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1)Lawaat yani mard ka mard k saath ghair fitri amal(bad faili) anjaam dena jaiz nahi he or gunah e kabeera hay. (Ref : (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#29 ).
2)Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70)
3)Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho.(tauzeehul masail,Agha Seestani,maslah #2382).
4)Aap sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba).
5)Aap al-ha,keemo(الحکیم), al-man,naa,no(المنان), or ar-ra,ooofo(الرءوف) kasrat se perha karain insha allah aap k dil se shewat khatam hojaay gi.(Ref:kulliyaat e mafateehul hajaat, pg#224). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
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