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1) Baaz riwayaat main sharamgaah k baal 40 din se ziyada terk nah kernay ki takeed ki gae hay. Or khawateen ko 20 din se ziyada terk nah kernay ki takeed ki gae hay, or seenay or pait per majood baal ko door kerne per bhi kaseer riwayaat warid hoe hain baghair muddat ki tadaat k.( http://sistani.org/index.php?p=297396&id=504&page=3&perpage=10)
2) Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253) 2)Sub sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
3) Merd k liay apni biwi k alawa kisi aurat ki shrmagaah dikhna bhi haram hai,chahay sex ka irada nah bhi ho. (Ref:Ayatullah Sitsani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2400 and Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #1, masla #30). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
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