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1)Shadi ki pehli raat hambistari kerna wajib nahi hay. (ref : E-mail rcvd from sistani(d.b),dated:26. 05-2010). 2) Shab e zafaf se pehlay ya bad me valima karna mustahab he, wajib nahi. Islam ne 5 maqamaat per valima kerna mustahab qaraar diya hay jin main se aik ye valima bhi hay.valimay se pehlay jima kerna zarori nahi hay. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 4, 388). 3) Jima k doran(during intercourse) bivi ki sharamgaah par nazar kerna makrooh hay, shohor or bivi ka berhana(nacked) ho ker aik dosray se lazzat hasil kerna makhrooh nahi hay sirif berhana ko ker jima kerna makrooh hay). Update on dated 08-12-2015. (Ref: A.Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen, part#3, maslah#5). 4) Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah(vigina or penis) ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 2). 5) Shohar bivi k breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay,laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moohn mai doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k bivi ka doodh nah piaya jaay(yaani halaq say neechay nah utara jaay.) ). Update on dated 08-12-2015. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). 6) Agar Biwi ki ijazat ho tu us k peechay se(Hip k hole main) intercourse kerna jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hai aur agr biwi ijazat nah day tu ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par jaiz nahi hay.Laikin is se nikah per koe asar nahi perhta). (Ref : Masail-e-muntakhaba Ayatullah Sistani d.b., masla#70). Update on dated 08-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey). |