Assalam u alaikum sir mara quetion ya ha k ma aik larki k0 bht like karta tha wo deobandi the aur ma shia syed mara ghr wala aur uska ghr walay nai mante the phr b ham contct ma rahey phr aik sal bad khud per kabo ni raha tu usk sath phone pe messages sex kia aur kai bar kisses aur had cross ki msgs pa magr sex aik bar kia mja lagta tha k ya real ma karna sa bht kam gunah ha aur desperation khtm hojati the tu real ma nai kia i have come to knw k ya real k barabr ha gunah ma AYATULLAH SISTANI ki aik refrnce btai the mara aik cxn na ab ma ya poochna chahta hn k ma na taubah karli ha us larki sa b kaha ha k mafi mangey aur admit kar len k ham aik nai ho saktey pashtawa bht ha islia ab us larki ko chorna para qk agr sath rahta tu yai sab chalta rahta tu ab ma us larki sa taubah karun aur khuda sa b mafi qabol hogi merii? . Masla # 32863


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Mujtahid Name	Ayatullah Sistani
Question	Assalam u alaikum sir mara quetion ya ha k ma aik larki k0 bht like karta tha wo deobandi the aur ma shia syed mara ghr wala aur uska ghr walay nai mante the phr b ham contct ma rahey phr aik sal bad khud per kabo ni raha tu usk sath phone pe messages sex kia aur kai bar kisses aur had cross ki msgs pa magr sex aik bar kia mja lagta tha k ya real ma karna sa bht kam gunah ha aur desperation khtm hojati the tu real ma nai kia i have come to knw k ya real k barabr ha gunah ma AYATULLAH SISTANI ki aik refrnce btai the mara aik cxn na ab ma ya poochna chahta hn k ma na taubah karli ha us larki sa b kaha ha k mafi mangey aur admit kar len k ham aik nai ho saktey pashtawa bht ha islia ab us larki ko chorna para qk agr sath rahta tu yai sab chalta rahta tu ab ma us larki sa taubah karun aur khuda sa b mafi qabol hogi merii?
Answer	Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
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