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Question Salam walakom.Biwi par kuch sawal.Meri shadi ho kar 19 years ho gaiye hai mera 3 daughters hai wo achi sa taleem kar re hai aur meri biwi house wife hai,mera travel ka businesses hai hum log middle class ka family se hai hamari arrange marrriage hai meri meezaz angry type ki hai bachpan se hai sirf guzse karte ho agar koi meri bath nahin suno tho kabhi unchi awaz se kabhi dheera se kabhi be mai kis per be guzse kar tha ho log mera se kafi nararaz hote hai sirf mera guzse se.Meri biwi kabhie be bhul jate hai ya meri bol na ka koi be bath gharelo bath se wo kafi naraz ho te hai.Mai kuch be bol ne par be wo naraz hoti hai kafi bure lagtha hai aur us ka dil tood ja te hai mera words ka reason se aur wo apna taraf se kuch be nahin karte kise be reason se har cheese us ko bol na pardh tha hai mai us har bar samjaiye ki ap aise math karo thik nahi ho ga insaniyath ka natha ap aise ya wo nahin karo wo apna ghar ka kam kach achi thara karti hai ghar ka work se wo muja kise be type ka chance nahin de thi mujhe us ka work se koi complaint nahin hai sirf ya complaint hai ki mai bol na ka bath be wo nahin sun thi jawab bhoot da thi aur safiya kafi de thi mai bol tho meri biwi ko ap ka safi se ya ap ka jawab se kuch nahin hoona wala hai sirf ap samaja karo apna husband ko wo kis type ka ap ek khadam aaga chalo mai dus khadam chalonga wo kabhi nahin aaga badi wo kabhi mujhe nahin samjiye kis bath par la ker.ek do bar mera hath us par ud gaiye us ka bath se wo totall anjaan mar na lagi hai mera se us ka main problem ya hai ki us ko koi be nahin bol na wo kuch be kare tho even my family or us ki be family be mai us bole ha meri mezaz kuch tez hai ap meri bath ko lekar serious nahin ho haar time mai us ko samja ne ki try kartha ho lekin wo kis baap ko apni galthi pe man ka liye ready nahin ho thi mai bol tho ki sirf mera guzse se us ka parents ka knowledge mai be ya bath hai lekin us parents ka kabhie be be us ko sakhti nahin kare us wo sher ho gaiye aur ek bath hai ki kitna bar bol par be ke ya ap aise math karo ap mujhe aise bol sakhte na ya ap aise be kar sakh tha na itne bol par be wo nahin bol thi is cheese se mai kafi pareshan ho aur wo mera pe kabhie be interest nahin atha,us ka lagoo mera se nahin hai us ghar walo se hai kafi maine us ko dham ki be diya ho lekin wo kabhie wo baaz nahin athi us ko mera daar zare be nahin hai aur kise ka be daar nahin hai ap mai karo tho kya karo kis tha re se samjo us ko aur wo apne taraf se kuch be nahin karti last 19 years sirf apne ghar ka work or us ghar pyare hai mai tho bilkul nahin aj thak wo meri life ma wo ap tak adjust nahin ho we hai mera kuch work se wo kabhie be happy nahin ho we hai please advice karo mujhe is matter ko la ke shukriya 
Answer Mian biwi ki aik doosray se mohabbat o ulfat k lie har namaz k bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat # 7 ko 7 martaba parha karain. Is se donoo me bai-misal mohabbat qaim ho jay gi. (ref : kitab naway salaheen pg # 404) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). 

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