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Asslam-o-aliakum sir, mashallah is web se bahut kuch logon maslon ka hal horaha hai, inshallah mera bhi masle ka hal hojaega. my ek shadi shuda seedha sadha qualified insan hun 35 sal umer hai al hamdulillah shadi hokar 4 sal hogaye mashallah ek beti bhi hai lekin my zindagi se kafi pareshan hun, kyun ke har waqth mere aur wife ke beech me kafi chak maki (zagde) hote rahti hai kyun ke my uske talab poori nahi kar pata hun, kyun ke us per mera interest hi nahi aa raha hai. bar bar tokte rahti hai tum tho na mard ho aisa waisa bolke be-izzati hoti rahti hai. magar my aisa aadmi nahi hun ke na mard , magar us per mera interest (talab) hi nahi hota. Because uska body structure bhi kafi bigda huva hai aur chote chote baton ko patangad banana aur mujh per shak karna unki aadat hai. kabhi kabhi sochta hun ke talaq ho jaye tho theek rahega. Itni pareshan hoti hai.
Al hamdulillah mera Hajj bhi ho chukka hai ek haji hone ke bawajud mai kisi se zina nahi karna chahte mujhe doosre auraton pe talab hote rahti hai. kya kisi per boori nazar ho lekin aisa nahi kar paye tho bhi gunah hai? mera matlab kya kisi ke bare me sochne se bhi gunah ho sakta hai? inshallah aap ko mera masla samajme aya hoga zaroor mere masle ka hal bata deejiye
Allah hafiz
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