A.O.A sir!I need your help.. m in strong relationship with second cousin. meri family agree hae humari shadi k liye.. aur larky ki mother b.. but unho ny kisi sy humara hisab lgwaya hae toh woh bolty inh ki apas mein laraiya bohat hogi but agr larky ya larki ka naam change kr dain toh problem thek hosakti...toh ush basis py woh b muna kr rahi... (yaha main apko yeh b bta dun k mere bhai ny b kisi ay hum dono k liye pucha tha unho ny kaha k koi problem nhi aisi .. sb thek.. aur larky ki mother ny jinsy hisab lgwaya woh mere liye apny bethy ka rista already mang chuky hain... aur mere anay walay hr ristay mein nuks nikalty) larky k father b nhi maan rahi.. unhy mjhsy koi problem nhi bt darty... bohat superstitiouS hae... dil sy dono families agree hain... bt families k ilawa dusray relatives b problem create kr rahi jealousy ki waja sy... Please koi dua bta dain takay hum ish muskil waqt sy nikal jain aur jald sy jald hum ek dusray k sath shadi jysy pak ristay mein bund jain... takay jo gunnah humaray sar araha ush sy bach jain... . Masla # 57806


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Question	A.O.A sir!I need your help.. m in strong relationship with second cousin. meri family agree hae humari shadi k liye.. aur larky ki mother b.. but unho ny kisi sy humara hisab lgwaya hae toh woh bolty inh ki apas mein laraiya bohat hogi but agr larky ya larki ka naam change kr dain toh problem thek hosakti...toh ush basis py woh b muna kr rahi... (yaha main apko yeh b bta dun k mere bhai ny b kisi ay hum dono k liye pucha tha unho ny kaha k koi problem nhi aisi .. sb thek.. aur larky ki mother ny jinsy hisab lgwaya woh mere liye apny bethy ka rista already mang chuky hain... aur mere anay walay hr ristay mein nuks nikalty) larky k father b nhi maan rahi.. unhy mjhsy koi problem nhi bt darty... bohat superstitiouS hae... dil sy dono families agree hain... bt families k ilawa dusray relatives b problem create kr rahi jealousy ki waja sy... Please koi dua bta dain takay hum ish muskil waqt sy nikal jain aur jald sy jald hum ek dusray k sath shadi jysy pak ristay mein bund jain... takay jo gunnah humaray sar araha ush sy bach jain...
Answer	Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352). Wazifa bayan karnay k sath aap ko is fiqhi maslay ki taraf bhi mutwajjah kiya jata hay k : jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).
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