mere question ye haii k mujhee aksarr sex ki talabb hotee haii jo mere husband mujhee nhii detee..or koi na koi bahanaa kar detee haii.... is k liye mujhee per kiya huqamm haiii................???kiya mein apne app ko khud releasee kar saktee hoonn??\ ya ..pir aese halat mein mein kiya karoonn.........kyun k dimag almost haram kaam ki taraf chala jata haii?? . Masla # 15356


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Mujtahid Name	aqa-e-sistano
Question	mere question ye haii k mujhee aksarr sex ki talabb hotee haii jo mere husband mujhee nhii detee..or koi na koi bahanaa kar detee haii.... is k liye mujhee per kiya huqamm haiii................???kiya mein apne app ko khud releasee kar saktee hoonn??\ ya ..pir aese halat mein mein kiya karoonn.........kyun k dimag almost haram kaam ki taraf chala jata haii??
Answer	1)Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho.(tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382). 2) jab bivi 4 mahinay tak hambistari se doori per is terah se sabar nah ker sakti ho k shohar ko khoof ho k agar hambistari nah ki gae tu os ki biwi haram main mubtila ho jay gi tu ehtiyaat e wajib ye hay k shohar 4 mahinay se pehlay ya tu hambistari karay ya apni bivi ko talqa day day or apni bivi ka raasta khool day. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#3, maslah #341). .Update on dated 03-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
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