assalam waleikum.... mera age 22 hai.. main abhi padhai kar rrha hu.. mera sawal yeh he k mujhe sex karne ka bhut man karta hai. meri girl friend v hai aur me shadi v usse hi karna chahta hu magar meri sex karne ki ichcha itni jyada badh jati hai k mai isse pareshan ho jata hu... aur dusri bat yah k mai itni jaldi shadi nahi karna chahta hu.. aur kya is halat me sex karne ke bajay masturbation karna sahi hai? plz btaiye me kya karu.? plz iska jawab mujhe mail kar dijiyega.. plz.... . Masla # 60150


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Question	assalam waleikum.... mera age 22 hai.. main abhi padhai kar rrha hu.. mera sawal yeh he k mujhe sex karne ka bhut man karta hai. meri girl friend v hai aur me shadi v usse hi karna chahta hu magar meri sex karne ki ichcha itni jyada badh jati hai k mai isse pareshan ho jata hu... aur dusri bat yah k mai itni jaldi shadi nahi karna chahta hu.. aur kya is halat me sex karne ke bajay masturbation karna sahi hai? plz btaiye me kya karu.? plz iska jawab mujhe mail kar dijiyega.. plz....
Answer	Wssalam o alykum, Imaam Jaffar o Sadiq (a.s) se marvi riwayat ke mutabiq, jo shaks raat ko sone se pehle sura yaaseen ki tilawat kare ga to ALLAH TAALA use her aafat, shetaan ke har shar se hifazat ke liye 1000 farishte muqarar kare ga or ager is hi din mar jaae to ALLAH TAALA is jannat main dakil kare ga. (Ref : mafaati ul jinaan , topic # Fazilat e Sura e Yaseen , pg # 04)(Istimna (masturbation) har surat men haram hai (Ref : Ayat ul Allah Sistani (db), Minhaj ul Saliheen part #01 , masla # 30) Ayse halat men shadi krna wajib hai (Ref : Ayat ul Allah Sistani (db),Tozeeh ul Masaail#33rd Edition, Masla#2407) ,(Allah Taala ki tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).
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