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1)Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zarie se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253)
2)shadi na karnay ki wajah say aap fail e haram may mubtila ho rahay hain is lye aap pr wajib hay k shadi karain. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407 )
3)Mard ko chahae k jis aurat se shadi karna chahta he os me on sifaat aur khososiyaat ko pesh e nazar rakhay jo aik misali khatoon me honi chahae jo pak daman, shareef ul asal aur naik ho aur dunyavi aur ukravi muamilaat me sohar ki madad gar sabit ho. Mard k lie ye munasib nahi he k biwi k intikhab me is ka metmae nazar sirf is ka zaaheri husn o Jamaal aur maal o dulat ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 386 pg # 232).
Note: Agar aap ki is baat cheet ki wajah se fasaad ka khof ho to baat karna jaiz nahi he. (Ref : A.Sistani, mujtahid se poochay gae sawalat, hisa 3, ques no: 139.)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
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