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Question assalam alikum mera sawal ye he k agr hm.kisi se pasand se shadi karna chae to.kya quraaan.me.iski.ijazat.he or wazifa padna b alw he or kis tarah pada jaye kya.halal.he. or.kya haraaam he kese padha.jaye wo.b.islam me sheriyat k mutabik bina gunah.k or allah ki marzi se q k me ek ladke.se bht pyar krti hu hm4saal rahe pr ab alag hogaye pata nai kb.wo itna badal.jo bnda.ghr me mjhse shadi karne k liye ladta tha mjhe kahi.b shadi nai karna dena chata tha pr.ab.wo.bht.badal.gaya plz alllah.se dua kijiye.or mjhe iska.asaaan rasta batay......repy 
Answer 1)Islam mai gair ikhtari kaam par koi hokum nahi lagaya ja sakhta. Agarchah is ka muqaddima ikhtiari hay. agar haram ho to is ka murtakib na hoon. Lakin har surat may shawat aur lazzat wala kaam nikah say pehlay haram hay. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani d.b. official website http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=972 Q#1) 2)Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) Wazifa batanay k sath aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  

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