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Question: meri shadi meri aur meri wife ki marzi se hwi hai lekin hum donoo ek dosre se khush nahin hain lekin mein phir bhi saree umar us ke sath rehna chahta hoo lekin woh mere sath rahna pasand nahi karti woh kehti hai ke apne maa bap ko choor doo ya mujhe mujhe kya karna chahyee

Answer: Salam-un-alaikum
Yaha sirf fiqhi sawalat key jawabat diey jatey hian.

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Question: agar husaband wife ka nan-o-nafqa na de aur woh us ko talaq bhi na de laikin wife talaq chahti hai tuo kya kar sakte hain

Answer: Salam un alaikum,
Aap Aqai Sistani key kisee aisay vakil sey rujoo karein jin key paas talaq dainay kee ijazat ho.

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Question: ek bivi ka shoher lapatta hogeya hai aur iski bivi kaee saaloon se iska intazzar ker rahi hai,jabkeh iske 4 aur 5 saal ke bache bhi hain aur gher ki zimmadaria bhi hain . kia woh aurat doosari shadi ker sakti hai ya nahain? sharaee toar se woh kitne saal tak intazzar ker sakti hai

Answer: Jis aurat ka shohar lapata ho jaye agr wo dosra shohar karna chahe to zarori hai k mujtahid aadil se ruju kre take wo (halat ka jaiza lekr) is ke masle ko hal kare.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani d.b,Tauzeehul masael ,Mafhoom e maslah # 2504). Update on dated 04-08-2015. (Khuda apko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: bivi se humbistri ka tarika

Answer: Shohar ko chahiay k jima se pehlay masaas(orgasm) kare, yaad rakhna chaiay k masaas or dastbaazi k is amal main merd khososi tawajjah rakhe, yani wo piyaar o muhabbat ki baato k sath sath aurat ko good main lay , boos o kinaar kare, pistano(brest) ki niple ko masle, pistano ko dhere dhere dabae,honto ya zabaan ko ahista ahista chosay, baghal, guddi, raan waghera main ungliyaan phere, sharamgaah k ander ungli dakhil ker k halke hlake harkat day , apna uzo e tanasul(penis) aurat k hath main day takeh wo ose dhere dhere dabae or inteshaar(yani uzu e tanasul main tanao) paida hone per apne jazbaat or khahishaat ko os waqt tak qabo main rakhe jab tak aurat ki saansain ukharhni nah shuru ho jain, is k baad jab jima shuru kia jaay tu jab jima k doran aurat k munzil hone (discharge) k bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baytabana harakaat karay, merd se chumtay, liptay, apne hatho ya taango se merd ko kas ker daba,ay. Tab merd bhi jaldi jaldi dkhool(inserting of penis) or ikhraaj(emiting of penis) ker k farigh ho jaay, agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haatho ya taango se merd ko kas k daba rahi ho takeh merd alag nah ho tu merd ko chahiay k is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul(penis) ko aurat ki sahramgaah se bahar nah nikalay jab tak k aurat munzil nah hojaay, phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal ker merd aahistagi se aurat se alag hojaay. ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref:Islam or jinsiyaat, mu,allif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg#150-151). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: my husband dont care and love me. or muj se sex b nai karta. o mj se bht nafrat karta hy.plz tell me some wazifa. thanks

Answer: 1)Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota). Update on dated 14-12-2015. (tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382). 2)Mian biwi ki aik doosray se mohabbat o ulfat k lie har namaz k bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat # 7 ko 7 martaba parha karain. Is se danoo me be’misal mohabbat qaim ho jay gi. (ref : kitab naway salaheen pg # 404). Update on dated 14-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya shohar apna zakar biwe ko moon mai di saktha islam mai y hara hai ya nahe.

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Update on dated 14-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Salam, meri wife ne apne maa baap ko bewaqof banane ke liay un ki marzi se shadi kr li per shadi ke 1 mahene baad hi baap ke ghar chali gai bemari ka bahana bna kr hum sab yahi samjhe ke waqai may bemar hay per aisa kch nahi hay us ke baap ne or may ne bi us ki bemari ki wajeh se us ko us ke baap ke ghar kch din rehne ki ijazat de di.us ka baap kuwait may job krte hain jis ki wajeh se un ko shadi ke 1 mahene baad wapis jana per gaya un ke kuwait jate hi meri biwi bilkul thik thak ghoomne phirne lagi jaise kabhi bemar hui he na hooo.baad may hum per haqiqat khuli ke ye sab drama tha.ab wo talaq mang rhi hay per may talaq dena nahi chahta or us ke maa baap bi nahi chahte ke talaq dun.kia may by force (zabardasti)thora pressure laga ke us ko ghar la sakta hun.is may us ke maa baap bi razi hon too.

Answer: jis aurat ka daimi nikah ho jay is k lie haram he k sohar ki ijazat k begair ghar se bahir nikle chahae is ka nikalna sohar k haq k manafi nab hi ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2376). Update on dated 14-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mubasret ke waqat apni auret ki saramgah ko agar kiss kar le to plz reple

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay (Ref:Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Janab salaam alaikum kya hum apni biwi ki sharamgah ko dekh ke sex kar saktein hai aur usko suck kar saktein us dauraan jab hum bacche ke liye sex kar rahe ho plz reply soon plz, khuda hafiz

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: - ma ya pochna chati hon k aurat kunwari ya shad shuda job kar sakete ha or kia use karne chaya -ma na ap se pehle bhi sawal pocha tha magar jawab nahi mila, sawal ya ha k mare husband aksar muje ya bachon ko dante ha ya ma bhi late han, ma un ki dant ya marne par bhi khamoosh rehte hon to kia muje khamoosh rehna chaye ya amar bil maroof nahi anal munkir ke ehkam wife or bacho par bhi ho te ha maslan agar aik aurat apne shohar ki izat na kare ya bad tameeze kar , ya bache apne walid ya walda se bad tameezi karen to kia shohar apni wife par or walden bachon par aml bil maroof or nahi anal munkir ka process istemal kar sakete han . yani pehle samjhain or phir sakhte karen ya physical punishment den

Answer: Shadi shuda orat shohar ki ijazat ke bageer ghar se bahar nahi nikal sakti. To agr apk shohr apko job krne k hawale se mana kren to apka ka bahir jakr mana krna jaiz nahi hai. (Ref:Mujtahid se poche gaae sawalaat, Part # 4, masala # 145). Kunwari larki ager job karna chahe to ager shari parde ka khayal rakhe or lazat ka irada or guhnah men mubtala hone ka koof bhi na ho to is ke job karne main koi harj nahi hai. Note Agr oraten is qism ki jaghon pr kam karna chahen to inhen sharai parde ke elawa apne chehre ka make-up karne se bhi perhez karna hoga. (Ref : Sawalaat or jawaabaat, jild #1, masala #98) Behtar hoga ke apne or apne shohar ke bahimi taalluqaat ke masale ke liye aqaae sistani ke wakeel se baat cheet karye. (Ref: jaded fiqhi masail, masala # 413) Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia bivi ke vagina chosna jaiz ha aur bivi pennis suck kar skte ha

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaey. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istifta from eanswers@najaf .org). Update on dated 24-02-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: what is the right of husband on their wife.

Answer: Aurat kay hoqooq mai sai aik ye hai k mard osay azeyat(ﺍﺬﻴﺖ) na pouchaye aur kisi shari wajah k bagair is k sath sakhti aur narazgi sai pesh na aye aur uski rihaish,giza,libaas aur zindagi ke baqi zaroriyaat ka intezaam shohar par wajib hai (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2376). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Kya dusri shadi k liye pehli bivi ki ijazat lena zaruri hy?

Answer: Musalmaan ek wqt men 4 muslim ortoon se shadi kar sakta hai, aur in main se kisi se shadi karne ke liye biwi se ijaazat lene ki zaroorat nahi hai, s (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 200). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: can we commit mutaa with a prostitute; what will be the procedure

Answer: All condition which is in nikah that is in mutaa because it is also nikha except in muta the time and mehar are known between the boy and girl. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2334 , 2335 to 2344). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: kia apni bivi k sath us k pechy ki sharm gaha mein hmbistry krna jaiz hei?

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jima kerna biwi k raazi na hone ki sorat men ethiyaat e wajib ki bina pr haram hai, agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hai lekin shadeed makrooh hai. Aur is sai nikah batil nhi hota hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: jab bevi ke sath hambistare ke wakht ke ayat sed karye pliz

Answer: Hambistari ki dua: Mustahabb hai k hambistari say pehlay apna haath biwi ki peishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay aur ye dua perhay: ﺍﻠﻠﻬﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻛﺘﺎﺑﻙ ﺘﺰﻮﺠﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﻔﻰ ﺍﻤﺎﻨﺘﻙ ﺍﺨﺬﺘﻬﺎ ﻮ ﺑﻛﻠﻤﺎﺘﻙ ﺍﺴﺘﺤﻠﻠﺖ ﻔﺮﺠﻬﺎ ﻔﺎﻦ ﻘﻀﻴﺖ ﻠﻰ ﻔﻰ ﺮﺤﻤﻬﺎ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻔﺎﺟﻌﻠﻪ ﻤﺴﻠﻤﺎ ﺴﻮﻴﺎ ﻮ ﻻﺘﺠﻌﻠﻪ ﺸﺮﻚ ﺍﻠﺸﻴﻄﺎﻦ (“Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan”) (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3,maslah # 4). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kiya pechey se sex karna jaiz he tafseel se bataye

Answer: Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay). (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67) (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition,masla#135). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salaam. meri marzi ke khalaf shadi hui thi 21 ki umar mai. or mere husband mujhe har tarha se dukh pohanchata tha or muj par ilzam lagata tha ke mai jadugarni hun or mai sab ghar valo par jadu karti hun. or usne apni taraf se kahin se kuch karva ke kisi cheez ke nichay dab deta tha. ye har roz ka kam tha . phir har wakat muj par thokna mere khane mai thokna mere kam ka nuksan karna. mujhe bura bhla kehna. mere dil ko har tarha se takleef deta tha or ghar vale us ki bat ka yakeen karte thay. or mai khamosh rehti thi 5 wakat namaz ki paband thi or kabhi ghar se bahir ney nikalti thi. ghar ka sara kam kaj me khud karti thi. mere dukh mai koi kam ney ata tha. mene bohut sabar kiya magar mere husband ne mera jeena dushwar kar diya. phir mai use chor kar uk mai wapas agai. mere pas ek beti bhi hai. mene talaq mangi magar mujhe talaq ney di. ab aj 11 sal hochuke hai. tab se apni bchi ke sath rehti hun. mai apne wakeel se talaq ke kagaz usko bhej diye thay. magar islamic talaq ney mili. mai pakistan mai uske sath ek sal tak rahi hun. mene kabi koi galat kam ney kiya magar mujhe soch ajati hai ke itne sal akeli ne guzar diye. koi acha larka mil jaye me shadi karlun. ese mujse koi gunah ney hoga. mai sabar shukar se ghar mai rehti hun. magar mera nafs chahta hai k mai talaq le kar kisi achay larke se shadi karne ka irada hai. mujhe ney pata ke mujhe islamicly talaq hogai hai ya nahi. magar english divorse mil gai hai. mere dil ko tasali ney hai. mene is safa par paha k talaq ney lesakte mard se. phir me sochti hun ke vo chahe kesa bhi ho. ham jesi aurton ki koi kimat hi ney jese koi pau ka juta hai hum. mera dil or bhi dukhi hojata hai. ab aap plz mujhe btaian mai kya karun. ? mere talaq hogai hai. kya mai phis se shadi kar sakti hun? dobara shadi karna gunah hai?

Answer: Ye talaq sahi hi hai q k talaaq ki chand shartain hain jin ki pabandi nah ki jae to talaaq nahi hoti.or Jab tak shohr talaq na de tab tk na court ka talaq ki koi ehmiyat hai or na hi iddat rakhna faida mand ho sakta hai. Agar shohar apne biwi ko iziyat de aur beghair kise shari jawaz k is per tashadud kare to biwi apna muaamla le kar hakim shara( mujtahid) ki taraf ruju kar sakte hai ta ke hakim shara( mujtahid) is k shoar ko husne solooq karne ka hokum de aur agar is ka koi faida na ho to apne sawabdeed k mutabiq use sarzanish kare or agr is se bhi koi faida na ho to biwi talaq ka mutalba karsakte hai. agar shohar talaq dene se inkar karde or ise talaq per majboor na kiya jaske to hakime shara( mujtahid) apne ikhteyaraat istemal karke is ka sigha talaq jari karsakta hai. (Ref : AqaI sistani (d.b),Jadeed Fiqhi Masail, Maslaa # 413, pg # 237, 5th Edition). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kiya biwi ko peechay se krnay se nikah tootta hai ya nai.aap nay kaha ye makroo hai kiya iss se nikha toot jata hai

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay aur is sai nikah batil nhi hota hai (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail-e-mutakhaba, maslah # 67) (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail,33rd Edition,maslah # 2335). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: ASALAM ALAIKUM MOLVI SAHAB MERI SHAADI KO EIGHT MONTHS HO GAI HAIN ABHI TAK AZDAWAJI ZINDAGI SAHI SAI HURO NAHIN HUWI KIYA HUM MIAN BIWI HAIN ISLAM KYA KEHTA HAI

Answer: Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari biwi ke liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail,33rd Edition,maslah #2382). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Have passed 5 years of marriage, husband has a mother who is bit hard and does not accept me nor our daughter to stay with them, husband in loyalty lives with mother and we both have to stay at parents or own place even husband does not allow us to stay at our seperate place seeking security reason which is not real cause, causually comes to meet both of us and stay for some time and go back. He does not want to understand that the two of us are also his responsibility in terms of our relationship, on his persuation have stayed at mother place several times but every time have been kicked out . Can u pls advise what is husband responsibility and how should he divide himself so can serve and balance both the family and mother . Allah hafiz

Answer: Biwi ki ghiza, libaas, rehaish or zindagi ki baqi zaruriyat ka intazam shohr pr wajib hai or agr ye chizen shohar na de to chahe jan bojh kr na de ya de hi na sakta ho har surat men wo biwi ka maqrooz hai or isi tarh orat k huooq men se ek ye bhi hai k mard use azziyat(takleef) na pohnchaye or kisi sharee waja k bger us k sath sakhti or tursh rawi se pesh na aye. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition,masla#2376). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya biwi k peeche dal sakty hy aur kya biwi ok apna peshab pehla sakty hay aur uska white jo nikalta hay pela sakty hy

Answer: Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67) Rahi bat peshab ya orat ki us ratoobat jis ki taraf apka ishara hai to wo peena ya pilana haram hai q k ye najis hen or nijasat ko khana peena ya kisi dusre ko khilana pilana haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition,masla#135). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: janab kea hum jis larki se shahdi karte hen os ka ager pehli rat blood nh nekalta ya ose koi taqlef nh koi b hoti tu tafsel se plz baten ke kea wo larki pehle kuch karwa choki ha tafselan baten

Answer: Jee nahi ye zaruri nahi hai, q k baaz oraton ka parda-e-bakarat(seal) sakht hota hai or baaz ka naram hota hai, is liye ye zaruri nahi hai k fucking(jimaa) se hi parda-e-bakarat phate balke ye mumkin hai k fucking se pehle hi orat k kisi amal(kam) misal kahain se jump marne ya kisi or ayse amal ki waja se parda phat jaye, lehaza ye zaruri nahi hai k yehi nateeja nikala jaye k is oarat se pehle yehi kam sarzad hua hai jis ki waja se blood nahi nikal raha ya dard nahi horaha. (Ref:Email Recive From www.sistani.org site of Aqai Ssitani d.b). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: apni bivi ka dod pi saktay hai

Answer: Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) kar sakta hay lekin shohar biwi ki breast ko suck karey aur moohn mai doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh na piya jay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: ASALAM O ALAIKUM MERA SAWAL YE HAI K MERI EK DOST HAY LARKI AGAR WO POCH RAHE HO TO MAIN OS SAY SEX K BARE MAIN BATARA HOO CHUPAY ALFAZO MAIN OR SHAARIYAN WAY MAI TO KIA YE SAHE HAI YAA GALAAT.. OR 2.AGAAR PHONE SEX K BARE MAIN BAT KARE TOO YANI POCHE TO KIA HAI YE Q HAI YE BAAAT KARNA SAHE HAI YA GALAT...???? JULDI BATA YE GA KHUDA HAFIZ

Answer: Khilwat kay Maqaam par agar Mulaqaat na hoto is surat me jaiz hai jub insaan in tamaam Cheezon se door ho jin ke hotay howe haraam me parhnay ka khauf ho sakta hai. Jub ke aurat ke sath khilwat me jana sirf isi surat me jaiz hai jub haraam me na honay ka pura itminaan ho koi aesi baat phone par aurat se na ki ja rahe ho jis ka kisi ajnabi ke sath kiya jana munasib nah ho).
( Ref:Mujtahid se Pochay Gaye Sawalaat part#4 page#65-66). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kyw biwi ki pakhana ki side say b shohar sex kar sakta hoa or bewi ka doodh pe sakta hay??

Answer: 1) Shohar or bivi k liay jaiz hay k wo aik dosray k jism k tamaam hisso(parts) ko jism k kisi bhi hissay(part) say choo(touch) saktay hain.ye choona chaahay lazzat k iraday say ho ya baghair lazzat k, jaiz hay). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaa jus saliheen,maslah #11). 2)Ehtiyaat Wajib ye hay k bivi ka doodh nai piya jay(yaani Halaq say neechay nai utara jaay) (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf.org) , 3) Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: A O A kaya shoher aur bivi aik dosary ki sharam gah ko chat choos sakty hain plz reply

Answer: Sohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgah sai niklnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Update on dated 04-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya husband apni wife ka dood pee sakta hai bacha peda honey sy phale aur sugah reat ko sex karna luzmy hota haiplz reply your answer

Answer: Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) kar sakta hai, lekin agr shohar biwi ki breast ko suck Karen or moo men doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyaat wajib ye hai k biwi ka doodh na piya jaye ). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) shadi ki raat ko humbistri karna lazim nahe Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liye hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota). (tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sallam maraa yai sawal hai k ager koi apny biwi clit ko suck karta hai tu yai kia jaiz hai

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaey. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istifta from eanswers@najaf .org). Update on dated 24-02-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Aslam-o-alikum.Sir i want to ask some wazifa for aulad.Meri shadi ko 3 years ho gye hein and aik bar b pregnancy nhn hui.Mene bhut ilaj krwaya he and wazifa b surah-e-mariyam ka krti hon.Plz help me.

Answer: Agar koe shakhs laa aualad ho un k aulad nah hoti ho aur agar wo chahta ho k is ko naik aur aziz aulad ata ho to is k liay chahiay k wo mussalsal 3 din roza rakhay aur har raat sonay se pahley 21 bar surah e al furqaan ki ayat no 74 (wal’lazeena . . . . .imaa’maa) ko parhey. Aur Allaha say apni haajat talab karay aur so jaayy. Har mahinay(month) me aik bar kar lia jaay. (ref : kitab naeem ul aamal pg #331). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia aik mard ghair mahrum aurat ko dekh sakta hai?aur kia aurat ka chery aur hathon ka bhi parda hai?

Answer: Na mehram aurat ka jism dekhna aur isi terah in k baloo ko dekhna chahae lazzat k iraday sai ho ya is k bagair, haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho ya na ho, haram hai.in k chere per nigha dalna aur hatho ko kalayo tak dekhena agar laszat k irade se ho ya haram me mubtela hone ka khof ho to haram hai balke ehteyate mustahab(is ehteyate per amal karna wajib nahe hai) ye hai k laszat k irade k beghair aur haram me mubtela hone ka khof na ho tb bhi na dekhe .,aurat ko caheay k sar k baal aur apna tamaam badan na-mehram mard sai chupay laikin na-mehram mard k samnay chahra aur kalaion tk hath khulay rakh saklti hai leikin is surat mai haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho ya kise mard ko hath aur chehra dekhana haram mai mubtila krnay k iraday sai ho to in donoo suratoo mai in ko chupana wajib ahi. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah #2397, 2399) Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Asa, aga sahab yeh malum karna hai k mera 6 mahinay pehlay nikha h0wa hai aur rukhsati uthanay main hamain ubi kuch arsa baqi hai to kya main apni wife kay saath sexual relation rakh sakta hun? Plz reply thanks and iltemas e dua

Answer: Agr yehi riwaaj ho ke jab tak rukhsati nahi hoti us waqt tak larki apne ap ko apne shohar ke liye pesh nahi karti, is tarah se ke is bat ko goya ik zimni shart samjha jata ho to phir us larki ke liye apne ap ko ap ke samne peesh karna wajib nahi hai. (Ref: Mujtaid se puchhe gaye sawalat, Part#4, 2nd Eddition, Ques#149, pg#72) Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: 1)kia yeh zarori hai k shadi ki pehli rat biwi se hum bistari ki jaey? agar koi kitab iss hawale se ho to bataiyyay. 2)asar ki namaz ka waqt kab qaza hota hai?

Answer: 1- Zarori nahi, albatta shohar apni jawaan bivi se 4 mahine se ziyada muddat ke liye hambistari krna chhore nahi sakta, han Agr biwi khud 4 mahine sai ziyada muddat k lie hambistari chorne par razi ho to koi masla nahi hai. 2- Zohar o Asar ki namaaz ka waqt zawaal e aaftaab(suraj) ke baad se gooroob e aaftaab tak hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2382,718). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: 1)Islam mey sahi tarika MUBASHIRAT kay hai? 2)Gusul ka sahi tarika kay hey ?

Answer: 1- Is ke liye ap ko kitab-e-tahzeeb-ul-islam ya phir islam or jinsiyat ka mutala kren. 2- Tarteebi ghusl men Ehtiyat-e-lazim ki bin pr ghusl ki niyat ks ath pehle sar-o-gardan or bad men badn dhona zaruri hai behtr ye hai k pehle daaen(right) tarf or bad men baaen(left) tarf se dhoe). (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, masla # 360). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mera swal ye hai k ap ky mutabik mard apni bv or bv apny mard yani sohar ki shram gah ko chom sakti hai ya sakta hai .or ap k mutabik pichy sy kia ja sakta hai .TO KIA IS K MUTALK KOI HADEES HAI .YA QURAN E MAJEED SY WAZAHAT KI GAI HIA.PLZ ANS ME SOON...HADEES KA OR QURAN KA HAWALA DIJEEY GA TA K BEHTAR REHNOMAI HO SAKY.THANX

Answer: Shohar or biwi ek dusre ki sharamgah ko monh(mouth) laga sakte hen, mgr ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian na jaye). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari krna biwi k razi na hoe ki sorat men ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per hram hay, agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(d.b) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: ASSALAMUALIKUM G MERA YE MASLA HAI K MERA KAM YANI MERI MONY BOHT JLDI KHARIJ HO JATI HAI YE KYA MASLA HAI AR IS KA HUL KYA PLZ MUJHE BOHT ZAROORI BATA EIYE GA OK.

Answer: Answer jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os ko chahae k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (Ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54 )Note: agr mard jaldi munzil ho jata ho to jab mard ko lazat mehsoos ho to wo apne khayalaat ko banten or agr mani apni jigha sai harkat kar chuki ho to sans roke take mani ruk jaye or inzal na ho. Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Qibla ma na pehlay be sawal ki atha lakin us ka tafseely or tasaly baksh jawab nahi aya ma ya jana cahata hoon ka agur lari ke shadi ka baad bleeding nahi hoti to aya wo larki kirdar ke shai ha ya nahi

Answer: Shadi ki pehli raat aurat ko khoon ana zaroori nahi hai. q k ho sakta hai k wo aurat kisi accident(ya phir kisi or ayse amal jese jumping wgera) ki wajah sai apna kunwara pan khatm kar chuki ho. Lehaza ye zauri nahi hai k orat k kirdar ko is bat ka sabab qrar diya jaye). (Ref : Email receive from Ayat-ullaha Sistani (d.b). dated : April 21, 2011).. Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mera ye sawal hai k mera ab new shadi hony wali hai to plz mujy shadi ki pehli rat k bary mai batay k mai kia kia karoga jis se Allah b razi ho or muje bacha b naseeb hojay plz helpme w.salam

Answer: 1)Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hai k jima k waqt mustahab hai k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon, or jima chand oqaat krna makrooh h un men se kuch ye hen 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona, 2. zawal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumeraat k din k, 3.groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona, 4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima krna, 5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay, 6.islami mahine ki pehli tarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)men , 7.islami mahine ki darmiyani or aakri tareekh men jima kerna, 8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna, 9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna, 10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna, 11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamg ko dekhna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya first night me biwi k sath hambister hono k lye condomka istemal karen to waleema jaise hai ya nahi? Ek sawal ye k shadi se pahle us ladki k sath jisse shadi hogi hambister hona jaise hai ?

Answer: Ehtiyat-e-wajib ya hai k ( condom ) istemal karne se phele sohar apni biwi se ijazat le. (Ref : Jadeed Fiqhi masail, Ayatullah Sistani (d.b),Masla 46, pg # 254). Update on dated 05-12-2015. ( Shab e zafaf se pehlay ya bad me valima karna mustahab he. Islam ne 5 maqamaat per valima kerna mustahab qaraar diya gaya hai jin men se ek ye valima bhi hay.valimay se pehlay jima kerna zarori nahi hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 4, 388). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: me shadi shoda ho or mri wife abe abe pregnant howi h kya me ab os k sath shuhagrat mana saktha ho k nai

Answer: Biwi k haamla hone ki surat me jima (intercourse) se phele khaas tour se wuzu karna mustahab hai (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 )
Note: Hum aap say guzarish kertay hain k aap is silsilay main apni bivi k lady doctor say ruju karain or on ki batae hoe ehtiyaat per amal karain. Q k bohot mumkin hay k bey-ehtiyaat i se jima kerne se kaheen pait k taankay khul nah jain. Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kaya biwi ke pechli sharm ga main mubashrat kar sakty hain or 1 2sry ke sharmga chom or chos sakty hain

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-Masail E Mutakhaba, maslah # 67) Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian na jaye). (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia waleema se pehle jamaa zaruri he?

Answer: Jee nahi zaruri nahi hai). (Ref : Minhaj_us_salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 4, 388).. Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam.....mera swal yeh hai k suhag rat ko niyyat krny k bad sab sy pehla kam kya krna hai?matlb yh hai k biwi ko sex krny k liye kasy raazi krna hai?or kya hum us k boobs ko suhag rat ko choos sakty hain?or kya hum kisi bhi waqt us k boobs ko choos sakty hain?agr woh boobs choosny sy mnah kry to kya krna ho ga?or kya mani us k andar girani hai yani bacha dani main girani hai?

Answer: Orat k liye zaruri hai k jab bhi uska shohar jinsi lazzat(sex) hasil krna chahe to us ki khwahish puri kre jab tk koi shara`ee waja na ho tab tak wo apne shohar ko hambistry(sex) krne se na roke. (Ref : Ayat_ullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeeh_ul_Masail, 33th Eddition, Masla #2376) Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) kar sakta hay,(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia bivi razi ho to us ki dono sharm gahen istmal kar saty han

Answer: Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hai). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Kya suhag ratt chout say khoon niklna jaruri hai jekar na nikle to

Answer: Jee nahi ye zaruri nahi hai, q k baaz oraton ka parda-e-bakarat sakht hota hai or baaz ka naram hota hai, is liye ye zaruri nahi hai k fucking se hi parda-e-bakarat phate balke ye mumkin hai k fucking se pehle hi orat k kisi amal misal kahain se jump marne ya kisi or ayse amal ki waja se parda phat jaye, lehaza ye zaruri nahi hai k yehi nateeja nikala jaye k is oarat se pehle yehi kam sarzad hua hai jis ki waja se blood nahi nikal raha. (Ref:Email Recive From www.sistani.org site of Aqai Ssitani d.b). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Bivi ka dood agar halaq ke andar chala jaye. Ya shohar apni biwi ka dood pina chaye to kya hai sahi hai?

Answer: Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) sakta hai, lekin agr shohar biwi ke breast ko suck kare aur moo men doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh na piya jaye . (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b)-E-Mail from Answers@najaf.org). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey). .

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Question: kiya ap kasi hadees ya koi isi iyat say bata saktay hai kay kiya ik wife apnay husband ki penis ko chaat sakti hai

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia mian bivi nangay badan apnay ooper bara kapra dal k hambistary kar saktay hain?

Answer: Jee han Jaiz hai, lekin nange humbistery karna makrooh hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 5 eidition 4 ).. Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: ASLAMUALIKUM HAFIZ SAB KIA HAIZ KI SOORAT MAIN HAMBISTARY HONA CHAEA

Answer: 1)Haiz k ayyaam (days) main aurat (women) ki farj mein jima karna mard aur aurat dono k liay haram hai, chahay dukhool sirf supari(paishab ki nali ka shuru ka ibtadai hissa) ki had tk hi ho or mani bhi kharij na ho, balke ehtiyaat-e-wajib ye hai k supari se kam miqdar main bhi dukhool na kia jae. Albetta ye hukum aurat sai dubr(pheche ki sharam gha) mai jima k lie nhi hai laikin dubr mai jima, aurat k razi na honay ki surat mai ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par jaiz nhi hai chahae wo haa’iz k din hon ya na hon. 2)Wo aurat jo haiz ki halat mai ho os sai jima k alawa doosri lutf-andozio maslan bos-o-kinar ki mumaneat nhi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448-451 eidition31). Update on dated 05-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: wife apna husbend ka penis choos saktha hai ya nahi

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaey. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istifta from eanswers@najaf .org). Update on dated 24-02-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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