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Asalamualaycum ,
hajrat please please mere sawal ka jawab email se dena please answer dena i m worryied. jaldi ans dena
Mera nam zaheda banu he from gujrat india, mera masla ye hai ke mera nikah meri marji se hua tha mere sohar ka nam mohameed irfan he ham ne apni marji se nikah kiya tha hajrat mere sohar ke parents mere ghar mera rista lekar aaye the mere sohar ke paents 1 garib ghar se he aur me 1 acche ghar se belong kerti hu ..mere papa ne unki beizzati ker ke aur bahut bura keh ke riste se mana kerdiya tha .
fir ham ne shadi ka fasla kiya tha .to papa ne naraj hoker hamari shadi to karvadi par mujse sare riste tod diye mumy chup ke se mere contact me the
1 din mumy ki tabiyat bahut kharab hogai aur meri bat hui thi mumy se to ammijan ne kaha ke agar tu apne sohar ko chod ke aana chahti he to aaja
aur ammi ki halat soch ke mene phone pe hi ha bol diya muje darr beth gaya ke me apni ammi ko kho na du.kahi
aur mene apne sohar se bat ki muje ammi se milna he unki halat bahut kharab he. unhone kaha ke tuje jana ho to ja.fir mene ammi se milne ka fasla kiya me aur mere sohar ke bich me mashaallah bahut mohabat thi aur papa ne apne ghamand me muje lene apne sasural aaye sarural me ramjan ke bahane se kaha aur muje hamesha ke liye lekar chale aaye ye bat muje malum thi but me apni ammi ki jan na chali jaye mujse judai ke gam me
ye sochke ke mere aur mere sohar ke riste ki hifazat mere allah karege ye soch ke ammi ke ghar aagai ..mere sohar phone kerte to muje abba phone nai dete the aur abbaa ne muje kaha ke agar tu jana chahti he to wapas chalija na magar meri ammi , bhai aur abba ke zanaza se jana aur mere aur mere sasural ke bich me galat fahmi paida ker ke hamara rista tudva diya meri mere sohar se internet se bat hoti thi vo mana kerte the ke wapas aaja aur muje bi jana tha apne sasural but abba ne bahut imotional kiya aur abba mere sasural walo ko bahut nichi zat ka samaj te hai.
aur 1 din mere sohar ki family ko 1 jagah bulwaya jane se pahle mere sohar ki aur meri bat hui thi wo bi mana kerarhe the ke me talak nai duga
unhone bola tu mera sath dena mene unka sath dene ka fasla kiya tha but waha jane se pahle mene abba ke samne roi muje ye rista nai todna tha abba ne kaha ke tu waha rista todne ko mana nai karegi to hame mardal me kya kerti hajrat me waha kuch nai boli aur waha mere sohar pe jabardasti hui thi ke talak dede unki jamat walone kaha aur unpe mere papa ka jorr-jabardasti thi hajrat mere sohar ne muje pahle2 bar talak kaha aur fir kisi ke kahne par 2 bar aur hajrat mera dill ye talakmanne ko taiyar nai he aur muje yakin he ke mere sohar bi ye talak ko nai mante hajrat mere papane ye rista isliye tudwaya ke unka damad 1 aam insan tha aur unhe 1 dolat mand damad chahiye jise unki izzat aur rutba badhe hajrat aap meri madad kijiye ke abba ke dill badal jaye aur mere sohar irfan ko wapas apna ke hamara nikah wapas kara de plese hajrat me aap ke mail ka wait karugi
aur muje allah pe yakin he ke mere aur mere sohar ke sath insaaf allah karege.
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