QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: kya kisi non-muslim kai saath muta jaiez hai agar koi shaks apni wife kai saath peeche sai jaama kare to nikah toot jaata hai agar koi apni shramgah ko sirf lazzzat kai liyeh harkat de aur maani nikalne ki niyyat naho aur maani nikle hi nahi to gunah mile ga? wsalam

Answer: A.Sistani kay nazdeek ,Yahoodi aur eesai aurtoon say muta karnay main koi haraj nahi laikin aihtiyat-e-lazim ki bina par un say daaimi aqd na kiya jaey aur majoosi aurat say aihtiyat-e-wajib ki bina par nikah hatta kay muta bhi nahi karna chahiye aur baaz firqay masalan naasibi jo apnay aap ko musalmaan samajhtay hain kuffaar kay hukum main hain aur musalmaan mard aur aurtain un kay saath daaimi ya ghair daaimi nikah nahi kar saktay aur yehi hukum murtad ka hay...Aurat ki marzi kay baghair peechay say jima karna jaiz nahi hay aur aurat ki marzi kay saath bhi shadeed makrooh hay laikin is say nikah batil nahi hota(toot-ta).mard aurat say mutaaraf jinsi lazzaat hasil kar sakta hay (masalan bosa dena) laikin ghair mutaaraf lazzaat (masalan peechay say jima karna) kay liye aurat ka raazi hona zaroori hay...Agar uzu-e-tanasul ko harkat dena mani nikalnay ka sabab na banay to aihtiyat-e-lazim ki bina par aisa karna jaiz nahi hay aur agar mani nikalnay ka sabab banay to haram hay.Ref:I-44,I-38,I-39,Tauzeehul Masail Masala No.2357. .Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia ap aisi larki say shadi ker saktay hain jis k bhai ya behan say ap k najaez taluqat hon shadi say pehlay

Answer: Iglam(homo-sex) karwanay walay larkay ki maa, bahn aur bati aglam karnay walay par jabke (iglam karnay wala) balig ho haram ho jatay hain. Aur agar iglam krwanay wala mard ho ya iglam krnay wala na-balig ho tab bhi ehtiyat e lazim ki bina par yahi hokum hai laikin agar osay guman ya shak ho k dhokool hua tha ya shak kray k dhokool hua tha ya nhi to phir wo haram nhi ho ga. laikin aglam karnay walay ki maa , behan , aur bati aglam karwanay walay per haram nahi he. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2369). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: im in lov with guy since long,abt 2 get married but it seems he alw liks 2 have affairs outside ,attracted 2 other grls.love him lots.forgiven him several times.is there any dua tht he can stay away frm al this n also theres no barkat at my work place.

Answer: After performing namaaz e haajat after namaaz e fajar, read dua e tawasul then pray to ALLAH for your desire, keep doing this till 14 days, INSHALLAH all be right. (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 40-41) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
You should read “Ya raheem” 5500 time till 40 days, INSHALLA all be right. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 33)

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Question: Sir, Me Buhat shmeda ho or me buhat guna gar hoo sir ak adat mere me dal gay hee me larkoo koo chowdta hoo zeyada or muje maza atah hee me aya kam chorna chata hoo or ak wazefa bathoo ke muje as kam see nafrat ho jay or me aya kam chor doo mere ap shadi showda me ho gay or ALLAH Tala Ka karam ke ke ak bete be hee sir muje apne wife pal kul pasand nahee hee or na sex karne me maza taha hee

Answer: 1)Lawaat yani mard ka mard k saath ghair fitri amal(bad faili) anjaam dena jaiz nahi he or gunah e kabeera hay. (Ref : (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#29 ).

2)Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70)

3)Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho.(tauzeehul masail,Agha Seestani,maslah #2382).

4)Aap sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba).

5)Aap al-ha,keemo(الحکیم), al-man,naa,no(المنان), or ar-ra,ooofo(الرءوف) kasrat se perha karain insha allah aap k dil se shewat khatam hojaay gi.(Ref:kulliyaat e mafateehul hajaat, pg#224). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: AOA, Main nay past main kuch Gunah-e-Qabera kiya thay like Mard to Mard Sex, Mard kay Nafs ko Mouth main Laina, phir shadi kay baad Roza rakh kar Wife kay saath Hambistri karna etc. etc. Main Gunah kay baad bahot sharminda hota hun, plz rahnumae farmain, aur is Gunah ka Kiya Kaffara hai? Plz Plz help me. Main Toba aur Mafi mangna chahta hun. Kiya 60 people ko khana khilaon ya Siraf Allahtala say Mafi maang lon ya Toba kar loon? Please reply me.

Answer: Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)
Ap pr is roze ki qaza or kaffara dono wajib hen.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #1630)
Ramzan ka roza torne ka kaffare k tor zaruri hai k insan ek ghulam azaad kre ya do mahine roze rakhe ya 60 faqeeron ko pet bhr kr khana khilaye ya hr faqeer ko ek Mud tqreeban 3/4 kilo ta`am yani gandum ya jao ya roti wgera de, or agr ye kaam anjam dena us k liye mumkin na ho to beqdre imkaan sadqa dena zaruri hai or agr ye bhi mumkin na ho to oba o astaghfaar kre or Ehtiyat wajib hai k jis wqt kaffara dene k qabil hojaye kaffara de.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #1632)
Jo shakhs ramzan k roze k kaffare k tor pr 2 mahine roze rakhna chahe to zaruri hai k ek pura mahina or us se agle mahine k ek din musalsal roz rakhe(uani 31 din) or agr baqi manda roze musalsal nab hi rkahe to koi hraj nahi hai.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #1633)
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Question: sir agr 1 boy kisi dosry boy k sath sex kry to.... sir asal me mujhy mery physics k teacher bht achy lagty hain....main unko kiss or un k sath sex krna chahta hn.......

Answer: Ye Haraam o guhnaah e kabera hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: sir mare app sa ye Q hai ka main na apna hona wala salay ki gand marey hai tu kya mara nikha uski bahan ka sath jaiz hai plz tafseel sa ans dain shukria.

Answer: Aglaam karwanay walay larkay ki maa , bahn aur bati aglam karnay walay per jabke (aglam karnay wala) balig ho haram ho jatay hein.lakin aglam karnay walay ki maa , behan , aur bati aglam karwanay walay per haram nahi he. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2369)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Kia laundy bazi karna sahi he ya galat.

Answer: 1-merd,merd ko shehwat ki nigha se nahi daikh sakta.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah# 460).
2-Lawaat(londay bazi) yani merd ka merd se ghair fitri amal anjaam daina jaiz nahi hay.(Ref:A.Sistani(d.b),Jadeed fiqhi masa,il, maslah# 461). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: maen aek no jawan larka hun par mujhe aurtun se koi dilchaspi ya raghbat nahe aur bari umar ke mardon se raghbat hae men buhat pareshan hun ap mujhe plz koi wazifa bataen takay men ghalat taraf raghib na ho jaun mujhe mayus mat ke jeay ga plz kuch amal ya wazefa bataen.

Answer: 1)Lawaat (iglaam) yani mard ka mard sai gaie fitri amal anjam dena, jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 461 pg # 253)
2)Taqwa e ilahi k zarye se is adat se nijaat hasil ki jay.or jin cheezo or maqamaat se jazbaat main tehreek(harkat) paida hoti hay un se door raha jay.or Allah e subhaan ka kasrat se zikr kia jay or shadi kerne main jaldi ki jay.or ye adat se bachne k liay ye sakht koshish ki jay or roza rakha jay q k roza burai say bachnay k liay dhal hay. (Ref: http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=297396&id=262 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mufti sahb jab ak 15 sal ka larka 9 sal ke karke ke sharm gah ko toch krta ha to us ketna gunnah milta ha 2 ya k jab ak larka dosry karky sy sex krta ha to kya ya jaiz ha or lar ko ke age 16 ya 17 sal ke ha

Answer: 1)Balig musalman ki shramgah dekhna haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2400)
2)Lowat yani mard ka mard k sath gair fitri amal anjam dena jaiz nhi. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 461, pg # 253)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: ASSALAMOALAIKUM SIR SIR MERA APP SAY YEH QUESTION HAI KAY AGER SHAITAN KISI LARKAY KO KISI LARKI KI BAJAYE LARKAY KAY SAATH BURA KAAM KERNAY KA ZAHEN MAIN DALAY AUR WOH LARKA LARKAY KAY SAATH BURA KAAM KER JAYE TOU AKHRAT MAIN AS A MUSLIM MAIN POCHNA CHAHON GAA KAY ISS KA KYA ANJAAM HO GAA.KIS KISAM KI SAZA DEE JAYE GEE

Answer: Lawaat (iglaam/homosex) yani mard ka mard sai gaie fitri amal anjam dena, jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 461 pg # 253)

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Question: main ne aik larky se 4 saal pehly sex kiya .tub meri umar 16msaal the...main us larky ke behan se shadi karna chahta hun....penetration k bary main shak hai k hoi ya nhi hoi......

Answer: Ighlaam|(homo-sex) karwanay walay larkay ki maa , behen aur baiti ighlam karnay walay per jab keh {ighlaam karnay wala} baligh ho, haram ho jatay hain. Aur agar ighlam kerne wala mard ho ya ighlam kernay wala na-baligh ho tab bhi ehtiyaat e lazim ki bina par yehi hokum hay laikin agar osay gumaan ya shak ho k dokhool hua tha ya shak karay k dhokool hua tha ya nhi to phir wo haram nahi hogay. Laikin Ighlam karnay walay ki maa , behen , aur baiti Ighlam karne walay per haram nahi haim. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2369). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: me aik larka mujhay homosex ki adat hai. islam me is gunah ki kya saza hai our is kese bacha ja sakta hai

Answer: 1)Lowat yani homosex gunah e kabira mai shumar kia gya hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30)
2)Sub sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya homosex kana zina hai........ is ka koi kuffara hai

Answer: Lowat yani homosex gunah e kabira mai shumar kia gya hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mera sawal ya hay kay agar kisi larkay ne dusre larkay ka sath sex kia ho tou ya wo larka us larkay ki behan se shadi kar sakta hay ?

Answer: Ighlaam(homo-sex) karwanay walay larkay ki maa , behen aur baiti ighlam karnay walay per jab keh {ighlaam karnay wala} baligh ho, haram ho jatay hain. Aur agar ighlam kerne wala mard ho ya ighlam kernay wala na-baligh ho tab bhi ehtiyaat e lazim ki bina par yehi hokum hay laikin agar osay gumaan ya shak ho k dokhool hua tha ya shak karay k dhokool hua tha ya nhi to phir wo haram nahi hogay. Laikin Ighlam karnay walay ki maa , behen , aur baiti Ighlam karne walay per haram nahi haim. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2369). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: agar jin do larkon ne apas main aik dusre ka sath sex kiya ho tou kia un dono ki aik dusre ki behan se shadi ho sakti hay ? and second question is that kay aik shia larki virgin girl jis na dada hay or na baap hay baap ne maa ko chor diya hay bachan se he unhone apna baap o nah dekha tou or pata nhi wo zinda bhi hain ya nhi confrm nahi or baap se bilkul bhi milna jhulna nhi hay maa ne he pala hay tou kia wo larki muttah kar sakti hay baap ki ijazat ka beghair? or us ka na koi bhai hay .. plzz answer zaror diya ga

Answer: 1)Iglam(homo-sex) karwanay walay larkay ki maa, bahn aur bati aglam karnay walay par jabke (iglam karnay wala) balig ho haram ho jatay hain. Aur agar iglam krwanay wala mard ho ya iglam krnay wala na-balig ho tab bhi ehtiyat e lazim ki bina par yahi hokum hai laikin agar osay guman ya shak ho k dhokool hua tha ya shak kray k dhokool hua tha ya nhi to phir wo haram nhi ho ga. laikin aglam karnay walay ki maa , behan , aur bati aglam karwanay walay per haram nahi he. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2369)
2)Agar baap aur dada dono mar chukay hon to larki ka wali koi nahi hai aur shadi k lie ijazat ki zaroorat nahi hoti hai. aur agar baap zindah to ho laikin moujood na ho aur ijazat lena mumkin na ho aur larki ka shadi karna be-had zaroori ho to ijazat lena lazim nahi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 141,pg # 69)(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2342)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Maulana sahab maine apne 10 th tk ki padhai hostel me rah kar ki hai.jab mai chota tha to mere ek seniour ne rat me mere bistar par aa kar usne apne penis mete haton se pakadwae lekin maine response ni dia aur subah jaldi uthkar mai apne dost ke sath so gya.Aur ek bar mere ek dost ne sote waqt mere penis ko pakda to mai khud par control ni kar paya aur mai use kiss karne laga aur usne mere penis bhi suck ki to kya ye zina hai.In sb waqyao ke bad maine bhi apne 2 juniors ke sath rat me sote hue unke penis ko pakda aur kuch bhi ni kiya.aur maine apni cousin sister jo ki bachhi thi use maine ek bar apne penis pakadwae aur muh me dene ki kosis ki.in sab karnamo se me bht sharminda huo aur apne gunahon ki mafi mangna chahta huo to kya me gunah ke kabil huo allah mere gunahon ko maaf kar dega kya.aur me in sb waqyat ko bhool bhi ni paa raha huo. plz reply zaroor kare.allah aap ko jannat nasib kare.

Answer: 1)Mard shehwat ki niyat sai kisi doosray mard ko bosa nahi dai sakta hai ye haram hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 500, pg # 261)
2)Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888)
3)Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: salam ager mai nay larkay k sath sex kia ho or mai usi ki behn say shadi horahi hay to woh jaiz hay or shadi tay hochuki hay or mai mafi mang chuka hun plz reply jaldi

Answer: Aglaam|(koi mard mard k sath jinsi milap karna) karwanay walay larkay ki maa , bahn aur bati aglam karnay walay per jabke (aglam karnay wala) balig ho haram ho jatay hein. lakin aglam karnay walay ki maa , behan , aur bati aglam karwanay walay per haram nahi he. Laikin agar dhakool honay mai shak ho k hua tha ya nahi to haram nahi hon gay. (Yani faqat sharamgah touch ki thi to haram nai ho ga)(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2369)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Aslam o akiakum sir! Main apney muslim dost k chehrey ko ktna choom(kiss kr skta hn or ktney had tk jaiz ha islam main ktney jsm tk plz btaye main pehley b poch chuka hn plz plz

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqha e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hain.
Mard shehwat ki niyat sai kisi doosray mard ko bosa nahi dai sakta hai ye haram hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 500, pg # 261)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: kia hm jins prsti zina hay ?

Answer: Ham jins sai sex krnay mai agar male kis doosaray male sai sex karay to os ko lowat kehtay hain aur agar female kisi doosri female sai sex karay to os ko sehak kethay hain aur ye amal haram hai aur kabira ghunahoo mai shumar hotay hain. Albetta agar male aur female aik doosray k sath sex karay to os ko zina kehtay hain. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1 masla # 30)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Salamoun alikum plz plz giv me ans. I need it vry much Jenan mai eik ladka hon nd mera eik bohat aacha dost hai jis sa boht baar physical relatn bun gaye bohat kaboo karta hon par hoo nhi pata ab aus sa door baga tha mager aus k bagair reh b nhi pata hon .coz mera jigre dost hai ab samj nhi aata ka karo ? Keysa iss gunah ko anjam na dou ? Mai na kitna bada gunah kiya hai .. Plz plz plz giv me ans. It is so imp. For me thnks K

Answer: 1)Ham jins sai sex krnay mai agar male kis doosaray male sai sex karay to os ko lowat kehtay hain aur ye amal haram hai aur kabira ghunahoo mai shumar hotay hain. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1 masla # 30)
2)Sab sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad
or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Meri omer 37 saal hai, shadi apni pasand se 10 saal pehle ki, mashallah 1 beta 9 saal ka hai aur 1 beta mashallah 6 saal ka hai. lekin meri sub se bari badnaseebi yeh hai k mujhe aurat mei interest nahi hai q k 15 saal ki omer se mujhe mujhe se barey larko ne ham jins parasti ki taraf mail kardia, namaz pabandi se parhta hoo tahajud bhi aur quran bhi. allah ki tasbih aur darood sharif kasrat se parhta hoo. lekin apni wife se ziada mujhe mardo se sex karne ka ziada dil chahta hai. jab k mujhe maloom hai k yeh qaum -e- loot ka kaam hai jin par pathro ki barish ka azab aya tha. lekin phir bhi mei apne is shouq ko khatam nahi karsakta, aaj meri nazar Quran o Irat ki site par pari hai, tu mujhe khusi hui, k shayed yah se koi rasta nikal jaye aur mei normal mardo ki tarha apni life guzaroo.

Answer: 1)Ham jins sai sex krnay mai agar male kis doosaray male sai sex karay to os ko lowat kehtay hain aur ye amal haram hai aur kabira ghunahoo mai shumar hotay hain.(Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1 masla # 30) 2)Sab sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: 46113 MEI MEINE APNA MASLA BAYAN KIA THA US K JAWAB BHI AAP NE DIA, LEKIN MEI IS KAAM SE CHUTKARA CHAHTA HOO. AUR CHAHTA HOO K MEI AAM MARDO KI TARHA SHEWAT K LIYE APNI WIFE KO AWALIAT DENA CHAHTA HOO. IS K LIYE KOI AYAT KA WAZIFA YA KOI WIRD CHAHTA HOO. Q K MEI LAKH KOSHIS K BAWAJOOD APNE AAP KO ROK SAKTA HOO. LEKIN APNI WIFE SE SEX MEI INTEREST NAHI PAIDA KARSAKTA BUS ZABARDASTI WALA MAAMLA HOGA. MEI CHAHTA HOO K MUJHE SIRF APNI WIFE MEI LAZAAT US SE ZIADA MEHSOOS HO JIS TARHA MARDO SE HOTI HAI. PLZ

Answer: Iska asaan hal ye hai k aap jo kaam(yani ighlaam bazi) mard k sath kertay hain wohi kaam biwi k sath karain laikin agar biwi ki ijazat ho tu us k peechay walay maqam(anus) main intercourse kerna jaiz hai magar shaded makhrooh hay aur agar biwi ijazat nah day tu ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par jaiz nahi hay.(Ref : Masail-e-muntakhaba Ayatullah Sistani d.b., masla#70).


Note: Ighlaam bazi ko chand cheezo ki taraf ghoor o fiker ker k asaani se chorha jasakta hay:
1-Ighlam bazi gunah e azeem hay or khuda k shaded narazgi ka sabab hay. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah #30)
2-Khuda ko har waqt hazir o nazir jaantay hoay gunah se bachnay ki koshish ki jaay.
3-Ighlam bazi se insaan main mukhtalif qisim ki jinsi beemariyaan paida hoti hain, jin main namerdi ki bemari bhi shamil hay. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: meri age 25 hai main bachpan se homosexual hun baki meri life normal hai lakin main apney andar se is ghalat ceez ko khatam kar k ek normal life chahta hun shadi bhe karna chahta hun lakin girls ki taraf mujhey kabhi attraction feel nahi hue plz meri help karen koi aisa wazeefa ya elaj baatyen k main ek complete mard ban jaun Allah apkko is ka ajar dega

Answer: Note: Ighlaam bazi ko chand cheezo ki taraf ghoor o fiker ker k asaani se chorha jasakta hay:
1-Ighlam bazi gunah e azeem hay or khuda k shaded narazgi ka sabab hay. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#1, maslah #30)
2-Khuda ko har waqt hazir o nazir jaantay hoay gunah se bachnay ki koshish ki jaay.
3-Ighlam bazi se insaan main mukhtalif qisim ki jinsi beemariyaan paida hoti hain, jin main namerdi ki bemari bhi shamil hay. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: assalamoalekum mai apse ek apni life ka masahla puchna chata ho mai 22 year ka boy ho mai ek marid 32 year ke man se bahut pyar karta ho ham dono ki feeling ek he hai wo mujhe bahut pyar karta hai wo meri kafi madad karta hai ham log wo sab karte hai bas piche se jo sex hota hai use nai karte waki kising wagaera sab ham dono ek dosre se juda hone se darte hai mujhe dar b lagta hai ye gunah hai par mai apne ap ko nai rok pata mai bahut paresan ho plz mujhe batana mai kya karo

Answer: Mard shehwat ki niyat sai kisi doosray mard ko bosa nahi dai sakta hai ye haram hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 500, pg # 261)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: assalam-o-ailikum sir mana ya pochna hai k larkay ka larkay say zina ki saza kiya hai

Answer: 1)Ham jins sai sex krnay mai agar male kis doosaray male sai sex karay to os ko lowat kehtay hain aur ye amal haram hai aur kabira ghunahoo mai shumar hotay hain.(Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1 masla # 30)
2)Imam Jafar e Sadiq a.s. nai farmaya k lowat zina sai bara gunah hai q k Allah nai lowat ki wajah sai aik qoum ko halak kia jab k is nai zina ki wajah sai kisi qoum ko halak nahi kia. In hi imam a.s. nai farmaya hain k jo shakhs lowat par israr karay ga to Khuda osay bhi qoum e loot a.s. ki terah halak karay ga. mout k waqt is par qoum e loot par barsae gae patharoo mai sai aik pathar barasta hai jis sai wo mar jata hai aur is par barasnay wala pathar logo ko dekhai nahi deta. (Ref : Muharamaat e islam pg # 332)
3)Sab sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Is it right or wrong a man can kiss to another man in islam ???? According to positive thinking ??

Answer: Note : Is website per fiqha e jaffaria k mutabiq jawabaat diay jatay hain. Mard shehwat ki niyat sai kisi doosray mard ko bosa nahi dai sakta hai ye haram hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 500, pg # 261)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Sir meta name atif hai or mai 15 saal ka hu mere se ek gunnah hova hai maine 8 saal ke bache ke sath jismani lazat ki hai withot clothor is duran meri mani b nikli hai maine such dil se tooba b ki thi par b majbiri mai phr kardiya 5 martaba maine kiya or ab suche dil se maafi mang li kya sir kya mughe maafi mil gai or ab mai aesa kya karo jis se ye kaam phr na karna pare

Answer: 1)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjam nahi dain gay, or hamesha yad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum man rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
2)Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kiya boy boy k sath kissing kar skta hai? lips se or galon wagera se ? jab k age kuch bhi na ho jese jima etc?????

Answer: Mard ka mard ko shehwat ki niyat sai galay lagana bosa lena wagira haram hai. (Ref : Jadeed faqhi masail , Masla # 500, pg # 261)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salam...Mai buhat pareshaan ho q k mai larka hote howe b ik larke(boy) k sath ghalat(sex) kaam kiye hai...Kya muje maafi mil sakte hai.....Kya is ka ghusaal ho sakta hai....Plz muje jawab jaldi dena q k mai buhat apreshaan ho

Answer: 1)Agar kisi sai lowat kia ho to agar mani kharij ho to ghusl e janabat wajib ho jae ga. Laikin mani kharij na ho aur lowat sai pehlay wazoo na kia hua ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par ghusl karay aur wazoo bhi karain. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 350)
2)Sachchay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. )(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salam Dear Molana Sb. Agha Sb sb sy pehly doa hy k Malik paak ap ko iss azeem kaam krny pr Ajr e Azeem atta Farmayee. Molana Sb, Mera question ye hy k agr ak mard bachpan mein kisi larky sy kuch assa krta hy k us ki maani nikal jati hy us sy phly woo NaaBalig hota hy matlb first time us ki monny niklti hy us k irady k bagir lekin Molana Sb us k Uze Tansil usy Yaad ni k us lrky k andr jata hy k nai To kia ye Zina Shummar hoo gaa ? Sir, Mra Qeustion ye hy k kia ab baary hoo kr us larky ki sister us shakhas pr haram hoo jati hy ya nai matlb agr ab un ka nikah hoo jaay gaa gaa k ni aur agr nikah hoo chuka hoo to kia krna chahyee unahy ? Us ko 100% yaad ni woo waqat k andr gia thaa yaa nai but us ka yei Demag mein ata hy k nai giaa thaa aur naa us ko us waqat samj thii ? Kindy jawab zaroor jald sy jald degee gaa Thanks a lot. W.salam

Answer: Ighlaam krwane wale (mafool) ki maa, Behn or Beti ighlam krne wale (Faael) pr (jabke Ighlaam krne wala Baligh ho) Haram hojate hen, Agrchhe Supari (uzw_e_Tanasul ka ibtadai ka hissa) se kam hi dakhil hua hai, Agr Ighlam krwane wala Mard ho ya Ighlam krne wala na_baligh ho tb bhi Ehtiyat_e_lazim ki bin pr yehi hukm hai, lekin agr use guman ho k dukhool hua tha ya shak kre k dukhool hua tha ya nahi to phir haram nahi honge, or usi tarh Ighlam krne wale ki maa, behn, or beti ighlaam krwane wale pr haram nahi hen.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2369).(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salam respectable molana sahib, mera aik parosi ha jo aik larka ha us ki umer 18 years ha bachpan main us k sath zina kia gia. Shaid 10 saal ki umer me aj woh 3rd year me study kr raha ha, mujhe uski samjh nehi ati, plzzz is bare me mujhe aagah kijiye k woh kia kare? Assalam.o.alaikum warahmat.u.llah muhammad umair

Answer: Iglaam (homo-sex) karna aur apne marzi se iglaam karwana ghuna kabira hai (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1masla # 30, 2009 edition). Aglaam|(homo-sex) karwanay walay larkay ki maa , bahn aur bati aglam karnay walay per jabke (aglam karnay wala) balig ho haram ho jatay hain. Aur agar iglam krwanay wala mard ho ya iglam krnay wala na-balig ho tab bhi ehtiyat e lazim ki bina par yahi hokum hai laikin agar osay guman ya shak ho k dhokool hua tha ya shak kray k dhokool hua tha ya nhi to phir wo haram nhi ho ga. laikin aglam karnay walay ki maa , behan , aur bati aglam karwanay walay per haram nahi he. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2369) jis ne ghuna kiya ha wo Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)

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Question: sir ma ya pochna chahta hon k ighlam ka kafara kia hai?

Answer: Lawaat (iglaam/homosex) yani mard ka mard sai gaie fitri amal anjam dena, jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 461 pg # 253)
iglaam|(homo-sex) karwanay walay larkay ki maa , bahn aur bati aglam karnay walay per jabke (aglam karnay wala) balig ho haram ho jatay hain. Aur agar iglam krwanay wala mard ho ya iglam krnay wala na-balig ho tab bhi ehtiyat e lazim ki bina par yahi hokum hai laikin agar osay guman ya shak ho k dhokool hua tha ya shak kray k dhokool hua tha ya nhi to phir wo haram nhi ho ga. laikin aglam karnay walay ki maa , behan , aur bati aglam karwanay walay per haram nahi he. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2369)
sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
3)Jo shaks shadi nah kerne ki wajah se haram kaam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407, eidition31).
(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Aik larke ka dosre larke ko upar upar se (andar na dalna) lutf utana jaiz hai?

Answer: Ye amal haram hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Muje yea Batain kay agar 2 larkon ne apas main ayk dosre kay sath zina kia hu , tu kia us main se ayk dosre ki sister se marraige kar sakta he ? aur us waqt dono lake agar balaig theye tu phir kia jawab hey ? aur agar dono us waqt nabalaig theye tu kia jawab he ?

Answer: Ighlaam|(homo-sex) karwanay walay larkay ki behn Ighlam karnay walay per jab k (Ighlam karnay wala) baligh ho haram ho jati hai. Aur agar ighlam kerwanay wala mard ho ya ighlam kernay wala na-baligh ho tab bhi ehtiyaat e lazim ki bina par yahi hokum hai laikin agar osay guman ya shak ho k dhokool hua tha ya shak kray k dhokool hua tha ya nahi to phir wo haram nahi ho ga. laikin ighlam karnay walay ki, behan , aglam karwanay walay per haram nahi hai yani is surat me shadi ho sakte hai . (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2369). Update on dated 24-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sir mn ny bachpan mn apny cousin k sath homo sex kia tha lakin mujy yad ni k penetration hui thi ya ni r abi us Ki bhn k sath mera rishta ho gia hai to kia ye rishta halal h ya Haram? Or bchpn mn hmain ni pta tha k ye theak h ya galat... Plz mohlana sab mri rehnamai farmaye

Answer: Ighlaam|(homo-sex) karwanay walay larkay ki behn Ighlam karnay walay per jab k (Ighlam karnay wala) baligh ho haram ho jati hai. Aur agar ighlam kerwanay wala mard ho ya ighlam kernay wala na-baligh ho tab bhi ehtiyaat e lazim ki bina par yahi hokum hai laikin agar osay guman ya shak ho k dhokool hua tha ya shak kray k dhokool hua tha ya nahi to phir wo haram nahi ho ga. laikin ighlam karnay walay ki, behan , aglam karwanay walay per haram nahi hai yani is surat me shadi ho sakte hai . (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2369). Update on dated 24-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: agr koi larka ksi aur larky k sarh sex kry to iss ka kitna gunnah hai aur kia ya zina h

Answer: Lawaat(homosex) gunah e azeem hay. or ye zina nahi lainikn zina se bad tareen gunah hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael jame,Edition# 1435,Mafhoom e Maslah #2224). Update on dated 06-07-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Agr kisi larka na larka ka sath glat fahl kia to iska kaffara Kya ha Islam ma

Answer: Lawaat (iglaam/homosex) yani mard ka mard sai gaie fitri amal anjam dena, jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 461 pg # 253) iglaam|(homo-sex) karwanay walay larkay ki maa , bahn aur bati aglam karnay walay per jabke (aglam karnay wala) balig ho haram ho jatay hain. Aur agar iglam krwanay wala mard ho ya iglam krnay wala na-balig ho tab bhi ehtiyat e lazim ki bina par yahi hokum hai laikin agar osay guman ya shak ho k dhokool hua tha ya shak kray k dhokool hua tha ya nhi to phir wo haram nhi ho ga. laikin aglam karnay walay ki maa , behan , aur bati aglam karwanay walay per haram nahi he. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2369) sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). 3)Jo shaks shadi nah kerne ki wajah se haram kaam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #2407 ). Update on dated 17-11-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam .Mera question ya hay ky mera ek friend hay meri he age ka ham dono boys hn WO mujy kahta hay ky sex haram.hay lakim gay love haram.nai.hay Meny kabi sex nai kiya usky sath lkin WO.kahta hay sex ky baghr ya haram nai hy ..please mujy brain jsky vary may

Answer: Aik mard ka doosry mard ko shehwat k sath choona Jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: Minhajus saliheen, jld#3, masla#16). Update on dated 06-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: My question is lawataat main jo dakhool ka zikar hai wo dubr(anus) main hai is key elawa tou nai hai matlab dakhool tou koi kisi key Mouth (moun) main bhi kar sakata hai please jawab dijyega shukriya

Answer: Lawaat se murad kisi mard ka kisi mard k dubr (ass) mai hi dukhhol kerna hai, or ye amal gunah e kabira hay. Lawaat karwanay walay larkay ki behn Ighlam karnay walay per jab k (lawaat karnay wala) baligh ho haram ho jati hai. Aur agar lawaat kerwanay wala mard ho ya lawaat kernay wala na-baligh ho tab bhi ehtiyaat e lazim ki bina par yahi hokum hai laikin agar osay guman ya shak ho k dhokool hua tha ya shak kray k dhokool hua tha ya nahi to phir wo haram nahi ho ga. laikin lawaat karnay walay ki, behan , lawaat karwanay walay per haram nahi hai yani is surat me shadi ho sakte hai . (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2369). Update on dated 25-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Rishta hownay k kafi arsa baat pata chalay ki lawat se fael ka mafol ki behan se shadi nahe karsakta jab ke gunnah se pehlay is hukum k pata b nahe tha or kafi arsa pehlay dill se toba b keya ho or ristay k baat donun ak dosray ko eman or rouhani kamal k safar or masray ki itjimaye zimdari milkay kartay ho. donun k ak dosray k baghair rehna muskil abb namunkin h or zindagi azait or mayos hojay. Deen islam ma kisi b tarah is malay k q hal ho warna kisi or mujtahid k han is maslay k fatwa ho jo is ristay ko hal ho. bohat pareshan h is silsilay ma rehnumaye frmaya.

Answer: Lawaat ki wajah say fael(lawaat kerne wale pr mafool(jis k sath lawaat kia gaya ho) ki behen, beti or maa hamesha k liay haram ho jaati hen yeh fatwa hay lekin agar shak ho k dukhool huwa tha ya nhi to phir haram nahi hoga. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #2369). Update on dated 11-04-18. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: alam mera aik dost ighlam bazee me mubtala hy .shadi shuda hy lekin khud ko control nahi kar sakta. buhut bar toba kia lekin phir shoro karta hy. namaz parth hy lekin is kaam ke waja se dilli sukoon nahi milta aor sakht preshan hy.koi amal ya wazefa anayat farmain."

Answer: 1)Lawaat yani mard ka mard k saath ghair fitri amal(bad faili) anjaam dena jaiz nahi he or gunah e kabeera hay. (Ref : (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#29 ).

2)Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70)

3)Aap sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba).
[Updated on 31-Oct-2018 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Kia mard mard k sath sex kar sakta hai is ko kiya kahan gay agar mard mard ka munh main layta hai tou kiss zamray mmain ayay gaa..agar aisa ho jayay tou kia kufara hai..

Answer: Lawaat (iglaam/homosex) yani mard ka mard sai gaie fitri amal anjam dena, jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 461 pg # 253) iglaam|(homo-sex) karwanay walay larkay ki maa , bahn aur bati aglam karnay walay per jabke (aglam karnay wala) balig ho haram ho jatay hain. Aur agar iglam krwanay wala mard ho ya iglam krnay wala na-balig ho tab bhi ehtiyat e lazim ki bina par yahi hokum hai laikin agar osay guman ya shak ho k dhokool hua tha ya shak kray k dhokool hua tha ya nhi to phir wo haram nhi ho ga. laikin aglam karnay walay ki maa , behan , aur bati aglam karwanay walay per haram nahi he. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2369) sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). 3)Jo shaks shadi nah kerne ki wajah se haram kaam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 39th edition, maslah #2407 ).
[Updated on 17-Jan-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: I am 24 year old boy, I am sexually attracted to boys even I have never been in a relationship with any boy. My family wants me to marry but how can i ruin someone's life if I am not attarcted to her I can not give her love as a husband. Please help me get rid of being gay.

Answer: 1) Lawaat (iglaam/homosex) yani mard ka mard sai gair fitri amal anjam dena, jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 461 pg # 253)
2)Ye haraam o guhnaah e kabeera hai, or ap per shadi karna wajib hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009) , (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2407)
3)Taqwa e ilahi k zarye se is adat se nijaat hasil ki jay.or jin cheezo or maqamaat se jazbaat main tehreek (harkat) paida hoti hay un se door raha jay.or Allah e subhaan ka kasrat se zikr kia jay or shadi kerne main jaldi ki jay.or ye adat se bachne k liay ye sakht koshish ki jay or roza rakha jay q k roza burai say bachnay k liay dhal hay. (Ref: http://www.sistani.org/index.php?p=297396&id=262 ).

[Updated on 22-Apr-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: ighlam mn dakhool sy kya murad hai.

Answer: Ighlam yani kisi mard ka al tanasul (Penis) kisi dosre mard k dubr (anus) mai hi dakhil kerna hai, or ye amal gunah e kabira hay. Lawaat karwanay walay larkay ki behn Ighlam karnay walay per jab k (lawaat karnay wala) baligh ho haram ho jati hai. Aur agar lawaat kerwanay wala mard ho ya lawaat kernay wala na-baligh ho tab bhi ehtiyaat e lazim ki bina par yahi hokum hai laikin agar osay guman ya shak ho k dukhool hua tha ya shak kray k dhokool hua tha ya nahi to phir wo haram nahi ho ga. laikin lawaat karnay walay ki, behan , lawaat karwanay walay per haram nahi hai yani is surat me shadi ho sakte hai . (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2369).
[Updated on 16-Sep-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Homosexual zina, male to male. K bary mein bata dain kaya kufara hoga ? Zina k koi gawah b nahe. Allah sy kesy maafi mangy jae?

Answer: 1) Merd ka merd ko shehwat ki nigaah se daikhna jaiz nahin hay. aur merd ka merd se ghair fitri amal(homosex/ fuck)anjaam daina jiaz nahi hay. aur ye merd ka merd se bad-faili kerna gunah e kabeera hay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 460-46, (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#29 )
2)Toba karen Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea.(Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Ref: Naeem ul aamaal pg# 316). (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)
(Note: Toba ka tareeqa : sab se pehle to parvardigare aalam ki barghah me ham ne jo gunah kiye ho un par pshemani honi chahiye, us ke baad aeenda gunah na karne ka pakka irada bhi hona chahiye, is k baad tisre(3) marahel me jo gunah kiya gaya he uska azala karna bhi zaroori he aur woh is tarh se k agar namaz ko choda gaya ho to us ki qaza karni padegi aur agar kisi ko kisi qisma ka nuqsan phonchaya tha to woh nuqsan pura karna padega, agar zina kia he to us ko chorna ho ga, yeh sari batain insan k apne gunaho ki qafiyyat par he, in umoor ki anjam dahee k baad raheeem o kareem parvadigar aalam se mohammad w aale mohammad s.a.w.w. ka wasta dekar dua ki jaye to inshaAllah zaroor tauba qabool ho jayegi.)
[Updated on 28-Sep-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Sir mera ye sawal he k me larka hu lekin na chahte hue b me larkio k bjae larko ki taraf mael hota hu Meri shahwat mardo ki taraf q he? Me ek sahi mard banna chahta hu me straight banna chahta hu lekin kese me apni shahwat mardo se hata kr orto ki taraf kru

Answer: 1)Lawaat yani mard ka mard k saath ghair fitri amal(bad faili) anjaam dena jaiz nahin hai aur haram hai or gunah e kabeera hai. (Ref : (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30).
2)Is ka asaan hal ye hai k aap shadi karen aur jo kaam(yani ighlaam bazi) mard k sath kertay hain wohi kaam biwi k sath karain laikin agar biwi ki ijazat ho tu us k peechay walay maqam (anus) main intercourse kerna jaiz hai magar shaded makhrooh hay aur agar biwi ijazat nah day tu ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par jaiz nahi hay.(Ref : Masail-e-muntakhaba Ayatullah Sistani d.b., masla#70)
3)Jo insaan shadi na karne ki waja say haram kaam karta ho us par shadi karna wajib hai. (Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407).(Note: Ighlaam bazi ko chand cheezo ki taraf ghoor o fiker ker k asaani se chorha jasakta hay: number 1-Ighlam bazi gunah e kabeera hay or khuda k shaded naraz hone ka sabab hay. number 2-Khuda ko har waqt hazir o nazir jaantay hoay gunah se bachnay ki koshish ki jaay. number 3-Ighlam bazi se insaan main mukhtalif qisim ki jinsi beemariyaan paida hoti hain, jin main namerdi ki bemari bhi shamil hay.)
[Updated on 03-Oct-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: agar koi shakhas kisi larka k sath sex karta hy to wo shakhas muslim rahay ga ya nahi jab k larka hindo, sikh ya esai mazhab se taaluq rakhta hy?

Answer: Lawaat (iglaam) yani mard ka mard sai gair fitri amal anjam dena, jaiz nhi hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 461 pg # 253).(Note: lekin Lawaat (iglaam) se musalman shakhs kaafir nahin hota.)
[Updated on 03-Dec-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Agar koi 16 saal ka larka kisi 9 saal keh bache keh demagh ko behla phusla keh us keh saath zina kare toh kia woh bacha bhi gunahgaar hai keu keh us ko us larke neh razi kiya par bache ko us waqt sahi ghalat ka koi ilm nahi tha is baat ki confusion hai

Answer: Wo bacha gunahgar nahin hoga, lekin Lawaat (ighlam) se murad ye hai keh kisi mard ka kisi mard k dubr (anus) mai dukhhol kerna hai, or ye amal gunah e kabira hay. Lawaat karwanay walay larkay ki behn Ighlam karnay walay per jab k (lawaat karnay wala) baligh ho haram ho jati hai. Aur agar lawaat kerwanay wala mard ho ya lawaat kernay wala na-baligh ho tab bhi ehtiyaat e lazim ki bina par yahi hokum hai laikin agar osay guman ya shak ho k dhokool hua tha ya shak kray k dhokool hua tha ya nahi to phir wo haram nahi ho ga. laikin lawaat karnay walay ki, behan, lawaat karwanay walay per haram nahi hai yani is surat me shadi ho sakte hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani (d.b), Tauzee hul masael, Edition# 35, Mafhoom e Maslah #2369)
[Updated on 06-Dec-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: AoA , mera question hay k main ny aik jaga parha hay ki khatana gah se kaam dakhol main lawat nhi hota to kia yah sahi parha hay hay , rahnamai farmain. shkria link yah hay http://ur.imam-khomeini.ir/ur/c508_9926/

Answer: Lawat ye hota hay k aik baligh or aqil mard (yani jo pagal na ho) wo apne uzo e tanasul (penis) ko hashfe (glans penis) ki miqdaar k baraber dosre mard ki pichli sharamgaah (anus) main daakhil karay, albatta mani ka nikalna shart nahi hai. lekin agar uzo e tanasul ko hashfe ki miqdaar se kam dakhil karay to ye lawat nahin kehlaye ga.(Ref: Al-Lumatud damashqiyah, part#4, chapter kitab e hodood, pg #261,263,301)
[Updated on 02-Dec-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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