ko sharab pilae gae or phir aap ne nashay ki halat main on se zina kia or aap ne apnay ikhtiyaar se nahi kia tu phir is zina ka gunah or sharab pilane ka gunah aap k zimay nahi hoga balkeh wo dono gunahgaar hongi.(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
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