QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: ASSALAMUALAIKUM, AGAR KOI SHAKS ZINA KARNE KE BAAD USE AFSOS HO JAYE AUR WO TOUBA KARE THO KYA USKI GUNAH MAAF HOTHI HAI YA PHIR GUNAH MAAF HONE KE LIYE KYA KARNA CHAHIYE?

Answer: Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: shadi sy phly agr condom k sath sex kray to kia ye zina kehlay ga ???

Answer: Jee han ye zina hai aur agar jis shakhs nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is k lie ehtiyat e wajib ye hai k wo os aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Agar koi muslim mard ek non-muslim larki se bina shadi ke raat gujare aur phir baad mein gharwaloon ke pressure mein aake ush non-meslim larki ko chhorke bhag jaye aur gharwaloon ke pressure mein aake apni cousin se shadi karey toh kya woh larka gunehgar hain? kya unhy Alaah maaf kar dengey? aur ush laki ka kya jiski zindagi tabah ho gayi ush larky k wajah sy?

Answer: 1)Zina krna haram hai. (Ref : Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #1, masla #30)
2)Toba karni chaheay Parwar digar nai quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey.(Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: shadi se pahele koi ladki ke shate sex karna galat hai lakin ushi ladki ke shate agar shadi hojai to ........

Answer: Jis shakhs nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is k lie ehtiyat e wajib ye hay k wo os aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Mera sawal ye hai k agar kisi larki k sath sirf forplay kya jay matlab us k kapry utar kar pyar kara jay jisam par hath phera jay or suck kya jay to kya ye zina main shumar hota hai wese to ye bhi gunah hai magar kya ye Zina Main Shumar hoga or is ki saza kya hogi

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lams (begair inytercourse k) zina nhi hai laikin haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: kya muth marna zina hai ager nhi tu phir kitna bara gunha hai gunahe azeem me shumar hai k nhi

Answer: 1)Istemna krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253) 2)Istimna aur zina dono alag alag gunah e kabira hain.(Ref : Aqa sistani minhajus salaheen part # 1, masla # 30) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: sir muje ye bataye ke muje zina ka pata ni tha to maine ake larke ke shat zina keya wo mara hamsay tha keya is ka is ka guna ho ga ake or maine phechle 4 salo se muht marta hone mare umar 17 sal he plz is se choutkar pane ka tarqa bataye or maine do marta ake larke se zina kar chuka hone jb muje pata tha ke zina karna juna he ab muje batwo ke maine keya karo or maine jismani tour pe be kamzor hone muje bhot tension hoti shadi ke bad mare oulad ho gi ya ni plz is sare ka koi hal bataye plz plz plz

Answer: 1)Zina kerna aur istemna kerna gunah-e-kabeera hai,ap par toobaa kerna wajib hai. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #30).
2) Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-farmani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Sawal: kya apni sagi bahen ke sath sex kar sakte hain? agar uske pichhe ki jagah se sex kia jaye to galat hai ya sahi?

Answer: 1)Behn k sath zina krna haram hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part # 1, Masla # 30).
2)Un aurton k sath jo insan ki mehram ho azdawj(shadi) haram hai maslan maa, behn, beti, phupi, khala, bhateji, bhanji, saas.(Ref : Tauzeeh Ayatullah sistani d.b. masla # 2349)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: agar koi larka apni maa k sath humbistri kar lay aur apni maa ka doodh b pee lay to kya ye jaiz he jaldi bta dai

Answer: 1)Maa k sath zina karna haram hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 30)
2)Ehtiyat wajib ki bina par maa k doodh pina balig k lie jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3, masla # 905) (Ref : Email rec from Ayatullah Sistani d.b. dated Dec 5, 2011) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: MJY MERY dost ny kising or touching kia ae ye haram ae mjy pat ae magar kia ye zina b ae?

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lams (begair intercourse k) zina nahi hai laikin haram hai. is lie toba karain. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mai ne zana kya hai mai is ki talafi kaise karoon

Answer: 1)Zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30)
2)sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-farmani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k kuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mery boyfrnd ny mjy kising of sharmangha ko touch kia ae or meny b kia ye zina ae? plz me ap answaer

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: aslamo alikom sir moje aap se ye pochna ha ke ma ne eak larki ke sath hum bestre ki ha aur wo prednet ho gay ha ur wo ha be ghar muslim kia es halet me ma us se nikha kar sakta hon ya nahi

Answer: 1)Zina krna gunah e kabira hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1, masla # 29)
2) Jis shakhs nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is k lie ehtiyat e wajib ye hay k wo os aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235)
Sachchay dil se toba karain.Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kiya he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 )
Musalman mard ka nikah hindo aurat se nahe ho sakta.( shadi k lie phele us aurat ko musalman hona zarori hai.)

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Question: AOA Sir/Madam, Maira app se yeh sawal hai k Kiya larka Uss Larki se shadi kar sakta hai jiss se 4,5 saal se humbistari (Zinna) kar raha hu? Bare Sare log kehte hai k jiss se humbistari (Entery/Sex) ki hu uss se shadi nahi karni chahiye..?

Answer: Jis shakhs nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is k lie ehtiyat e wajib ye hai k wo os aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: ZIna ki real meanings kia hai? i mean zina ki definition ( تعریف ) kia hai???

Answer: Zina karna yani aurat k sath bagair nikah k jinsi khowaish puri karna. (Ref : Qamoosul waheed pg # 721)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Zina ki definition kia hia? I mean Zina ki تعریف kia hai?

Answer: Zina karna yani aurat k sath bagair nikah k jinsi khowaish puri karna. (Ref : Qamoosul waheed pg # 721)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: sir mera swal ye h ki.mai 1 ladki se bhot pyar karta hu. hum sadi bhi kre ge. lekin mane us k sath sex kar liya or condom nhi lgai. ab mujhe dar h ki khi vo pregnent na ho gaye. koi home solution na btaye. plzzz... jaldi btaye.. plz..

Answer: 1)Qaraar e nutfa(mani k rehem main thehernay) k baad isqaat e hamal jaiz nahi he.magar ye khoof ho k hamal ka baaqi rakhna aurat ki zindagi k liay nuqsan dah hay tu hamal main agar jaan nah perhi ho tu isqaat jaiz hay,laikin hamal main jaan pernay k baad bachay ka zaya kerna jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 72)
2)Jis shakhs nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is k lie ehtiyat e wajib ye hai k wo os aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235)
3)kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi ker sakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day. Note : Agar zina sai kisi larki ka kawara pan khatam hua ho tu ye kawari hi kehlay gi. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2341-42)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: kiya mein apni bhabi k saht zina kar sakta hun

Answer: Zina ko gunah e kabeera mai shumar kia gya hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # masla # 29) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Assalam o Alikum ap sa zina ka mtaliq pochna tha plz rahnomai karain mai buhat prashan hon. or buhat takleef main bhe. mare ak larke sa dosti hoi the woh or main shadi shuda han. or hum dono sa zina ka ghunah ho gaya ha. hum nahe chahtay tha kah zina hum karain magar jazbat main ho gay yah. hum hum buhat buhat prashan han. hum na foran Allah sa pakay araday sa zina sa tobha ka liya dwoa ke ha or har namaz main bhe kartay han. zina ka ju gunah ha us ke maffi ho jate ha yh nahe. plzzzzzzzz hamare rahnumai farmay jazakallah

Answer: 1)Zina karna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen,part# maslah #29 )
2)Sachay dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b.)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Asak, Roz e mahshar Allah S.W.T. zinakaro ko kaisi saza dega

Answer: Rasool allah ka farman hai.: zina karne wale ya wali k lie 6 kisam k azaanb hai . 3 kisam ka duniya me aur 3 kisam ka aakerat me . dunniya me 1) chere ka nor jata rehta hai 2) ghurbat ghair lete hai,3)mout qareeb ho jate hai aur aakerat me 1) khuda ka ghazab nazil hona 2) hisaab ki sakte 3) jehanum ki me hamesha jalta rahe gha . in k pass se aise saak badbu aate hoghi jis se tamaam ahle mehshar izziat mehsoos karen ge or sab log in zina karne walo per lanat kar rahe hoge(ref: taufa tul awaam , pg: 253)
Ghuna karne wale ko chaie k wo Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada hia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b.http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=864 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mera ye sawal hai k meri 1 dost na mehram k sath sub kuch karchuki hai xcept for intercourse or ab ussay is bat ka behad regret hai..islam mei is gunnah se maafi k baray mei kia kaha gaya hai.kia ALLAH PAK ia gunnah ko maf kardega.or ab ussay kia karna chahye??

Answer: Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)
Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)
Is k alawa jo shakhs shadi na krnay ki wajah sai apnay aap ko fail e haram sai na bacha sakay os par shadi krna wajib hai. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 385,397 pg # 231,234) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: sir ek larke ne mujh french kiss ki ha nd me bht sharminda hn kya shdi ke bad ise meri us life par ki asar pare ga ya meri new genration par koi asar pare ga and ise ki mafi kaise ha?????

Answer: 1)Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagir intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)
2)Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b.)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: zina karna haram hai too kiya zina nahi karna chaiye too per child kesie ayega

Answer: shadi k baad intercourse(jima/sex) kea jae tou jaiz hai aur gunah nahi hai laikin wohi kam agar shadi k bagair kea jae tou zina kehlata hai aur gunah hai. (Ref:Ayatullah Sitsani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah # 2386)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: sir mera sawal ye hai ke kia koi apni saas ke sath humbistire kar sakta hai agar uski saas raazi ho ? plz answer jaldi sir

Answer: jee nahi saas,maa ki tarha mehram hoti hai aur us sy hambistri krna haram hai (chahay wo razi bhi ho) aur ye zina kehlaey ga.(Ref:Ayatullah Sitsani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2349 Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #1 , masla #30)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: aaa ma aik shadi shuda aurat hoo mj se zina jaisa gunah hua ha ma janti b hoo k bht barra gunah ha hamesha usko mana b kia k ye gunah lakin pata ni q bht bar ye gunah ho gya ha r wo b shadi shuda ha,,,,main ny ab usko b mana kia ha r apny shohar ko b bta dia ha sb such r mere shohar ny mja maaf b kr dia ha ,,main ny b sachy dil se toba kia ha bht maafi mangti hoo allah se،،kya allah mja maaf kary ga plz jwab dain jldi

Answer: 1)Agar sohardar aurat zina karay to ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina par wo zani par hamisha k lie haram ho jati hai. Lakin sohar pr haram nahi hoti. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2367)
2)Zaroori hai wo aurat toba karay. Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba)
3)Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: AOA mara masla ye h k mi ne ek ladki k 7 zena kia hy jis ka mujhy boht dukh hota hy ab mi us ka kufara ada krna chahta ho sochta ho use ladki sy shadi kr lo ap advise kry k m kia karo.wo ladki mujhy cractor vise sahe nhe lagti mgr apny sahi hony ka yakeen dilati hy

Answer: 1)Jis shakhs nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is k lie ehtiyat e wajib ye hay k wo os aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235)
2)Sachchay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (Ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 ,toba, http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mujhe aik lardki say pyar howa jo shadi shuda thi usay bhi pyar ho gya mujhe say uss ka hus uss k sath acha nahi tha iss liay wo meray bht kareeb agai or hum donoun humbistar howay laikin uss k bad uss k husband say uss ki talaq ho gai firr hum donoun nay nikah karlia hai kya ye thik hai yan ghalat hum donoun main bht pyar hai ub kya hum jaiz rishtay main hain

Answer: Agar sohardar aurat zina karay to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zina karnay walay par hamesha k lie haram ho jati hai. yani os sai phir khabi bhi nikah nahi kar sakti hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2367)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: AOA sir mara masla buhat bhambgir hay plz islami tariky ky mutabik our aik larky ky bap honay ky mutabik jawab digiy ga marai shadi hoye 1 sall ho gia hay shadi say pehly mari bivi ky kisi our ky sath najaiz talkat thy wo na mugy na ous ky ghar walo ko pata tha lakin mugy pehli rat hi pata chal gia tha ky mari bivi thik nai hay many kafi payar muhabat say ousy pocha lakin wo mani nai wo kehti rai nai sab thik hay asa khuch nai lakin ab mari bati ki paydash hoi hay manay ousy apni bati ki kasam di to ous nay mugy batay ky maray cousin ky sath 1 ya 2 bar asa kia hay ab ap mugy yeh batay ky main ous ka kia karo ab to mari bati bhi hay ous say kia main apni bati apny pas rakh kar ous talak day sakta ho... plz answer me

Answer: Note: ye kaam shadi sai pehlay ka hai k os waqt aap ko ye tekheeq kr letay k jis aurat sai shadi karna chahta hai os me on sifaat aur khososiyaat ko pesh e nazar rakhay jo aik misali khatoon me honi chahae jo pak daman, shareef ul asal aur naik ho aur dunyavi aur ukravi muamilaat me sohar ki madad gar sabit ho. Mard k lie ye munasib nahi he k biwi k intikhab me is ka metmae nazar sirf is ka zaaheri husn o Jamaal aur maal o dulat ho. Albetta agar os nai toba kar li hai to wo pak ho gae hain q k Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday par amal na karay.
Aur jahan tk talaq ki bat hai to talaq na dain. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: asalam o alaikum mera sawal ye hy k main ny apni nadani bywakofi main aur kisi k pyar main ak gunah e kabira kr leya hy ab meri virginity to nhe rhe main apni is harkat py byhad sharamsar hn har wkt roti rehti hn ALLAH sy mafi mangti hn.bht mushkil main hn.ap plz mghy btayen main kya karon.main apki bht shukar guzar rahonge.

Answer: 1)Zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30). 2)Sachay dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba )(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Aswlkm zina k baray mai sai detail btain?

Answer: Islam baqi asmani adian ki terah iffat aur pakisgi ki hifazat ka alambardar hai. Allah nai quran mai zina ki muzammat krtay huay surah bani israil surah # 17 ki ayat # 32 mai kaha hai k tum zina k qareeb mat jao yaqeenan wo qabil e nafrat burai aur bura rasta hai. Is k alawa hadees mai bhi is gunah ki bohat muzammat ki gae hai, Hazrat imam Jaffar e Sadiq a.s. farmatay hain k “zina krnay walay k lie 6 qism ki saza hain 3 dunya ki aur 3 aakhirat ki. Dunya ki sazain: 1)Zina sai chehray ka noor khatm ho jata hai 2)zina sai faqr o iflas ata hai 3)zina sai mout jaldi ati hai. Aakhirat ki sazain: 1)Zina sai Allah naraz hota hai 2)zina hisab ki sakhti ka sabab banta hai 3) zina hamisha ki dozakh ka sabab hai. mazeed farmaya k qayamat k din sab sai ziada azab mai wo shakhs ho ga jis nai apna nutfa haram rehm mai dala ho ga yani zina kia ho ga.” (Ref : Moharammat e Islam pg # 318-19)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Zinna ka kuffara mum kin hai? Agar hai to kya hai? Koi agar sachay dil se sharminda ho or kuffara Ada kerna chants ho to kya kare?

Answer: Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: As salamu Alekum janab maine ye sawal pouchna hai k quran o hadees ki roshni me zina ke bare me poori jaankarii dain?

Answer: Islam baqi asmani adian ki terah iffat aur pakisgi ki hifazat ka alambardar hai. Allah nai quran mai zina ki muzammat krtay huay surah bani israil surah # 17 ki ayat # 32 mai kaha hai k tum zina k qareeb mat jao yaqeenan wo qabil e nafrat burai aur bura rasta hai. Is k alawa hadees mai bhi is gunah ki bohat muzammat ki gae hai, Hazrat imam Jaffar e Sadiq a.s. farmatay hain k “zina krnay walay k lie 6 qism ki saza hain 3 dunya ki aur 3 aakhirat ki. Dunya ki sazain: 1)Zina sai chehray ka noor khatm ho jata hai 2)zina sai faqr o iflas ata hai 3)zina sai mout jaldi ati hai. Aakhirat ki sazain: 1)Zina sai Allah naraz hota hai 2)zina hisab ki sakhti ka sabab banta hai 3) zina hamisha ki dozakh ka sabab hai. mazeed farmaya k qayamat k din sab sai ziada azab mai wo shakhs ho ga jis nai apna nutfa haram rehm mai dala ho ga yani zina kia ho ga.” (Ref : Moharammat e Islam pg # 318-19)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Asalaamoalikum.... Maine zina kiya h magr intercorse ne kiya kise b aurat se kya ye b zina ha... Kya toba krne k baad b mahram ko zina ka karz ada krna hoga... Agr me zinah me aata hu to kufara kya h.

Answer: 1)Na mehram k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse k zina nahi hai magar haram hai. (Ref : kitab nigah aur libas masla # 109, pg # 70)
2)Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba)
(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Mene Zajbat me aakar aek larke k sath zinnah kar liya he or mene meri mani nikal ne tak aesa kiya hai or ye mene 3 ya 4 bar kiya hai to plz muje batae k ye chij se kese bacha jaye plz iska ans jaldi dena.

Answer: 1)Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
2)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mai apne hathose zina kiya hu bahot bar mafi mangi aur touba kiya fir thode din ke bad wahi guna kiya pls bataye kya allah muje maf karega my ne uski khasam khayi thi fir wahi kam karta raha ab maine chodne ka iradha kiya he phir bi muje aisa lag raha he ki allah muje kabi maf nai karega pls kuch bataye

Answer: 1)Zina ko gunah e kabeera mai shumar kia gya hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # masla # 29)
2)Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=864 )
3)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-farmani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: me ek shadi shuda ouret se pyar kerta hoo.us ke 3 bache he ek ki omer 15 dosre ki 13 our ahri ki 10 sal he me ne us k sath zana b kiya he us k shoher ko pata chal gaya he wo use talaq dena chahta he mobile to us ne 3 wari kaha he lekin ager us ne ek talaq beji 2 talaq baki ho to kia me us se shadi ker sekta hoo jo meri omer he 20 saal our uski 35 saal

Answer: Agar sohardar aurat zina kray to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zani par hamisha k lie haram ho jati hai Yani wo aurat phir khabi bhi zina krnay walay shakhs sai nikah nahi kar sakti hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2367)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mughay apsa ya kehna ha keh main na apni zindagi main 3 lerkion ka sath sex kia ha un ki razamandi ka sath lakin her lerki ka sath bohat dafa kia ha sex. main apsa ya kehna chahta hun keh mughay koi aisa amal batain keh main is sa buch sakun or her time mara zahan main sex ka hi bhut sawar rehta ha main bohat parashan hun main acha sochna chahta hun or mara dusra masla ya ha keh mara zahan kam nhi kerta main bhul jata hun bohat juldi koi bhi kam ho mara zahan usay nahi ker pata halan keh mughay pata hota ha main ya ker sakta han sada lafzon main kahun to main sharp mind nhi hun mara sawalon ka jawab zaroor dain or juldi dain main bohat parashan hun

Answer: 1)Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30). 2)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).

Zehen taiz kerne k liay: Har rooz 3 martaba surah e taha (surah#20) ki ayat#25 se 28 parh lain,apki yaad-daasht taiz tareen ho jaegi.(Ref: Book Nawaey saliheen pg#326) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Assalam o Alikum main jaanna cahta hu k agr ksi ko sae tareeqay sa maafi mangni ho to kia kea jay zina k hawalay sy..?

Answer: 1)Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), 2)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon tab aap k liay zarori hay k shadi karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: agar kisi shaadi shuda aurat ke saath zinah ho jaye toh kya uss shaqs ki baqshish hogi aur aisa shaqs sachche dil se allah paaq ki baargah mein maafi aur tauba talab karne ke baad kya kaffara ada karein? aise gunah ki maafi kaise maangi jaaye jise dil mutmayeen ho?

Answer: Sachchay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Zina aur haraam me kitna farq hai? kya haraam b Gunaahe kabeera me aata hai?

Answer: 1-Har wo amal jiska terk kerna shariyat ki nigho main zarori ho, os ko haram kehtay hain. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, pg #488)
2-Zina se muraad ye hoti hay k “ Baghair nikah k aurat ki sharam gaah(vagina or anus) main aala e tanasul(penis) ko dakhil kerna.Zina kerna gunah e kabeera hay.(Ref: http://sistani.org/index.php?p=297396&id=503+ ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #30)
3-Har haram amal ko anjaam daina gunah hay laikin har haram kaam gunah e kabeera nahi hay.gunah kabeera ka zikr minhaajus saliheen, part#1, maslah#30 main zirk hoa hay.(( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #30) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: ger muslim larke se nikah karna chahati hu kyoki us se bahut pyar karti hu or hame sath rehte hue 6 sal ho rahe h or hamare bich phisical realation ho gaye h ab main kya kar sakti hu,,. plz help me plz

Answer: Zina haram hay aur gunah e azeem hay.Musalman aurat kafir say nikah nahi ker sakti. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2362 and Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #1 , masla #30) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mene ek shadishuda hindu ladki se sex kiya.zindagi me pahli bar apni biwi ke alawa me dusri aurat se sex kiya.me iski toba karna chahta hu.me kese toba karu?

Answer: 1)Zina karna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen,part #1, maslah #29) 2)Sab sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya islam me chodna haram hai

Answer: Zina kerna haraam hay or gunah e azeem hay..(Ref:Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #1, masla #30). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Agar ksi aurat se ek bar zina kr leya jae, Hamal etc nhi hwa , aur Allah toba kr li jae tb, us aurot ke beti se nikah jaiz ha ya nhi

Answer: Agar koe shaks apni phophi ya khala ki lerhki k alawa kisi or aurat se zina karay tu ehtiyaat e mustahab ye hay k oski baiti k sath shadi nah karay.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2361). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: sir, Mai ek hindu ladki hu aur maine muslim ladke ke shaadi kari hai.. mere 52 bachhe hai. lekin mujhse ek gunaah ho gaya hai, maine ek kanware ladke ke saath zinaah kara hai...aur mujhe ab bahut sharmingi mehsus ho rahi hai. mujhe iske liye ALLAH se maafi mangni hai. kya meri galti maaf hogi. mujhe bahot afsos hua hai, lekin bahit der se aankh khuli hai meri. mujhe sahi raasta bataye aur koi dua batayen jis se mai padhu aur tauba karu? pls. ekdum sahi raasta bataye.......

Answer: 1)Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30) 2)Sab se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
3-Dua e Istaghfaar : ( أسْتغفِرُ اللهُ رَبي وأتوبُ إليهْ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Assalam alaikum Apni biwi ki Bahn kay saath Razamandi say zinna kiya to kiya hukum hay. Doosra sawal Apni biwi ko Oozoo tanasul mouth may dainay kay kia hukum hay.may yeah doono Ghunnah kaar diaaya hay.iss ka kuffara baata deejia. thank you.

Answer: 1)Zina karna islam mai gunah e kabir mai shumar kia jata hai. Aur zina k alawa jab aik aurat sai nikah ki hua ho to os ki behan sai nikah krna bhi jaiz nahi hai.(Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1 masla # 29)(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2355)
2)Sachay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=864 )
3)Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Sistani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: What is zana?

Answer: 1)Zina karna yani aurat k sath bagair nikah k jinsi khowaish puri karna. (Ref : Qamoosul waheed pg # 721)
2)Zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: meri umra 49yrs hai, meri biwi ki umra 45 saal haimeri shadi ko bawis saal hue hai, mera ek shadi shuda 11 saal chota bahi hai. wo phichale 11 saal se meri biwi ko galat tarike se chedta hai, wo shadi shuda hai, mai use teen char bar pit chuka hu. mari biwi ne bhi use pita hai. hum aleg rahne gaye to usne ekdin achanak meri gair hajri me meri biwi ko sex karne uske sharmgah me ungali kar, majboor kiya, aur sex kar bhag gaya is baat ko 10 saal hue meri biwi khoon kharaba hoga is der se khamoshi si bardast karti rahi, magr ab usane muzhse gunah kabul kar mafi mangi hai , maine majboori me maaf kiya, kyon ke mere bachhe jawan hue hai. magar mere deemag se ye baat jati nahi mai mere bhai ko dekhta hu to mera khun khoulta hai , kya karoo. main allah pak se meri biwiw ke liye bhi mafi talb ki hai, meri biwi nahaq sharminda hai.

Answer: 1)Agar sohar dar aurat zina kary chahay razi ho kar ya majboori mai to wo aurat shohar par haram nahi hoti hai.
2)Zina karna gunah e kabira hay. Laikin agar majboor kar k zabardasti zina karwaya jae to jis ko majboor kia gya ho wo ghunahgar nahi ho ga. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30)Note : Majboor krnay sai murad ye hai os nai zinakar ko roknay ki bharpoor koshish ki ho laikin zina kar shakhs nai zabardisti os sai zinah kar dia ho maslan be-hosh kar dia ye mar dalnay ki dhamki di ho. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: salam molana sb. meira rishta ho rakha hai. aur afiar se hua hai aur hm 2no ka kafi bar sex kr chuke hai lkn intercouse nhi kiya hai kabhi. aur kafi bar souchte hai ab nhi krega shadi ke bad krega lkn phr kr lete hai hm 2no ka bhtt dil krta hai sex krne ka.( molana sb. hm chate hai ke hmare shadi jaldi ho jai jse se hm in haram kamo se bach jai aur shadi ke bad ye sb kre) aap ko dua btai jis se hmare shadi jaldi ho ske aur hm haram kamo se bache) aap jaldi reply kre please.

Answer: 1)Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30)
2)Jis shakhs nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is k lie ehtiyat e wajib ye hay k wo os aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karain. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayatullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235)
3)Sab se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: ager kisi larki k sath zinnah keray or phr mafi mang ker us say shadi kerna jaiz hay ya nahi ???? plz jawab jaldi dayga

Answer: 1)Zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30)
2)Jis shakhs nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is k lie ehtiyat e wajib ye hai k wo os aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayatullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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