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Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)
Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). |