my question is , i am willing to do mutaa with a girl just to ensure that whetever we do except for the sex should be according to the shariah , in order to avoid further sins . but the problem is we want to make it secret because of the fact that both of our parents does not know anything about our relationship and we are also pity much sure that they wont let us do mutaa if we ask them . we both are virgin and want to do mutaa , is there any possibility for us to do mutaa without informing our parents ? . Masla # 32624


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Mujtahid Name	Ayatullah Sistani
Question	my question is , i am willing to do mutaa with a girl just to ensure that whetever we do except for the sex should be according to the shariah , in order to avoid further sins . but the problem is we want to make it secret because of the fact that both of our parents does not know anything about our relationship and we are also pity much sure that they wont let us do mutaa if we ask them . we both are virgin and want to do mutaa , is there any possibility for us to do mutaa without informing our parents ?
Answer	If a girl has reached the age of bulugh and is virgin and mature (i.e. she can decide what is in her own interest) wishes to marry(temporary marriage / permenent marriage), she should, obtain permission from her father or paternal grandfather, although she may be looking after her own affairs. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2341)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
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