Salaam, mera sawal yeh hay k mere shadi ko 4 saal hue hay aur mei 3 saal se mulk se baher rozgar k liye aya hua hu apni wife k saath itna time spend nae ker saka so hum akser o beshter skpye pe ya watsup pe kuch personal discussions kerte hay about sexual life and all. so is conditions mei masturbation kerna jaiz hay larke k lie ? q k muta k liye munasib sahulat nahe hay aur agar muta proper na hua tu pher wo zina ho jaega is liye apni sexual needs ki waja se skype ya watsup pe chat kerte hue wife k saath masturbation kerna jaiz hay?? . Masla # 61329


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Question	Salaam, mera sawal yeh hay k mere shadi ko 4 saal hue hay aur mei 3 saal se mulk se baher rozgar k liye aya hua hu apni wife k saath itna time spend nae ker saka so hum akser o beshter skpye pe ya watsup pe kuch personal discussions kerte hay about sexual life and all. so is conditions mei masturbation kerna jaiz hay larke k lie ? q k muta k liye munasib sahulat nahe hay aur agar muta proper na hua tu pher wo zina ho jaega is liye apni sexual needs ki waja se skype ya watsup pe chat kerte hue wife k saath masturbation kerna jaiz hay??
Answer	1)istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009). 2)Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota.(tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
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