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1)Gussay ka ilaj chand cheezo par moqoof hai jis mai sai kuch aap ki khidmat mai tehreer krtay hain. 1: un hadeeso ko parhain k jo gussay ki muzammat mai warid hui hain. 2: un hadeeso ko parhain jo gussa na krnay k sawab mai warid hui hain. Jaisa k hazrat paigambar s.a.w.w. sai marvi hadees hai k jo shakhs kisi par gussa na karay khuda roz e qayamat is par azab na karay ga. 3: jis shakhs par insan gussa krta hai to osay gor(ﻏﻮﺭ) krna chaheay (ﭽﺎﮩﻴﮱ) k os kamzor par jo qudrat osay hasil hui hai, os sai bohat ziada khuda gussa krnay wala hai pas halat e gussa mai itna khayal krna chaheay k khuda kahin isi terah apna gazab aap par jari na karay. 4: ye tas’sa’wur(ﺘﺼﻮﺭ) karain k gussay k waqt aap ki kis qism ki buri surat aur aap k ﺍﻋﺿﺎﺀ(body parts) kis terah mutaharik aur aap k afaal(ﺍﻔﻌﺎﻞ) kis qadar ﺒﮯڈﻫﻨﮕﮯ aur aap ki guftugoo kis qadar ﺒﮯﺠﺎ ho jati hai.
2)Gussay k waqt shaitan sai panah leni chaheay aur “ ﺍﻋﻮﺫﺒﺎﷲﻤﻦﺍﻠﺷﻴﻂﺎﻦﺍﻠﺮﺟﻴﻢ ” parhni chaheay, agar kharay hon to beth jana chaheay, agar bethay hon to so jana chaheay, thanday pani sai wazoo krna chaheay aur ghusl krna gussay ki halat mai mufeed hai is sai gussa khatam ho jata hai aur hadees mai aya hai k agar kisi aisay shakhs par gussa aye jis sai khooni rishta rakhta ho to is k badan par hath rakhnay sai gussa khatam ho jata hai. (Ref : Urooj us Sadaat pg # 348-52)
Gussay ko door karnay k lie surah e aal e imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pe lain inshallaha faida ho ga. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 369) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) |