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Question: I AM MUQALIDA OF AAYAT-UL-ALLAH KHUI MY QUESTION IS AURAT MARD KE KONSE AAZA(BODY)DIKH SAKTI HAI BAGEER KISI LAZAT KE TV ME AUR PICTURE {TASVEER} ME.

Answer: w salaam,
We are extremely sorry for the very late reply. This was because of some site functional probelems. We will try our best for the quick responce later, Insha allah.
Aurat ka na-mehram key chehray (face), hathoon (hands), sar aur gurden (neck), legs ka lazzat key bagair daikhna jayez hay,
agar-che behtar hay keh aisa na kiya jaye. Lazzat key saath in aaza ko daikhna ehtiyaat kee bina par haram hay.
Ref: Tawzeeh ul Masail, Masla No. 2442

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Question: ASSALAM-O-ALIKUM, MY ENGLISH NOT GOOD SO I ASK U QUESTION ROMAN URDU, MAREE INGAGMENT HOI HAI TU KIYA MAIN APNAY MANGATER SAY CHATING YAA UNN KO MAIL KAR SAKTEE HOO JAB KAY MAIN JAB BHEE CHAT WAGAR KARTEE HOO TU MUJHY BUHTH DAR LAGTA HAI.

Answer: Agar SHEHWAT ubharnay aur HARAM main parnay ka khouf na ho to JAIZ hay.
Ref:Book Siraat-un-Nijaat(Part 1) Question No.845.

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Question: main jab bhi apnay mangater say chating kartee hoo pata nahi kun itna dar lagta hai.shayad ya sab tek nahi hai mager kohi asee dua kay main baat na karoo aur unn kay dil main maray liya muhabath bhi rahay.mujhy iss ka jawab yaa hal bata digiya yaa kohi dua, ALLAH HAFIZ FROM TAHIRA

Answer: Agar SHEHWAT ubharnay aur HARAM main parnay ka khouf na ho to JAIZ hay.
Ref:Book Siraat-un-Nijaat(Part 1) Question No.845.
Try to ignore chatting(if possible) in this situation.(Mumkin ho to chatting ko TARK kar dain).

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Question: ASSALAM-O-ALIKUM, mara qiestoin yaa hai kay mari ingegment hoi hai ammi aur gher walay sab razi hain bass abu kahtay hain kay jab job lagay gee tab yaa reshta ho ga tu kiya main online chat kar saktee hoon un say say sharyath is ki ajazath nahi date. ALLAH HAFIZ

Answer: Agar SHEHWAT ubharnay aur HARAM main parnay ka khouf na ho to JAIZ hay.
Ref:Book Siraat-un-Nijaat(Part 1) Question No.845.

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Question: Salamulikum I just wana ask. The order of Islam in friendship with Na-Mehram (Girls).

Answer: W salam
Na Mehram se Dosti karna "HARAM" hia kionke is se haram mai parnay ka khauf hota hia.Chahey aahista aahista hi gunah ki taraf le jaye.
Ref . Isteftat Agha Sistani

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Question: Salamulikum I just wana ask. The order of Islam in friendship with Na-Mehram (Girls).

Answer: W salam
Na Mehram se Dosti karna "HARAM" hia kionke is se haram mai parnay ka khauf hota hia.Chahey aahista aahista hi gunah ki taraf le jaye.
Ref . Isteftat Agha Sistani

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Question: Can i show top and bottom parts of my feet to non family members? Is it permissable or is it better not to do?

Answer: If the non family members are your "Mehrams" then it is allowed. But if they are "Na-Mehrams" then it is not permissable.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Salaam Alaykum, Kya koi aurat lazat ke qasad ke bagair tv ke drame ya koi aur program dekh sakti hai jab ke aksar aukaat koi aisa scene aa jata hai jis me na-mehram ka shoulder ya girebaan wagaira khula ho ?

Answer: Salam-un-alaikum,
Ahtiat-e-Wajib ki bina par aurat ka Na-Mehram key chehrey hathon ,sar aur gardan aur pairon key ilawa baqi badan par lazzat key qasd key baghair bhi nigah dalna haram hai.
Ref: Tauzeeh Aqa-e-Khoi Prob no 2442

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Question: salam muja app se ya poochna hai k mai ek larkay se bohat pyaar karty hoon aur wo bhi mujse par wo larka sunni ha..wo muja be inteha chata hai..kahta hai agr tumse shadi na huyi to mai marjaaongaa sirftum meri ho..mai bhi usse shadi karna chaty hoon wo kahta hai shadi k baad tum shia hi rahnaa app batao kia ya shadi hosakty ha kuch log bhi to sunni mai gaye hai mera naam plz app show nahi karna plzz mai kai karoon muja kuch samjh nahi ata meri mushkil asan karay..wo kahata hai k hum muslaman hai sirf na koi shiana koi sunii? muja app jawab do plzzz

Answer: Agar aap key gumrah honay ka khoof na ho to shadi karna jayez hay. Ham aap ko har soorat mein taqwa aur parhezgari kee naseehat kartey hein. Ref: Mujtahid Sey Poochay Gaye Sawalaat (Part 1) Ques No. 134 .Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salaam, TV ke programs me na-mehram ka achanak agar aisa scene aajaye jis me shoulder wagaira khulein ho to lazat ke bagair nazar karne ke bare me kya hukam hai ?

Answer: Salam un alaikum,
Agar lazzat ka qasd na ho aur haraam mein mubtala honay ka khauf na ho to koi ishkaal (haraj) nahi hay.
Ref: Tawzeeh ul Masail Aqai Sistani Probe No. 2443

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Question: internet per nangi larkyon ko luzzut ki nazar se dekhna kaisa hai?(i m girl)

Answer: Salam un alaikum,
Aisa karna haraam hay.
Ref: Tawzeeh ul Masail Aqai Sistani Probe No. 2447

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Question: Kia internet per barehna larkiyon ki tasaveer ko lazzat ki nazar se dekhna haraam hai?

Answer: Salam-un-Alaikum,
Mazkoora soorat mai nazar karna "Haram" hia.
Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail Aqai Sistani Prob no 2442

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Question: salam;internet per nangi larkiyon ko lazzat ki nigah se dekhna kaisa hai??(i m girl).....thanx

Answer: Salam un alaikum,

Aisa karna haraam hay.
Ref: Tawzeeh ul Masail Aqai Sistani Probe No. 2442

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Question: salam kia kisi namehram say dosti ki jai tu haraam hey jub key hum us say milna rahey ho aur agar milay tu bhi pardey may milay aur kia us say phone per baat ki jasakti hey i mean kia awaaz sunana haraam hey ya us may koi prb nahi?? khudha hafiz

Answer: Na-mehram say dosti jaiz nahi hay.Aik mard kisi khatoon say aisi batain kar sakta hay jin ka nateeja kisi akhlaqi fasaad ki soorat main na nikal raha ho jab kay koi aisi baat bhi na ki jarahi ho jis ka kisi ajnabi khatoon kay saath kiya jana munasib nahi hota.isi tarah baghair lazzat kay iraday kay is ki batain bhi suni jasakti hain jab kay haram main na parnay ka itmeenan ho albatta is soorat main aurat ki zimmedari bhi hay kay wo apni awaz ko itna khoobsoorat aur baqreek na banaey jo insaan kay jazbaat ko ubharnay wali ho.Ref:Istiftaat A.Sistani Book-4 Q.No.124,125.

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Question: salam mara sawal ye hai k ager kissi k matay per zada ball hain tuo kiya un ko bhi chopna hai , ager koi larka body buliding keray tuo kiya ye qulat hai.yani ak terhan say uss ka ye kam zeenat hogaya . wassalam

Answer: Jee haan,Khawateen kay liye na-mehramoo say chehray aur hathoo kay ilawa baqi tamam badan aur baaloo ka chupana wajib hay.Ref:Book-1 Q.No.140...Larkoo kay body building karnay main bazat-e-khud koi haraj nahi hay,jaisay mard kay chotee aasteen ki qameez pehenna aur eye brows banwana jaiz hay.Ref:Book-4 Q.No.123,135...Haan albatta aurat kay liye na-mehram mard kay jism par nazar daalna Lazzat kay iraday say aur haram main mubtala honay kay khouf kay saath Haram hay balkay Aihtiyaat-e-Wajib ki bina par lazzat ka irada aur haram main mubtala honay kay khouf na ho tab bhi nigah nahi daalni chahiye.laikin agar aurat mard kay jism kay un hissoo masalan SAR,DONO HAATHOO,aur DONO PINDLIOON par jinhain umooman mard nahi chupatay lazzat kay iraday kay baghair nazar daalay aur haram main mubtala honay ka khouf na ho to koi Ishkaal nahi hay.Ref:Tauzeehul Masail A.Sistani Masala No.2392.

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Question: asalamwalaikum, i want to ask as to how i should repent for my big sins which i regret so much now for having committed i.e. i had an affair with a married man while i was away from pakistan. in the country i stayed i.e. tanzania i could not control my feelings for him. i was working as his secretary and had a physical relationship with him.

Answer: Aap kay liye zaroori hay kay Tauba karain.Khudawand-e-Alam nay Quran-e-Majeed main wada kiya hay kay agar insaan khud is kay khilaaf amal na karay to Tauba qubool ki jaey gee.Ref:Istiftaat A.Sistani I-53.

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Question: Salaam o alikhum mera sawaal yeh hain kay kya kissi ladkhi say mazaq main mohabbat karna yani time pasi karna kon say gunaah main shamil hain kanbera ya saghera ,aur agar in donoo main nahi shamil to kya yeahg jahiz hai

Answer: Haram hay,agarchay is ki guftugu khwahishaat ko ubharnay wali na ho aur haram par bhi mushtamil na ho kionkay rafta rafta hi sahi is main haram main mubtala honay ka khouf hay.Ref:I-46.

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Question: Aik Mard nai aik Aurat k saath zana kiya dono is zana pai raazi thai aur dono shaadi shuda hain aur oon k bachay bhee hain. Ab oos mard ka beta oos aurat kee baitee sai Shaadi karna chahta hai.Kiya yai shaadi ho sakti hai YA wo larki oos pai haram hai kioon k oos k BAAP nai oos ki MAA k saath zana kiya tha. Pls reply as per Ayat-ullah Seestani & Ayat-ullah khoie.

Answer: A.Sistani kay mutabiq larka us larki say shadi kar sakta hay kion kay ye larki un aurtoo main say nahi banay gee jin say nikah karna haram hay.masalan mehram rishtay daar ya apni bewi ki maa,nani,dadi waghaira ya apni bewi ki larki ,nawasi ,poti waghaira jin say nikah karna haram hota hay.aur mazkoora soorat main aisa koi masala nahi hay.Ref:Tauzeehul Masail Masala No.2370,2344...A.Khoie ka bhi yehi fatwa hay.Ref:Tauzeehul Masail A.Khoie Masala No.2393,2420. .Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Apnay mehram (male) k samnay kisi female (us ki na mehram) ki tareef bayan karna jaiz hai?

Answer: Agar Shehwat ubharnay ka baais na ho to koi haraj nahi hay.Ref: Istiftaat A.Sistani I-5.

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Question: Assalaamualikum my name is huda i m 14 years old mera sawal yeh hai kay kya hum male doctor sey test (blood test, hepatiatis , sugar test etc ) kar wa saktein hain jabkay hamain jan ka khatra bhi nahi hai. Thank you

Answer: Aurat agar na-mehram mard say apni kisi aisi beemari ka ilaj karanay par majboor ho jiska ilaaj wo behtar tor par kar sakta ho to usay ijazat hay kay wo na-mehram mard say apna ilaj karwa sakti hay.Ref: Tauzeehul Masail A.Sistani Masala No.2400.

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Question: Salaam,mera sawal yeh hai key main balig hoon aur mera cousin na balig hai to kya mera os key samney parda karna wajib hai ya nahi

Answer: Aihtiyaat e lazim ki bina par apna badan aur aar k Baal us larkay say bhi chupaey jain jo abhi baligh to na hoa ho laikin achay aur buray ko samajhta ho aur aihtimaal ho k aurat kay badan par us ki nazar parhnay say us ki jinsi khwaahish baidaar ho jaey ge,Is k alawa main na-baligh say badan chupana wajib nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: in hijab kiya yeh zaroori hai kay apna munh poora chupaya jaye

Answer: Aurat kay liye zaroori hay kay apna badan aur baal Na Mehram say chupaey Laihaza iskay alawa main chehra aur kalaiyoo tak haath chupana zaroori nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399) Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey)..

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Question: Can we see any Na Mehram by our eyes.?Answer me in detail

Answer: 1:Mard kay liye na-mehram aurat ka jism dekhna aur isi tarah is kay baloon ko dekhna khwah lazzat kay iraday say ho ya is kay baghair,Haram main mubtala honay ka khouf ho ya na ho Haram hay..Is kay chehray par nigah dalna aur haathoo ko kalaiyoon tak dekhna agar lazzat kay iraday say ho ya Haram main mubtala honay ka khouf ho to Haram hay.balkay Aihtiyat-e-Mustahab ye hay kay agar lazzat kay iraday kay baghair ya haram main mubtala honay ka khouf na ho tab bhi chehray aur haathoo ko kalaiyoon tak na dekhay...2:Wo be-parda aurtain jinhain agar koi parda karnay kay liye kahay to wo isko aihmiyat na deti ho,un kay badan ko dekhnay main agar lazzat ka qasd ya haram main mubtala honay ka khouf na ho to koi ishkaal nahi,is hukum main kafir aur ghair-kafir aurtoo main koi farq nahi.isi tarah un kay haath,chehray aur jism kay deegar hissay jihain chupanay ki wo aadi nahi,koi farq nahi hay.Ref:Tauzeehul Masail A.Sistani Masala No.2392,2393.

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Question: SALAM main ek teacher hoo kia main girls ko para sacta hoo

Answer: Jaiz hay agar haram main parnay ka khouf na ho (agarchay wo haram main parna haram nazar hi say kion na ho) lihaza agar haram main parnay ka khouf ho agarchay rafta rafta hi sahi to phir ye jaiz nahi hoga.Ref:Istiftaat A.Sistani S-48.

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Question: salam.muje ye pochna ha k agar koi apni biwi se baat karey phone pe aur baat krte hue ya kuch soch k uski mani kharij hojae,to uskey barey mai kia hukum ha?kia is se gunah hota ha aur ghusl wajib hojata hai?aur ehtelaam kisey kehtye hain?

Answer: 1, woh rutubat jo kabhi kabhi shewat ubharnay par mard kay aala-e-tanasul se kharij hoti hai usay "mazi" kehtay hain jo paak hai, lehaza is par ghusl-e-janabat nahi hoga. aur guna bhi nahi hoga kyon ke woh miya biwi hain. REF: A.Sistani, Tauzeeh ul masail, masla no: 70+nikha ke ahkaam, pg 25+334.
2, insaan ka aik khaas had tak pochna, ke jis kay saat woh qadir ho jai mani kay nikaalnay par (is se farq nahi parhta ke yeh halat-e-need mein ho ya jaagtay huway). REF: mustalihaat-e-fiqh, buloog, pg no. 107.

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Question: Mera sawal yeh hai kai kia sohar apni biwi ki sharamga ko dekh sakta hai or kia biwi apnai sohar ki sharamga dekha sakti hai?

Answer: ji haan, shohar aur biwi aik dusray ki sharam-gaah dekh saktay hain. REF: A.Sistani, jadeed fiqhi masail, masla no: 401, pg no. 255.

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Question: Salam mera sawal yeh hai mai money kharij honai say pehlai jo ratobat nikalti hai woh pak hai ya nahi or aghar money kharij nahi howi or us say pehlai kharij honai wali ratobar kharij hojai to kia us halat mai namaz perhi ja sakti hai ya nahi Plz reply as soon as possible in waiting 4 ur reply ?

Answer: same as 1482

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Question: ASSALAM O ALIKUM AGAR KOYE LARKI LARKON SAY DOSTI NAHI KARNA CHAHTI. MAGAR WOH UN KO ISLAM KI BATAY BATATI HAY .tu yeh jaiz hay ya nahi?

Answer: agar baat cheet hidayat aur saleh kalam par mushtamil ho jab ke haram mein parnay ka kauf bhi na ho to koi haraj nahi. REF: A.Sistani, mujtahid se poochay gae sawalat, hisa 3, ques no: 139.

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Question: Salaam. Mera sawal yeh hai kay kya hum recorded programs jin main baz dafah na mehram kay shoulders ya gardan kay hissay dikh rahay hotay hain . Hum issay dekh saktay hai ya nahi? Thanks.

Answer: aurat kay liyay na-mehram mard ke jisim par nazar dalna haram hai, lekin aurat mard kay jisim kay un hisso eg. sar(head), dono haath, dono pindliyoo par jinhain urfan chupana zaroori nahi hai, lazzat kay iraday kay bagair nazar dalay aur haram mein mubtila honay ka khauf na ho to koi haraj aur ishkaal nahi hai. REF: A.Sistani, Tauzeeh ul masail, masla no: 2392.

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Question: salaam mera sawal yahy kay " kia shohar appni bivi kay saath baath room main naha sakta hy ya nahi.

Answer: shohar aur biwi dono aik dosray ka poora badan dekh saktay hain aur nahanay me bhi yehi suratehal hoti hai.
lehaza is mein bhi koi haraj nahi. REF: A.Sistani, Tauzeeh ul masail, masla no: 2395.

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Question: Salam, me aik medical college ka student hu and meri class me larke bi hai n larkiya bhi..aik class me hone ki waja se larkyoo se baat krna lazmi hojata hai.. is bare me kya hukum hai??

Answer: w.s. khilwat k maqam par agar mulaqat na ho to us soorat me jaiz he jab insan un tamam bato se dur ho jin k hote hue haram me padne ka khouf ho sakata he. (ref: mujthid se puchh gaye sawalat Aytullah Seestani (d.b.) part 4 page 65-66)

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Question: meri behan ki mangni hoi thi,wo dono phone per bat kerte the take shadi se pehle aik dosre ko samajh le, kia is silselay me on dono ke liye bat kerna jaiz tha?or agar romance ki bate na kare tu kia hokum hai?

Answer: b.t. agar darmiyan me aysi batain n ki jayen jo ek muslman ke shayane shan nahin hain to koi haraj nahin. albatta orat ki zimmedari bhi he k wo apni awaz ko atna khubsurat or barik n banae jo insan k jazbat ko abharne wali ho. (mujthid se puchhe gaye sawalat Aytullah Seestani (d.b.) part 4 q.125&127 pub. by quran-o-itrat academy)

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Question: mujhe sunni ladki pasand hai aur wo bhi mjhe boht pasand krti hai na mene use dekha hai aur na us ne mjhe dekah hai hm dono ek dosre se boht pyar krte hai hm dono ko malom hai k hmare ghar wale nahi mane ge us ke bawajod hm ek dosre ko pasand krte hai kya y mohabbat sahi hai ya nahi ?

Answer: bismehi taala, kisi bhi gair ikhteyari amal par shariyat koi hukm nahin lagati lekin yad rahe, shariyat kisi bhi ayse irtebat ki ijazat kabhi nahi deti jo unhain haram ki tarf le jane wala ho. (ref: mujthid se puchhe gaye sawalat Aytullah Seestani (d.b.) part 3 page no.65 pub. by quran-o-itrat academy)

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Question: salam islam main orat ko balo ke sath chehre ko bhi chopana chahiye

Answer: Khawateen kay liye na mehramoo say chehray aur hatho ki alahiyon (palms) kay alawa baqi tamam badan aur baloo ka chupana zaroori hay.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Mujtahid say pochay gay sawalaat, Book-1 Q.No.140) . Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalamo-Alaikum, Khawateen Ka Apney Chehrey ke Bal(Face) Jo Nikaltee Hain Ya Saf Kertee Hain, Ye Jayez Hey? Iltemas-e-Dua

Answer: Khawateen Ka Apney Chehrey (face) k baal saaf Kerna or abroo (eye-brow) ko sidah kerna jaiz hay. (ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani (d.b), Jadeed fiqhi masail, Maslah #513) . Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: 1.Hum ne suna hai ke Biwi marnay ke baad Shohar ke liye Na-mehrum ho Jati hai woh na us ko hath laga sakta hai na dekh sakta hai kya yehi sahi hai ? 2. Kehtay hain joray asmanon par bantay hain .isi liye zameen par bhi wohi jora banta hai kya roz e akhrir bhi yehi jora banay ga ?

Answer: Jee nahi.bivi mernay k baad shohar k liay na-mehram nahi hojati.balkeh mernay k baad bhi bivi shohar ko or shohar bivi ko baghair kis perday k ghusl day sakta hay.(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah#548)

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Question: magaiter k sath kis had tak bat kerna jaiz hai

Answer: Mangiter na mehram he aur Mangiter se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho , koi haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haram me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: salam, 1 ghar mai majlis barpa hoti hai jis mai lADIES MARSIEY NOHEY OR MAJLIS PHARTI HAI, JIN KE AWAZ NA MHERAMO TAK B JATI HAI, OR KUCH SUNI HAZRAT IS KA MAZAK B URATEY HAI. KIA YEH JAIZ HAI

Answer: Aurat k lie jaiz he k wo apni awaz ajnabi mard ko suna,ay magar ye k haram me parhnay ka khof ho ( is surat me jaiz nahi ho ga) albatta aurat k lie apni awaaz ko is tarah dil kash banana jaiz nahi he k sunnay walay k lie aam taur per hejaan aawar ho agar chahay sunnay wala mehram hi hoon. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 510 pg # 266-267) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: salam, 1 ghar mai majlis barpa hoti hai jis mai lADIES MARSIEY NOHEY OR MAJLIS PHARTI HAI, JIN KE AWAZ NA MHERAMO TAK B JATI HAI, OR KUCH SUNI HAZRAT IS KA MAZAK B URATEY HAI. KIA YEH JAIZ HAI

Answer: Aurat k liay ye jaiz nahi k wo apni awaaz ko khoobsorat or dikhash banaay k sunnay walay ki tabiyat hijaan aawar ho,chahay sunnay wala aurat ka mehram hi Q nah ho.(Jadeed Fiqhi masail,Maslah#500,Ayatullah seestani(d.b).)

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Question: assalam o alikum mai bht mushkil mai hun es waqt bht mushkil mai hun mai kisi larke ko pasand karty hun lekin woh sunni hai...mai chahty hun k woh shia hojae...aur mery usse shadi ho jae...plz app es silsile mai mery madad karei mjhe koi aisi dua bataei k mery dua qabool ho jaein..appp plz mere sawal ka jawab de...plz..apko MOHAMMED O AL E MOHAMMED KA WASTA... mai bht mushkil mai hun

Answer: 1)Agar is baat ka dar aur khof ho k kal ko aap ghumrah bhi ho sakhti hain jis ka ehtimaal beherhal majood he. to phir aap k lie is k saath shadi bhi jaiz nahi he. hum aap ko bator e khass nasihat kartein hein k aap is terha ki shadi na karein. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 2, ques # 136, pg #62 )
2) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Kaya Islam main larki say payar karna jaiz hai?plzz mujhay detail main answer batain.thank you.

Answer: 1)Kisi bhi ghair akhtari amal per shariat koi hokum nahi lagati he lakin yad rahey , shariat kisi bhi aise artibat ki ijazat nahi deti jo inhein haram ki taraf le janay wala ho. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65)
2) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69).

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Question: islam main pasand karke shadi karsakte kya?jayaz tariqe se

Answer: kisi bhi ghair ekhteri amal per shariat koi hukum nahi lagati laikin yaad rahey k shariat kisi bhi aisay irtebat ya mulaqaat ki ijazat nahi deti jo in’hain haram ki taraf le janey wala ho. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Asslamualyekum sir, Mera swal ye hai main apni cousins ko apni behenon ka derja deta hun, koi lazzat ka irada or haram mein perney ka khof nhe hai, to kia ek dusray ko dekhna or baat cheet kerna jaiz hai? jbkeh hamari baat b hamesha ikhlaq k dairey mein he hoti hai. or hm ne hamesha ek dusrey ko bhai behen he smjha hai.

Answer: Na mehram se aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shehwat na ho koe haraj nahi he laikin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat haasil nah ho aur naa hi haram me perhnay ka dar ho.(ref : Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: ager larka or larki Khuda ko hazir nazir jaan k ek dusrey ko ek dusrey ko tasleem ker lein, to kia wo ek dusrey k liey mehram hain, unka aapas mein mein guft o shaneed kerna munasib hai? jb keh wo ek dusrey ko apna life partner samajhtey hain.

Answer: Aik larki ka kisi no-jawan sai dosti krna is eitebar sai k shadi aik dam to nhi hoti bal k shoru mai baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 125,pg # 65)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: salam sir .mera sawal ye he k agar koi shadi ho k combine family me jaye tu wo har waqt socks nahi pehn skti is surat me wo kia kare gi ?kbhi aesa hota he k ghar me buht mehman hote hn aur hum socks na pehne hn tu kisi ki nazar nahi parti aur phno tu sub point out krte hn is surat me kia kia jaye.plaz reply

Answer: 1)Aurat na mehram k samnay apna chahra aur hataili zahir kar sakhti he. Ba’shartay k is se fail e haram me mubtila honay ka khatra na ho, is ka maqsad mardoon ko haram me mubtila karna na ho aura am tor per fail e haram me mubtila honay ka sabab na babay warna agar fail e haram me mubtila honay ka khatra ho to mehram mard se bhi parda karna wajib ho ga.
2)aur aurat k lie jaiz nahi he k wo apnay qadmoo ki pusht na mehram mardoon k samnay zahir karay.
(Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 501 , 502 pg # 265) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salam, kiya mangni k baad mei apni mangetar se baat cheet aur mulaqat aur use ba hijaab dekh sakta hu, aur us se shariyat k daire mei reh kar izdawaji zindagi k baare mei baat kar sakta hu, chatting aur sms k zariye aur kiya mein us se phone per baat karsakta hu aur ham ek dusre ko email per apni pictures send kar sakte hain kiya?? inshallaH v will get married soon

Answer: mangaiter apas main na mehram hain.Mangni k baad aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shehwat na ho koe haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat haasil nah ho aur naa hi haram me perhnay ka dar ho.
2)Agar be’hijab tasveer he to Tasveer ko lazzat k sath dekhna jaiz nahi he bal’ke bagair lazzat k bhi ethiat ki bina per jaiz nahi he. (ref : Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 115 , 116 pg # 57) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: If a ten years old boy is not mumayyaz, is it neccessary for a women to do hijab from him?

Answer: As an obligatory precaution, women should conceal herself even from a Na-baligh boy who is able to discern between good and evil, and could probably be sexually excited. But If he is not mumayyaz then its not necessary to conceal. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masa,il, Maslah#2399) . Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: meri mangni ho chuki hay kia may apni mangetar say phone par baat kar sakta ho? ya oral sex kar sakta ho?

Answer: Mangni k bad aam mamool ki baat cheet karney me jis k ander koe shehwat na ho koe haraj nahi he lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat haasil nah ho aur naa hi haram me perhnay ka dar ho.(ref : Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57)

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Question: aslamoalikum mufti gi kiya aurat call center main parday kay saath naukri kar sakti hai

Answer: 1. Agar mulaazmat k doran lerhka,lerhki k dermiyaan raabtay main , agar koe burae ka sabab nah banay or shar,e hudood ka khiyaal rakha jaay, tu koe haraj nahi.(Ref: sawalaat or jawabaat 10 maraje karam k fatwo k mutabiq, part#1, pg#66, sawaal#100).
2. Aurat k lie jaiz he k wo apni awaz ajnabi mard ko suna,ay magar ye k haram me parhnay ka khof ho ( is surat me jaiz nahi ho gi) albatta aurat k lie apni awaz ko is tarah dil kash banana jaiz nahi he k sunnay walay k lie aam taur per hejaan awar ho agar chahah sunnay wala mehram ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 510 pg # 266-267). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mai r ek larka apas m shadi karna chahtay hain.hum ubi phone pai baat kartay hain kia hum gunah sai bachnay k liye ghar walon sai chup k mutaa kar saktay hain??qk aesa na ho k hum chotay gunah sai bachtay bachtay bara gunah kar bethain.agar nai to is ka koi solution btain...shukriya

Answer: 1)kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah(daimi / mutaa) nahi kersakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day.or yehi hokum ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina(base) per os sorat main bhi hay k jab larki khud mukhtar or baligh bhi ho. agar lerki kawari nah ho tu os k liay baap ya dada ki ijazat ki zororat nahi hay.(yahaan kawari nah honay say muraad sirif ye hay k aisi lerki jo talaaq yaafta ho ya baywah ho or oskay shohar nay oskay saath hambistari /jima(intercourse) kia ho or oskay kawaraypan ko khatam kia ho or oski iddta bhi khatam ho chuki ho.agar zinaa ya aisay hi kisi kaam say oska kawaraypan khatam hoa ho tu ye kawari hi kehlaay gi. isi terah agar baap ya dada os merd k saath osay shaadi kernay ki ijzat nah daitay hon jo sharan(Ismlam ki nazar main) or urfan(maa’aashay ki nazar main) os k brabari(equal) ka ho tu ijazat ki zarorat nahi, isi terah baap ya dada ki maujood nah hon ya kisi doosri wajah say ijazat laina mumkin hi nah ho or lerki ka nikah kerna bohat zarori ho tab hi baap ya dada say ijazat layna laazmi nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah#2341,2342 & minhaa jus saliheen,part #3,maslah #70).
2) Na Mehram se Dosti karna "HARAM" hain kionke is se haram mai parnay ka khauf hota hia. Chahey aahista aahista hi gunah ki taraf le jaye. (Ref . Isteftat Aqai Sistan)
3)phone per bat cheet karna jaiz nahi he q k fasad me parhnay ka khof he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 4, ques # 124 , 125 pg # 65)
Wazifa:
1. Agar sura-e-muzammil ko rozana aik aik dafa 41 days tak parh kar dua ki jai to (inshallah) yaqeenan rishta tay ho jaiga. (REF: Wazaif-ut-talib, pg no. 76.)
2. Dua e tawassul ko her waqt perh saktay hain,laikin kisi khaas maqsad k liay is dua ko musalsal 14 dino tak rozana namaz e fajar k baad aik 2 rakat namaz e hajaat ada kernay k baad perh ker dua maangain. insha allah parvadigar aap k haq me jo behtar hoga wo karega .(Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 40-41)

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