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Question Assalam o alikum mera swal hai k mere maan baap meri shadi tamam rasmun k sath karna chahty hain Jo apko pata hai india/Pakistan Mein hain Jo k Mein nahi chahta lekin Mein aisa nahi chahta Mein bilkul sadghi se shadi karna chahta hun sirf nikah aur walima aur mere ghar walun ko koi larki pasand nahi aati kabhi yahan larki dekhne ja rahy kabhi wahan jaisy Mandi Mein qurbani k liye dekhne jaty Jo mujy bilkyl pasand nahi is tamashy se bahut tang hun jis ki wajah se ab meine shadi na karne ka fiasla kiya hai aur agar Mein shadi Karun sadhgi se aur mere maab baap aur behan Bhai naraz ho jayen tou mere liye kuch gunah tou nahi hai.Aur dusri baat agar larki waley bhi sadgi se na chahty hun aur is ki wajah se agar Mein shadi na Karun tou is Mein koi gunah tou nahi muj par.. Plz is ka jawab mujy Email Kar dein Shukria... 
Answer Wssalam o alykum, Shadi mustabbat e muakkada main se hai, jesa ke Ap (s.a.w) se marvi hai ke jo shadi kar leta hai wo apna aadha deen bacha leta hai. Ref : aqa sistani,Jadeed faqhi masail , masala # 385 , eidition # 5). Or ager ap ke waaldain ap se mohabbat ki waja se un rasmo ke karne ko keh rahe hain jin se Shariat e Muqaddasa ki nafarmani nahi hoti or ager un ke is hokum ki mukhalifat karain to un ko takleef ho gi to ap per un rasmoo ko hone dena wajib hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 1387). Or sura taha ki ayat no 131 or 132 ko likh kar bazo par band lain. (Ref : tajalliyaat e Quraan , pg # 79 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai). 

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