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Question: Assalam o alaikum, mera sawal ye hai ke me porn images dekhta hun, aur ise dekhkar mai bathroom me mushtzani bhi karta hun lekin maine ek baar allah tala se wada kiya k mai aisa or nahi karunga lekin fir 1, 2 week ke baad aisa karta hun mai bahot rota hun din raat bechayn rahta hun khudkushi karny ko ji chahta hai mai ye sab chhor nahi pata hun aur meri umr zyada nahi hai mai apna bachpan yaad karky bahot rota hun aur mayoos hota hun ke main pahle kitna masoom tha kuch buri chize dunia ke bare janta nahi tha aur ab kaisa gunahgar hogia hun bhai plz bataden main itni badi gunah se kese nijat paun balki din rat sex ka khiyal hone se raat me b neend nahi aati aur bure gande khuab aate hain plz dua bataiye nijat pane k liye shukria
Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). 2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 29-03-2016. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: assalamualaikum, mujhe fajr baad biwi k sath ham bistri karne ki hajat hui but biwi ne mana kardiya aur mujhe pata nhi tha main bathroom m ja kar sperm gira diya. ab iska kya solution hai.jazakallahkhair.
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1)Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. Aap Allah k hozoor sachay dil se tauba karain. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009).
2)Ramzan main din k waqt istimna kerne se kaffara lazmin aa jata hay, yani 60 alag alag faqiro ko 3 pao aata ya khana waghaira daina ya 60 roze rakhna waghaira. Or ramzan k baad roze ki qaza bhi daina hogi. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #1632). Update on dated 26-06-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Sir Assalam-o-Allikum mera sawal ye hai ke muth ko chornay ka kya tarika hai? or mani wapis poori karnay ka koi tarika bataiye plzzzz
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Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 )
Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 371). Update on dated 13-07-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: - Kia is se roza toot jata hai ke mustht zani karle koi aur usey is baat ka ilm na ho ke is se roza toot jata hai?
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Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 )
Roze ki halat me mani kharij karne se roza batil ho jata hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #1569 )
Agar kise ko pukhta yaqeen ho k istimna karne se is ka roza batil nahe ho ga to is per kaffara wajib nahe hai . (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 1630, 1631). Update on dated 16-07-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: mene handpractise ki aur soogya aur meri ankh nae khuli sehri se phle k me gusaal kru aur pak halaat me ajao. To ab kya me roza rkhne ki halaat me hu ya roza qabool nae hoga?
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Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 ).
jo shaks ramzaan ki raat me junub(yani us per ghusal janabat wajib ) ho jaay to us ko waqt namaaz fajar se phele ghusal janabat karlena zarori hai take dosere din ka roza rakha ja sake aur agar junub ( yani wo shaks jis per ghusal janabat waajib ho ) jaan boujh kar ghusal (janabat ) na kare ya jis shaks ka fareeza tayammum ho jaan boujh kar tayammum na kare to zarori hai k is din ka roza pura kare aur phir aik din aur roza rakhe aur chunke ye moiyan nahi hai k ye dosera roza qaza hai ya saza , lehaza ramzaan ka is din ka roza bhi mafizzimma ki niyat se rakhe aur ramzaan k baad bhi jis din roza rakhe aur us me qaza ki niyat na kare.
ramzaan k roze ko jaan bough kar janabat ki halat me baqi rakhne ki waja se qaza k ilawa kaffara k tour per zarori hai k 2 mahene roze rakhe ya har roze k badle 60 faqeero me se har aik faqeer ko 750 gm gandum waghaira diya jaay . (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail edition:2015, maslah # 1591,1569,1632,1633), (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat roza, ques # 112,113, pg # 59). Update on dated 19-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Shitan ke galab a jana se hand practice ki tu roza tut ta he
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Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 )
Roze ki halat me mani kharij karne se roza batil ho jata hai.
Ramzaan k roze ko jaan bough kar tourne ka qaza k ilawa kaffara k tour per zarori hai k 2 mahene roze rakhe ya har roze k badle 60 faqeero me se har aik faqeer ko 750 gm gandum waghaira diya jaay . (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail edition:2015, maslah #1569,1632,1633), (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat roza, ques # 112,113, pg # 59) . Update on dated 16-07-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: URDU: S/A - mein North America mein hota hoo or meri biwi kaee mahino sein moolk se baher hein - muje gonah se bachne ke liye masterbating (hand practice) jaez hein, or agar nahin to biwi kein ane tak mein kya kar sakta hoon? ENGLISH: S/A - I am living in North America and my wife is outside the country for the couple of months - To avoid committing sins is masturbating allowed, if not what are the other options in her absence for me?
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Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 )
Shoar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30)
Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
Aap tempory marriage marriage (muta) kar sakte hai. Update on dated 22-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Assalam o alaikum sir mera sawal ye hai kya aik do baar masturbation ki ja sakti hai jab bohat zyada hawas ho toh
Answer: Jaiz nahi hay or masturbation gunah e kabira hay.(Ref :Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30). Update on dated 28-05-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: main jb sy mature huwa hu mjay masterbation ki adat si parh gae ha main bahot pareshan hu koi hal nai nikul raha main medixinr bi le raha hu lakin us sy bi koi khas asar nai parh raha main bahot pareshan hu mjy koi islami rohani yea medically koi ilaaj btaye main 19 saal ka hu din main 5 sy7 martba bi masterbate kar bethta hu koi hal btaye begher shadi ky namza aur quran ki talwat sy bi ni hta
Answer: Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 ) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). . Update on dated 23-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: aslaam o alykum sir mera sawal hai aik shadi shuda shakhs jo shadi se pehly masht zani karta tha aur shadi k bad biwi se mahina mahina dor rehta hai aur apny jazbat ko kabo nai rakh sakta to kiya wo ab masht zani karta ho to wo gunah hai ya nahi agar hai to us se chutkara kaisy ho plz tell me about taht
Answer: Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 ) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). . Update on dated 07-10-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Kia me bath me mushtzani kr k sirf istinja kr k namaz parh sukta hun.
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Jee nahi, bal keh ghusl e janabat bhi kerna perhe ga. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #356).
Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 ). Update on dated 14-10-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Asalam agr Quran pr hath rak kar wada kia jai k muth ni maronga leken fr b control na hosake aur muth marle to per kese toba kia jai taky quran ke wada khilafi se bach sake
Answer: Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 ) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 28-01-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Sex movie dekne se khud Manni kharig ho jati hai bgair hath lgae.kya ye ehtlam hai?
Answer: Istimna or khud lazzati, haram hay chahay hath se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho, or merd or aurat k dermiyaan koe faraq nahi. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael jaame,Edition# 1435,Mafhoom e Maslah #2296) .Update on dated 13-03-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Musturbation gunah e sagheera he ya gunahe kabeera?? Or iska kuffara kia he??
Answer: Istimna(Musturbation) gunah e kabira hay or is ka kaffara tauba hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30) .Update on dated 18-03-2017. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: AoA Sir mera aik question ha jo hr aj kl lrkey ka swal ha meri age 25 years ha aor ma shadi karna chahta hn lakin msla ye ha ky ma mushtazani bohat ki ha aor halat ye ha k mere hath kanptey rhtey hain nfs me jan nahi ha aor ma shadi krna chahta hn koi Waziafa ya koi aesi cheez bta dain k ma theek ho jeu aor ap ko hmesha duao me yad rakhu
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Istimna(Musturbation) gunah e kabira hay or is ka kaffara tauba hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30) .Update on dated 24-08-2017. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. Update on dated 24-08-2017. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Muth sa rukna k koi tarika batain Or main pins kamzoor ho raha ha is ki waja kiya ha main week main 4-5 dafa muth marta hun
Answer: Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 ) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 28-03-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: mastrbution kaa qufara kya hai yaaa sirf touba krne se gunaah ki maafi ho skti hai plzzz pure tafseel se batae.qoitrat
Answer: Istimna(Musturbation) gunah e kabira hay or is ka kaffara tauba hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30) .Update on dated 18-07-2018. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey)
Question: Haathoon Se Zina Karne Ke Bare Main Kuch Batao Plz
Answer: Istimna(Musturbation) gunah e kabira hay or is ka kaffara tauba hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30) .Update on dated 23-02-2018. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Pehla jab ma hand practice krta tha to mera penis sa mani nikal kr kambal par lag gate thi aor uss waqt muga pata nae tha ka mani jis jaga lag jae to wo jaga napaak ho jati ha aor abb muga yaad nae ka kon kon sa kambal tha m magar mugga sirf 3 kambal yaad ha jahan mani lagi thi aor ya bhi yaad nae ka bed par lgi thi ya nar to abb ma kia karo plz reply
Answer: Istimna gunahan e kabira main sai aik hai. Bed ka aap ko shak hai lehaaza us ko paak hi maana jaaye ga q k mutanajjis k baarey mai yaqeen ya itmenaan hona zaroori hai or baaqi 3 kambal k baarey mai yaqeen hai k ye najis hogaye they lehaaza in teeno ko paak karna zaroori hai.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 39 maslah no 115). Update on dated 23-10-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: AGHA salam agar koi insan aone naaf se khud money nikale tw ye sahe hai ya galt
Answer: Istimna(Musturbation) (apne ikhtiyaar sai mani nikaalna) haraam hai or gunah e kabira mai sai hai hay.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30) Update on dated 11-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Asalam o apakum mera sawal yah k larki agar virgin ho aur sirf rubbing krti to virginity mai koi masla to nahi hota auat ghusal wajib hota ha
Answer: Aurat k lie apni sharam gaah ko itna cherhna jaiz nahi he k is ki lazzat urooj tak pounch jey aur usay inzaal ho jaey ye amal haram or gunah e kabira hay. Aur shewat k saath ho agar us se is ki lazzat urooj tak pounch jaey aur us ka behna wala mawaad kharij ho jaey to is per ghusl wajib ho ga. Balkeh agar shehwat k saath nah bhi ho tu bhi ahtiyaat e laazim ki binaa par ghusal wajib hojaaye ga. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #345). Update on dated 11-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Masturbating k durann insan ruk Jai money jhatkay say nae niklay to kia ghusal wajib hota Hy???
Answer: Istimna kerna gunah e kabira hay,or jab tak mani bahar naa aaey ghusl wajib nahi hota.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatollah seestani edition 39 maslah no 351). Update on dated 23-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Assalam O alekum! Dear brother Acutally me apni me soctial media ki waja se fahashi videos dekh kr musht zani ka shikaar ho gaya hon jis se me koshish krne k bawajood bhi ni bach pata. Me ne 2 baar Quran ki qasm khai aur Quran pak se wada kiya k me esa 1 month k liye ni kron ga mgr zajbaat mein aa kr ho jata hai to kindly btain iska kiya hul hai?
Answer: Istimna or khud lazzati, haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho. Ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael jaame,Edition# 1435,Mafhoom e Maslah #2296) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 23-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Mera question ye hai k kya zaiton k tail ko dwae k toor pay azuuh pe lga skte ha?
Answer: Jee laga sakte hai koi harj nahi hai lekin is tarah lagana k wo istimna ka baes ban jaey ye jaiz nahi hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30). Update on dated 23-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Mustjanani karne ke gunaah?aur iske gunaah pata hone ke baad bhi kare phir afsos ho to kya mafi mil sakti hai ?
Answer: Istimna gunahan e kabeera hai. Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Aap sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 20-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Agar istimna ho gaya to iske gunah se bachne ka koi tareeka hai.jaise koi kaam karnachoga ya sacche dil se tauba
Answer: Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 ) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 13-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Mera ye question hai ke kya behan ke boobs dekhna sahi hai or kya usko soch ke masturbate krske hain?
Answer:
Agar mehram k jism par lazzat sai nigah daali jaey tu ye haram hai.
Istimna gunahan e kabira main sai aik hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30) .Update on dated 23-10-2018. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey)
Question: Mera sawal ye hai ke mene us din allah se wada kiya tha ke ab mai masturbation nai karugi matlab khud ko discharge nai karugi kasam se nai karu gi allah tallah... Par us din jazbat mai akar karliya tha masturbation mene wada tor dia to ab is ka kaffara kia hoga????.
Answer:
Is wade ka koe kaffara nahi. Istimna(Musturbation) gunah e kabira hay or is ka kaffara tauba hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30)
[Updated on 01-Nov-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Dusra muje ye kehna tha k mai married hu or pregnant hu or isiliye mene masturbation kiya muje need hoti hai had se ziada sirf is condition mai pregnancy mai or apne kaha k ye masturbation gunah kabira hai par ab iski mafi kese ki jae? Tauba kese ki jae? Bas mene bache zaya hone k dar mai wada krliya tha allah se k ab nai karugi masturbation namaz mai wada kiya tha par tab b mene masturbate karliya tha :(
Answer:
Aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gen or hamaishah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hukum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain. Aap koshish karain k aap khud ko doosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b).
[Updated on 09-Nov-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: AoA.myn masturbation bht krta hun or krny k bad bht nadamat hoti thi or ishi tran aik din masturbation krny k bad nadamat ke wjha sy myny Allah r us k hazoor SAW ko hazir nazir jaan k half utha lea(washroom k andr khry ho k) k aynda masturbation nahi krunga.To kya yy darust hay,r agr mayn masturbation kr jata hun to is ka gunah kya hoga
Answer:
Masturbation karna haram hai. Aap sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gen.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b)
[Updated on 11-Feb-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Kia kprey ke uper se rubbing krna masturbation mein shamil hy?
Answer:
Istimna(Musturbation) (apne ikhtiyaar sai mani nikaalna chahay kapray k upar sai karey ) haram hai or gunah e kabira main sai hai hay.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30)
[Updated on 12-Dec-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: How to avoid masturbation. I am just 19 now, and want to get rid of this gunnah e kabira.
Answer:
Istimna gunahan e kabeera hai. Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Aap sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 05-Feb-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: AoA sir mai uae mai rahta hn shadi ho chuki hai mere is ke bahwjood mai mastzani jese adat ka shakar hn bar bar koshish krta hn na ho ye Ganda Kam Lakin ho jata hai samj nahi ati kese bachoo is se please rahnnumai farmadjye mai boht pareshan hn is waja se mere sehet boht mutasir ho chuki hai is waja
Answer: Istimna or khud lazzati, haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho. Ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael jaame,Edition# 1435,Mafhoom e Maslah #2296) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 09-03-19. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: AoA sir mai ek sawal pochna chahta hn ke mere shadi ho chuki hai or mai uae mai Kam krta hn or mai mastzani jese adat mai mubtula hn mai bar bar bachne ki koshish krta Lakin ho jata hai ye gunah isi lye mai wapis pakistan jana chahta hn or mere father bi uae mai hai wo muje kahte hn ider se na jyo kaya krna chahye or islam is bare mai kaya Kahta hai
Answer: Istimna or khud lazzati, haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho. Ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael jaame,Edition# 1435,Mafhoom e Maslah #2296) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 09-03-19. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Is masturbation gunah? Because it is not written clearly in Quran
Answer:
ye masturbation is a gunah e kabeera. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#2009,Mafhoom e Maslah #30).
Note: sorah mominoon(sorah#23) ki ayat# 7 main masturbation ki janib or igham bazi ki janib wazeh ishara maujood hay. Ye nahi kaha jaa sakta keh Quran main masturbation se mana nahi kia gaya hay.
[Updated on 23-Apr-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Masht zani krna kesa hee
Answer:
Musht zani haram hai gunahan e kabbera mai sai hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1,Edition#1439,Mafhoom e Maslah #30)
[Updated on 03-May-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Aoa sir! mien ne ap sy poocha hai k kya apna hath ya ungli apni sharam gah py malna or lutaf lena ya garmi dilana or us sy sperm nikalna jo normal grmi ho jany sy bhi ata hai us ka nikalna bhi mushtzani mien ata hai? ya sirf apni ungli ander tk le kr jana apny vegina mien jaisy proper sex kia jata ho wo mushtzani hai.. or agr yeh mushzani hai to kaffara btaien
Answer: Istimna karna (kisi bhi tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1439 hijri). Update on dated 07-05-19. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Q1 :Kia kanwara larka kisi b larki (married , unmarried, divorced , widow) k sath sex chat kr sakta ? Q2 : mujhy roz muth (handpractice) ki addat ha is sy nijaat ka koi tarika batae please
Answer:
Larka larki k baat cheet karne main agar fasaad ka khoof ho to jaiz nahi he agar baat cheet hidayat aur saleh kalam par mushtamil ho jab keh haram mein perhrnay ka kaoof bhi nah ho to koi haraj nahi (Ref: Ayatullah sistani, Mujtahid se poochay gae sawalat, hissa#3, ques# 139).
Aap sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gen or hamaisha yaad rakhain k allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray.(Ref: E-mail rcvd from a sistani d b).
[Updated on 26-May-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Is masturbation allowed to avoid zina
Answer:
Istimnaa or zina karna gunah e kabira hain. Gunah se bachne or jinsi taskeen ka sharee halaal rasta shadi karna hay. (Ref: www.sistani.org topic istimna).
[Updated on 23-May-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Main 2008 say mushtzani kar rha hoon mjme ye itna zyada ha k me chor nhi pa rha me kanwara hn mjhe bht talab ha lkn kabhi zina nahi kia us dar sy bachne k liye mushtzani kr leta hon lkn ye mjpe bht havy ha mjhe rishte ki kadar bhol gai hai me muhabat me nakam hua hawas muhabat me aa gai ghr wale shadi ni krne de rhe aur me ye sb chorna chahta kafi bar larkion ki tasaveer dekh k mene mushtzani ki hai iska gunah ha kya? Agr ha tu kafara batain me ye sb chorna chahta hoon plz meri madad kren
Answer:
1- istimna hand practice masturbation karna gunah e azeem hay (Ref: Ayat ullah seestani d b minhaajus saliheen, part#1 mafhoom e maslah#30, eidition 1439).
2 sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay or hamaisha yaad rakhain k allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain (Ref: mafhoom e e mail rcvd from a sistani d b).
[Updated on 28-May-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Kya hand sex karsaktay hai agar bivi ghar per nai hai kuch dino say ya out off city hai
Answer:
Hand practice( masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. ref ayat ullah seestani d b minhaajus saliheen part 1 mafhoom e maslah 30 eidition 1430 hij).
[Updated on 01-Jul-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Mai 13 ki Age se Matubration kr rahaa ho... Ab 24 Ka MArried jo gyaa ho... Pahle mai Viagra use kiya... qki mujje Kamjori feel hui... Mai dubai job k liye aaya... Phir se matubration kiya... 15 din baad phir se Biwi se Milna hai.. meri Halat Bhoot Jyada khrab ho gyii Hai... mera panis 1 side mai ltk gyaa hai... Meri Qamar mai bhoot Dard rhtaa hai..mai khudh ko maree hue k brabar mahsoos krtaa ho... Mai kya kru?
Answer:
1-Istimna or khud lazzati, haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho. Ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael jaame,Edition# 1435,Mafhoom e Maslah #2296).
2-Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 26-07-19. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Assalamualaikum Sir Mera Masla Hain ki Agar Hand pump karke mani nikalne se kya gusul wajib hain ?
Answer:
Gee haan, Mani nikalne say gusul wajib ho jata hay. (Tauzee hul masael ,Edition# 2019,Mafhoom e Maslah #344).
[Updated on 19-Aug-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Assalamualaikum sir my 19 year ka hu muje masturbation ke itne bure adat lag Gaye hai chor he nahu para hu tauba Kiya hu phir se Kara hu bas muje yeh ek he adat hai aur koi galat Kam nahi Kiya hu bas yeh adat ko chor na hai
Answer:
1-Istimna or khud lazzati, haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho. Ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael jaame,Edition# 1435,Mafhoom e Maslah #2296).
2-Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 23-Aug-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: Jb bv beemar ho hmbistri Kay qabil na ho to bv say musht zani krwa sktay hn
Answer: Jee, bivi se istimna karwana jaiz hay.(Ref: https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01734/). Update on dated 28-08-19. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Hath ka zinah krne se insan kitne dim tak napak rahta h Or iskA kya gunnah ha
Answer:
istimnaa gunahan e kabeera hai or baaz riwayaat mai isay zina sai bhi bara gunah shumaar kia gaya hai kyun k ye fitri amal nahi hai or istimnaa k baad insaan jub tak ghusl e janabat anjaam nahi daita paak nahi hota or namaaz k liye ye ghusal laazim hai.(Ref:Tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 41 maslah no 344)
[Updated on 26-Oct-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: i swore that i won't do a bad act of masturbation for 15 days but couldn't be successful. What would be the expiation?
Answer:
In the Name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful
First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.
(Ref: Email rcvd from eanswers@najaf.org, dated:27-09-2010). Update on dated 13-12-19. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Muth marna kese choot skta hai
Answer:
1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Sub sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 17-Dec-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]
Question: ASSALAMU ALIKUM WA REHMATULLAHI WA BARAKATUHU WA MAGFIRATUHU mera ek saheli ne muj se sawali ki ki kya shaadi ke hone ke baad agar shohar duur hy kuch wajah se ya kaam se toh usko feelung ayi toh kya o mastubration kar skti hi kya???
Answer:
1-Istimna or khud lazzati, haram hay or gunahaan e kabeera mai sai hai chahay hath se ho ya film or tasweer per nigah daalne se ho ya khayalaat or is ki maanid se ho. Ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael jaame,Edition# 1435,Mafhoom e Maslah #2296).
2-Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 19-12-19. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Question: Sallam. Mufti sahib ye mera 3rs time he par ans nahi mil raha. Mera nikah apni cousin k sath howa he. Oske ami ny bhi ijazat d he k bat kia kro hamry ghar bhi aya kro.. mjhe he pochna ta k me apni wife k sath agar sex na krun or wo mjhe hand se discharge kry or me oske sharamgah me ongli dalun kya ye jaiz he.. or dosre bat ky ham call pe ek dosry ka jisam dekh sakty hy.. please ans must de.
Answer:
Biwi mard ki sharmgah(penis) hathon main lay kar musht zani(masturbation/hand practice) kar sakti hai, isi tarah shohar bhi apni biwi ke liay apne hath istemal kar ke usay lazzat de sakta hai, .(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). miyan biwi ek dosrre ke liay mehram hain aur ek dosray ka badan pori tarah dekh sakte hain.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b),Tauzeeh ul masail, Masla 2400).
[Updated on 21-Aug-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]