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Aslamualaikum...sir iam very destracted from my current situation i realy dont know what should i do days y em sending u this mail...sir before this i was realy very good girl..stuck only with my study my friends and my family members...iam 27 years old now doing job in a university.for first 2 years of my job went very good but in 2012 i was teaching to a department where there was a studnt he was good in stdy i often point him out to ask some questions...i realy was not in bad intention.he was just a good stdnt but other students take it in a wrong maner dat y iam pointing him much(i came to know this after sementer)...when semestr end dat stdnt got my mob number from someone else and contct me.he introducd himself and said madam i have some confusions dats y i contct u.at that time i think now dat made a mistake to reply him.but i realy was not in a bad intention.afetr dat he used to text me daily sent his own poetry...by and by he become too frank to me...after some time he propose me i simply reject and said ur like my younger brother and im not intrested in any of this type relationship...for dat instant he kept quiet but after dat he used to say such things and whenever i strictly obliged him not to say these things he did say these tings...i didnt know y he is doing this.well sir this was happening for some more time and i dont know when i stuck with him i was gettng his thougts even know dat its not possible.i fell in love with him by seeing his much care and extra love...well sir this happend by the time now he left university and not contct me much by claimimg dat he has lot of work but whenever he contct he say same things of love and affection.couple of days ago he again propose me but i said if ur realy want then send ur paents he suddenly said he cant cuz is stuck.then he used to avoid me to talk on this topic.wo mukhtalif tarekon se mjy behlata raha fir aik din shadi k topic pe usne kaha k m to sincere hoon per tumhari family nahin mane gi us wqt mery zhn m sirf ye aya k aj iski asliyat janne ka wqt hai mene jhut bol diya k man jaeygi fir usne bahana kiya mene her tarf se usy manwaya at last he said meri family nh manegi q k hamari caste chang hai blah blah means puri aslyat zahr krdi k usne mery sath flirt kiya.usne sirf ye sub is liye kiya q k mene usy refuse kiya start m usne mjy ditch krne k liye ye sub kiya...per fir wo apni bat se mukar b raha hai k he loves me alot.per mery samne to ab sub clear hai usne mjy ditch kiya usne apne doston m beth k mjy discus kiya badnam kiya k falan larki se mera contct hai she loves me ye wo...is wqt m shukr krti hoon k mene sirf mob k contct k ilawa aisa kch nh kiya usne bht dafa kaha bahr chakne k liye mene hr chez m refuse kiya per fir b m guilty hoon k mj jesi larki jo in baton se kitna dor thi wo akhir bewkoof ban gae m apni nazron m gir gae hoon.mjy hr wqt ye tensn hoti hai k universty m jo log hamary bary m janty hn wo mjy kitni gandi nazar se dakhty hongy mera kiya impression hoga.m manti hoon mjy phle sochna chahye tha but ourtan hoti he bewkof hain aj m manti hoon ye baat.apse sirf itni request hai sir k mjy guide karaen m kiya karon mene usy true love kiya isi liye aj b wo msg kry to m jawab deti hon jo mjy nh dena chahye per ye us wqt mujhy samjh nahin ata m kiya karon?mjy ye puchna hai k agaer jesa wo khta hai k he realy love me but kch problems ki waja se shdi nh kr skta to ya to kch aisa bataen k hamari shadi ki rukawat khatam ho jaey ya fir m usy door rhne lagon.plz sir mene apko phle b question bheja tha apne reply nh kiya plz iska reply zaror karaen.kch aisa bataen k meri shadi ki hr rukawat khatm ho ya agar wo mery liye thek nh to m khud usy door rahon.ya fir aisa bataen k usy apni galati ka ahsas ho jo m chhti hoon usy feel ho wo regret kary k usy mery sath aisa nahin krna chahye tha, |