as salam o alikum, mujhay ek larki se bohat pyar hai woh b mujhsay pyar karti thi par kisi bat pe sakht naraz.hogaye, me ya wadodo ka amal 3 months se kar raha hun ijazat lekar, lekin ab tak koi itna khas farak nahi aya. me chahta hun woh pehlay jaise hojaey aur shadi b sirf.mujhsay hi karey... plz madad karen . Masla # 62490


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Question	as salam o alikum, mujhay ek larki se bohat pyar hai woh b mujhsay pyar karti thi par kisi bat pe sakht naraz.hogaye, me ya wadodo ka amal 3 months se kar raha hun ijazat lekar, lekin ab tak koi itna khas farak nahi aya. me chahta hun woh pehlay jaise hojaey aur shadi b sirf.mujhsay hi karey... plz madad karen
Answer	Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) • Jis se ghuna hoya ho wo Suche dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba) Suraurh e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) ya Rishtay k lie chand ki 11 sai 20 tak k darmiani jumay ko bad namaz e asr surah e taha surah no20 ki ayat no 131,132 ko likh kar pas rakhain or doh kar pie to shadi ho jae gi. (Ref : Naway e Salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
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