QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: assalam alikum mera nam usman ha mje bachpan se kisi karke ne apne lund se manni nekalne ko kaha aur mje in cheezoo ka pata ni tha aur wo jesa khta me aisa karta mje bhot kamzoori ho gi ha plzz ap is ka hall bataye mj se ye kam ni chuut rehe me ne bhot mutt marri ha me rat ko soota hu to subha kud nikli hoti ha plzz ap is ka hall bataye

Answer: 1)Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 253, pg # 462)
2)Mani kharij hone se ghusl e janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 )
sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalamo alaikum main 19 year ka hu aur main pichale 4 saalo se musterbate karta hu kya ye haraam hai agar hai to ise chodne ka koi tarika bataye plz answer.

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253) 2)Sub sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).3) Jo shaks shadi nah kerne ki wajah se haram kaam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mera question ye hai ke mere umar 17 saal hai. mene 2 years pehle masturbation karna chordi lkn us ke bad har month me mujhe aisa josh chartha hai jis se me boht difficulty se resist kar paata ho lkn koi sex scene dekhane se nahe bach pata.mere under ye khami hai.is se bachne ke liye koi tareeka batain plz.mene is se pehle bhi kya tha lkn uska reply nahe aaya

Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
2)Ehtiyat e wajib k toor per fahash filmoo(porn movies) aur tasveeron(porn pictures) ko dekhna haram he agar chahah shak aur lazzat k bagair dekha jay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254)
3)Sab se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhna waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Darasal baat yeh h k mujhe roz mani nikalne ki aadat si ho gai h. Kya rozana mani nikalne se mai napak rehta ho. Aur isse kya problum hoti h.

Answer: 1)Agar istemna kartay hain to istemna (hand practice) karna islam mai haram hai. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail aqa sistani d.b. pg # 253, masla # 462) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

2)Do cheezo sai insan mujnib(halat e janabat) ho jata hay. i) jima(intercourse) or ii) mani(semen) k kharij (nikalnay sai).

3)Agar koi shakhs mujnib ho jae namaz aur is jaisi doosri ibadatoo k lie ghusl e janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 344, 356)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: kaya mushat zani olad na honay ka sabab ban sakti hai

Answer: 1)Istemna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(Ref : jaded fiqhi masail aqa sistani pg # 253, masla #462)
2)Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fail haram me mubtila hota ho is par wajib hai k shadi karain. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
Note : Istemna karnay sai aulad k honay ya na honay k mutaliq aap doctor sai roju karain.

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Question: Sir mera sawal ye hai ki hast maithon karna galt hai yaa sahi hai

Answer: Istemna(hand practice) karna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mein aik bht gunai gar shaks hn mein hafiz quran hn aur mein muth marta hn muth mar tai waqt acha feel krta hn laikin bd mein bht dar lagta hai mein allah sai mafi mang kr muth dobara mar laita hn mein is gunah sai bach na chahta hn kia krn is burai kam sai bach nai kai liye aur merai sai koi khush nai sb naraz hain mein apnai ap sai bht tang mein khushi wali zindagi basar krna chahta hn to is kai liye mein kia krn

Answer: 1)Mush zani karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg # 253 masla # 462)
2)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Is Penis Enlargement With Exercise Is Allowed In islam???

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Arnica + Lycopodium + Olive.ye oil Penis k massage k liay behter hay laikin massage bohat ehtiyat sai karain k kahin mushtzani nah ker baithain. mushtzani(Handprctice) se bachain Q k mushtzani haram hay or mushtzani kisi bhi sorat main jaiz nahi hay. (Ref http:/h/abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/124370/ + http://sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1213 )(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: asl molna sahib me hapti me zaror aik bar mut marta ho mut marni ke porn bad muje khud bakhud rona ajata he awur apnia ap se ye khta ho ke ye mene kia keya ab me kia karo muje allah bhut pasnd he ab me kia karo ap zara batwo allah ap ko ajr de is nek kam ki allah hafiz me age is 20 yar

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Jo shakhs shadi na krnay ki wajah sai fail e haram mai mubtila hota ho os par shadi krna wajib hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407)
3)Sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-farmani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya muth marna zina hai ager nhi tu phir kitna bara gunha hai gunahe azeem me shumar hai k nhi

Answer: Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: assalamualikum sir.mera swal ye hai kai mai 6 monts se hand paractice mai mubtala ho is kay mani relese honay ka bad ghusal krkay bad mai 2 rakat swalat tooba krkay allah se muafi chahata ho allah ki dar se zikroazkar mai lagtha ho likn pata nahi achanak ik adam se 2 hapti bad ya 3 haptay bad pir muj se hojata ho aur pir wahi amal krta ho likn ab tang achuka ho k kya krlo akhir kyonki mai ye sub kuch jo ghalat horaha hai gunah kai hojaye ans me plz mai ab kya karo///??? plzplzplz allaha apko jaza kher dai aur meray liye duai krlay

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Sub sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: aslam w elequm sir mera ek question he k agar larka shadi bhi karna chahta ho aur uske ghar wale razi na ho to wo larka mushtzani karta he to us ka gunnah kis ko hoga

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Quran Kareem ki surah e inam surah # 7, ki ayat # 164 mai khuda ka irshad hai k “aur jo nafs jo kuch bhi karay ga os ka wabal osi k zimay ho ga koi aur nafs dosray ka bojh nahi uthay ga” .
(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: agar larki ko sex feel ho k wo kuch kare to kia wo khud apne hath sy khud ko sex kar sakti hai.shadi na ho aur age bhi zaida ho gai ho.kia wo sex kr sakhti hai apne ap ko...khud apne hath sy...kia yeh jaiz hai...?yeh gunah to nai?plz jawab zaroor den...

Answer: Aurat k lie apni sharam gah ko itna cherhna jaiz nahi he k is ki lazzat urooj tak pounch jey aur usi inzal ho jay aur agar us se is ki lazzat urooj tak pounch jay aur us se behnay wala mawad kharij ho jay to is per ghusl wajib ho ga. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 506 pg # 266) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: aslam o alikum kiya app mujay bata sakty hain khud lazti ka lafra kiya hai aur is ka islam main kiya kahna hai plz help me

Answer: 1)Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai aur ghuna kabira hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009),
2) Mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 )
3) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
4) jo istimna karta hai wo sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo wo ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: AOA how are you? Mera masla ye hai k meri age 23 hai lakin galat society ki waja se main ne blue films dakhin our galat kamo mein parh gaya. But main ne apnay aap pe qaboo paya...ab kafi arsa hogaya hai main ne mushtzani se toba ki hui hai but me jab b peshab karta hon to nafs ko pakr k nachorna parta hai q k aisa lagta hai k drops hain.Secondly pakhana b jab karta hon to manni kharij hoti hai.Meri discharge ka time b boht kam hai...kai baar to just sochne se b discharge ho jata hon.Kindly help ME...JAZAKALLAH

Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram haiaur ghuna kabira hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009),
1)Jis kisi shakhs nai peshab k baad istebra kia ho aur is k baad koi ratoobat kharij ho jis k baray mai wo na janta ho k peshab hai ya koi aur ratoobat to wo pak hai.
2)Aur agar kisi shakhs nai istebra na kia ho aur peshab krnay k baad kafi waqt guzr janay ki wajah sai osay etminan ho k peshab nali mai baqi nhi raha tha aur is doran ratoobat kharij ho aur osay shak ho k pak hai ya nhi to wo ratoobat pak ho gi aur is sai wazooo bhi batil na ho ga.
3)Istebra aik mustahab amal hay jo merd hazraat paishaab k baad is wajah say anjaam daitay hain taa

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Question: kya mushtzani(hand practice) se roza totta hai ya nahi

Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij karna) haram hai aur is sai roza batil ho jata hai. (Ref : Jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg # 253 masla # 462)(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 1553) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mera ye swaal ha ky ma 15 saal ka hun or mani nikalta hun to kya ye jaiz ha ?

Answer: 1)Istemna karna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masail Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253) 2)Sub sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).3) Jo shaks shadi nah kerne ki wajah se haram kaam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya sagi behan se muth marvana jaiz hai

Answer: Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: sir assalmualikum....mera sawal yeh hai k main jb b ksi larki se bat krta hn to mjhe kapkapahat feel hoti hai aur phr mjhe mehsoos hota h k mere qatre kharij hone wale hain aur mjhe musht-zaani ki adat thy mene 5 saal musht zaani ki ab mjhe us tareeke se dil nhn krta jesa pehle kiya krta tha jb agar main ksi lrki jo fit ho use dekhleta hn tb he dil krta hai kch galat kaam krne ko wrna nahi pehle aisa nhn tha..plz koi nuskha btaen k main theek hojao aur yeh sb hrkaten b chut jaen

Answer: 1)Istemna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(Ref : Jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg # 253 masla # 462)
2)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
3)Hazrat Rasool e Khuda s.a.w.w. irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: asslam alaikum,umeed hay aap khairiat say hon gay.may aap say kuch msaail puchna chahti hun. 1)may bht choti umer say musht zani ker rhi hun.musht zani kernay k baad shdeed ahssas e gunaah hota hay my phir toba kerti hun lakin kuch dino baad dobarah kr leti hun.may is gunaah ko chor dena chahti hun.please koi hal btain? 2) ak to shaadi k baad shohar k sath humbistri hoti hay na.lakin kia shadi k baad biwi shoher say keh skti hay k tm meri sharmgaah ko hath lgao or may tangain (legs)jor k musht zani kerti hun?mukhtasir yay k kia shadi k baad humbistri k saath musht zani ki ja skti hay? 3)computer pay gndi gndi pictures dekhnay ka kia gunaah hay? 4)mujay 6 saal ho gay hain zehni preshani ka shikaar huay.mujay lgta hay insaan apni zindgi may 4 kaam kerta hay 1)ibadat 2)entertainment 3)sleeping 4)work. may har roz decide kerti hun k may is may say her cheez may kia kia krun gi jesay k entertainment may sirf dramas dekhun gi koi song nae sunun gi.rest krun gi to sirf 4 ghantay.ibadat may nmaaz,quran,zikir krun gi.lakin kuch dino k baad may isay follow nae ker paati.or ajeeb tension ka shikaar ho jati hun phir zehan may yay khyaal b ata hay Allah nay Quran may insan ko sub bta dia hay to may aisa kyun ker rhi hun.may bht kashmaksh ka shikaar hun.please mujay koi hal btain.islam aisi surat e haat k baray may kia kehta hay. please maray har swaal ka jwaab dijiay ga. Wasslaam.

Answer: 1)Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram haiaur ghuna kabira hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009),
2) Mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 )
3) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
4) jo istimna karta hai wo sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo wo ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
2) insaan k lie apne hatho se istimna karna haram hai. laikin biwi apne hatho se shoar ki mani nikaal sakte hai. ( ref: sistani .org , English, hand practices, que: 1)
3) Ethiat e wajib k toor per fahash filmoo (porn movies) aur tasveeron (porn pictures) ko dekhna haram he agar chahah shak aur lazzat k bagair dekha jay. (Ref: Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254)
4) shoar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Assalam o alaikum, sir mera swal ye hai ke, koi anjane me har roz mani apne haton se nikale, aur gusal e janabat na kre sirf ehtilam ka gusal krke namaz ada kre to kya namaz hogi. Plz mujhe jawab dijiye

Answer: 1)Hand practice (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail aqa sistani d.b. pg no. 253 masla #462) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
2)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah sai fal e haraam mai mubtila hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
3)Ghusal janabat aur ehtelam ka ghusal aik hi hota hai agar ghusal kar lia ho to namaz sahi hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: kya mastubation krna haram ha?? aur porn videos dkhtay way krne ka ktna gunnah ha?? aur larki k sth porn vidoes dkh sktay hai hum?? jawab ka talabgar.... shukriya...

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Ethiat e wajib k toor per fahash filmoo(porn movies) aur tasveeron(porn pictures) ko dekhna haram he agar chahah shak aur lazzat k bagair dekha jay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Asslaamu Aalikium....meri umer 18 saal hai or mai chahta hun ki muth marne ki aadat chut jaye......ye aadat kaise chutegi .....kuch khane se/ya kuch padhne sai? plz aisa solution dijye jisse mai kum muth marun.....

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Sub sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Sir assalam u alikum , mera Question yeh h "dimag me gandae khayalat ki vjha se meri mani bht jaldi nikal jati h Mani p Qabu kese paya jaiye .. Sir srif 5min kaa khyal ata h r us me mjhe waham hota h ke meri mani nikal gayi h..r nikal jati h pher thori dair me ..jitni dair tak khyalat ayenge vitni dair taak mani nikalti rehti h.. Reply plxx !!!

Answer: 1)Haram k baray mai sochna agar inzal(mani kharij hona) ka sabab na banay to ehtiyat e mustahabb hai k osay trk kia jae. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 2, sawaal # 199,pg # 82)
2)Aap koshish karain k kuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qaboo nah paa saktay hon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: assalam o alekum mera sawal ye hay k merd agr apnay haath se khud lizzati kr k apni mani kharij kr le tu ghusal faraz ho jata hay k nahi meher bani

Answer: Note:is website par fiqahe jafria k mutabiq jawabat deay jatay hain.
Jee han gusal wajib hojata hai aur Istemna kisi bhi zarie sai ho haram hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1 masla # 30)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye

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Question: salam.... kaisy hain???????i hope ap theak hon gay.... mujhy ap k sath apna masla shear krna tha umeed krta hon ap mairy masly ka koi hal batein gy..... mairi age 23 year hai main hand prectice bhut ki hai or abhi bhi krta hon bhut chorny ki koshish ki hai lykin nahi chor pa raha.....koi way batein.... or march mein mairi shadi hai lykin ab sub sy bra masla yeh hai k maira penis full tarha sy khara nhi hota itna sakhat nhi hota k wo andar ja saky asani k sath idhar udhar mora ja sakta hai....main bhut pryshan hon koi rasta batein dawaian kha chuka hon koi asar nahi hoa....plz as soon qs reply krein.... regards atif hussain

Answer: Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan merdo main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k merdo k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba or seedha ho. (Large & straight), 2- Mota ho. (thick), 3- Sakht ho. (hard). Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani sharam gaah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharam gaah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote berhe hone se koe faraq nahi perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k te,rha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahi perhta Q k wo sharam gaah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahi hota, Q k aurat ki sharam gaah k naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharam gaah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay}.(Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,wakeel e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111 ).
Arnica + Lycopodium + Olive.ye oil Penis k massage k liay behter hay laikin massasge bohot ehtiyaat se karain k kaheen mushtzani nah ker baithain. mushtzani(Handprctice) se bachain Q k hay harm hay or mushtzani kisi bhi sorat main jaiz nahi hay. (Ref http:/h/abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/124370/ + http://sistani.org/index.php?p=616687&id=1213 )(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
1)Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram haiaur ghuna kabira hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009),
2) Mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 )
3) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
4) jo istimna karta hai wo sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo wo ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).

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Question: Asslaamu aalikum.....meri umer i8 saal hai or mai puchna chahta hun ki kya muth marna sahi h jab sazada din ho gaye ho ya zada tanaw badjaye jab muth marna gunha hai....plz zaror bataye.....

Answer: 1)istimna karna (shoar aur biwi k talluqat k ilawa kise bhi tariqe se mani kharij krnaharam ) . (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30)
2) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407
3)Sab se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Istemna se kesy bchen?rply plzzzzz

Answer: Sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mushtzani ky bary main quran o sunnh say roshni daln plz

Answer: 1)Istimna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
2)Abu Baseer bayan kartay hain k imam jafar e sadiq a.s. nai farmaya k qayamat k din khuda 3 qism k afrad sai kalam nahi karay ga aur inhain ghunahoo sai paak nahi karay ga aur inhain dardnak azab ho ga un mai sai aik wo shakhs hai jo istemna karay. (Ref : Moharammat e islam pg # 337)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Salam, Mujay dar mai kay mai sex k guna mai mublita hojaonga? mai 3 say 4 dafa final stage take pohanch cuka hoon for sex desire but semen/mani khari nahi ki. mai but control kar raha hoon. mere liye kiya hukam hai. 25YRs. Hamesha Allah sukar hai, lekn mai kiya karoon for marriage aj kal mai buhat dikhawa hai meri soorate haal is kadar nahi kay mai shadi kar sakoon jaldi. mai kiya karoon, plz jawab dein koi dua wazifa for sub mamlat thik karne kay liya

Answer: 1)Haram k baray mai sochna agar inzal(mani kharij hona) ka sabab na banay to ehtiyat e mustahab hai k osay trk kia jae. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 2, sawaal # 199,pg # 82)
2)Hameshah yad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is ko anjam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum man rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: kya Mastervation karna gunah hai Mulslim ke liye----------please tell us

Answer: Istimna(Musht zani) karna haram hai.(Ref : jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg # 253 masla #462)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Assalam-o-Alaikum , Sir .! Meri age 26 hai aur mera wazan 46:kg hai . jis ki asal wajah musht zani hai .Mera penis sukar gya hai . hr waqt sojan mehsoos krta hun . haath aur paun thandey rehte hain. hr waqt poore jism me thqawat, Dard aur vibretion mehsoos krta hun . uthtey baithtey maada kharij hota rehta hai . bohat ziada peeshab ata hai kamzori ki wajah se koi bat yad nhi rehti . plzzzzzzzzzz meri dawa k saath saath khuraq bhi tajweez kren . "ALLAH ap ko jaza-e-khaer ata farmaye"

Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) karna haram hai (Ref: jadeed fiqhi masail aqai sistani masla#462)
2)Jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os ko chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piyaaz kasrat se khaien (Ref: kitab tib e islam pg # 54)
3)70 Baar Surah-e-Hamd ka Parhna har Qisam ke Dard ke liye Shifa ha balke har Bimari ke liye Shifa ha (Ref: Payam-e-Shifa Page#189)(Khuda aap ki Tawfiqaat mein Izafa Farmaye)

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Question: Aasalam o alaikum..... mera naam waqar hy.. main Allah k karam se 5 wqt nimaz parhta hy ..Larkiyon m muj ko intrest e ni ..lakin 1 2 hafte m muj se yee zina o jata hy bistar ya pir kbi kud karta hu.... beshak Masturbation Zina(Guna) hy... Lakin ek cheez Allah ne banaei hy.. at least 2 hafte m lazmi nikalti hy insan ki ..kia ye Guna hoa???????????????????????????????? muje smaj ni aaraha k mai kia karhu...is guna se ksy choot jahon....??? plzz tell me with prf. thxx.. may Allah bless u

Answer: Istemna karna chahay kisi bhi zarie sai ho haram hai. laikin ye zina nahi hai.(Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462 pg # 253) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mera sawal ye hai k kya hath zani k baad kapre na paak ho jate hain??? or ye k main kafi dinon se namazen 5 prh rha hn... or 1 month bad jazbat main a kr mjh se hath zani ho gae is ka kafara kya hai???? main is kesey bach skta hun???

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Istemna ka kaffara toba krna hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 2, sawaal # 200,pg # 82)
2)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Assalam-o-alaikum, mera name M.Wasi Abbas,hai and mai ek shia family se belong krta hu., 1 year before..,mujay handpractice( hath se mani nikalna)..ki ek boht buri adat lag gae..ye adat jaisay mera pechaa hi nae chor rahi..ALLAH PAK se kae dafa maafi mangi..or waaday b kiye mgr..mai phr se yahi harqat krte ja raha hu...is harqat se mai bht patla sukha hogya hu...kia kru kch smjh mai nae ataa... Ye baat or kis se share karu.., i am requesting u..ALLAH k wastay mujeh koi esi dua ya koi esi ayat bta dein..k jis se mai is buri or ghatia harqat se bch jaou..mera future barbaad hojaye ga... Kindly koi aesa tareeqa bta dein k js se is harqat ka khayal mera fehmogumaan mai b nae aye...is se mera confidence se girta ja raha hai...

Answer: 1)Istimna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
2)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
3)Hazrat Rasool e Khuda s.a.w.w. irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Assalam walekum sir mujhe mere ek boori adat ko hatana hai toh plz mere madat karo mujhe mani girane ke aadat laga diye mere dost ne mujhe ab nahi choot rahi hai maine bahut koshish ki hai plz mere madat karo.

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Jo shakhs shadi na krnay ki wajah sai fail e haram mai mubtila hota ho os par shadi krna wajib hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407)
3)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-farmani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: assalam-o-alikum! mujy ap sy ye pouchna ha k islam mai sperm (mani) ka hod nikalna haram ha ya ni??

Answer: Wssalam o alykum,G han haraam hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: sir kiya muth marna gunna ha

Answer: G han gunah e kabeera hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: mi ni kafi logun si suna hy ke muth marna galat hy. jum is topic par bat hoti hy tu kuch is ke haq mi hoty hein aur kuch is ke khilaf is ke karny si kaya gonah hota hy??aur iss sy bacha kasy jasakta hy

Answer: Ye Haraam o Guhnaah e Kabeera main se hai, or or jo shakhs ayse kamon men mubtala ho raha ho us per shadi krna wajib hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2407).
Note Or shadi ke baad is ki waja se kin kin kamzoriyoon ka samina karna pharta hai is ki malomaat ke liye Doctor se maloom karain.(Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: A Salam mufti Saab My name is ali & am 25y & live in Uk since 2010. Mere masla ye hai k boht ziada hand practice ki wajah se mere Nafs me jaan khatam ho gyi hai. meri shaddi ho chuki hai or nafs be terra ho Gya hai Plz koi Hal btain me boht Preshan Hun last 3 years se. PlZ help & jazza Allah Thnx ali baba

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54)
3)Nojawaan jab ghair mutabir afraad ki taraf ruju kertay hain tu wo onhain ghalat mashwara daite hain, maslan merdo main aam taur se yehi baat bayaan ki jati hay k merdo k aala e tanasul (penis) main 3 khososiyaat hona zarori hain: 1- Lamba or seedha ho. (Large & straight), 2- Mota ho. (thick), 3- Sakht ho. (hard). Or aam tabeeb (doctors) bhi yehi taleem merdo ko daite hain laikin jahaan tak uzo e tanasul (penis) ka chota ya lamba hone ka sawaal he, tu osay bas is qadar hona chahiay k Indaam e nihaani (yani sharam gaah) ko mutaharrik ker sakay or sub se ziyada hassaas(sensitive) sharam gaah ka baahar ka hissa hota he. Khaas taur per bazr (Clitoris) or os tak pohanchne k liay chota uzo bhi kafi hota he. Laihaza penis k chote berhe hone se koe faraq nahi perhta, albatta penis ka bohot hi ziyada bera hona takleef ka sabab hota he. Or penis k te,rha(crookedness) hone se bhi koe faraq nahi perhta Q k wo sharam gaah main jane k baad khud hi seedha ho jata he. Penis k mota or patla honay se bhi koe faraq nahi hota, Q k aurat ki sharam gaah k naram or lachak-daar raysho main phailne or sokarhne (Shrinkage) ki salahiyat hoti he. Or itna sakht hona zarori he k aurat ki sharam gaah main asaani k saath dakhil ho sake. Ghalat tabeeb ghalat raey day ker nujawaan nasal ko mayoos ker daite hain. {Laihaza aise tabeebo (doctors) se bacha jaay}.(Ref: Tehqeeqi islami encyclopedia,mu,allif doctor sibt e shabbar zaidi,wakeel e ayatollah muntazari, part#1, pg#110-111 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: A-O-A.....jinab mera sawal yeh hai k...mey ik gunah se tobah kerta hoo per mey kuch hee din baad mey wahi gunah ker bethta hoon...TO IIIS SORAT MEY MERA PHIR TOBA KERNA SAHI HAI ????,.........

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Istemna ka kaffara toba krna hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 2, sawaal # 200,pg # 82)
3)Sub sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
4)Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: kya kisi larki ka apnay hath sa apnay private parts ko sirf sehlana zina hai? or is ki saza kya hai or toba k kya rastay hain?

Answer: Gee nahi isay zina nahi kehtay magr agr is had tak sehlaya jaey k discharge ho jae tu isay istimna kehtay hain aur ye haram or gunah e azeem hay.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah# 345,1553+( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah #30) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salam sir mera quesn ye hai ki mai 10 saal se mustjani kr rha hu ab kuch control hai. Lekin ab raat ko ehtilam ho jata hai. Aur mera sex tym b 15. 20 sec ka rh gya hai aur mai bahot dubla hu kamjzor b hu. In sab bato ka ilaj bataiye sir plz.

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Fiqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253) .
2)Sonay say pehlay ba-wazoo halat mai surah e mea’rij(surah no. 70) ko aik martaba parhnay sai ehtilam sai mehfooz rehtay hain. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 322) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Mera ye Sawal hai ke me taqreeban 5 years se mani kharij krta tha.. shuru ke 1st year Muje pta nai tha ke ye kia hai but round table me muje maloom hua ke ye mani ke hukum me ati ha aise rutobat but me ignore krta rha or wazi koi or rutobat smjane ki koshish krta rha apne apko..5 years baad mje yaqeen ho gye dost se ke me jo karta ho wo mani hi hai phr mene gusal e janabat kia..ab mere rozay ka kaffara jo mene 5 saal galat rakhe or namaz ki qaza ka baqi kaam ka kia hukum ha??or me kis tarah khuda ki baarga me maafi mango ke wo mje maaf krde..serious masla ha plx mje meri email pe bta dijye ga or agar kxh maloom krna hoto email karke ap maloom kr lijye mujh se.. Unknown Person..

Answer: Bivi ke ilawa kisi or zarye se mani nikaalna Haraam o Guhnaah e Kabeera hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009),
Halat e Janabat main phari gaae namazoon ki qaza karain, Or jahan tak roze ki baat hai to ager ap ko yaqeen tha mazi main ke jo ratobat (mani)

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Question: ASALAM-O-ALAIKUM MERA SWAL YEH HA K MY KFI ARSY SY MUSHTZANI KR RHA HO MY IS CHORANA B CHATA HUN PAR MJ SY YEH KAM NHE CHOUT RHA MJY KOE ESA TREKA BTIEN JS SY MY IS SY DOR REH SKON OR YEH B K IS KA KAFFARA KYA HA MY IS SY KAFI KAMZOR B HO GYA HUN MERI MY KOE VEDIO DKTHA HUN TOH MERI FELLING EK DAM SY HIGH HO GTI HAN PLZ MJY IS SY BACHNY KA KOE TRAKA BTIEN

Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) kisi bhi zarie say ho haram hay. (Ref : jaded fiqhi masail masla no 462 pg # 253) 2)Taqwa e ilahi k zarye se is adat se nijaat hasil ki jay.or jin cheezo or maqamaat se jazbaat main tehreek(harkat) paida hoti hay un se door raha jay.or Allah e subhaan ka kasrat se zikr kia jay or shadi kerne main jaldi ki jay.or ye adat se bachne k liay ye sakht koshish ki jay or roza rakha jay q k roza burai say bachnay k liay dhal hay. (Ref: http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=297396&id=262 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: assalaamu alaikum! mera sawaal ye hay k agar kunwari ladki muszthani karey toh shaadi baad kkoi masla hoga ! Agar che wo 10saal se muszthani karti ho toh

Answer: 1) Istemna krna (hand practice) haram hai chahay kisi bhi zariay se ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2) Sab sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: assalaamu alaikum! sir muje ye kehtey hue shy feel horaha hay par mey chupp b ni rehsakti hun aapko apni pareshaani batana chahti hun k mey ek 23saal ladki hun aur meri prblm ye hay k mey 8yrs se mustzani karti aai hun par muje kuch b ni malum tha k ye gunaah hay aur ye gunaah maine anjaney mey kia hay par aaj bahot afsos hota hay k maine aisa kyun kia ! sir aapse meri req ye hay k ab meri shaadi hone wali hay searching chalri shadi k liye toh mey ye janna chahati hun k allah na karey par shaadi baad muje kkoi nuksaan toh ni hoga na iska halll plzz muje bataiye mey apni pareshaani aapke saamne zahir ki hun meri madad kijiye... aur ab alhumdulillah apni nafs ko rok k rakha hay maine par ......ab mey mustzni ni karti hun 2mnths se plzzzzzz its humble req k muje kkoi nuksaan toh ni hoga na iska halll bataye muje wazaif dey agar kuch hay toh aur meri shaadi k liye b wazaif dijiye naik insaan mera humsafar baney khabi job wala insaan aur please mere liye dua ki guzaarish hay aapse sir allah hafiz .....jawaab ka intezaar hay muje

Answer: Note : Is website mai fiqh e jafaria k mutabiq jawabat diay jatay hain.

1)Istemna krna (hand practice) haram hai chahaey kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2) Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-farmani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Note: Aap is gunah se sakhti se perhaiz karain or sachay dil se tauba o istighfaar karain, insha Allah is gunah ki wajah se jo asraat jism or ruh per asar andaaz hoay thay wo khatam ho jain gay.

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Question: kya hand practise jaiz a?agr ni to kia wja aur kia gunah a

Answer: 1)Istemna krna (hand practice) haram hai chahaey kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253)
2)Aksar akhkaam e sher,e ki sabab or illatain(reasons) or shriyat k bananay walay(yani khuda) ki nazar main qabil e aytebaar maslihat hum logo se poshida hay, or hamari aqlain on ko samajhnay se aajiz hain. Or wajib ye hay k illat or wajah per nazr kiay baghair wazeh hadees ki pairwi(following) karain.(Ref: Lumah#6,kitaab e meraas,nashir maktab e naveed e islam, pg#472).

3) Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-farmani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: As salamu alayekum Mufti Sahab, 1] Meri Umar 22 Saal Hai Mujhe Istemna Karne ki Aadat Ho Gayi Hai Pichle 5 Saal Se, 7 Din Me Kamaskam 2 or 3 Martaba Karta Hu 2] Ab Mai Istemna Shuru Karne Ke 1 ya 1.50 Min me hi Mani Nikal Aati Hai Kya Mai Ise Penis Ki Kamzori Samjhu, Kyun ki Mujhe Ye Aadath Pichle 5 Saal Se Hai Aur Penis Ka Size 3 Inches Hai, Kya Ye Shadi Wale Zindagi Me Ahliya Ko Khush Karne ke liye kaafi hai ? 3] Agar Jo 5 Saal Se Istemna karne se jo kazori aayi hai usey Recover Karne Ke Liye Mai Kya Karu ? 4] Ab Mujhe Raat Ko Neend Waqt Par Nahi Aarahi hai aur Mujhe Dar Hai Ki Mai Is Gunah ka AADI Na Banjau Mere Liye Is se Bachne Ka Raasta Batayiye Tafseel Se. plz Aap ka Ahsaan hoga agar aap mere 4 Sawal ka jawab Tafseel se doge to

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, istimna haraam o Guhnaah e Kabeera hai, or is ke sabab insan ko shadi ke baad mardana kamzoriyoon ka samna karna pharta hai or in ko door karne ke liye zarori ke pehle to is buri adat ko chor de or toba o istigfaar kare or ande o piyaaz kasrat se khaae. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009) , (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54).

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Question: saalam!mera naam danish ali hy mein 3 saal sy hand practis kr raha ho ap is nijaat koe zariya bta dain mein is sy boht tang ho

Answer: 1)Istimna(Musht zani) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) 2)Sab se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhna waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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