Assalamualikum. This is for your information that now I want to get marry and I am looking for spouse but there is a so so much pious divorced women(due to unpious husband) in our village of age 28 yrs 2 yrs greater than me and weight appox duble than me. Suddenly I feel that if I married her then it will better for me for here and hereafter. So I fall in love. And her brother the imam of our masjid is my intemate friend and he is also too pious. And the whole family of her also love me very much for my piety and the whole villagers also love me. And she is too pious that(she seen many times the prophet(pbuh) in dream ) for last 16 yrs I have never seen her even in her home so due to so much love I have told a lie to her brother that I seen a dream where I proposed your sister for me for knowing the circumstance then he told me that his sister also seen dream 1 yr back that she came and raised to 70th flor of my house with me (actually my house is one store) and once she had seen me with torn camij and told her brother that I am looking good. And her brother also seen dream two times that we got married but my father slightly dissipointed about this marriage but brother imam keep it in his mind and never tell me about for having respect to me. And I believed totally he had said is true . Now what should I do. If I married her then can I satisfy her because she is older as well as have much weight than me. Please reply soon in english. . Masla # 47341


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Question	Assalamualikum. This is for your information that now I want to get marry and I am looking for spouse but there is a so so much pious divorced women(due to unpious husband) in our village of age 28 yrs 2 yrs greater than me and weight appox duble than me. Suddenly I feel that if I married her then it will better for me for here and hereafter. So I fall in love. And her brother the imam of our masjid is my intemate friend and he is also too pious. And the whole family of her also love me very much for my piety and the whole villagers also love me. And she is too pious that(she seen many times the prophet(pbuh) in dream ) for last 16 yrs I have never seen her even in her home so due to so much love I have told a lie to her brother that I seen a dream where I proposed your sister for me for knowing the circumstance then he told me that his sister also seen dream 1 yr back that she came and raised to 70th flor of my house with me (actually my house is one store) and once she had seen me with torn camij and told her brother that I am looking good. And her brother also seen dream two times that we got married but my father slightly dissipointed about this marriage but brother imam keep it in his mind and never tell me about for having respect to me. And I believed totally he had said is true . Now what should I do. If I married her then can I satisfy her because she is older as well as have much weight than me. Please reply soon in english.
Answer	You should have a marry with her because she is pious except your father say to you that do not marry with her because your father love you alot and if you marry so it is torment for him so in this condition according to Sharia you can not marry with her, more over you marry so your marry is right. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 1387) , (Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 386 , pg # 232 , eidition # 5 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).
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