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Question: mera sawal ye ha k pleez muje koi surth bta dein jo main paron r meri mother ka gusa kahtm ho jay wo choti choti bat par boht gusa krti han r muj se naraz ho jati han un k dil main mery liy pyar pada ho jay r wo hr waqat khush rhyn bas ye dua ha meri main un se boht pyar krti hm bas unka gussa teek nhi hota plz bta dein

Answer: Jo shaks zuban daraz or tund mizaj ho to surae nisa(sura#4) ayt#148 ayatain likh kr uska tawez bna dain tou wo ba-akhlaaq hojaeyga aur agr aisa mumkin na ho tou 7 martaba pani par parh kr pila dain.(Naway-e-saliheen, Edition#5,pg#346)

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Question: aoa mujhay bohat zyada gussa ata hai who bhi apnay childrens per pata nahi kyu main bohat upset rahnay lage ho.jab who baat nahi mantay to ek dum shdeed ghussay main a jate ho bad main afsoos hota hai mera bara beta mujh say dour honay laga hai.he is only4 years old.plz help me im begging u plz?

Answer: Agar koe baat baat per chirh chirhay pan ka shikaar hu tu wo sorah e aal e Imran ki ayat#134 ko 7 baar paani perh ker pila dain tu osay bad akhlaqi or ghussay se nijaat milay gi.(Ref: Nawaay saliheen, pg#346). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: sir mri shadi ko 1 saal ho gya ha...mre husband main gusa bht ha or gusay main mjy bar bar khtay hain jao apnay maa k ghr main nahi rh sakta tum jesi orat k sath koi esa wazifa bata dain k un ka gusa door ho jay...kindly

Answer: jab jab ap apne shohar ke saamne aain to ya waliyo or raat ko bawazoo ho kar bistar per leetne se neend aane tak ya manioo ka wird kijye. (Ref : nawaa e saleheen , pg # 292 , 298 , ALLAH TAALA hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: how to control gusa?

Answer: Gussay ko door karnay ke liye surah-e-aal-e-imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pe lain inshallaha faida ho ga.(Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 369) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Ager kisi ko bohat gussa aye to kia karna chahie?

Answer: Note : Is website mai fiqh e jafaria k mutabiq jawabat diay jatay hain.

Gussay ko door karnay k lie surah e aal e imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pe lain inshallaha faida ho ga (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 369) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mjy gusa boht ata hy plz is ka hal bata dain mary hr kese k sath gusy ki waja sy rishta kharab ho rha hy

Answer: Gussay ko door karnay k liye surah e aal e imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pe lain inshallaha faida ho ga (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 369) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: ghar me laraai jagra hota hai. janwar palny ka shoq hai par bach nhi paty/

Answer: Ager gussa aane wale shaks ke uper sura e Anaam ayat no 13 ko phar kar dam kiya jaae to us ka gussa door ho gaae ga, or is ayat ko kasrat se pharye. (Ref : tajalliyaat e Quraan , pg # 135 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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Question: ASSALAM O ALAIKUM....MERA SAWAL HAI MERA BACCHI MATLAB MERA LADKI K AGE 5YEARS WO JAB AFTERNOON TIME PE SLEEPING KARTI HAI TO BED ME 2 SE 3 DAFA TOILET KARDETI HAI R RAAT ME BHI PLEASEEEEEEE KOI HAAL BATA DIJIYE KYA KARNA CHAHIYE PLEASE R WO LADKI KISIKO B IZZAT NAHI KARTI R MU K UPER BAHUT BAHUT BAAT BOL DETI HAI R BAHUT ZIDDI HAI KISIKA BAAT NAHI SUNTI KOI KUCH KEHNE SE USE KEHKE BADLA LE LETI HAI PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE KOI HAAAL BATA DIJIYE PLZ ME BAHUT BAHUT PARESHANI ME HU PLEASE BATAYYE KUCH BHI DUA WAGERA......

Answer: 1)Jo bache bister per pheshaab karte hai to jab bacha gehri neend so jaay to is k sirhane baith kar ( surah baqra ki ayat no:1,2,3 ko 21 din tak perh kar dam karain. ( ref: pg: nawahe sauleheen , 331)
2) Jo shaks zuban daraz or tund mizaj ho to surae nisa(sura#4) ayt#148 ayatain likh kr uska tawez bna dain tou wo ba-akhlaaq hojaeyga aur agr aisa mumkin na ho tou 7 martaba pani par parh kr pila dain.(Naway-e-saliheen, Edition#5,pg#346). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Aslkm sir...mujhe bahuth jaldi gussa aata...aur choti choti baton per bahuth jaldi irretate hojati hu aur galat way main sb se baat karti hu..plzzz koi aisa wazifa bataye jis se mera gussa km hojaye aur main sb k saat pyaar aur narmi se baat karo..

Answer: Jo kohe kise hajat k lie surah yaseen ki ayat no:40 ko 7 baar perhe to is ki hajar pure hoghe. ( ref: payaam shifa, pg: 249) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Aslamoalekum! sir mjhee bht gussa ata hai qabu nhi hota,itna gussa k samne khara har shaks dushman lgta hai..gussay mein maa baap ka b lehaz nhi rehta,mjhe pta hota hai ke mein kya kr rhi hun phr b khud ko rok nh patii aur is wjh se mjhe ghr mein sb bht bura smjhte hain unhein lgta hai mein kisi se pyar nhi krti.papa bht bd duayein dete hain..mein bht pareshan hun.

Answer: Gussay ko door karnay k liye surah e aal e imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pe lain inshallaha faida ho ga. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 36) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Aslam o alaikum sir,mera sawal hai mera shohar ghuse ka bohat taiz hai ,bachon pr bhi barono ki tarh ghusa krta h chilata hai chezon ki tor for krta h,bche is rawaye se mayos ar khofzada hote hain.plz sir ghusa kam krne ka koi wazifa batayae . ,

Answer: 1)Gussay ka ilaj chand cheezo par moqoof hai jis mai sai kuch aap ki khidmat mai tehreer krtay hain. 1: un hadeeso ko parhain k jo gussay ki muzammat mai warid hui hain. 2: un hadeeso ko parhain jo gussa na krnay k sawab mai warid hui hain. Jaisa k hazrat paigambar s.a.w.w. sai marvi hadees hai k jo shakhs kisi par gussa na karay khuda roz e qayamat is par azab na karay ga. 3: jis shakhs par insan gussa krta hai to osay gor(ﻏﻮﺭ) krna chaheay (ﭽﺎﮩﻴﮱ) k os kamzor par jo qudrat osay hasil hui hai, os sai bohat ziada khuda gussa krnay wala hai pas halat e gussa mai itna khayal krna chaheay k khuda kahin isi terah apna gazab aap par jari na karay. 4: ye tas’sa’wur(ﺘﺼﻮﺭ) karain k gussay k waqt aap ki kis qism ki buri surat aur aap k ﺍﻋﺿﺎﺀ(body parts) kis terah mutaharik aur aap k afaal(ﺍﻔﻌﺎﻞ) kis qadar ﺒﮯڈﻫﻨﮕﮯ aur aap ki guftugoo kis qadar ﺒﮯﺠﺎ ho jati hai.
2)Gussay k waqt shaitan sai panah leni chaheay aur “ ﺍﻋﻮﺫﺒﺎﷲﻤﻦﺍﻠﺷﻴﻂﺎﻦﺍﻠﺮﺟﻴﻢ ” parhni chaheay, agar kharay hon to beth jana chaheay, agar bethay hon to so jana chaheay, thanday pani sai wazoo krna chaheay aur ghusl krna gussay ki halat mai mufeed hai is sai gussa khatam ho jata hai aur hadees mai aya hai k agar kisi aisay shakhs par gussa aye jis sai khooni rishta rakhta ho to is k badan par hath rakhnay sai gussa khatam ho jata hai. (Ref : Urooj us Sadaat pg # 348-52)
Gussay ko door karnay k lie surah e aal e imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pe lain inshallaha faida ho ga. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 369) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mera sawal yeh hai ki hmari family ma 4 members ha ,papa mom.me and 17yr brother..woh hamesha gusa ladai jagda karta ha bina kisi waja pe..choti se choti baat pe har kisi kay sath lad jata ha..aur gar ma halat kharab hojatay ha ..itna gusa karta ha jo be cheez hath ma hota ha kisi na kisi pe marta ha..kbi itna soft hota ha pta nai chalta ha...4 din kay baad 500Rs mangta rehta ha hm boht gareeb huway ha ..uski wajah se ..woh charas be peta ha ..par nai chodhta ha..ab ap bataye kya karay aur kya wajah ha ..kisi ne mat sehra taweez kiye ha..plz help us plz 4 God sake

Answer: Tafseer-e-Burhan main Janab-e-Rasool Allah se marvi riwayat ke mutabiq Surah e Hajj (sura no 15) ka taweez bana kar us ko pehna dain. (Ref : Tajalliyat-e-Quran, Published By Idarah-e-Fragh-e-Taleemat-e-Aaima(a.s),Page#84 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: sir mera bhanjha hai wo zid bohat karta hai or har kisi ko marta hai or rat ko b sow nahi sakta humen lagta hai ke kisi ne us per kala jadu kiya huwa hai aap agar unka tor bata dento bari meherbani hogi

Answer: Rozana raat ko sone se pehle us per Sura e Yaseen pharain or is ka pani pilain. (Ref : tajalliyaat e Quraan , pg # 102 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: muje ha ba par gusa bh aa hai or sabr nai ho or ghar ma b larai hoty hai sir or mre dimag ma sabaq b yad nai hota plz is masle ko hal kare pplz

Answer: 1. Gussay ko door karnay k liye surah e aal e imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pi lain inshallaha faida ho ga. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 369) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
2. Ager gussa aane wale shaks ke uper sura e Anaam ayat no 13 ko phar kar dam kiya jaae to us ka gussa door ho gaae ga, or is ayat ko kasrat se pharye. (Ref : tajalliyaat e Quraan , pg # 135 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).
3. Agar koi talib-e-ilm chata ha ke is ko sabaq yad ho jay tu is ko chaye ke Sura Aaraaf ayat 171 ko kisi kagaz per likh ker is kagas ko apnay mazmoon(sabject) ki kitab me rakh de tu wo sabaq is ko Insha Allah yad ho jay ga.(Ref: Naeemul amaal, pg#354)

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Question: Assalam o alaikum. sir muje saas ki gaher mai har kisi ki bat par bohat gussa ata hai or is ki waja muja dosro ki kiya howa taweez ki lagti hai q k mere maa baap ka ghar par pa b galat taweez hota hai or ibadat ko b dil nahi karta to plz muje kuch aisa wazeefa batai jo mere gussa or ghar k logo par galat guman se rokai shukria.........

Answer: 1)Gussay ka ilaj chand cheezo par moqoof hai jis mai sai kuch aap ki khidmat mai tehreer kertay hain. 1: Un hadeeso ko parhain k jo ghusse ki muzammat mai warid hui hain. 2: Un hadeeso ko parhain jo ghussa nah kerne k sawab mai warid hui hain. Jaisa k hazrat paighambar s.a.w.w. sai marvi hadees hai k jo shakhs kisi par ghussa nah karay khuda rooz e qayamat is par azab nah karay ga. 3: jis shakhs par insan ghussa kerta hai to osay ghaur kerna chahiay keh os kamzor par jo qudrat osay hasil hoe hai, os sai bohat ziada khuda ghussa kernay wala hai pas halat e ghussa mai itna khayal kerna chahiay k khuda kaheen isi terah apna ghazab aap par jari nah karay. (Ref : Urooj us Sadaat, Mafhoom e pg # 348-52).
2)Gussay ko door karnay k lie surah e aal e imran ki ayat#134 ko cheeni(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pee lain insh Allah faida ho ga. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal, Mafhoom e pg# 369). Update on dated 25-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sir mera chota bhai bht guse vala hy har waqt larae ya phr guse ma e rehta hy. sir koi wazifa bta dyn jis se uska gusa khtam hn jay or uska behave sb ky sath polite hn jay. JazakALLAH

Answer: Gussay ko door karnay k liye surah e aal e imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pe lain inshallaha faida ho ga. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 36). Update on dated 23-10-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: A.o.a sir muje bhht jaldi gussa ata hai jar aik se badtameezi krne lag jati Hu aur zuban Mai narmi ni h aur MAA se badtameezi hojati h...kindly zuban p kabu rakhne k liye Kuch batain

Answer: W.Salam
"Ghussay ko door karnay k liye surah e aal e imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini sugar per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pe lain inshallaha faida ho ga ref naeem ul aamaal pg 36 was salam ayatullah kashmiri k mutabiq 7 rooz tak agar surah e alam nashrah surah 94 ko aik bar subah aur aik bar sham mai tilawat kar lia jae to tamam huzn gham door ho jain gay ref dunya wa akhirat ki 100 pareshanion ka hal pg#94".
Khuda aap ko uloom e aal e muhammad s a w w sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey.
[Updated on 10-Dec-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: mere husband ko bht gussa ata h wo bht batameezi se bt karna shuru hojatay hain wo btein jis per m or ap smjhein k koi bt nh us ko pakr k beth jatayhain m bht preshan hn

Answer: 1)Gussay ko door karnay k lie surah e aal e imran ki ayat#134 ko cheeni(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pila dain insh Allah faida ho ga. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal, Mafhoom e pg# 369).
2)Agar gussa aane wale shaks ke uper sura e Anaam ayat no 13 ko phar kar dam kiya jaae to us ka gussa door ho gaae ga, or is ayat ko kasrat se pharye. (Ref : tajalliyaat e Quraan , pg # 135 ,
[Updated on 05-Mar-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Salam ziddi aur badzaban bache ko sahi karne kay liye koi wazifa batayiye

Answer: 1.Rozana raat ko sone se pehle us per Sura e Yaseen pharain or is ka pani pilain. (Ref : tajalliyaat e Quraan , pg # 102).
2) Jo shaks zuban daraz or tund mizaj ho to surae nisa(sura#4) ayt#148 ayatain likh kr uska tawez bna dain tou wo ba-akhlaaq hojaeyga aur agr aisa mumkin na ho tou 7 martaba pani par parh kr pila dain.(Naway-e-saliheen, Edition#5,pg#346).
[Updated on 24-Dec-2019 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Prhai me dil naee lgta khwab me jinnat tng krtr ha shor krti hoon prhne lgoon neend ati ha sar me drd namaz bilkul chuuti howi ha hr waqt ghussa yadadht kmzor

Answer: 1) Agar apka dil ilm kay hasil karnay me nahi lagta ho to (surah-e-Alaq ki aya# 1-5) likh kar galay me daalay aur pani par parh kar pilaye to zehan-o-aqal ki taizi ke liye mujarrab hai (Ref: Naway-e-Saaleheen,pg#346)
2) Ghusa khatam kerne k liay: Agar koe baat baat par chirh chirhay pan ka shikaar ho tu sorah e aalay Imran(sorah#3) ki ayat#134 ko 7 baar pani per perh ker pila dain tu osay bad akhlaqi or ghussay se nijaat milay gi.(Ref: nawaay Saliheen, pg#346)
3) Rasool akram (s.w.a) ne farmaya: jo baqaidgi se surah shams ki tilawat kare ga tu Allah usay ziyada haafza ata kare ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 89)
4) Jo koe kisi hajaat k lie surah yaseen ki ayat no:40 ko 7 baar perhe to is ki hajat pure hoghi. ( ref: payaam shifa, pg: 249)
[Updated on 07-Feb-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Walid sahib gusay k taiz hen bat sunay ko tayar nahi hote ksi b hawale se khususan shadi ki bat aye to wo apni bat k elawa beti ki bat suna pasnd b nahi krte zda kaho to badduaen r talkh kalami per ajate hen barahe karam koi haal btayen k unka gusa thanda ho dil naram ho aur wo bat sunay smjhne ko tayar hn ..

Answer: Gussay ko door karnay k liye surah e aal e imran ki ayat no 134 ko chini(sugar) per 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur pe la dein inshallaha faida ho ga. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 36).
Was Salam. Ayatullah kashmiri k mutabiq 7 rooz tak agar surah e alam nashrah surah#94 ko aik bar subah aur aik bar sham mai tilawat kar lia jae to tamam huzn gham door ho jain gay. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 94)
[Updated on 13-Nov-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Salam meri 3 saal ki beti wo buhat zada ghussa karti hai har kisi se badtameezi or hath uthati hai soke uthtay hy dar jati hai or roti rehti ha please kuch batayein

Answer: w/salam, Ghusa khatam kerne k liay: Yani Agar koe baat baat par chirh chirhay pan ka shikaar ho tu sorah e aalay Imran(sorah#3) ki ayat#134 ko 7 baar pani per perh ker pila dain tu osay bad akhlaqi or ghussay se nijaat milay gi.(Ref: nawaay Saliheen, pg#346)
Aulaad ki terbiayt 2 saal tak maan or baap dono ki zimme hay or 2 saal k baad terbiyat ki zimme daari baap k zimme hay.is terbiyat main islami masael or har wo cheez jis se bacahe ki zindagi ka ta’al’luq hay shamil hay. Islam ne aulad ki terbiyat ki zimme daari waaldain per lagae hay or isi terah tamam momineen o mominaat per ye zimme dari lagae hay k wo chand sharto k sath aik doosre ko ache kaamo ka hokum dain or buray kaamo se rokain. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), http://www.sistani.org/arabic/qa/0380/ ) and ( Tauzeeh ul masael, Edition# 39, Mafhoom e Maslah #2008-9).
[Updated on 04-Dec-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Kisi or ka gusa khtm krny k lye, koi wazifa

Answer: Gussay ko door karnay k liye surah e aal e imran ki ayat #134 ko chini(sugar) par 101 martaba musalsal 21 din tak parhain aur phir unhen pilaain inshallaha faida ho ga. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg#36).
[Updated on 26-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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