salam Allah is kaar e khair k lia ap k dunia aur akhrat main darjat buland kere ameen mera naam mat likheaga plz meri shadi jab hue tu hum ne kisi se istikhara kerwaya tu unho ne kaha k mubarak ha lehaza hum ne han kerdi magar mangni se le k shadi tak itni rukawatain ati rahin k aisa lagta tha k shadi ho hi nahi sakti magar hum ne bohat duen ki aur mushkil waqt guzara aur shadi hogae magar shadi k bad mere shohar aur susral walon ne muje itna tang kia k main shadi k 11 mahinay bad aik sawa mahinay ka bacha le k ghar agae ab jab istikhara kia aur kerwaya tu sakhti se mana kia gaya wapis janay k lia na hi dil manta tha wapis janay k lia lehaza mene khulah leli ab main bohat pareshan rehti hun kyu k mere susral walay jehaz wapis nahi ker rahay aur kehty hain k agar koe jehaz uthanay aya tu usko dekh lengy meri maa ne apna sara zewar bech k muje itna jehaiz dia tha aur main darti hun k mere jo shohar thay wo meri jo albums waha hain un main se tasvero ka koi galat istimal na keren kyu k wo musalal muje badnaam kerny ki koshish ker rahy hain aur na hi wo muje bachay ka kuch kharcha dete hain saal se ziada hogaya hai main yeh sochti hun k mere jo shohar thay wo mere sath zulm ker k b aish ki zindagi guzar rahy hain aur main apni rat ki neend aur din ka chain kho k bacha pal rahi hun islia na main job kersakti hun na perhnay ja sakti hun aur yeh k main apny bachay se bohat piyar kerti hun us k begair rehnay ka soch b nahi sakti log kehtay hain k jab tak tumhara beta tumharay sath ha tmharay lia koi rishta nahi aega tum beta us kay baap ko dedo ta k tumhara ghar bas sakay kahen aisa na ho k tum bacha palti reh jao aur tumhari shadi ki umar nikal jae aur baad main wo aa k apna beta le jae aur tum akeli reh jao magar kese main itna bara faisla krun kese wapis krun wo tu yehe chahta ha k main bacha palun na perhun na job krun na dosri shadi krun aur jab beta bara hojae tu wo le jae ta k main kahin ki b na rahun na he mere maa baap k pas itnay paisay hain k wo muje dobara jehaz de saken aur darti hun k shadi na hue mera beta b chala gaya tu main akele reh jaungi aur agar shadi hogae aur kushia aur sakun na mila tu kia krunge aur Khuda chahay tu aisa b hosakta ha k koi meri mazi ko jantay huay b muje kushi kushi qabool ker le magar mere susral walay hamaray lia sazishain kertay hain aur dushmani b wo kehtay hain k mujhay bardad kerdaingay unse kese pecha churaya jae meri maa meri shadi tootnay k dukh se bohat kamzoor hogaen hain Allah se duaa keren k tamam mushkilat hal farmaey aur khud ba khud asbab ban jaen sahi faislay khud ba khud hojaen Allah hum per apna reham aur karam kere ameen aur ap,pe b ameen aur kis maslay k lia muje ki perhna chahea plz jawab zurur dijeaga . Masla # 9406


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Question	salam Allah is kaar e khair k lia ap k dunia aur akhrat main darjat buland kere ameen mera naam mat likheaga plz meri shadi jab hue tu hum ne kisi se istikhara kerwaya tu unho ne kaha k mubarak ha lehaza hum ne han kerdi magar mangni se le k shadi tak itni rukawatain ati rahin k aisa lagta tha k shadi ho hi nahi sakti magar hum ne bohat duen ki aur mushkil waqt guzara aur shadi hogae magar shadi k bad mere shohar aur susral walon ne muje itna tang kia k main shadi k 11 mahinay bad aik sawa mahinay ka bacha le k ghar agae ab jab istikhara kia aur kerwaya tu sakhti se mana kia gaya wapis janay k lia na hi dil manta tha wapis janay k lia lehaza mene khulah leli ab main bohat pareshan rehti hun kyu k mere susral walay jehaz wapis nahi ker rahay aur kehty hain k agar koe jehaz uthanay aya tu usko dekh lengy meri maa ne apna sara zewar bech k muje itna jehaiz dia tha aur main darti hun k mere jo shohar thay wo meri jo albums waha hain un main se tasvero ka koi galat istimal na keren kyu k wo musalal muje badnaam kerny ki koshish ker rahy hain aur na hi wo muje bachay ka kuch kharcha dete hain saal se ziada hogaya hai main yeh sochti hun k mere jo shohar thay wo mere sath zulm ker k b aish ki zindagi guzar rahy hain aur main apni rat ki neend aur din ka chain kho k bacha pal rahi hun islia na main job kersakti hun na perhnay ja sakti hun aur yeh k main apny bachay se bohat piyar kerti hun us k begair rehnay ka soch b nahi sakti log kehtay hain k jab tak tumhara beta tumharay sath ha tmharay lia koi rishta nahi aega tum beta us kay baap ko dedo ta k tumhara ghar bas sakay kahen aisa na ho k tum bacha palti reh jao aur tumhari shadi ki umar nikal jae aur baad main wo aa k apna beta le jae aur tum akeli reh jao magar kese main itna bara faisla krun kese wapis krun wo tu yehe chahta ha k main bacha palun na perhun na job krun na dosri shadi krun aur jab beta bara hojae tu wo le jae ta k main kahin ki b na rahun na he mere maa baap k pas itnay paisay hain k wo muje dobara jehaz de saken aur darti hun k shadi na hue mera beta b chala gaya tu main akele reh jaungi aur agar shadi hogae aur kushia aur sakun na mila tu kia krunge aur Khuda chahay tu aisa b hosakta ha k koi meri mazi ko jantay huay b muje kushi kushi qabool ker le magar mere susral walay hamaray lia sazishain kertay hain aur dushmani b wo kehtay hain k mujhay bardad kerdaingay unse kese pecha churaya jae meri maa meri shadi tootnay k dukh se bohat kamzoor hogaen hain Allah se duaa keren k tamam mushkilat hal farmaey aur khud ba khud asbab ban jaen sahi faislay khud ba khud hojaen Allah hum per apna reham aur karam kere ameen aur ap,pe b ameen aur kis maslay k lia muje ki perhna chahea plz jawab zurur dijeaga
Answer	Aap apne mazi ko bhool kr apne hal pr tawajo den or khuda ki madad or rehmat se mayusi ikhtiyar na kren, Or khuda se Mohammad w Aal-e-Mohammad ka waseela dekr tawasul ikhtiyar kren , khuda un Buzrg Hastiyon k sadqe ap k tmam Masaail ko zarur hal frmayega, Ism e Mubarak “YA RAHEEM” ko 40 roz tak 5500 martaba parhne wale se tamam makhlooq ko is se uns (mohabbat) ho jae gi aur is zikr sai logo k dil jeet liye jate hen.(Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 33)
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