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65764
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: agar rozay daar bhoolay sy kuch kha ya pi raha ho to kya usko rokna chahye ya nahi?

Answer: Os ko khane peenay se rookna wajib nahi. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael, Mafhoom e pg#304). Update on dated 22-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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63527
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Agar shohar kisi gunah main mubtila ho ho aur biwi usay roknay ki taqat na rakhti ho to usay Kia karma chahiye??? Aur Kia khuda k Han us se is baray main sawal kia jaye ga k shohar Ko kion us gunah se na roka??

Answer: Agar kisi insaan k naik baat qabool karne ka ehtemal (chance) ho to amar bil maroof or nahi anil munkir wajib hai aur ghunah se rookna wajib hai aur agar baat qabool karne ka ehtemal nah ho to ehteyaat e wajib ye hai k karahat aur naraazgi ka izhaar ghunaghaar k is kaam nashaista per kare, chahay jaanta ho k wo is ka asar nahi le ga. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2009). Update on dated 30-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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59437
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Question: ji mera name danish sayed hai mai mumbai ka rehne wala hu maine ek ladki se pyar kia hu uski jo ammi hai wo ek gair mard se talukat rakhti hai anke shauhar ke ye bat nai pata hai lekin jisse mai pyar kiya hu use pata hai ye bat to mijhe janna hai ki uska masla kya hai kya jisse mai pyar karta hu usko bhi utna hi gunah milega jitna uski ammi ko milega kyu ki 18 sal se wo apne shauhar ko dhekhe me rakhti hai apne baccho ko leke wo gair mardo ke sath ghumti hai aur wo admi uske ghar par bhi ata hai to uska masla bataye plz

Answer: Us larki ko apni maa ko ehtiraam ke sath in chezo se mana karna chahiye, or ager mana karne se wo na ruke to un se naraazgi ka izhaar karna chahiye, or ager wo amar bil maroof na kare ya un ka is galat kaam main sath de to in dono guhnaah ki waja se us ko Allah Taala se toba karni chahiye. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2008 to 2011) , (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen , Part # 1 , Maslah # 30 , eidition # 2009 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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62430
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: Meray Maa baap me bohot jhagda hota hai WO dono namaz bhe partay hain Quran bhe magar koi unme se zaban pe qaabu nai rakhta me unki akloti aulad hu aur gusse me aakay unhe chup karanay k liye meri awaz bhe unchi ho jati hai aap ye btayen k Islam is baaray me kia kehta hai mujhe kia karna chahye? Aur meri awaz agar unchi hoti hai to sirf apni Ami ki bhalai k liye k baat na bar hay.kia me gunahgar hon ge?

Answer: Bête(ya beti) k aqide k mutabiq waldain ki jo raay aur muakaf sahe nahe , is me in se bahas aur mubaisa karsakta hai . laikin bête (ya beti ) k liye zarore farz banta hai k waldain se bahas wa mubaisa k dourain adab aur tehzeeb ka khayaal rakhe aur in ki taraf ghoor kar dhekhne se bhe ghuraz kare . apne awaz ko waldain ki awaz se ziyada buland na kare che chai k tanwa taaz alfaz istemal kare jo batareeq aula jaiz nahe . (Ref : Jadeed faqhi masail , ques # 347 , pg # 213, eidition 5) Aulad per waldain ka sath ahsaan karna aur un ka ehteraam karna wajib hai . (ref:sistani .org, urdu, waldain k huqooq ,que:1). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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60479
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: meray walid ko lawata ki gandi aadat hay. wo ham jins parast han. saray sheher ko pata hay. mjay b wazeh tor par pata hay. man un ka bara beta hon. meri umar 27 saal hay. mjay meray walid k is kam se nafrat hay, ab to mjay un se be nafrat hoti ja rai hay. man is muamlay men bot pareshan hon. muaashray men mera koi muqam nai hay, mera sawal ye hay k kia man apne walid ko roknay k liay koi tadbeer kar sakta hon, kia un ko is buri aadat se roknay ki mjay islam men ijazat hay? kia man is bat se tang a kar apna ghar hamesha k liay chor kar kisi aur jaga abad ho sakta hon. meri is mumla men madad karen aur mjay koi hall btaen.

Answer: Agar apko ahtemal ho k ap k walid per apki bat asar kregi or wo isko qabool krengi to amar bil maroof karna wajib hai aur gunah se rookna wajib hai, or agar baat qabool karne ka ahtemal no ho to ehteyat wajib ye hai k karahat aur naraazghi ka izhar ghunaghaar k is f nashaista kaam per Karen chahe jante ho k wo is ka asar nahe le ga.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2009 ) Aulad k liye apne waldain ko amar bilmaroof karte hoye ehteyat wajib ye hai k in ki narmi se renumai karen or kise bhi waqt waldain k samne sakhti se paish na ayen.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2011 )

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55854
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Question: Nikah ke saat aath saal baad gharwaloo se alag rehna jaiz hai jab sirf jagdeh ho jawab ki talab zarori hai

Answer: jab bhi waaldain ki taraf sai koi hokum ya rooktook mohabbat ki wajah sai ho aur is ki mukhaalifat sai inhain aziyat hoti ho to aulad k lie un ki mukhaalifat karna haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 1387 eidition 31) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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57937
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: mere walid 66 yrs, namaz parhte kabhi nai dekha, except Jumatul wida, Eid & Janaza. Ghar me sare log Alhamdo Lillah deeni faraiz ada karte hn. Aulad ki is silsile me kia zimmedari banti hai. Jazak Allah

Answer: Chahiye ke Walid ko – in ke martabe o ehtraam ka khiyaal rakhte howe – namaaz ki nasihat (Amar bi Al-Maroof) karain, or sakt gutagoo main nasihat karna jaiz nahi. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 1 , Maslah # 1274 , eidition # 1st , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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53627
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: SALAM MERA SAWAL YE HAI K MARI WIFE NAMAZ NH PARTI HAI TO KIYA US K SAT RAHNA THEEK HAI ISLAM MAI BAI NAMAZI K LIYE KIYA HUKUM HAI ? MAIE TAQLEED  AAYT-UL-ALLAH SEESTANI KI KARTA HO PLZ MARI YE MUSHKIL KO HALL KARE. MUHTAJ E DUA MOHAMMAD RAZA

Answer: Amar bil maroof k silsile me kise aurat per zabarsaste nahe karsakte.(sistani.org, urdu ,amal bil maroof , sawal 2) albatta Agar kise k naike baat ( maslan namaz , roza wagaira ) qabool karne ka ahtemal ( chance ) ho to amar bil maroof karna wajib hai.aur agar baat qabool karne ka ahtemal no ho to ehteyat wajib ye hai k karahat aur naraazghi k izhar ghunaghaar k is fail nashaista per kare chai janta ho k wo is ka asar nahe le gha. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2009 )(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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53080
Mujtahid:
fiqa jafirya

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Question: how do i prevent my Girl friend from other false peoples??? they want to do something wrong with her

Answer: Aap ko un ko nahi anil munkar karna (buraaiyoon se rokna chahiye) chahiye ager nahi anil munkar ki sharaait puri hon to, (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2008 to 2011). aap ko aik fiqhi maslay ki taraf mutawajah kia jata hai: Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak phounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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53169
Mujtahid:
Agha e sistani

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Question: AOA mera eik sawal hain eik madarasa k peshe imam k zimadari kia hain kia wo polatation k faisle bhi kar sakty hain ya nahe? zara detail samjaye shukriya

Answer: Peshe imam ki zimedaariyoon main se ik amar bi al maroof o nahi an al mukar hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 2008 to 2011 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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50752
Mujtahid:
sistani sahab

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Question: Salam...mera sawaal apne eklautey bhai k liye h..woh mullk se bahr job krna chahata h pr maa baap razi nhi ghar k masle bhi ijazat nhi detein.kiyauska bahr jakr nokri krna behtr h...aur agr nhi tou plz koi asan dua batadigiye taki uski delhi m shandaar job lag sakey aapki bahut mehrbani hogi...jawab ki besabri se muntazir hu...

Answer: wssalam o alykum, ager ap ke maa o baap apni mohabbat o shafqat ki waja se us ko bahaar jaane se mana karahain or ager wo un ki mukhaallifat karke bahar jaae to un ko takleef o aziyat pochain gi to is sorat main us ka bahar jana jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 1414 , maslah # 1387). Job ke liye apne bhai ke bazoo per sura e aal e imraan ki aayat no 73 likh kar band dain to INSHALLAH ALLAH TAALA sahib e roozgaar kar de ga.(Ref : tajalliyaat e Quraan , pg 34 , ALLAH TAALA tofiqaat main izafa farmaae).

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51738
Mujtahid:
Ayatullah Sistani

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Question: Salam Agha, I want to know what is the ruling in Islam for scolding Parents for not doing such things which may lead to thier health problem.

Answer: Baap aur maa ki nisbat ehtiyate wajib hai k mulaimat aur narmi say unki rehnumai ki jaey aur kis bhi waqt un k samnay sakhti sy pesh na aein.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 33th edition,maslah #2011). (Khuda aap ki Tawfiqaat mein Izafa farmaye)

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Question: mera sawal hai k olad k liye uski maa he sbkch hoti hai..magr jb maa ghalt rasty pe hoto olad ko kia krna chahye?? maa sy badzubani krni chahye usko rokny k liye ya phir sbkch daikh kr b ankhen bnd krlyni chaye.meri cuzn hai usk papa america me rehty hain maa yahen us k sth rehti hai.un k ghr ausraliya sy bnda aya hua haijo raat ushe k han rukta hai or wo dono sth nahaty hain jb k meri czn ki umer itni hai k uski apni b shadi hoskti hai or usny apni maa ko khud daikha hai sb krty hua..or ye daikhny k bd wo mar si gai hai.sbkch roknyki koshsish kr rai hai bdtamizi sy pyr sy but wolg usi py pabndiyan laga rahy hain usko aik ghulam sa bana kr rkhdiya hai to mera sawal itna hai k is situation me olad ko kia krna chahye sbkch daikh kr ankh bnd krly ya buri bn k sbkch roky.allah ne kia farmaya hai is sb k bary me plz rply me

Answer: Agr Amr_bil_maroof ki sharaait mukammil ho gai hon or olad pr wajib hogaya ho k wo walden k amal k nateeje men unko acchai ki trf bulaen or buraai se roken or isi tarh agr olad k aqeede k mutabiq walden ki amal or mo`aqaff sahi na ho to olad un se behs kr sakti hai lekin olad ka ye farz banta hai k walden se behs-o-mubahasa krte wqt adab or tehzeeb ka khayal rakhen or unki tarf ghoor kr bhi na dekhe, apni awaz ko walden ki awaz se ziyada buland na kren, lekin tando tez alfaz krna jaiz nahi hen. or agr apki cousin ka aysa kch krne k bad bhi agr unki walida is kam se baz na ayen to to kam se kam apki cousin itna kr sakti h k wo telephone pr apne walid ko is bat ki ittala deden take unki walida is gunah se kinara kashi ikhtiyar krlen.(Ref : Ayat_ullah Sistani(d.b), Jadeed Fiqhi Masaail, 5th Eddition, Ques#346-347, Pg#212-213)

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9529
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Question: Salaam, Mein UK Post Graduation karne ja rahi hu aur meri mother mujhe nahi dena chahti. mera visa aa gaya hai. vo mujhe rokne ki puri koshish kar rahi hai. yahan tak ki vo badua bhi de sakti hai jis ki vajah se mujhe aage ja ke bahut problems ho sakti hai. vo har maulana ke pas jati hai aur mujhe rokne ki puri koshish kar rahi hai.kuch aisa wazaif bataye jis se mujhe mom ki badua na lage aur mujhe UK jake koi pareshani na ho.

Answer: 1)jab bhi waldain ki taraf sai koi hokum ya roktok mohabbat ki wajah sai ho aur is ki mukhalifat se inhen aziat hoti ho to aulad k liye un ki mukhalifat karna haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 1387 eidition 31) 2)baite per waldain k 2 farz aaid hote hain: 1) waldain se naiki kare yane agar wo zarorat mand ho to in k lye infaaq(karcha) kare aur in ki zindaghi ki zaroriaat ko pura kare aur insane fitrat aur mizaaj k taqazo k mutabiq in ki zindaghe se mutaliq mamool ki farmaish ko bhi pura kare. Aise farmaishaat jin ko thukrana in k ahsaanaat k muqable me napasaddida samja jata hai. albata ye farmaishaat waldain ki qowat wa zooaf k mutabiq muktalif ho sakte hain. 2)waldain k sath husne solook hai. yani in se apne qool wa faile k zarie bura salooq na kare .agarche wo is per zulme kar rahe ho. 3)agar (upper biaan kiye hoa)mana me waldain se ahsaan is amar ka mutaqazi ho k baita baab(ya mah) k qareeb rahe ya shafqat ki bina per baite k bahroni mulke safar se baab(ya mah) ko aziyat ho to ise chaiay k wo lazami tore per safar tarak kare bashat ye k is se baite ka nuqsaan na hota ho warna safar tarak karna wajib nahe . (Ref : Jadeed faqhi masail , ques # 345,350 , pg # 211,214, eidition 5). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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32929
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Question: kesse be namaze ko namaz parhane ki leye kya karna chahiye plllsssss answer

Answer: 1)Amar bil maroof aur nahi anil munkar ka wojoob mukallaf(yani Baligh merd or aurat) per apnay ghar walooo aur rishtay daroon ki nisbat shaded tar he. Is buniyaad per agar koe apnay ghar waloon , rishtay daroon aur deeni ehbaab se namaz aur roza aur khums k silsilay me be’tawajahi daikhay aur wo muharamaat k murtakib hotay hoon maslan gheebat aur jhoot wagirah. Be-ehtiyaati aur be-baaqi ko daikhay to amar bil maroof aur nahi anil munkar k tinoo darjoo ki ria’yat kartay huay agay barhay aur in ko bura’i se rokay aur inko achay kamoo ki daa’wat de. Lakin baap aur maa ki nisbat ehtiyaat e wajib he k narmi se un ki rahnuma’e karay aur kisi bhi waqt un k saamnay sakhti se pesh nah aay. 2)Amar bil maroof wa nahi anil munkar k chand darjay(steps) hain: 1)gunahgaar say dili azhaar e bayzari maslan rukh morh laina or baat nah kerna. 2)Zabaan say waaz o nasihat kerna 3)Amali iqdaam maslan maarna or qaid kerna Or laazim hay keh ibtida pehlay ya dosray darjay say ki jay or pehlay oska intekhab karain jis main aziyat kam or asar ziyada ho.or agar natija hasil nah ho tu bil tadreej sakhti or dushwari ikhtiyaar karain or agar dili or zabani azhaar e nafrat asar andaaz nah ho tu naubat amali darjay tak pohanch jati hay or ehtiyaat e wajib hay k teesray darjay k intekhaab k liay hakim e shara say ijazat lain. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2011)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
48141
Mujtahid:
amir khan

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Question: Agar behen kisi ghair mard k sath mobile pe chat karte waqt pakri jaye . tu uske sath kaisa salook kiya jaye.. islam k mutabiq.. Agar uski ghalti hu... aj kal yeh common issue hai.. plz jald sa jald jawab dejiye.. m waiting

Answer: Amar bil maroof aur nahi anil munkar ka wojoob mukallaf(yani Baligh merd or aurat) per apnay ghar walooo aur rishtay daroon ki nisbat shadeed tar hai. Is buniyaad per agar koi apnay ghar waloon , rishtay daroon aur deeni ehbaab se namaz aur roza aur khums k silsilay me be’tawajahi daikhay aur wo muharamaat k murtakib hotay hoon maslan gheebat aur jhoot wagirah. Be’ehtiyaati aur be’ baaqi ko daikhay to amar bil maroof aur nahi anil munkar k tinoo darjoo ki ria’yat kartay huay agay barhay aur in ko bura’i se rokay aur inko achay kamoo ki daa’wat dain. Aur Amar bil maroof wa nahi anil munkar k chand darjay(steps) hain: 1)Gunahgaar say dili azhaar e bayzari maslan rukh morh laina or baat nah kerna. 2)Zabaan say waaz o nasihat kerna 3)Amali iqdaam maslan maarna or qaid kerna Or laazim hay keh abtida pehlay ya dosray darjay say ki jay or pehlay oska intekhab karain jis main aziyat kam or asar ziyada ho.or agar natija hasil nah ho tu bil tadreej sakhti or dushwari ikhtiyaar karain or agar dili or zabani azhaar e nafrat asar andaaz nah ho tu naubat amali darjay tak pohanch jati hay or ehtiyaat e wajib hay k teesray darjay k intekhaab k liay hakim e shara say ijazat lain. (ref: Ayatullah Sistani (d.b.), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2008-11). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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45772
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Question: plz answer me kia beta apni ma ko namaz parhna ka kah sakta he ya nai plz answer me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Answer: Amr bil maroof aur nahi anil munkar ka karna apnay ghar walo par doosron ki nisbat ziada shadeed hai laikin maa aur baap ki nisbat ehtiyat e wajib hai k narmi sai in ki rehnumai karay aur kisi bhi waqt in k samnay sakhti sai pesh na aye. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2011)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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35016
Mujtahid:
muslim

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Question: mei ne ek dost ko gunah se bachane k liye us se baat karna choor diya. Kiya ye sahi hai.

Answer: Jee han Amr bil maroof aur nahi anil munkar krna wajib hai aur is k darjay hain jis mai sai pehla derja gunahgar sai qalbi izhar e bezari hai maslan bat na krna, doosray darjay mai zaban sai nasihat krna, aur teesray drjay mai amli aqdam maslan marna aur qaid krna hai. Lazim hai k amr bil maroof aur nahi anil munkar pehlay ya doosray drjay sai kia jae. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2010)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
14264
Mujtahid:
Ayatulla Sastani

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Question: Asalam O Alakum mani phale bhi sawal kiya tha jawab nahi mila mera 3 sawal ha phale ya ka agar koi aurat parda karti ho shariyat ka hisab sa laken us ka shohar us ko coat sacrf phan kar pardeye ka khaye to us aurat ka liya kya hukm ha dosra sawal ha ka arga r nikkah ka bade mard par wajeb ha ka aurat ko kharcha daye ruksati sa phale theesra sawal ka mard agar aurat ko majboor karaye ka wo coat scarf phaen kar hi parda karye aur wo na mane to kya hukom ha aur mane to mard ka liya kya gunah ha please reply karye

Answer: 1-Agar bivi mukammal sher,e perda kerti ho tu phir bhi shohar kahay k coat scarf pehno tu bivi k liay shohar k baat maana wajib nahi hay, or na hi shohar per wajib ya mustahab hay k wo apni bivi ko caot or scarf k liay amar bil maroof karay.Q k Islam ne faqat mukammal sher,e perda kerne ka hokum diya hay nah k coat, scard ko perday main shumaar kia hay.(Ref: Ayatollah sistani(d.b),minhaajus saliheen, part#3, amslah#337-339) 2-Jee haan,naan o nafqa daina wajib hay. Siwaay is sorat k keh koe aisi alamat ho jis se tay ho jay k naan o nafqa daina zarori nahi hay chahay isi aitebaar se keh riwaaj hi asia ho(k rukhsati se pehlay naan o nafqa nahi dia jaata ho).(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Mujtahid se pochay gay sawalaat#4, jawaab#142). 3-Aurat k hoqooq main se aik huq merd per ye bhi hay k merd osay aziyat o azaar nah pohnchay or kisi sher,e wajah k baghair os k saath sakhti or tursh rawi(naraazgi or ghussaa) se paish nah aay.(Ref: Ayatullah sistani, Tauzeehul masail, maslah#2376). Bivi k liay shohar ki is baat per amal kerna wajib nahi hay or shohar ko bhi ye huq nahi k wo os k saath kisi sher,e wajah k baghair sakhti or tursh rawi(naraazgi or ghussaa) se paish aay. Note: oper jo hokum biyaan hoa hay wo faqat wajib or haraam ki had tak tha, Liakin hum aap ko nasihat kertay hain k bivi or shohar k dermiyaan piyaar o bohabbat ka rishta hota hay, aaqa or kaneez ka nahi, laihaza aap agar chahtay hain k aap ki bivi mukammal perday k bawajood scarf or coat pehne tu aap ye baat os ko piyaar o muhabbat se kahain “mairi khahish he k aap ye pehno or agar aap mujh se sacha piyaar kerti ho tu mairi ye baat mano warna nahi maano” or bivi ko bhi apne shohar ki har jaiz khahish pori kerne ki koshish kerni chahiay or os k dil ko khush kerna chahiay. (Khuda aap ki taufiqaat main izafa fermaay)

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12649
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Question: maine kaafi log dekhe hain agar unhe kahen ke namaz parho toh wo kaehte ke ye hamara amal hai aur akeli namaz parhne se insaan musalman nahin hota us ke dusre amal bhi ache hone chahiye ..namaz ki ehmayat kya hai dusre gunahon par parda daale??

Answer: 1- Agar koe shaks islaam k sahi aqaid per yaqeen rakhta ho or oska izhaar kerta ho agarchah ye izhaar marifat o basirat k saath nah bhi ho tab bhi wo musalmaan or momin hay or os par emaan or islam k tamaam ehkaam jari hoongay.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masa,il, maslah#1) 2- Amar bil maroof(naikiyo ka hokum daina) or nahi anil munkar(bura,eyo se rookna) 5 sharait k saath wajib hay.or ye aik aisa azeem deeni fariza hay k quran e kareem main Allah ne irshad ferya hay k “ tum main se aik garouh(group) aisa ho jo khair ki taraf daawat day or buraa,eyo se mana karay or yehi loog falah pane walay hain.” Or amar bil maroof or nahi anil munkar ki 5 sharait main se aik ye bhi he k khata kaar par amar bil maroof or nahi anil munkar k asar ka ehtemaal ho, is bunyaad par k koe shaks jaanta ho k oska kehna asar nahi karay ga tu fuqaha main mash,hoor he k is sorat main oska koe fariza nahi he, or amar bil maroof or nahi anil munkar os par wajib nahi he laikin ehtiyaat e wajib ye he k karahat or naraazgi ka izhaar khata kaar k is kaam par karay chahay jaanta ho k wo asar nahi lay ga.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masa,il, maslah# 2009) 3- Namaz deeni aamal main se behtareen amal he.Agar ye baargah e ilaahi main qabool ho gae tu doosri ibadaat bhi qabool hojain gi or agar ye qabool nah hoe tu doosray aamal bhi qabool nahi hoongay. Huzoor nabi e kareem (s.a.w.w) ka irshad hay k “ jo shaks namaz ko ehmiyat nah day or osay mamooli cheez samjhay wo aakhirat main azaab ka mustahiq hay.( Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masa,il, pg# 121 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
5898
Mujtahid:
seestani

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Question: janab ma ya pochna chati hon k ap ne jo amar bil maroof nahi anal munkir k steps batae ha , kia ya apni aulad, bewi or chote behn bhai par bhi apply hote han maslan , aulad walden ka hukum na mane , ya un se badtameezi karen, ya koi ayasa kam kare jo ghar ki k lia or us k apne lia nuksan deha ha , ya bewi abpne shohar sar baland awaz ma bat kare ya , use lift na kare , ya us ki ijazat ka bagher ghar se apne ma bap k jai , isi tarah chote behn bhai ki behteri ka lia wo steps han ya nahi,

Answer: : Amar bil maroof aur nahi anil munkar ka wojoob mukallaf(yani Baligh merd or aurat) per apnay ghar walooo aur rishtay daroon ki nisbat shaded tar he. Is buniyaad per agar koe apnay ghar waloon , rishtay daroon aur deeni ehbaab se namaz aur roza aur khums k silsilay me be’tawajahi daikhay aur wo muharamaat k murtakib hotay hoon maslan gheebat aur jhoot wagirah. Be’ehtiyaati aur be’ baaqi ko daikhay to amar bil maroof aur nahi anil munkar k tinoo darjoo ki ria’yat kartay huay agay barhay aur in ko bura’i se rokay aur inko achay kamoo ki daa’wat de. Lakin baap aur maa ki nisbat ehtiyaat e wajib he k narmi se un ki rahnuma’e karay aur kisi bhi waqt un k saamnay sakhti se pesh nah aay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2011)

Id:
6148
Mujtahid:
Ayatullah ul Uzma Al khoi

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Question: Assalam -o- ailaikum, Al hamdo lillah mairay char (4) baitay hayn.Un kee age biltarteeb 21 Saal/19.5 Saal/ 11.5 Saal aur 9 saal ke hayn. Mai un per Namaz, Rozay kay liyea sakhtee kartaa hoon. Kya issa kerna saihee hay. aur yeah keh, kya mai apni aulad per deegar shari ahkam ( like maa ke izzat, sila-e-rehmi) kay liya bhee sakhtee kar sakta hoon ya naihee. Mairay donoo baray bachay AIK MBBS aur DOOSRA ENGENEERING ka student hay, kya mai dunyavi taleem kay liya bachoo per sakhtee kar sakta hoon. Please jawab zaroor deejeya ga. Was-salam -o- Ailaikum

Answer: Amar bil maroof wa nahi anil munkar is surat wajib hota hay jab maroof ka anjaam daina wajib or munkar ka anjaam daina haram ho or Amar bil maroof wa nahi anil munkar is surat mustahab hota hay jab maroof ka anjaam daina mustahab or munkar ka anjaam daina makhroh ho. Amar bil maroof wa nahi anil munkar main laazmi hay k khata kaar ki haisiyat o shaksiyat ko mad e nazar raka jaay keh osay aziyat or ihanat mehsoos nah ho or isi terah laazmi hay keh itni sakhti or dushwari say oski girift nah ki jay keh osay deen or deeni programe say nafrat paida ho jaay. Amar bil maroof wa nahi anil munkar k chand darjay(steps) hain: 1) gunahgaar say dili azhaar e bayzari maslan rukh morh laina or baat nah kerna. 2) Zabaan say waaz o nasihat kerna 3) Amali iqdaam maslan maarna or qaid kerna Or laazim hay keh abtida pehlay ya dosray darjay say ki jay or pehlay oska intekhab karain jis main aziyat kam or asar ziyada ho.or agar natija hasil nah ho tu bil tadreej sakhti or dushwari ikhtiyaar karain or agar dili or zabani azhaar e nafrat asar andaaz nah ho tu naubat amali darjay tak pohanch jati hay or ehtiyaat e wajib hay k teesray darjay k intekhaab k liay hakim e shara say ijazat lain. (ref: Ayatullah khoe (r.h.), Tauzee hul masail, maslah#2008,2010).

Id:
2393
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: mara sawal hai k hamary ghar main aik budkar orat rehti hai mari nani ki khidmat k lia lakin dill sy wo orat saf nai hai.islmi tor py bi kafi ahadiss ko badal k sunati hai or khud ko mualama batati hai jo nakabile burdasht hai.kya hum unki galat bato py tameez or lihaz ko samny rakhty hoe chup rahty or unki fazool bato py dehan na dy ker acha kerty hain ya hamain gunaha hoga?

Answer: Aap amar bil maroof (naik kaam ka hokum dayna) or nahi anil munkar (burae say rookna) ki shrait or darajaat k mutabiq amal karain. Amar bil maroof ki 5 shaarit hain jin main say aik ye bhi hay k amar bil maroof or nahi anil mukar kernay wala maroof (achchay kaam) or munkar (buray kaam) ko jaanta ho k ye baat sahi hay ya ghalat. Or is k 3 darajaat hain Jin main 2 ye hain. pehla derjah ye hay k aap 1) gunahar or gunah say dili naraf ka izhaar karain or os say mulaqaat or baat kerna chordain.2) zabaan say nasihat karain, or haram kaam say rokain or os kaam ka azaab biyaan karain.mazeed ye k kisi ko baghair tasdeeq k badkaar kehna aik barha gunah hay..(ref: yat ullah Khoie,Tauzee hul masail, Pg#304,305). (Ap ko chahiaay k on ki jo baatain aap ko khilaaf e shariyat lagti hain on ki ulama say tasdeeq Karin k ye batain sahi hain ya ghalat)

Id:
2289
Mujtahid:
-- None --

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Question: assalam o alaikum sawal hai k mera recent nikkah hoa hai do maheeny bad shadi hai. mery husband namaz nhi party na h roza rakhty hain mery khny par unho ne nikkah k bad namazein start kr di t but ab phr sy nahi parhy n mera un ko namaz k liye force karna pasnd nhi. main bht pareshan hon mera dil door hota ja rha hai unsy q k woh namaz nhi party ap koi tareeka bataen k main kistrha samjhaon unhe plzzzzzz. n roza ki ahmiat or namaz tark karny wali ki saza. jazakAllah

Answer: w.s., aap zabardasti nahin kar sakte, aap nasihat aur amr bil maaroof k zariye is kam se rok sakte hain. (ref: www.sistani.org/urdu/amr bil maaroof/q1)