QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: Me apni bhan k sath zina kia ha us ki kia saza ha plz tel me

Answer: (1) Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
2)Jo shak shadi karnay hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtila hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
3) Suche dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba)

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Question: hi sir mai mariam hoo islamabad say sir meri engagement ko 7 month ho gaye hain or mera jo mangayter wo mere ghar ata rehta hay or mere saat 5 month say sex kar raha hay sir mujey ap say yeh poochna tha kay yeh islam mai jaize hay ya nai plz reply me fast plz sir

Answer: 1) Shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430),
2)Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter sharhe biwi nahe hote (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)
3)Agar koe shaks kise aise aurat se zina kare jo be shoar ho mager iddat me na ho to ehteyate wajib ki bina per tuba karne se phele is se shadi nahe kar sakta. Jo aurat zina kaar mashoor ho to ehteyate wajib ki bina per is aurat k toba karne se phele is k saath shadi karna jaiz nahe hai.. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: men ik larki se without nikah sex kia or wo ab pregnant hy kia men ab us se nikah kar sakta hu mujse ik ghuna to hogia hy dosra nai karna chata uska abortion karwa ky

Answer: Agar koe shaks kise aise aurat se zina kare jo be shohar ho mager iddat me na ho to ehteyat e wajib ki bina per tuba karne se phele is se shadi nahe kar sakta. Jo aurat zina kaar mashoor ho to ehteyat e wajib ki bina per is aurat k toba karne se phele is k saath shadi karna jaiz nahe hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2364)
Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: ALLAH PAK ZINA MAF KARDETA HAI KIYA? AGAR KSI NE JAAN BOJ KAY KIYA HO

Answer: Istighfaar(taubah) main 6 batain shamil hain: Nidamat k saath sachcahay dil say 14 masoomo(a.s) k waseelay k saath Allah say maafi talab kernay say tubah foran qabool hoti hay. 1)maazi(past) k gunah per shamindagi. 2) Aaindah(in future) gunah nah kernay ka masboot iradah. 3) logo ka jo haq aap per baaqi hay os ko ada kerna.(maslan kisi ka maal ya haq, nahaq khaya that tu os say maafi maangna ya oska haq ada kerna). 4)jin wajibaat ko ada nahi kiya os ko ada kerna.(maslan namaz roza ko agar ada nahi kiya that u os ki qaza bja laana). 5)jo ghosht maal e haram say jism main paidah hoa ho os ko gham o ranj say pighla daina yahaan tak k naya ghosht paidah ho. 6) jism ko waisay hi ibadat ka mazah chakhana jis terah osko gunagh say maza chakhaya tha.(Nehjul balaghah,kilimaat o hikmaat # 417) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karte he aur aisa hirgis nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: please tell me the relationship between wif and husband if husband rapes (zina) his daughter mutually agreed .Thanks

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqhae jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hein.
Relationship will be remain valid between wife and husband.Although adultery/ rape is the biggest sin. (Email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: 17.01.2012). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Salaam, kya maafi hote hai ek shaadi shoda aurat ki jo zina karty hai? Kya showar ko batana zarori hote hai k us ne zina ge hai aur es k maafi k tariqa bataye plz thanks

Answer: 1-Agar shohordaar aurat zina karay tu ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par wo zaani par hamesha k liay haram ho jati hay, laikin apne shohor par haram nahi hoti or agar tauba o istighfaar nah karay or apne amal par baaqi rahay(yani zina kaari terk nah karay) tu behter ye hay k oska shohor osay talaq day day laikin shohor ko chahiay oska meher bhi day day. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masa,il, Maslah#2367 ).
2-kisi insan k liay jaiz nahi hay k wo kisi shaks k saamne apne gunaho ka zikr karay, chahay hasrat ka izhaar kertay hoay ya tauba o nidamat ka izhaar kertay hoay.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),mujtahid se pochay gaay sawalaat,part#3, maslah# 229)
3-Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 316) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
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Question: Salam. My question is if one has done intercourse with a nah-mehram so what shud dat person do..plzzzz ans me for it..

Answer: If he did adultery with na-mehram who had no husband,and not having iddah then after adultery , he can marry with her.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masa,il, maslah# 2396) .
Advice:-First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.

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Question: mere chacha ki 6 saal se koi aulad nai hoi jis ki waja se meri chachi ne muje se sex karwaya hai pregnant ho gai hai ab wo khush hai lekin ab wo muje se sex karwana chati hai mere chacha se nahi kia me un se shadi kar sakta ho lazmi jawab dein

Answer: 1- Bivi k alawa kisi bhi mehram ko lazzat k iraday se chomna ya os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna haram hay or isi terah kisi bhi na-mehram aurat ko chooma or os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna ghunah e azeem.or zina kerna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 )(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 )
2- Agar shohordaar aurat zina karay tu ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par wo zaani par hamesha k liay haram ho jati hay, laikin shohor par haram nahi hoti or agar tauba o istighfaar nah karay or apne amal par baaqi rahay(yani zina kaari terk nah karay) tu behter ye hay k oska shohor osay talaq day day laikin shohor ko chahiay oska meher bhi day day. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masa,il, Maslah#2367 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Sir I have a relationship with a girl for 5 years. Both of our fathers are Professors. we have committed sin of intercourse several times. Our parents also know that. My Parents do not want this relationship.I do not want to loose her. I have always been telling her that if my father will agree then we will marry. Now my father does not agree. I do not want her life to be destroyed. Help out please.

Answer: 1)Fornication (zina) is haram in Islam . (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 29)
2)If a person commits fornication with an unmarried woman, as a precaution, he cannot marry her till he has sought forgiveness from Allah, and repented. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403, pg # 235)

3)In the some following situations, it will not be necessary for a woman to seek the permission of her father or paternal grandfather, before getting married:
1. If she is not a virgin.
2. If she is a virgin, but her father or paternal grandfather refuse to grant permission to her for marrying a man who is compatible to her in the eyes of Shariah, as well as custom.
3. If the father and the grandfather are not in any way willing to participate in the marriage.
4. If they are not in a capacity to give their consent, like in the case of mental illness etc.
5. If it is not possible to obtain their permission because of their absence, or such other reasons, and the woman is eager to get married urgently. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341-42) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Main ye puchna chatha hu ke mujh se ek haram kaam hogaya hai maine ek larki ke sath sex kiya hai us ne mujhse karne ko bola ab main kya karu

Answer: 1)Zina ko gunah e kabeera mai shumar kia gya hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # masla # 29)
2) Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=864 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: agr shadi shoda aurat zina kary toh is gunah ki kia saza hai aur kia akhrat k din us ka ye amal us k shohar k samny aaye ga or isi tarhan agr mard shadi shoda kary toh kia hukam hai sunat k mutabiq ?nd plz tel in mn ye koi aik kar ly zina na mehram sth aur aik dusry ko na bataey aur toba kar ly toh kia akhrat mn samny aaye ga plz anz

Answer: Agar sohardar aurat zina karay to ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par wo zani par hamisha k lie haram ho jati hai. Lakin sohar pr haram nahi hoti .
Zaroori hai wo aurat toba karay. Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Molana Sahab Assalam u Alaikum. Kiya Non Muslim Lardki Se Zinah K Baad Kachchi Eeind Par Baith Kar Gusal Karna Wajib Hai Ya Pure Jisam Par Lagakar Use Jab Tak Woh Ghul Na Jay Tab Tak Nahana Wajib Hai.

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqhae jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hein.
1)Zina karna gunah e azeem hai .(Ref. Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah# 30 Ayatullah Sistani(d.b).
2)Do cheezo say insaan junub(halat e janabat) hojata hay. i) jima(intercourse) or ii) mani(semen) k kharij(nikalnay say) honay say
3)Ghusl e janabat wajib namaz parhney k lie aur aisi dosri abadat k lie wajib hota he.
4)Ghusl kernay k 3 tareeqay hain. i) Ghusl e Tartibi(sequence) ii) Ghusl e Irtimasi tadrijee(gradual immersion bath). iii) Ghusl e Irtimasi daf’ee(Immediat immersion bath).Ghusl e tertibi ka tariqah ye hay:-- sab say pehlay ghusl ki niyat say sar(Head) or gardan(Neck) ko mukammal dhoya jaay,or is k baad poray badan ko aik saath dhoya jaay.or behtar ye hay k badan ko do hisso main dhoya jaay pehlay badan ka right(seedah) hissa or baad main left (ulta) hissa.Ghusl main jism k tamaam hisso tak paani pohchana wajib hay.
(Ref: sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah#344 , 356,360)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: agar koi apni bewi ki maan se humbestar howa how, too uss ky ly kia khukam hai aur baad main uss ne apni bewi ko bata b dia how aur uss ky bewi ky uss ko maaf b kar dia how but uss ky ly kia khukam hai, plz reply

Answer: 1-Zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref : Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen, Part # 1, Maslah # 30)
2-Agar koe shakhs apni phophi ya khala k alawa kisi aurat say zina karay to ehtiyat e mustahab ye hay k is ki beti k sath shadi nah karay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2361).
3-Agar koe shaks apni saas k saath zina karay tu oska apni bivi k saath nikah batil nahi hota.
(Ref: email rcvd from A.sistani(d.b),dated: 15-07-2010) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: hazrat mai net se porn movie dekhta huen aur mustjani karta huen aur ek din maine apni bahan ko bhi porn movie dikhaya aur uske saat jabar dasti sex kiya aur woh bahut chhoti hai uski umr 12 saal hai maine uske makam me thora sa dala fir dil me khauf aaya ki ye galat hai to maine band kardiya to ye bataiye ki ye gunahe kabira hai ki nahi aur kaise meri tauba kabool ho

Answer: 1-Zina karna gunah e azeem hai .(Ref. Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah# 30 Ayatullah Sistani(d.b)
2- Musht zani(hand-practice) haram hay.or taqwa e ilahi k zarye se is adat se nijaat hasil ki jay.or jin cheezo or maqamaat se jazbaat main tehreek(harkat) paida hoti hay un se door raha jay.or Allah e subhaan ka kasrat se zikr kia jay or shadi kerne main jaldi ki jay.or ye adat se bachne k liay ye sakht koshish ki jay or roza rakha jay q k roza burai say bachnay k liay dhal hay. (Ref: http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=297396&id=262 ).
3- jo insaan shadi na kar na ki waja say haram kaam karta ho as par shadi karna wajib hai .(Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407).
4- Ethiat e wajib k toor per fahash filmoo(porn movies) aur tasveeron(porn pictures) ko dekhna haram he agar chahah shak aur lazzat k bagair dekha jay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254)
5-First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Hamare pados main aik urat rahti hai, kal usne muje apne ghar bulaya to main chala gaya, wo muje kamre main legayi aur darwaza ban kar diya aur apne kapde utar diye muje boli tu bi aisa kar pele to maine mana kya mgr usko dekh kar muj se bardasht nai ho aur per hum jo kar sakte te kiya. Agr wo pregnent hogai to kya muje us se shadi karni paregi. Us ki age 30 31 k qareb hai aur meri 17 sal hai

Answer: 1)Zina karna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen,part# maslah #29 )
2)Sachchay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 )
Jee nahi pregnant honay say shadi kerni zarori nahi hay. Aur agar aap shadi karna chahtay hain to ehtiyaat e wajib he k aap is aurat se toba karnay se pahle nikah nahi ker saktay . (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 403 pg # 235). (Khuda aap ki taufiqaat main izafa fermaay)

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Question: IMera sawal ya ha ka mera mangetar ne mera sath sex kia aui mera virgina me apna sperm dal dia. Kia me pregnant hojaon gi kuch maheeno bad?

Answer: (1) Zina karna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen,part# maslah #29 )
(2) Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Note: Ye zarori nahi hay k jab bhi jima kia jay tu os k natijaay main aurat haamla hojay. Aap apnay paishab(urine) ya khoon(blood) k zerye libratory main pregnancy test(hamal test) kerwa ker hamal ka maloom ker sakti hain. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye )

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Question: zina ki mafee ka koe tareeqa

Answer: 1-Zina karna gunah e azeem hai .(Ref. Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah# 30 Ayatullah Sistani(d.b)).
2- jo insaan shadi na kar na ki waja say haram kaam karta ho as par shadi karna wajib hai .(Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407).
2- First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport, reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se phele shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Plz help me? main na badkari ke hay ur ab main buhut parishan ho,agr wo larki maa ban gaye tu mere badname hoge, main kia karo plz jawab zaror dejeya.us larki ko kunse gole pelawo kay wo ma nhe ban jaye.

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqhae jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hein
(1) Zina karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen,part# maslah #29)
(2) Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
(3) jo insaan shadi na kar na ki waja say haram kaam karta ho as par shadi karna wajib hai . (Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407)
(4) (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2364).
(5) Qaraar e nutfa k baad isqaat e hamal jaaiz nahi hay.(Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 73 jadeed masail)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: salam mera ya salwal hy mai ny 2 saal pehly apni girl frnd aur step(sotili) sister ky sath sex kiya tha un ko maza agaya tha pir mai ny tobaa kar ky wo kam chor diya 3 din pehli ki bhat hy un do no ny mujy drink mai nend ki tablet dy mujy sex kar wa ya mai hosh mai nahe tha is mai kis ki galthi hy?jaldi kary jawb dy

Answer: 1-Zina karna gunah e azeem hai .(Ref. Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah# 30 Ayatullah Sistani(d.b)). 2- jo insaan shadi na kar na ki waja say haram kaam karta ho as par shadi karna wajib hai .(Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407).
2-Bivi k alawa kisi bhi mehram ko lazzat k iraday se chomna ya os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna haram hay or isi terah kisi bhi na-mehram aurat ko chooma or os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna ghunah e azeem.or zina kerna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 )(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 )
3- First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport, reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010) Translate: sub se phele shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
Note: Jaisa k aap ne biyaan kia k aap ko sharab pilae gae or phir aap ne nashay ki halat main on se zina kia or aap ne apnay ikhtiyaar se nahi kia tu phir is zina ka gunah or sharab pilane ka gunah aap k zimay nahi hoga balkeh wo dono gunahgaar hongi.(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mera sawal apse ye hai k agar koi ladka kisi ladki se pyar krta hai or use sex krta hai us k bad woh ladka usi ladki sai sadi krta hai to uska gunha utna hi hai k kisi ladki ko sex kr k chor de or dosre ladki sai sadi kr le ya gunha us sai kam hoga

Answer: 1-Zina karna gunah e azeem hai .(Ref. Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah# 30 Ayatullah Sistani(d.b)).
2-Ehtiyaat e wajib ye he k Insan os aurat se jis se khud zina kia ho toba karnay se pahle nikah nah karay. Or tauba k baad osi aurat se nikah kerna jaiz hay.(Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 403 pg # 235)
3-Agar aap ne jabran zina kia tha tu aap ko mehr e misl(yani itna meher diya jaay jitna is jaisi aurat ka mehr hota hay) bhi daina hoga.(Ref: http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=930). (Khuda aap ki taufiqaat main izafa fermaay)

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Question: mera sawal ye hai k agr koi ladki ek ladki sai bahut pyar kre or ladka v usse utna hi pyr kare pr bad mai pata chale ladka ansari or ladki syed hai to is mai kiya krna chayye or ladka ladki hum bister ho chuke ho to is mai kiya sadi krna monasib hai ya nai syed sai

Answer: 1-Na Mehram se Dosti karna "HARAM" hay Q k is se haram mai parnay ka khauf hota hia. Chahey aahista aahista hi gunah ki taraf le jaye. (Ref . Isteftat Aqa e Sistani)
2-Zina karna gunah e azeem hai .(Ref. Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah# 30 Ayatullah Sistani(d.b))
3-Aurat k lie na mehram Mard par Lazzat k qasd sey nigah daalna Haram hai jabke lazzat kay qasd k baghair un hisso par nazar dale jinhe aam taur par chupana zaroori nahi masalan (sar,dono hath etc) to aisa karna Jaiz hai magar in hisso kay alawa baqi jism par nigah dalna Haram hai. Ref:Tauzeeh ul Masail Ayatullah Sistani Prob No 2392)
4-Ehtiyaat e wajib ye he k insan os aurat se jis se khud zina kia ho toba karnay se pahle nikah nah karay. Or tauba k baad osi aurat se nikah kerna jaiz hay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 403 pg # 235)
4-Syed merd ka nikah ghair syedah aurat k saath ho sakta hay or isi terah syedah aurat ka nikah ghair syed merd k saath ho sakta hay.(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), minhaajus saliheen Part # 1, maslah # 221). (Khuda aap ki taufiqaat main izafa fermaay)

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Question: Zina

Answer: Is link par click karain aap ko zina k mutaliq sawalaat aur os k jawabaat mil jain gay. http://qoitrat.org/Qa/searchtopic.asp?Main=106&MainTopc=167

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Question: Agar koi ladki mere sath zina ke liye razi ho to kya mai kar sakta hun

Answer: Jee nahi, Zina karna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen,part# maslah #29 )

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Question: Kya insan apni maa ya behn se sex kr sakta ha kya ye jaiz ha!

Answer: (1) Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
(2) shoar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: sir mera sawal hai ki mai hindu hun or mai jis ladki se mohabbat karta hun vo muslim hai or vo bhi mujhse bahut mohabbat karti hai vo sil se hume apna husband manti bhi hai or vo kisi or apna husband kabhi nahi maan sakti dil se aisa uska kahna hai,hum dono ka physical relation bhi ho chuka hai to kya hum dono ki shadi ho sakti hai..

Answer: 1)Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30).
2)Musalman aurat kafir(maslan hindu) mard se nikah (shadi) nahi karsakte chahay permanent nikah ho ya tempory nikah ho.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2364). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Mn ne Pakistan or Dubai boat ziada call girls k sath zina kia, Mn pak saaf hona chata hon, Kia jis larki se meri mangani hoe hai wo pak daman ho gi?

Answer: 1)Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), 2) sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: me ek larki se sexy bt karta ho or hanth se zina karta ho muje kio wazifa btain ky me zina na karo

Answer: 1)Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
2)Istimna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
3) sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: sir mera sawal ye he ke meri magni ho chuki he kya hamare bich sadi se pehle sex kar sakte he.

Answer: Jahiz nahi hai . (Ref : Tauzeeh ul Masail Ayatullah Sistani d.b. masla #pg#357 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Meine bohot larkiyun kay sath zana kiya hai mein dil o jaan sey apne ALLAh sey tauba karna chahta hun kyoe dua ya kyoe aisa tarika ya kafara baten kay meri dua qubool hojaye JAZAKALLAH

Answer: Note : Is website mai fiqh e jafaria k mutabiq jawabat diay jatay hain.

1)Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), 2)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Kya apne bewi ko dusre mard se aulad paida karana jaz hai

Answer: Jee nahi,Aisa kerna jahiz nahi hai .zina kerna or zina kernwa jaiz nahi hay or gunah e azeem hay.or zina se paida honay wali aulaad bhi aap ki shumaar nahi hogi .( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen,part#1, maslah#30) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: zina ki mafi ka treeka bata dain

Answer: 1)Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30).
2) sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
3)Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: aslam alikum main ek shadisuda aurat se pyar hoon aur us se sex bhi karna chata hoon lekin usne kaha hai ke ye gunah hai allah ke darbar main es ki mafi hai ya nahi agar maine us se sex nahikiya to pagal ho jaunga maine 13 sal uski dosti ka entzar ki hain ab aakar usne dosti ke liye han ki hai wo bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti hain lekin gunah se darti hai

Answer: Note : Is website par fiqh e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabat diay jatay hain.
1)Zina ko kabira gunah mai shumar kia gya hai. (Ref : Minhaj us Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. part # 1, Masla # 29)
2)Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)
3)Agar sohar dar aurat zina karay to wo ehtiyate wajib ki bina par zina krnay walay par hamisha k lie haram ho jati hai.
4)Sohar dar aurat sai shadi krna bhi haram hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masail Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2366, 2367)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: agar insan zina kar lay to kia ALLAH uski touba qabool kar leta he and kia maaf farma day ga plz ahdees our quaran se hawala dain.....

Answer: Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: me ne ek larki se zinna kia ab me agar us se shadi kerta hun to jo me ne zinna kia us ki saza milay gi mujhe ya nahi

Answer: Note:is website par fiqahe jafria k mutabiq jawabat deay jatay hain.
1)Zina karna gunah e kabira hay. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30). 2)Sachay dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba )
3) Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.Magar is sorat main keh wo aurat zina kaar mash,hoor hu tu ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per is (aurat) k tauba kerne se pehlay os k saath shadi kerna jaiz nahi hay.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2364).(Ref:Ayatullah Sitsani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: sir mera 2nd q ye he kih ap nai aik baar zina kia touba bhi ki magar dobara na chahtay hoye bhi kar liya and phir dobara touba kar li and ab 3rd time bhi our phir ab dobara toubaaaa.....to kia ALLAH baar baar muaff farma dain gayyy???plz explain it and har time ye ni kih ye hara haftay baad darmyan main acha khasa aik mah ka gape bhi ata rhaaa

Answer: Jo shaks shadi nah kernay ki wajah say haram kaam mai mubtila hota ho us k liay shadi kerna wajib hai.
Sachay dil sy toba jab bhi ki jae qabool hoti hai,al-batt ye zarori hai k toba k sath us kam k na krnay ka pakka pakka irada kia jae aur us gunah sy bachnay ki bahrpoor koshish bhi ki jaey phir bhi agr ho jaey tou khuda sy dobara toba kejea.laikin toba adat na ban jaey. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2407 and book toba,writer:dastagib-e-sherazi). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Agar kisi ladki nay kisi ladkay kay sath zina kiya aur uski shadi kisi aur kay sath ho aur us nay apnay shohar ko zina kay baray may kuch na bataya to kya woh rishta jayiz hay

Answer: 1)Gee haan rishta jaiz hai.(Ref:Ayatullah Sitsani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2345)
2)Dosroon k saamnay gunah ka iqraar kerna jaiz nahi hay.(Mujtahid se pochay gay sawalaat, part#2, maslah#88)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mre umar 26 sal hai main 1 sal say apny say bary hindo mard kay sath sex relationship main hon hum donu bhot payar or izat krty hain ek dosray ki per hm main sex ki adat par gae hai phly to ye bataen k as a muslim girl mujy kitna gunah mila hai hai mre qayamat kay roz saza kay h or mujy koi wazefa ya kuch aisa bataen kay main or wo is kam s toba kr len or ainda na karen plz plz reply degeyega

Answer: 1)Zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30). 2)Osay sachay dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: ma jis larky se pyar karti the us sy ma ny zina kia ab mera rishta kisi or se hony wala ha ma ne Allah se sachy dil se toba kar li ha lakin mujy dar ha k agr mary hony waly husband ko pata chal gaya to wo mujy chor dy ga mujy is ka hal btaen plz q k ALLAh to maf kar dyta ha par insan maf nahi karty

Answer: 1)Zina karna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen,part# maslah #29 )
2)Sachay dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: shahdi shuda larki kay sath bina comdon sex ho jay tu bacha ho jay ga kya plzzz jaldi batain ?

Answer: Zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30).

Note: Baghair condom k humbistari kerne se aurat k haamla honay ka imkaan berh jata hay. Laikin phir bhi mumkin hay k aurat haamla nah ho.baaz auqaat bohot koshisho or chahat k bawajood bhi haamla nahi ho paati or baaz auqaat bohot ehtiyaat k bawajood na chahtay hoay bhi haamla ho jati hay. Ye sub Allah ki marzi per moqoof hay.

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Question: kis soorat mein larki ya larke ko zina ki ijazat ho sakti hai,,,

Answer: Zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30).

Jo shaks shadi na karny ki wajah se haraam kaam(maslan zina, handpractice) mein mobtila hota ho us par wajib hai k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh ul Masail Ayatullah Sistani d.b. masla #2407 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: biwe zna kry to usay tlaq day deani chaye

Answer: Agar shoardar orat zina kary to ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par wo aurat zaani par hameshah k lie haram ho jati hai laikin shohar par haram nahi hoti or agar toba o istighfaar nah-karay or apny amal par baqi rahy to behter ye hai k us ka shoher usy talaq dedey laikin shoher ko chahiay k us ka meher bhe day day. (Ref : TauzeehulMasailAyatullah Sistani d.b. masla # 2367)

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Question: kia main apni coz ke sath sex kar sakta ho agar wo be razi ho (urgent)

Answer: Zina krna gunah e kabeera hai chahae larki razi ho ya razi na ho. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Main apni chachi sy sex karna chahta hun koi wazefa bata dain

Answer: Zina ko gunah e kabeera mai shumar kia gya hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # masla # 29) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: AoA..mai n apni lover ky sath zinah kea hy. . Or wo magni shuda h. . Uski shadi hny wali h chand mahin0n m. .mje kea krna chahye plzz btayen?

Answer: Aap ko toba or istighfar kerna chahiay Q k ye haram or gunahan-e-kabeera men se hai. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #30). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: agr koi merd orat k saath zabardasti zinah kr dy to orat ko kiy krna chyiaa

Answer: Orat ko jahan tak mumkin ho sake koshish krni chahiye k wo khud ko is gunah men parne se bachaye, q k gunahon se khud ko bachana wajib hai. or agar apni puri koshish k bawajood wo is gunah men parhne se na bach sake ya us ko is pr qudrat na ho k wo khud ko bachhaye to phir orat pr koi gunah nahi hai, lekin agr wo koshish na kre to phir wo bhi gunah men shareek hogi.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhaj-ul-saliheen#4th edition,msla#30)

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Question: kia kisi larki k sath kissing krne aur us k mamme pakrne se zina hota hai ya nai

Answer: Faqat kiss kerne per chahe 1, 2 mertaba kren ya kae mertaba karen us per zina ka hukm to nahi aata matlab chonkeh shadi se pehle ek dusre k liye na-mehram the is liye gunahgar to honge is liye toba o istighfaar kernas zaruri hai, or toba k liye behtr ye k insan is qadr khuda ki baargah me is qadr nadim ho k khud us insan ko yaqeen hojaye k khuda ne maaf kerdiya hoga, or baaz rawayat men ye bhi aya hai toba ka matlab hai k insan jab toba kare us waqt is yaqeen k sath ho k ainda isi gunah ko nahi dohrayega.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2364). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: A.a kaya larki ko sex kay lay offer ki ja sakti hai ? Aur larki ki anus aur vagina ko suck kaiya ja sakta hai aur larki bi larky kay penis ko mouth main lay kar lick aur blowjob kar sakti hai ?

Answer: Zina haram hai. aur na mehram sai jinsi lazzat hasil krna bagair jima k zina nhi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : Kitab Nigah aur libas pg # 70, masla # 109)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: assalamo alaikum meri sawal ye hai k maine ek ladki ke sath shohbat ki aur fir uske sath nikah kar liya to kya nikah ho gai aur iska hu humdono ne tauba v kar liya hai to kya allah is tauba ko qubool-e- bargah karega ya kuch aur karna hoga jisse humdono k gunaho ko allah maaf kar de aisa koi tareeqa bataye main jindagi var aapka shukerguzaar rahunga allah hafiz

Answer: 1)Zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref : Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen, Part # 1, Maslah # 30)
2)Jis shakhs nai kisi aisi aurat sai zina kia ho jo kuwari ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is k lie ehtiyat e wajib ye hai k wo os aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karay. Laikin agar aisi aurat sai zina kia ho jo sohar dar thi to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zani(zina krnay walay par) par hamisha k lie haram ho jati hai laikin sohar par haram nhi hoti hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235)(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2367)
3)Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday par amal na karay. (Ref : website Ayatullah sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Asalamu alykum. Janab mujy 13 saal ki umar ma ek aurat ny gunah ki lazat chika di. Pir mujy sex ki asy addat pari k 28 saal ki umar tak ma rozana kisi na kisi tara sex karta raha.or jab koy na milti tu kabi kabi maturbation b kar leta tha.ma ny is ko chorny ki bohat koshish ki lekin na chuuti.pir ma ny 28 saal ki umar ma shadi kar li tu soocha k ab shaed kuch theek ho jay ga or sex karny ki koy routeen ban jay gi.lekin shadi k bad tu masla or kharab ho gyea. 2 saal tak rozana 4 bar sex karta raha .hataa k menses k doraan b kisi na kisi tarah sex kar hi leta tha. Mari wife is sy bohat tang thi. Or pir ma ny dubara gunah ki taraf jana munasib na samja or dusri shadi kar li, lekin sex ki routeen na badli. Jb tak rozana 3. 4 bar na karun chain nahi atta.jahan b koy larki ya orat dekta hun bus sex hi swar rehta ha kuch samaj nahi ata k kia karun. Kuda sy b bohat dua mangi ha .kabi kabi sochta hun k kudkashi kar lun shaed pir hi chian ayye ga. Ab ma 30 saal ka ho gye hun. Lekin andar sy bilkul kamzoor ho gyea hun.wazan b bohat kam ho gyea ha. Lekin sex ki kowaesh nahi jati .plz koy hal bataen thaks.

Answer: Sab se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum man rehay hain or Allah ki na-farmani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalamoalaikum.......mra sawal ye hai ke mai ek larka se boht pyar karti hu hmare bich sex bhi ho chuka hai aur hm nikah karna chahte hai apne parents s chupa ke mai unki wife banna chahti hu aur wo bhi taiyar hai lekin mri prblm ye hai k ammi papa mri kahi aur shadi krna chahte hai lekin mai hmsha unki wife ban k rhna chahti hu us larke ko bhi koi prblm nhi hai kya mai nikah ke bad sirf apne parents ki khushi k liye dusri shadi karu to kya nikah ho skta hai pls mri uljhan ko suljha dijye

Answer: 1)Jis shakhs nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is k lie ehtiyat e wajib ye hay k wo os aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235)
2)Kunwari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutah) nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or balig bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirf ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or os kay kawaray pan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddat bhi khatam ho chuki ho. agar zina ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawarapan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k sath osay shadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Islam ki nazar main) or urfan(mea’ashay ki nazar main) os k brabri(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat laina lazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341,2342)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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