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Question salam.... kaisy hain???????i hope ap theak hon gay.... mujhy ap k sath apna masla shear krna tha umeed krta hon ap mairy masly ka koi hal batein gy..... mairi age 23 year hai main hand prectice bhut ki hai or abhi bhi krta hon bhut chorny ki koshish ki hai lykin nahi chor pa raha.....koi way batein.... or march mein mairi shadi hai lykin ab sub sy bra masla yeh hai k maira penis full tarha sy khara nhi hota itna sakhat nhi hota k wo andar ja saky asani k sath idhar udhar mora ja sakta hai....main bhut pryshan hon koi rasta batein dawaian kha chuka hon koi asar nahi hoa....plz as soon qs reply krein.... regards atif hussain 
Answer Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan merdo main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k merdo k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba or seedha ho. (Large & straight), 2- Mota ho. (thick), 3- Sakht ho. (hard). Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani sharam gaah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharam gaah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote berhe hone se koe faraq nahi perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k te,rha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahi perhta Q k wo sharam gaah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahi hota, Q k aurat ki sharam gaah k naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharam gaah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay}.(Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,wakeel e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111 ). Arnica + Lycopodium + Olive.ye oil Penis k massage k liay behter hay laikin massasge bohot ehtiyaat se karain k kaheen mushtzani nah ker baithain. mushtzani(Handprctice) se bachain Q k hay harm hay or mushtzani kisi bhi sorat main jaiz nahi hay. (Ref http:/h/abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/124370/ + http://sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1213 )(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) 1)Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram haiaur ghuna kabira hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009), 2) Mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 ) 3) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). 4) jo istimna karta hai wo sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo wo ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).  

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