QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: Aik Mard nai aik Aurat k saath zana kiya dono is zana pai raazi thai aur dono shaadi shuda hain aur oon k bachay bhee hain. Ab oos mard ka beta oos aurat kee baitee sai Shaadi karna chahta hai.Kiya yai shaadi ho sakti hai YA wo larki oos pai haram hai kioon k oos k BAAP nai oos ki MAA k saath zana kiya tha. Pls reply as per Ayat-ullah Seestani & Ayat-ullah khoie.

Answer: A.Sistani kay mutabiq larka us larki say shadi kar sakta hay kion kay ye larki un aurtoo main say nahi banay gee jin say nikah karna haram hay.masalan mehram rishtay daar ya apni bewi ki maa,nani,dadi waghaira ya apni bewi ki larki ,nawasi ,poti waghaira jin say nikah karna haram hota hay.aur mazkoora soorat main aisa koi masala nahi hay.Ref:Tauzeehul Masail Masala No.2370,2344...A.Khoie ka bhi yehi fatwa hay.Ref:Tauzeehul Masail A.Khoie Masala No.2393,2420. .Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: zina kse kehte hain kya islam me ger shadi shuda pyar me kse k kareb ja sakhta hai islam me imam ya nabi ne kya farmaya pyar k lye

Answer: Merd ka apni bivi k alawah ksii bhi aurat say jima/hambistari(Intercourse)kerna zina kehlata hay,chahay merd nay ye jima aurat ki agli sharamgaah(vigina) main kia ho ya pichli sharamgaah(anus)main.or is ki saza ye hay k agar aurat ka shohar ho,or wo zina karay tu os ko sangsaar(path thar maarna) kia jaata hay.or in hodood ko imam(A.S) ya hakim e shara(Mujtahid) naafiz kerta hay..Shadi shuda tu ho ya ghair shadi shuda kisi say namehram say doosti kerna or izharay muhabat kerna jaiz nahi hay kun k gunah main perhnay ka khauf mauhood hay.(Ayat ullah Khumeni,Tehree rul waseelah Part#,page #173,193 & nigah or libaas sawaal #106)

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Question: A salaam ALykom Hafiz SAAB main puchna chahta hoo k ZINA ka koi pashtawa kare tu us ko ALLAH TALA se kase MAFI mang ni chahiye main bohot ghuna gaar ho ALLAH MAAF kare AMEEN wo Ghafoor RUR Raheem hai AMEEN

Answer: 1)First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010)
2)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karte he aur aisa hirgis nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)

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Question: sala imam. i waz had a physical relationship with a guy az he brain washed me but latter i came to know he cheated me.after i realised my mistake i did taubah and amale quran and i read lot oof numez for forgiveness n still do.now after 8 years i m getting married to another guy our nikha is done and rukhsati is in a few months.i fear sayin it to him az i dont know wat will happen i love him from the purest part of my heart n cant live without him...plz tell me wat should i do to keep my life peacefull with him.

Answer: 1) Dosro k saamnay gunah ka iqraar kerna jaiz nahi hay.is liay aap ka apnay is gunah ko apnay shohar ya kisi bhi shaks ko batana jaiz nahi hay.(Ref:mujtahid say pochay gay sawalaat, part#2, sawaal #223).

2)Aap sachay dil say apnay is gunah e azeem ki khuda say maggfirat or tauba talab karain insha Allah khuda aap k gunah ko maaf karay ga Q k khuda nay Quran main khud hi tu wada kia hay k wo tauba ko qobool kerta hay phir kaisay ho sakta hay k wo apnay waday ko pora nah karay.(Ref: http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=826 )
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Question: galti se ya setan k behkawe main biwi ki maa se jina ho jay to kiya nikah tot jata hai

Answer: Biwi ki maa(saas) say zina kernay say aap ki biwi ka aap se nikah nahi totay ga.aap ka nikah baaqi rahay ga.(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Email rcvd from Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b) ). (Albatta zina gunahe kabeera he or is ki toba karma zaroori he).

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Question: Zina ho gaya ho to gunah se maafi ki koi dua???

Answer: Sachchay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya bhabhi ke sath hambistri kar sakte hai agar bhabhi razi ho to

Answer: bhabhi k sath hambistri krna zina hai aur zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: I want to know that in Islam can we do sex with loondiz and is there any condition in which zinah considered jaiz.

Answer: 1) Ethiat e wajib ki bina per jo aurat zina me mashhoor ho jab tak wo toba na karey us se nikah nah kia jay. (ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 403 pg # 235)
2)zina karna haram balkeh ghunna e kabira(azeem gunah) he aur kisi terha bhi jaiz nahi ho sakhta .(Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), mihajus saliheen part#1,maslah#29 )

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Question: Zina ka kapara kaisay ada kia jay

Answer: Sachchay dil se toba karain. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada ia he k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per na karey. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888).

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Question: a person is involue in sex with his mother in law. is there any relaxiation for him as he is thinking that this is his mistake not his wife and son. he dont want to punish his wife and son. he already astagfar and promised to God that he will never do it agiain. is there any solution for this masala. 2. what is the status of his children hala or haram. 3. if this person not ready to diverse his wife and keep her with what will be there relation status. Thanks

Answer: Don not worry your marriage and children are valid. (ref : answer rec from email ayatuallaha sistani d.b. dated 15 july 2010).

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Question: Sir Salam Agar aik admi ka kisi aurat se najaiz tauloq ha.aur usi aurat ki beti se nikah ho sakta hai?yani jis admi ka aurat se najaiz taloq ho usi aurat ki beti se nikah kar sakta hai?pls jawab de.

Answer: Ager koe shaks apni khala ya apni phophi say zina karay, tu ehtiyaat e lazim ki bina per onki baitiyaan is zani per haram ho jain gi.or ager Na-mehram aurat say zina kia ho tu ehwat e aula(yani behter) ye hay k oski baiti say nikah nah kia jay.(Ref: A.sistani(d.b), mainhaaj part# 3,maslah#168). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) .

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Question: I HV COMMITTED ZINA, AND BADLY WANT TO RELIEVE FROM THIS GUILTY.HOW CAN I. BCOZ NOW GOD STOP HELPING ME.

Answer: 1)Zina karna gunah e azeem hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhaajus saliheen,part #1, maslah #29)
2)Sab sai pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehad or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day kar aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani kar rahay hain. aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof kar lain jaisay sport, kitab perhna waghira, or har os cheez sai bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: sir main bohat pareshan please mujhe yeh batain ke kia kisi larki ke sath jab aapkuch uper uper se kartayhain to kia yeh bhi zana hota hai aur agar hota hai to please is ka kufara kia hai main bohat pareshan hu please aap meri pareshani door karain mujhe neend nhi aati

Answer: 1) Ye zina nahi hay.laikin ye kaam Haram he. (ref : kitab nigah aur libas Sawal # 109 Pg # 70)
2) Agar koe shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se haram me mubtila hota ho to os k lie wajib he k toba karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
3) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karte he aur aisa hirgis nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Agr kisi ghair shahdi shuda aurat nay aur shadi shuda mrd nay zana kya aur phir shadi kr li us k baray main kya hukam hai?

Answer: Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: i m five months pragnent kya mai abi nikah kr skti hu osi larke k sath

Answer: 1)Jis shakhs nai kisi aurat sai zina kia ho aur os sai shadi karna chahae to is ke liye ehtiyat e wajib ye hay k wo us aurat say toba karnay say pehlay nikah na karain (Ref: Jadeed Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 403 pg # 235)
2) Etiyaat e mustahab ye hay k agar koe shaks zina kaar aurat se jis se khud os ne ya kisi dosray ne monh kala kia ho shadi kerna chahay tu hiaz aanay tak sabar karay or haiz aanay k baa dos k sath shadi ker lay. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: shaadi ke baad agar biwi kisi aur ke saath hum bistari karey aur is the shawahid mojood hoon to kiya ahkam hain. Mazeed yeh ke agar biwi apne husband per kala jadoo karway aur us se husband ka karoobab/job ke bandish ho to kiya ahkam hain.

Answer: 1)Agar shohar daar aurat zina kray to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zani par hamisha k lie haram ho jati hai laikin sohar par haram nhi hoti hai aur agar toba aur istegfar na karay aur apnay amal par baqi rahay (yani zina kari trk na karay) to behtr ye hai is ka sohar isay talaq day dai (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail,33rd Edition,maslah #2367)
2)Difa-e-Shaitaan aur Jado ke liye Surah-e-Ahraaf Ayat No 54 Parhay (Mafati Jinah pg#208) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: if a person commits zana. tu os k liye kafara kya hai. or insaan agar allah sai maafi mange tu kya ye gunah maaf ho sakti hai. plz reply.

Answer: Sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba).
(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya mami k sath sex jaiz ha

Answer: Jee nahi.bivi k alawa kisi bhi mehram ko lazzat k iraday se chomna ya kisi na-mehram aurat ko chooma or os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna ghunah hay or aap per is amal ki tauba kerna wajib hay.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#15 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Asalam alikum brother...bhai salam k baad arz karna chahonga k harkat tu mai ne buhat he gandi ki hai magr phir b Allah mafi de pochna ye hai k meri girlfriend ti or uske sath mai ne sab kuch kiya yani ek kisam ka sex samjh le har chez jo har mard apni biwi k sath karti hai ab pochna ye hai k mai kia karo gunah tu hai magr agr mai us larki se shadi karlo kia ye teek raheyga ....

Answer: 1)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)
2) Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: qibla agar koi apni chachi se zana kr dale to uski had mukarar ya koi tareeqa btayein jis se kalbi skoon ajaye

Answer: 1)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)
2)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: mufti sahab mera sawal ye hai k main hk main rehta hoon yahan main aik larki se shaadi karna chahta hoon magar shaadi se pehlay mujh ghalti sarzad ho gai hai aur wo larki pragnant ho gai gai hai aisi halat main hamain kiya karna chaye?

Answer: Is sawal k kuch pehlu hein 1) Agar koe shakhs kisi aisi aurat se zina karey jo be sohar ho magar iddat me na ho to ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per toba karne se pahle is se shadi nahi kar sakta. 2)Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: if a husband is in sex relation with his sister in law (saali),thn wht is his status of nikah with wife.

Answer: 1)Sohar gunahgaar to he magar nikah me koe faraq nahi perhay ga. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2335)
2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karte he aur aisa hirgis nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)

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Question: agr koi shakhs apni chachi se zana kr bethte to kia mafi ho skti ha k nai plz rep agr dunya mein koi saza ha to btaen take roz hashr bach jayen

Answer: Haqiqat e tauba gunah ki anjaam dahi per nidamat hay.or isi liay kaha gaya hay k “nidamat hi tuba hay”. or waazeh hay rahay k haqiqi nidamat hamesha gunah k terk k mazboot iraday or dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay k iraday k saath hoti hay. or haqiqi nadim shaks zaroor bil zaroor apnay pichlay gunaho ka izala or tadaruk kerta hay.agar os ka hunah huqooq e khuda main se ho tu khuda ki baargaah se maghfirat talab karay or agar qaza ya kaffara ya dobara amal ka anjaam daina wajib ho tu anjaab dain. Or agar huqooq e naas os k zimmay ho tu zarori hay k sahib e haq se os haq ka apnay oper halal honay ki ijazat lay lay ya oska haq os ko day day.taubah faqat astaghfirul laah kehnay se nahi ho jati, balkeh nidamat or hamesha gunah k terk kernay ka mzboot irada or os ka tadaruk laazimhay.albattah agar tauba k baad gunah karay tub hi remat e Khuda se mayoos nah ho balkeh zarori hay k dobarah tauba karain.kun keh Khuda kareen or meherban hay.or bakshnay wala hay.or tauba kernay walo ko doost rakhta hay.hadees e shareef main hay k: “ Aik lamhah r fikr kerna 60 saal ki ibadat se behter hay” or tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hay k azmat e Khuda or os ka apnay bando per haq or khuda ka her jagah hazir o nazir honay per fikr kerna hay.or isi liay hadees main ayay hay: “tanhaae main bhi gunah k anjaam dainay se per haiz karao k Khuda hazir or daikhnay wala hay”( Ref: email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated:17-08-2011). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) .

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Question: kea zina dekhna bhi haram hy?

Answer: Jee haan.fehesh manazir chahay wo ba-rahay raast hoon ya television per hoon, shehwat ki nigaah se on hain daikna jaiz nahi balkeh ehtiyaat wajib k taur per kisi terah se bhi(agarchah baghair shehwat k ho) daikhnay ko terk kerna chahiay.(A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masa’il, masalah # 492). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Kya saggi bahen jo shadi shoda ho usse se zina karne se uska nikah toot jata hai. Use kya saza dena chahiye

Answer: 1)Is aurat ka apnay shohar se nikah na tu batil hoga or nah hi totay ga.(Ref: email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated:17-08-2011).
2) Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 1 , Maslah #30, eidition # 1st ). Update on dated 03-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Meray Aik dost jo kah Married hai, aur us nay Zana kiya hai, Ab wo apnay kiya per sharminda hai, ab us ka lia kiya kafara dena ho ga?

Answer: Toba karain. 1)First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010)
2)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
3)ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: kya ladka ladki anal sex karne k baad nikah kar hai unka nikah wajib hai .............plz tell me

Answer: 1)Ethiat e wajib he k insane is aurat se is k toba karnay se pahle nikah na karay jis k sath is na zina kia ho . (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 403 pg # 235)
2)Toba karein Parwar digaar ne quran me waadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiay. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: main nay nan chaty hoye sab janty hoye k zana gunnah kabeera hai apny bf k sath zana kia...main 5 waqat ki namazi hun main itna pachta rahi hun k haar waqat dill ni kerta main ALLAH se tuba kerna chati hun main kabhi yeh dobara maar ker bhi ni karungi..kea as gunnah ki tuba hai..mafi mil sakti hai koi kafara hai k allah mujhe pak ker dy mujhe nafrat hogai hai hud se...plz help me

Answer: 1)First of all you must repent and pray to Almighty Allah (swt) for forgiveness and promise yourself not to do that sin again and always remember that Allah (swt) is looking at you and by doing that sin you do obey devil and disobey Allah(swt). Also try to engage in some useful activities such as sport reading ..etc and avoid anything that may arise your sexual desire. Also if you cannot control yourself then you must get married.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2)Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: zina karna k bad insan sacha dil sa toba kar la to kia bad ma b kaffara ada karna ho ga aur allah talah naraz hon gay aur 100 korhay mara jain gay?plz reply me

Answer: Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba)
Zina bil jabr mai zaani mehr e misl ka zamin hay.yani zani per mehr e misl daina wajib hay.( http://sistani.org/index.php?p=827020&id=930 )

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Question: Salam o alaikum maine 3bar prostitute(tawaaif) se zina kiya, aur ek ghair muslim ladki ke sath bosa(kiss) aur galat kaam kiya, sharab bhi pee. Main bahut gunaahgar hun maine tauba kiya magar dil mein ek darr hai ke shayad firse ye na ho jaye. Main namaz padhta hun abhi ache amaal kar raha hun. Tauba ka sahi tareeqa batayen meri madad karen bahut pareshan hoon. Allah se mere liye duaa kijiye mere gunaah bakhsh de.

Answer: 1)Zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30). 2)Osay sachay dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
3) Jo shaks shadi nah kerne ki wajah se haram kaam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407, eidition31). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: The following questios are very important to answer. Although we all know that all below asked questions are sins but the question is "Do the followings come under Zinah? or gunha e kabeerah? 1- Kissing a married (Na-mehram woman) on her : a- Cheeks b- Hands c- Shram gah d- Lips e- Breasts f- Touching her Sharam Gah g- Inserting finger(s) in her front shram Gah h- What if she sucks his pennis I- what if she discharges him by hand (Masterbate) J- what if she discharge him in her mouth by sucking. Please answer in details, the young generation is use to of these nowadays thinking that these are sins but of low intensities. Please do clear Regards

Answer: These all are high intentions sins(kabeera gunah).(Ref : Minhaj-ul-saliheen,Edition#1430,Masla#30)

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Question: me kiya karo jis se mujhe mere gunah ki bakhsish mil saky, me kis sy mohabat karta tha ussy meny ghalt kaam kiya hai , is i saza kiya hai or is se bachne k liye kiya kiya jae???

Answer: Zina karna gunah_e_kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhaj_us_Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30)
use sache dil se toba karni chahiye. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kiya hai k wo toba karne walon ki toba ko qabool karta hai.Aysa hargiz nahi ho sakhta k wo apne wade per amal na kare.
(Ref : website ayatollah sistani (d.b). ques # 1 , toba)
Jo shakhs shadi na krne ki wajah se haram kaam men mubtila hota ho us pr wajib hai k shadi kare.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407, eidition31)

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Question: mera ye Sawal hai k agar kissi shakhs nay apni cousin/xyz (larki) k saath zina karnay k koshish kari ho aur wo us kam ko karnay shuru kartay hi apnay aap ko bacha lay aur peechay hat jaye tu us ka islam mai kya gunah hai aur wo kis had tak us gunah gar hai aur us ka wo gunah kis mai shamil hai aur uska azala kaisay karay jab k wo us say muafi b mang chuka hai aur ALLAH say b tuaba kar chuka hai uar baar baar tuaba karta hai k ye kaam na karay par us ko self satisfaction nahi ho rahi hai tu is maslay mai kya wo larka karay plzzzz guied us and give us the right way

Answer: Toba karain Parwardigar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apnay waday per amal na karey aur ghuna se bachney k liye mazboot irada chahye (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1,toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) (not confirm)

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Question: sir mai ny bht brah gunah keya ph sex mai toba kerna chati ho or main czn sth shadi kerna chatay hy or mera czn ghar walo ke wajah sy chup ho geya per hum 2 ke families bht narazge chal reh hy mujhy btayain koi wazifa taky meri shadi waha ho izet sth and tobah ka rasta taky Allah mujh maf kry sukn dy or perdah dal dy plz humry liay dua kerin

Answer: 1) Ghuzishta Aamal k liay Allah say Sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey.(Ref : sistani.org ques # 1, toba)
2) Surah e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref: Naway e salaheen pg # 352)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: jab insan py shawat tari ho jaye to insan apne ap py qaboo na pa sake to apne hath sy sharam gah sy shawat puri kare islam is kam ko jaiz qarar deta hai ya nai plz zaroor jawab dain

Answer: Miyan biwi k elawa kise bhi qism k jinse lazzat ko hasil karna gunah kabeera me se hai.
(Ref : Minhaj-us-salaheen #1 aqa sistani masla#30)
Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.
(Ref : Jaded fiqhi Masail aqa sistani pg # 253, masla #462)
Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: assalam o alaikum sir main bahut pareshanhoon maine 3 baar tawaayef ke sath zina kiya aur kayi baar sharab bhi pee. maine sache dil se tauba kar liya hai ab kabhi nahi karunga,duaa karne ka tareeka bateyen?

Answer: 1)Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)
2) Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e tehreem surah no 66 ki tilawat karay ga to Khuda osay toba tun nusooh ki tawfeeq ata farmaye ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)
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Question: Mera sawal ye hai k meri aik larki se dosti hui kuch arsa pehlay uski umar aur meri umar(age) aik jitni he hai, kuch arsay baad mei ne usay pehli bar (HUG) kia usk sath he (kiss kia) usk baad ye baat barhti gai, hatta k mei ne uski chahti (Breast b dekhi). aur hum ne apnay private parts(genitals) ko aik sath ragra b. us ne merey penis ko aur mei ne uski Sharm-gah ko hath legaya. wo larki meri dost hai humara koi nikaah ya sharri talak nai hai. Ap hum apni ki ghalti pe pishta re hain , ap se puchna hai k kia jo hum se ghunaah ho ge, ye ghunnah-e-kabeerah hain ?hum her wakt tauba kertay hain aur ainda kuch b nai kernay ka irada kia hua hai. Ap guzarish farma ker btain k humain btain k ab hum kafara kaisay ada ker saktay hain ? aur jo hum se ho geya kia wo ghunaah-e-kabeerah hai?

Answer: 1)Gee han aysa karna gunah e kabira men se hai.
(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhaj-us-Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30)
Apko sache dil se toba karni chaheye. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karne walon ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta k wo apne wade per amal na kare.
(Ref : website Ayat_ullah Sistani (d.b) Ques #1 , toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
3) Jo shaks shadi nah kerne ki wajah se haram kaam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407, eidition31). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: AssalamOAlaikum.mera ap se sawal he k agar 1 marad zani ho ga to us ki biwi b zani ho gi or agar 1 larki zani ho to kia us ka shohar b zani ho ga

Answer: ye koi qanoon e shariyat nahi, balke ishara hai ke zaniya orat zani or mushrik ko bura nahi samjti, jabke momina ke dil ko zani o mushrik nahi bhate(yani ache nahi lgte)
(Ref : Anwaar_ul_Quraan, Allama Zeeshan hayder jawwadi).

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Question: Kia mein apni girlfriend ko kiss kr sakta ho ?

Answer: Jaiz nahi, shoar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30), (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: ma nai zindagi ma zana buhat kia hai.maufi mangna chahta ho allah sa. or mujhay job nahi mil rahi kitnay years sa.ma buhat paraishan hoo.or ma samjhta hoo ya sab mairay zana ki wjah sa ho raha hai.plz mujhay en 2 masloo ka haal bata dai

Answer: Zina karna gunah_e_kabira hai.
(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhaj_us_Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30)
apko sache dil se toba karni chahiye. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kiya hai k wo toba karne walon ki toba ko qabool karta hai.Aysa hargiz nahi ho sakhta k wo apne wade per amal na kare.
(Ref : website ayatollah sistani (d.b). ques # 1 , toba)
Jo shakhs shadi na krne ki wajah se haram kaam men mubtila hota ho us pr wajib hai k shadi kare.
(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407, eidition31)
1)Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e talaq surah no 65 ki tilawat karay ga Khuda os ki toba qabool karay ga jis mai ghunnah ki taraf dubara lotna na ho ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)
2) Hazrat Rasool e Khuda irshad farmatay hain k: Jo shakhs surah e tehreem surah no 66 ki tilawat karay ga to Khuda osay toba tun nusooh ki tawfeeq ata farmaye ga. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37)

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Question: mera apni sagi bahen se 3 SAAL SE NAJAYAZ RISTAH HAI.KYA YEH SAHI HAI?KYON KE BAHEN PAR PAHELA HAQ USKE BHAI KA HOTA HAI.

Answer: Shohar or biwi k ilawa kise or tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah-e-kabira hai.
Jo shaks shadi na kerne ki wajah se haram kam men mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay k shadi karay.
(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masail, Maslah # 2407)
(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Kya jina penis ko vagina me pura dalne ko kahte hai agar kisi ke saath ham sab kuch karen par penis ander na dalen to kya wo zina hai

Answer: Uzw e tanasul ka sharam-gaah main dakhil hona chahe kam ho ya ziyada zina hai, or ager dakhil na ho to zina nahi hai lekin dukhool ho ya is ke bageer jinsi lazzat hasil ki jaae dono cheezain haraam o guhnaah e kabera hain.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: assalamualaikum janab sawal yeh ke agher koi shaks apni biwi ki khala se (mother in law ki sister se) zana kerey to kiya us ka us ki biwi se nikaah toot jata he ya us per biwi haram ho jati he aur agher haram ho jati he to us ka hal(kufara) kiya he dobara biwi ko halal kerney ka

Answer: Gee nahi biwi ki khala se zina hojane ki surat men biwi apne shohar pr haram nahi hoti.
(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Offocial site: www.sistani.org )
Zina gunah e kabira hay. (Ref: Ayatullah_Sistani(d.b) Minhaj_ul_Saliheen, Part#1, Masla#30)
(Khuda apki tofeeqat men izafa frmaye)

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Question: Salam sir mera nam tosef hai m fsc ka student hu sir mjh sa duniya ka hr bura kam hua hai .sir mera ap sa yeh sawal hai k agar Koi insan kisi Larki sa mila kiss vgera kara to kia yeh zimra b zina m ata hai kia agr ata hai to is ka Kufara kia hai plz btain mjh sari sari rat nend nahi ati ..

Answer: Ye zina nahi hai magr gunah e kabeera hai,is ka kaffara sachi tauba hai.(Ref : Minhajus Salaheen Ayatullah Sistani d.b. Part #1, masla#30). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: If a person got married and his wife went abroad after 2 months and after 6 months he had the chance to meat her but before that he zina with a prostitude what is the kuffara for it and is there any thing wrong with his nikah and in his gyez relation with his wife?

Answer: 1)Zina krna gunahe kabeera hai magr is sy apka nikah nahi totayga. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah # 2367)
2)Zina kerne se nikah batil nahi hota. (Ref: Email rcvd from Ayatullah_Sistani(d.b). (Khuda apki tofeeqat men izafa frmaye)

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Question: agar koi ladka koi ladki sa shaadi sa pehla picha ki taraf apni samna ki cheez daala tu oska ki tauba kaisa hoogi

Answer: 1)Zina krna gunahe kabeera hai magr is sy apka nikah nahi totayga. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah # 2367)

2)Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364)

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Question: Sir question ye ha k agar koi larki kisi larke ko sex k liye majboor kare par karka razi na ho lekin akhir kar wo majboor ho jaye our hosh kho de our sex kar le to gunah larke ko b hoga kia

Answer: Ager larke ka iktiyaar shamil tha ager-che wo shehwat kea age majboor ho gaya to dono ne haraam o guhnaah e kabera anjaab diya. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: salam sir muj say aj bahoot bari ghalti ho gaiee hain mai shadi shoda hon lakin mai uae sharjah main hon our ik ourat mairay pechay pari ho v ti mai os ko gari mai lay gya our gari mai os k sat kissing kya , our kisisng our brest presing k dawran maira pani nikla halanki main os ko sirf kis kiya our tora hat mat lagaya tu kiya ye real zina mai ata hain ye mairi zindagi mai main nay pehli bar is kiya abi bahoot sherminda hon . our nidamat bi hain is k bad mai sida ger aya nahaya our ghusal kernay k bad masjid mai ja k namaz para our namaz k bad 2 rakat tuba k liya para our tora bahoot quran ka tilawat bi kiya .our tuba kiya.. lakin pir b mujay sakoon nahi milta. our jab apno say milta hon tu nidamat hoti hain jisa k in logon nai mujai is kertay ho way dika hon, halank mai nay sab say pahla doka allah ko diya hain our pir apni bv ko our apnay ma bap ko b ..lakin jo real zina hota hain wo mai nai nahi ki hain pleas sir koi is dowa bateya keh ainda ka li ya mai is aurat ki sohbat say door rahoo

Answer: 1) Jee nahi ye zina nahi hay balkeh zina se muraad ye hoti hay k “ Baghair nikah k aurat ki sharam gaah(vagina or anus) main aala e tanasul(penis) ko dakhil kerna.(Ref: http://sistani.org/index.php?p=297396&id=503 )
2) 1) Bivi k alawa kisi bhi mehram ko lazzat k iraday se chomna ya os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna haram hay or isi terah kisi bhi na-mehram aurat ko chooma or os se kisi bhi qisim ki jinsi lazzat hasil kerna ghunah e azeem hay or aap per is amal ki tauba kerna wajib hay.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 )(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30 )
3)Jis shaks ka nafs os k qabo main nah rehta ho tu wo sotay waqt seenay per haath rakh ker yaa mumeeto perhtay perhtay sojaay tu insha allah oska nafs os k tabay hojaay ga.(ref: nawaay saliheen, pg#286).
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Question: KYA SHADI SY PHLY SEX JAIZ H? QURAN IS K BARY MAIN KYA KHTA H?

Answer: shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: salam sir mujey ap say yeh sawal hay kay meri engagement ho gaye hay or mai apnay mangayter say 4 months say sex kar rahi hoo sir mujey is ka jald answer chaiye kay yeh jaiz hay na nai plz sir reply fast

Answer: (1) Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
(2) shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
3)Mangheter namehram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #2397, )
4)Jo shak shadi karnay hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtila hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
5) Agar koe shaks kisi aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).
6)Suche dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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