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Iska asaan hal ye hai k aap jo kaam(yani ighlaam bazi) mard k sath kertay hain wohi kaam biwi k sath karain laikin agar biwi ki ijazat ho tu us k peechay walay maqam(anus) main intercourse kerna jaiz hai magar shaded makhrooh hay aur agar biwi ijazat nah day tu ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par jaiz nahi hay.(Ref : Masail-e-muntakhaba Ayatullah Sistani d.b., masla#70).
Note: Ighlaam bazi ko chand cheezo ki taraf ghoor o fiker ker k asaani se chorha jasakta hay:
1-Ighlam bazi gunah e azeem hay or khuda k shaded narazgi ka sabab hay. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah #30)
2-Khuda ko har waqt hazir o nazir jaantay hoay gunah se bachnay ki koshish ki jaay.
3-Ighlam bazi se insaan main mukhtalif qisim ki jinsi beemariyaan paida hoti hain, jin main namerdi ki bemari bhi shamil hay. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
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