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1-Agar koe shaks ramzan k rozay ko jaanboojh ker or ikhtiyaar k saath jima(intercourse)k zerye se batil karay tu os ko os rozay ki qaza bi karni hogi or is k sath kaffara bi dena hoga or kaffara main ye chezein deni hoti hain 1 ghulam azad kary ya 2 mahiny rozy rakhy ya 60 faqeeron ko pait bhar kar khana khely ya har faqeer ko ¾ kilo ghandum ya jow ya roti wagaira day ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 1632,1630 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
2-Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
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