QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: Assalamu alaikum.Mere sasural me mujhe oi izzat nahi mil rahi he. Mere shohar doosre shahar me naukri karte he lekin mujhe unke parents ke saath hi rehne kehte hai.Mai mere shohar ke saath khushi se rehna chaahti hu.Mere shohar meri baat maankar m mujhe apne saath le jne ke liye koi wazifa bataiye plz. Unke bhai log apni biwi ko alag lekar chale gaye vo log bohut khush hai.Mai shohar ke bina nahi reh paa rahi hu.Mere shohar meri pareshani nai samajh pa rahe he.Unke ghar mekaam karne ke liye hi vo mujhse shaadi kiye he.Wazifa bataiye plz

Answer: 1: Miyan biwi ki ek dusray se mohabbat o ulfat k liye har namaz k bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat #7 ko 7 martaba parha karen. Is se donoo me bai-misal mohabbat qaim ho jaey gi. (Ref : kitab Naway-e- salaheen, pg # 404).
2: kisi bhi jaiz muhabbat k liay 313 mertaba ye perhiay. “yaa lateef yaa wadood” (Ref: naeemul a’amaal,pg#314).
[Updated on 24-Jun-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Mere shohar mujh se naraz hain Meri ghalti haie manti hon magar me chahti hon ka who bhol jaye or Meri taraf mayal ho jaye

Answer: Aap ko chahye k aap un sai maafi maangein.
1: Miyan biwi ki ek dusray se mohabbat o ulfat k liye har namaz k bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat #7 ko 7 martaba parha karen. Is se donoo me bai-misal mohabbat qaim ho jaey gi. (Ref : kitab Naway-e- salaheen, pg # 404).
2: kisi bhi jaiz muhabbat k liay 313 mertaba ye perhiay. “yaa lateef yaa wadood” (Ref: naeemul a’amaal,pg#314).
[Updated on 24-Jun-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalam o alaikum. Me bht pareshan hun meri shadi ko 1.5 year hgaye hain or mjy apny shohr sy chir hny lgi hai hr waqt ghussa ata hai un pr. Jb wo qareeb ayn tw me larny lg jati hun plz koi wazefa btayn k mry dil me un k lye muhabbat peda hjaye

Answer: 1: Miyan biwi ki ek dusray se mohabbat o ulfat k liye har namaz k bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat #7 ko 7 martaba parha karen. Is se donoo me bai-misal mohabbat qaim ho jaey gi. (Ref: kitab Naway-e- salaheen, pg #404).
2: Kisi bhi jaiz muhabbat k liay 313 mertaba ye perhiay. “yaa lateef yaa wadood” (Ref: naeem ul aamaal, pg #314).
[Updated on 30-Jun-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Mary biwi ghar chor k pehli bar chali gai ha huma 5 saal ho gaya han wo muj sa na milna chahti ha na bat karna chahti ha 5 saal ho gaya han ma ma boht depression ma hon hum na 5 saal saudia ma guzara han aub wo aur 2 beta b han but ma 1 month sa rabta ki koshish kar raha hon kug b nahi ho pa raha kisi na kaha jadoo ha

Answer: 1: Biwi ke liye shohar ki ijazat k baghair ghar sai bahir niklana haram hai.(Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), edition #42, maslah #2376).
2: Dua e sabsab ko jadu batil kerne ki niyat se adhi raat k baad perhna munasib hay. Ye dua bohot jaldi asar kerti hay. Insha allah agar aap k upar jaddo kia gaya hay tu aap par se jado ka asar batil ho jaey ga.
(Ref: Tohfat-ul-Awaam, pg #414).
[Updated on 30-Mar-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Quran ki ek ayat padhkar khajoor par phonkne se husband apni wife ki har baat sunne lagta hai aur usse pyaar Karne lagta hai. Mujhe is ayat ke baare mein ek aurat ne bataya tha. So please mujhe wo ayat kis pare mein hai aur wo Kya hai batahiye. Please

Answer: 1: Miyan biwi ki ek dusray se mohabbat o ulfat k liye har namaz k bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat #7 ko 7 martaba parha karen. Is se donoo me bai-misal mohabbat qaim ho jaey gi. (Ref: kitab Naway-e- salaheen, pg #404).
2: Kisi bhi jaiz muhabbat k liay 313 mertaba ye perhiay. “yaa lateef yaa wadood” (Ref: naeem ul aamaal, pg #314).
[Updated on 09-Sep-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: AS'SALAM O ALAIKUM sir mera sawal ye hy k meri shadi ko 1 saal hogaya hy jb sy shadi hui hy bs larai jhagry hi ho rhy hyn boht ziada room me ajeeb O ghareeeb cheezyn nzr ati hy awaz k sath or khuwab me bhe nzr ata hy black saya sir me SYED hun jis ki wajah sy mujh pr koi ghalat cheez ka asr nhi hua kisi sy pata krwaya tha is ka to unhone kaha k lrki SYED hone ki wajah sy bach gai jo apne ghr agai hy mere shohr ne chala kata hua hy apni bhen k lia ab hmara baby b hone wala hy or me 4 month sy apni ammi k ghr hun meri nand mere shohr ko kuch ghalat khilati or pilati bhe hy mera hasbnd mujhy alag ghr me rakhna chahta tha pr ab wo meri nand k khne pr mujhy chorna chahty hyn mujhsy baat bhe nhi krty boht si ghalat fehmiyan agai hy bech me , mere maa baap ka bolna bhe unhy psnd nhi arha me kia krun plz btayen..

Answer: 1: Koshish ki jaye ke ayse kamon ko anjam diya jaye jis se dubara shohar aur biwi ke darmiyan taluqat behtar ho jayen.
2: Miyan, biwi ki aik dusray se mohabbat o ulfat ke liye har namaz ke bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat #7 ko 7 martaba parha karen. Is se donon me be-misaal mohabbat qaim ho jaye gi. aur haalaat behtar ho jayen ge.
3: Khandan main ittefaq ke liye wazifa: Agar kisi khandan me kisi wajh se na ittefaqi paida ho gayei ho to apas me ittefaq paida karnay ke liye har namaz ke bad rozana 11 martaba surah e anfal ki ayat #63 (wa allafa baina. . . . . . . .. . hakeem) ko parhen.
(Ref: kitab Naway-e- saleheen, pg #404. + Naeem ul Aamaal, pg #363,364)
[Updated on 10-Aug-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Mein apni biwi se interest khatm gyi hai baat karne ka dil nahi karta or Pyar bhi nhi hota Kiya karo jisse mein apni biwi se Pyar karne lagu

Answer: Is ke liye aap in do wazaaif ko anjaam dain.
1: Mian biwi ki aik dusray se mohabbat o ulfat ke liye har namaz ke bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat #7 ko 7 martaba parha karain. Is se dono me be-misal mohabbat qaim ho jaye gi.
2: Kisi bhi jaiz muhabbat ke liye 213 martaba “yaa lateefo yaa wadoodo” (یَا لَطِیْفُ یَا وَدُوْدُ) parhen.

(Ref: kitab Naway Saleheen, pg #404. + Naeem ul amaal, pg #311).
[Updated on 18-Jul-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Molana Sahab m bht pareshan hun mere shohar or m hamri shadi ko do sal ho gye h abhi tak ham hambistri ni kr paye so or m ham dono bilkul thk hain PR pata ni q hambistri ni ho pari plz mujhy kchw btyae wazeefa ya dua

Answer: Wazifa; Miyan biwi ki aik dusray se mohabbat o ulfat ke liye har namaz ke bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat #7 ko 7 martaba parha karain. Is se dono me bai-misal mohabbat qaim ho jaye gi.
Albatta wazifay ke sath sath aap do sharaei maslon ki mutawajeh kiya jata hai.
1: Biwi ke liye zaroori or wajib hai ke jab bhi shohar jinsi lazzatain haasil karna chahay to us ki khuwahish poori kare aur sharaei uzr(reason periods e.t.c..) ke baghair biwi, shohar ko hambistari se nahin rok sakti. balke biwi ka apne shohar ko hambistri se mana karna Haram hai. Haan shohar ki razamandi se taakheer (late) karna jaiz hai.

2: Shohar apni jawaan biwi se chaar mahine se ziyada muddat ke liye hambistari tark nahin kar sakta (yani chaar mahinon me aik baar hambistri karna wajib hai agar nahin kare ga to wo gunahgar hoga) magar ye ke hambistari karna biwi ke liye nuqsandeh ya buhut ziyada takleef ka sabab ho ya us ki biwi khud chaar mahine se ziyada muddat ke liye hambistari tark karne par raazi ho ya shadi karte waqt nikah ke zimin mein chaar mahine se ziyada muddat ke liye hambistari tark karne ki shart rakhi gayei ho. Aur is hukum mein ehtayat-e-waajib ki bina par shohar ke maujood hone ya musaafir hone mein koi farq nahin hai is liye ehtayat-e-waajib ki bina par ye jaiz nahin ke ghair zaroori safar ko baghair kisi uzr ya aurat ki razamandi ke baghair chaar maah se ziyada tool diya jaaye.

(Ref: Kitab Naway e saliheen, pg #404. + Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), edition #42, maslah #2376,2382).
[Updated on 19-Jul-2023:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Sir mera ye sawal hai k ek larki hay mery saath school mein parti thi lekin hum baat nayi karty thy per ab hum chatting karty hain or dost hain or hum ek dusrey k baarey mein galat nayi sochty hain or mein ek larka hun or meri niyat us sey nikah ki hay .agar baat nayi karunga to nikah karna us sey mushkil hoga kyu. K abhi 3,4 saal tak shaadi nai karsakta or na he rishta bhej sakta hun kyu k hum kuch khaas financially strong nayi hain .ab ap bataein kya kiya jay

Answer: Na-mehram se is aitebaar se dosti karna ke ye piyar o muhabat ban jaye aur phir is se shadi kar lenge to ye jaiz nahin, Q ke jins e mukhalif se is had tak dosti ka izhaar karna ke us se kaha jaye ke mujhe tum se mohabbat hai ye kam jaiz hi nahin hai, (yani na mehram se muhabat karna jaiz nahin hai), Q ke ghunah men mubtela hone ka khauf maujood hai, balke kisi na mehram se dosti karna hi Jaiz nahin hai. Albatta Islam pasand ki shadi ki ijazat deta hai lehaaza is aitebaar se aap ziyada se ziyada apne ya un ke ghar walon ke zariye aik doosre ke ghar rishte ka paigham bhej sakte hain aur dua kar sakte hain.

(Ref: http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01845/ + Nigah aur libas sawal #106, pg #69).
[Updated on 19-Jan-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Aslam o alikum Mera sawal ye hai k Meri shadi ko 8 Sal ho gay hain 2 Bachy b hain ro ro k 8 Sal guzar gay mere shohar ka Meri tart rujhan ni hai wo mere mounh py Mujhe galliyan daity hain or Marty b hain bhttt pehly Mujhe pass and karty thy Lkn Meri sass or nand kala jadu karti hain unhon ny dil badzan kar diya hai mere shohar ka mujh sy wo Mujhe daikhna pasand ni karty or azdwaji taluq b Qaim nahin karty kuch aesa wazeefa deejye k mera shohar Mujhe passand kary. Shukria

Answer: Wazifa Bivi or shohar k dermiyaan muhabbat k liay: Agar bivi or shohar main iktilaaf hay or dono ki aapas main muhabbat nahi hay tu sorah rome ki ayat # 21 ko musalsal 3 din tak 99 mertabah(99 times) kisi mithaas per dam ker k khilaa dain.tu insah allah ikhtilaaf door hojaay ga or dono main muhabbat paida hogi.(Ref: naeemul a’amaal,pg#640-341)
2) Kisi bhi jaiz muhabbat k liay 313 mertaba ye perhiay. “yaa lateef yaa wadood”(Ref: naeemul a’amaal,pg#314).
[Updated on 07-Mar-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Mera husband ka mera saath relation ni ha 3 saal se koi wazifa btyain

Answer: Mian biwi ki aik doosray se mohabbat o ulfat k lie har namaz k bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat 7 ko 7 martaba parha karain is se donoo me bai misal mohabbat qaim ho jay gi (Ref: kitab naway salaheen, pg#404).
[Updated on 29-Jan-2024:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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