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1) Jee haan larka or larki khud apna nikah-e-mutta k seghay parh sakte hen,Ehtiyaat e wajib ye he k nikah ka seegha (alfaz) sahi arabi me parhe jaen, or agar seegha arabi main na perh saktay hoon tu arabi k alawa kisi dosri zaban main perh saktay hain or kisi ko vakil banana lazimi nahi hay, dono ka baligh hona bhi zurari hai, dono seegha parhte waqt qasd-e-insha (nikah ka irada) rakhte hoon.
2)Iska tareeka ye hai k nikah se pehle nikah ki muddat aur meher taey karney k baad pehlay aurat kahe k (زوجتك نفسى فى المدة المعلومة على المهر المعلوم)(Zauwajtoka nafsee fil muddatil ma’loomati alal mahril ma’loom) Or os k baad mard foran kahay (قبلت)(qabiltu) to nikah ho jaey ga. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2334)
3-Wo Kunwari larki jo khud mukhtaar nah ho os k liay apne wali (baap ya dada) ki ijazat zaruri hai. Or agar lerki khud mukhtaar ho tu os k liay apne wali (baap ya dada) ki ijazat ehtiyaat e lazim ki bina per zaruri hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah # 2328-2335). Update on dated 13-05-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
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