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Question Mai.bahut jyada pareshan.hu.apne ek gandi adat se or wo hai lazzati ,sex... kisi gair maharam se lazzat hasil karna ye meri buri adat ho chuki hai...mera umr 23 Saal hai, mujhse control nhi hota,khoda k liye koi rsta batae mai paanch waqt namaz bi padhta hu,or khoda se darta bi hu...lekin jabbi wo ladki mere samne ati hai mai bekabu ho jata hai.., 
Answer 1)Shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), 2)Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) 3) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)  

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