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1) Gee haan, ye jaiz hay k 1 bhai 1 lerki se shadi karay or dosra bhai os lerki ki behen se shadi karay. (Ref: A.sistani, Minhaj_ul_salihreen,part#3,msla#90,91,92)
2) Gee haan, bilkul nikah hoskta hai umar ki koi shart nahi hai albatta agar us larki ki umar 9 saal se kam hai to us k sath jimaa(humbisatri) kerna haram hai 9 saal ya us k baad koe haraj nahi.( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 33rd edition,msla#2374)
3) Gee nahi, apne baap ya dada ki merzi k bagher kanwari larki kisi se shadi nahi ker sakti.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 33rd edition,msla#2340)
4)_Gee nahi jab tak wo lerki bivi nahi ban jati tab tak aap ka larki se milna or phone per baat kerna agar lazzat k irade or haram men parhne ka khoof ho to haram hai .(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 33rd edition,msal#2397)
5)_Larkay k liye walden se poochna zarori nahi hai albatta wo kunwari baligh larki jo rashida ho(yani apna bura bhala samjh sakti ho) agar wo shadi kerna chahay or apni zinadagi k umoor khud mukhtari se anjaam nah daiti ho tu osay chahiay k apnay baap ya dada se ijazat lay, balkeh ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per yehi hokum os k liay bhi hay jo khud mukhtari se apni zindagi k kamo ko anjaam daiti ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 33rd edition,msal#2340). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
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