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Kisi bhi ghair ikhtari amal per shariat koi hokum nahi lagati he lakin yad rahey , shariat kisi bhi aise artibat ki ijazat nahi deti jo inhein haram ki taraf le janay wala ho. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65)
jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahi Q k ghunah me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).
Pasand ki shadi ko islam na-pasnd nahi samajhta.balkeh munasib hay k merd jis khatoon se shadi kerna chata hay os main in sifaat ko paish e nazar rakahy jo aik misaali khatoon main honi chahiay jo paak daaman, shareeful asl or naik ho or dunyavi or ukhravi mamilaat main shohor ki madad gaar sabit ho.merd k liay munsib nahi hay k bivi k intekhaab main iski nazar sirif oska zahiri husun wa Jamaal or maal o daulat ho.
Isi terah aurat or os k wali(baap/dada) ko chahiay keh on sifaat or khasaais ko ehmiyat dain jin ka shohor main hona zarori hay.aurat ko chahiay keh wo aisay merd ko apnay rafeeq e hayaat k taur per muntakhab karay jo deendaar,paak daman,or baa akhlaaq ho.sharabi nah ho or buraeyoo or muhliq gunaho ka irtekaab nah kerta ho.( Ref:A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masa’il, masalah # 386,387) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
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