QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: Kya hust methun yani muthiye marna sahi h please answer

Answer: Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 1)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa

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Question: Salan ma ap say yeh pochna chah rhi hoon k agar kisi larki ka husband kafi arsay say dosri country may ho ur wapis b na a sakta ho jaldi ur zahri bat ha husband wife ka sex karnay ka dil b chahta ha bt yeh mumqin nhi to kia wo hath say mani nikal sakta ha ya nikal sakti ha zana say bachnay k liy ya apnay khayalat say bachnay k liy ur agar wo aisa na karay to kisi baray gunah ka andysha ho mayri ap say request ha k is ka ans publically na dia jay e mail kar di jay

Answer: Istemna kerna (hand practice) haram hai chahay kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Sohar apni jawan biwi sy 4 months sy ziada arsay k leay humbistri tarak nahi kr sakta. Or halat e nifaas main jima kerna haram hay. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #504, 2382) Note: Hum aap say guzarish kertay hain k aap is silsilay main apni bivi k lady doctor say ruju karain or on ki batae hoe ehtiyaat per amal karain. Q k bohot mumkin hay k bey-ehtiyaat i se jima kerne se kaheen pait k taankay khul nah jain. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: SLAAM,My question is that kya musht zani haram hai aur agr hai to iss k haram hone ki daleel kya hai.aur kya musht zani k baad aulad paida ho skti hai?please reply me

Answer: Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 1)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Hazrat imam jaffer e sadiq (a.s.) ka irshad he k surah e alhamd ka parhna mout k siwa har bemari ki dawa he. surah e hashr ko kholoos e dil k saath parhein to inshallah shifa ho gi. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 208 , 209) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Sir mjhe boht zyada lazat ati hai me control krna chaho tu bhi nhi karsakta or me mani zaya krdeta hon or tauba bhi krta hun phr wapis krta hun mere control se bahir hai

Answer: 1) Istimna (kise bhi tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)2) mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 )3) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: sir mein ap say yeh poochna chahta hu kay kia islam mein mashtzani kany waly kay liye kon sa azab rakha gaya hai qayamat kay din? or sir bar bar gunnah karo or phr toba kar lo or us kay baad phr say gunnah karo or phr toba kar lo chahy wo nafal say ki ada ki gai ho kia wo qabool hoge?

Answer: 1)Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)2) mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 )3) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). 4) Haram k baray mai sochna agar inzal(mani kharij hona) ka sabab na banay to ehtiyat e mustahabb hai k osay trk kia jae. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 2, sawaal # 199,pg # 82)5) Istemna ka kaffara toba krna hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 2, sawaal # 200,pg # 82)Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Agar aik larki khud ko sexually relax karne k liye khud by handjob karti hai r release hoti hai in case ghusal zaruri hai? Again clear karun k khud kare not with man

Answer: 1)Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)2) mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 )3) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: salam sir i need you help mai kae salon say ak din chor kar ak din mustzani karta hn mujay is say bachnay ka ka tarika batye r mujay kuch books kay name send kar dijya mare email id per mubashrat r din masial per jin ko per kar main apni zindagi behter guzar sakoon plz

Answer: 1)Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)2) mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344 )3) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye). sub se shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or this gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perha,e waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Mera sawaal hai k main haath se zina bahut hi zyda baar kar chukka hun but main apna gunaah khubool kar usski maafi mangna chahta hu aur chahta hun k muje paas hone ki Dua bheje

Answer: Hand practice(Istimna) karna kisi bhi zariay se ho haram he. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Masla # 462 pg # 253) 1)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah kin a fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Hazrat imam jaffer e sadiq (a.s.) ka irshad he k surah e alhamd ka parhna mout k siwa har bemari ki dawa he. surah e hashr ko kholoos e dil k saath parhein to inshallah shifa ho gi. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 208 , 209) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)
2) Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le. . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)(Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: mera sawal yeh he ke me hand practise ko kese choro yeh bht buri adat he nah

Answer: Ap per shadi karna wajib hai hia, or Imaam Jaffar o Sadiq (a.s) se marvi riwayat ke mutabiq, raat ko sone se pehle sura yaaseen ki tilawat karain.(Ref : mafaati ul jinaan , topic # Fazilat e Sura e Yaseen , pg # 04)(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Hi, I've a question . I always afraid about sins. My weakness is that I can't control on my sex. I did nothing in real life but sometime I waste my white water in my thoughts. After that I felt relaxed but the main thing I always Brock the swear of Allah. Please help me and tell me what should I do? I really so much love my Allah and only Allah is my witness and I dint break Allah's swear.

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, do marry. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2407). and daily recite Sura e Yaseen before seelping. (Ref : mafaati ul jinaan , topic # Fazilat e Sura e Yaseen , pg # 04). and daily recite the ya qudoso many time after the first time of Namaaz e zuhar. (Ref : nawaa e saleheen , pg # 283 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: assalam waleikum.... mera age 22 hai.. main abhi padhai kar rrha hu.. mera sawal yeh he k mujhe sex karne ka bhut man karta hai. meri girl friend v hai aur me shadi v usse hi karna chahta hu magar meri sex karne ki ichcha itni jyada badh jati hai k mai isse pareshan ho jata hu... aur dusri bat yah k mai itni jaldi shadi nahi karna chahta hu.. aur kya is halat me sex karne ke bajay masturbation karna sahi hai? plz btaiye me kya karu.? plz iska jawab mujhe mail kar dijiyega.. plz....

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, Imaam Jaffar o Sadiq (a.s) se marvi riwayat ke mutabiq, jo shaks raat ko sone se pehle sura yaaseen ki tilawat kare ga to ALLAH TAALA use her aafat, shetaan ke har shar se hifazat ke liye 1000 farishte muqarar kare ga or ager is hi din mar jaae to ALLAH TAALA is jannat main dakil kare ga. (Ref : mafaati ul jinaan , topic # Fazilat e Sura e Yaseen , pg # 04)(Istimna (masturbation) har surat men haram hai (Ref : Ayat ul Allah Sistani (db), Minhaj ul Saliheen part #01 , masla # 30) Ayse halat men shadi krna wajib hai (Ref : Ayat ul Allah Sistani (db),Tozeeh ul Masaail#33rd Edition, Masla#2407) ,(Allah Taala ki tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: KYA HAAT SE ZINA KAR KE KHUSHONA GUNAAH HAI TO PHIR KYA HUKUM HAI AUR SAZA KYA HAI

Answer: Guhnaah e Kabeera main se hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009).
Lehaza Rasool Allah (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Talaaq (Sura no 65) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Qadir o Tawana ki Baargaah e Muqaddasa main sache dil se toba o istigfaar karain. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Salam plz help me ma bohat arsay say hath say zina karti hoon us waqat mujay is k baray may pata b nhi tha bt jab mujay pata challa to ma nay allah say toba kar li ur ma 5 waqat namaz pabandi say parhnay lagi ur is tarhan ma apnay ap ko achi tarhan roak layti hoon ur har waqat wazoo may rehti hoon bt jab mujay mahwari yani periods hotay han us waqat ma apnay khayalat ko roak nhi sakti shaytan bohat zaida hawi ho jata ha dosray dino may agar mujay zara sa b khayal ay to ma soortain ur aytain parh layti hoon ya yeh soachti hoon k ma nay namaz parhni ha allah say toba ki ha bt periods may ma kia karoon soortain ur aytain b nhi parh sakti ur apnay khayalat ko b nhi roak sakti ma bohat zaida nhi karti bas breast say tthora kar lia ya oper oper say karnay say ma dsicharge ho jati hoon plz ap helo karain k ma in dinoon may kaisay rookon apnay ap ko

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, shadi kar lain. Rozana 1000 martaba ya Allaho ka wird karain. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail , edition # 31 , maslah # 2407) , (Ref : nawaa e saleheen , pg # 283).
Or is terhan se lazzat hasil karna haraam hai lehaza mahwari main un ayato ke ilawa jin main sajda wajib hai pura Quraan e Majeed o Duaain phar sakti hain, lekin alfaaz ko hath na lagaaeye ga.( Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai)

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Question: salam mera swal h k meri shadi ko 2 years ho gay hain or m last 8 month se apni biwi se door hun or roz skyp pe vedio chat kerta hun kya is surat m ager kisi din mera mani kharij kernay ko dil kery to kya m istamna ker sakta hun plz. send me email thanks

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009).
2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Hazrat imam jaffer e sadiq (a.s.) ka irshad he k surah e alhamd ka parhna mout k siwa har bemari ki dawa he. surah e hashr ko kholoos e dil k saath parhein to inshallah shifa ho gi. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 208 , 209) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Salam ! sir ma ne Quran Pak pr hath rakh k kaha tha k mje Quran ki qasam ma hand job nai krunga 48 din tk mgr phr kr betha. Pls ma bht pareshan hun mje koi hal btao maafi ka

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009).
2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Hazrat imam jaffer e sadiq (a.s.) ka irshad he k surah e alhamd ka parhna mout k siwa har bemari ki dawa he. surah e hashr ko kholoos e dil k saath parhein to inshallah shifa ho gi. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 208 , 209) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Sir, agar koi apna he body sa lazat la ya zana kary tu kaya hukuim, ha koi amal ya toba ka tareqa guide karday. bohat preshani ha.

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009).
2) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
3)Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)
4)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) 2) Toba karein Parwar digar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo toba karney walon ki toba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakhta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur ghuna se bachney k lie mazboot irada chahiea. (Ref : sistani.org ques # 1 , toba) 3)Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) ghunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassa’en 4) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 5)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 6)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain…. etc (ref : kitab tark e ghunahan k 40 tareeqe). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye) Hazrat imam jaffer e sadiq (a.s.) ka irshad he k surah e alhamd ka parhna mout k siwa har bemari ki dawa he. surah e hashr ko kholoos e dil k saath parhein to inshallah shifa ho gi. (Ref : Kitab Payam e Shifa pg # 208 , 209) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Sir mera question ye hy k jb hm penis ki safai krte hyn to penis strong ho jata hy or Musht Zani krne ka dil krta hy or hm kr lete hy lekin phr gusal ka tareka kia hy or hum nangi halat me hote hyn us waqt

Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.. (Ref: Ayatullah khoie Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2832
Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha khoie Masla # 2452)
Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: AGR men 1 week k andar andar kisi larki se mushawart ya handprectis Na karon To meri kamar men dard start ho jata h or matli mehsos hoti h. To mujhe KIA krna Chahye

Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai.(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
shohar aur biwi k ilawa kise aur tariqe se jinse lazzat hasil karna kerna gunah e kabira hay . .(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30),
Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
Jins e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69)
Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Salaam, mera sawal yeh hay k mere shadi ko 4 saal hue hay aur mei 3 saal se mulk se baher rozgar k liye aya hua hu apni wife k saath itna time spend nae ker saka so hum akser o beshter skpye pe ya watsup pe kuch personal discussions kerte hay about sexual life and all. so is conditions mei masturbation kerna jaiz hay larke k lie ? q k muta k liye munasib sahulat nahe hay aur agar muta proper na hua tu pher wo zina ho jaega is liye apni sexual needs ki waja se skype ya watsup pe chat kerte hue wife k saath masturbation kerna jaiz hay??

Answer: 1)istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009).
2)Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Laikin is se nikah nahi batil nahi hota.(tauzeehul masail,ayatollah Seestani,maslah #2382) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: a.w Maaine 6sal tak musthjani ki par ab Maine ye chor diya he par ab mujhe kamzori mehsoos hoti he or mujhe ehtlam bhi bahoot (takriban7din me 1 martaba)hota he iskeliye mujhe koi wajifa or koi homiyopethik ya aayurwedik madicin bataye plzz

Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
1)Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54)
2)Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Asslam agar koi film dek ne ke baad muth mar le to oya ghusul kar na cha he ye agar hai to ghusul ka tharekha bathein

Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. aur ye hi ghusal kafi hai namaaz perne k lie mazeed wuzu ki zarorat nahe hai(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 344,389 )
Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
Jis se ghunah hoya ho wo Suche dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba)
Ethiat e wajib ki bina per fahash filmoo aur tasweeron ka dekhna haram he, agar chahae shak aur lazzat k bagair dekha jay. Laikin ye (kaam) roze ko batil nahe karta (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 1576)(Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254)
Tertibi ghusal me ehtiyate lazim ki bi per ghusal ki niyat k baad phele pura sar o gardan aur baad me badan dhona zarori hai. 2) Agar koi shakhs badan ko sar se phele dho le to is k lye ghusl ka ieada (repeat) karna zarori nahe hai balke agar badan ko dobarah dho le to is ka ghusal sahe hai . (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 360) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: salam, me apni wife se 15,000 mils away hun, taqreeban 6 months ho gae hain kya hum mastrubation karsakte hain via phone or skype. because agey one more year tak mulaqat ka kuch pata nahi. please reply soon

Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462)
Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) . (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: Hath sa apna penis ko hila kar lazat dur kiya ja sakta hai

Answer: Jaiz nahi hai or Haram bhi hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 , Allah Taala hi tofiqaat main izafa farmaane wala hai).

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Question: Agar mn na kise ka liya kasam khaiye ha ka ainda ka baad us ka liya ma gandi cheezan dakhun ga aur na money kharij karun ga aur mn naaa kise larki ko dekh kar apne money kharij kar de to kia kasam Tota ge ki

Answer: istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 , Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 1553 )
Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
Qasam khanay ki shriat hain jo ye hain,( jin ki agar reaayat na ki jaay to qasam sahe nahe hai aur kaffaara bhi waajib nahe hogha ) 1 – qasam khanay wala baligh aur aaqil ho aur apnay ikhtiar sai qasam khae lehaza us shakhs ka qasam khana jisay mujboor kia gya ho durust nahi hai. 2 – aur qasam khatay waqt Allah ka nam lena bhi zaroori hota hai. Aur Quran ki aur kisi ki jaan ki qasam nhi hoti hai. 3 – qasam k alfaz zaban par lana zaroori hain. 4 – qasam per amal karna mokin ho. 5 – jis kaam ke anjaam dene ki qasam khaae zarori hai ke wo haraam ya makrooh na ho, or jis kaam ke tark karne ki qasam khaae zarori hai ke wo wajib ya mustahab na ho, or ager koi mubaah kaam karne ya na karne ki qasam khaae to ager uqalaa ki nazar main is kaam ko anjaam dena ya is ko tark karna behter ho ya is kaam main qasam khaane wale ke liye koi dunyaawi maslehat ho to is ki qasam sahi hai (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2634 , )
Agar qasam tamam shriat k sath khai jae to agar baad mai jan boojh kar is qasam k khilaf amal kray to wo gunahgar hai aur zaroori hai k kaffara dai. Yani 10 faqeero ko pait bhar kar khana khelaye ya inhe poshaak pinahe aur agar in amaal ko baja na la sakta ho to zarore hai k 3 din musalsal roze rakhe . Lakin agar qasam khanay walay k lie qasam khatay waqt amal krna mumkin ho aur baad mai is par amal krnay sai aajiz ho jae to jis waqt sai aajiz ho ga is waqt sai is ki qasam khatm ho jae gi.ya qasam par amal krnay sai itni mushaqat uthani pray jo is ki bardashat sai bahir ho to bhi ye hi hokum hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2633-34) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Mohtaram mein musht zani chorna chahta hun , mera jism bhi kafi hadd tak kamzor hai , azu e khas ki jarr bhi patli hai , murf chuka hai , ab aap hi rehnumai farmaen

Answer: Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 , Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 1553 )
Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker aap shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar aap khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).

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Question: mujh se mashq zani nahi chori ja rahi..

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij).
2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) . Update on dated 21-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Main 12 saal ki umar se masht zani karta hun aur ab main 16 saal ka ho gaya hun mujhe is bimari se picha chuda na hai main har time ye khud se wada karta hun ki next time nahi karunga magar masht zani hojati hai please mujhe kuch ilaj ya idea batain jisse ye kaam band ho

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij).
2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010) . Update on dated 21-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Salam, mera sawal ha k hand practice k baad ghusool lazmi ha?

Answer: Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 )
Jee haan, Mani kharij hone se namaz or is jaisi doosri ibadaat k liay ghusl e janabat wajib ho jata hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #344,389). Update on dated 30-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Asslawalekum Mai bahut handjob krta hu.....Aur bahut time se kr rha hu.....Please is ko band kr ne ka tareeka batay. ..

Answer: Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009). 2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 24-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam mera sawal ye hai k aksar nojawn larke mushtzani karte aya dorost hai q k un ki nazar mai zina se bachne se betr hai k mustzani ki jae

Answer: 1)Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna gunah e kabira hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah # 30 , Eidition 1430 hij). Update on dated 24-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
2)Jo shaks shadi nah hone ki waja se haram kaam me mubtila hota ho tu is per wajib hay k shadi kar le. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2407). Update on dated –2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Mera sawal ye hai ke mastrubation ko ek dum chor dene se agay chal kar nuksan tu nahi hoga

Answer: Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna gunah e kabira hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah # 30 , Eidition 1430 hij). Update on dated 24-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
Note: Aap is gunah e azeem ko fauran chorh dain.

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Question: Sir mujhe masturbation ki bhat gand adat hai main is se bahna chahta hun pr koi fark nai prhta .zehan main gande khayal ate hain or khud pr aksar control nai hota.meri ap se guzarish hai k is ka haal btain.meri.zindagi main sukoon nahi hai is waja se.main namazain bhi parhta hun din main 3 lazmi.aj mujh se phir ye kaam hogya puray 1 mahine baad.please mujhe ko.haal btain

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Minhajus saliheen, part#1, maslah #30 , edition 2009).
2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 24-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya maghrik ke bad yani roza kholne ke bad hastmethun kar skte0he?

Answer: Istimna(hand practice) haram hay or gunah e azeem hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). Update on dated 22-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: agar insan na pehla bht arsa handjob ke ho to bad majab wo isa yani hndjob chor da to sperm bht ziada nikla laga khas kar rat ko hafta ma 3 sa 4 bar to kia ya nuqsani ha ha to ilaj bta dan please

Answer: Istimna(kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 253 masla #462) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) 1)Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) 2)Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. Update on dated 24-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalam wa Alaikum mera sawal ye hai ki kya hast mathun karna jaiz hai agar han to kya ramzan me jaiz hai?

Answer: Jaiz nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah # , Eidition 1430 hij). Update on dated 28-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sir aj ma ny rozy ki halat my uth k apny pory hosh o hawas my nhi tha aur mashtzani kr di, phli br aisa hua h, mjy shak tha k shyd roza toot jata h pr kahin parha likha nhi tha,phr ma ny ghussal kr k net py search kia, abi tk kuch khaya peya nhi, ma bht pareshan hu mera roza hai ya nhi, ma Allah se toba krna chahta hu koi asaan sa hal bta dain plz, ma roza aftar time iftar karu ya mera roza toot gya h, ma bht zyada pareshan hu mjse bht ghalat ho gya h aj plz koi asaan kuffara bata dain, 60 rozy rakhna to bht mushkil kaam h

Answer: 1)Mushtzani kerna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij).
2)Agar aap ne mushtzani jaan bojh nah ki ho(maslan pore terah se hoosh main nah hoon k kia ker rahe hain) ya apne ikhtiyaar se nah ki ho tu aap ka roza sahi hoga. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael jame,Edition# 1435,Mafhoom e Maslah #2027). Update on dated 28-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sir mai masht zani pa kie salo sa mubtla ho mojae koi jasmani kamzoori nhi ha or na hi ma ese chor sakta ho Maine kie koshish ki ha magar nakam rha or ap har ans ma shadi ka ziker karha ho 3ya5saal tak shadi ma nhi karskta 18year old plz rply me

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). Update on dated. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).
2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 29-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: p accordibg to tibb e imam Jafar e Sadiq( a.s),what is the treatment of pre mature ejaculation(surat e inzal)?

Answer: 1)Imam a.s. farmatay hein k jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54)
2)Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. Update on dated 29-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sir mere zehn m har wkt sex ki batain hoti hain dil karta hai kisi k sath zana karn pr khuda ka khof bhi hai lekin phr bhi gunahgar hn hp karta rehta hn magr ankhon ki nazarkam hoti ja rhi hai plz mje koi hal batae m mentaly bht disturb hogya hn

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). 2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 05-07-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sir meri age 22 h or m 12 saal ki age se hand job kr rha hn or mera penis bhi tedha ho gya h mjhe darr h k mjhe is se shadi k bad koi prblm na ho olz clear m?

Answer: Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. Update on dated 05-07-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: A.o.a sir me 19 saal ka hu me takreban 6,7 saal phly se mustzani ka shikar hu jiski wja se me bht kamzor b ho gya hu bht koshish b ki ha chorny ki mgr chor nhi paa rha ...jiski waja se mera dick b terra ho gya hai ..me bht preshan hu ..ab to uthny bethny me b tanggi hoti ha...plzzzzzz tell me some solution...plzzz

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij).
2)Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. Update on dated 17-07-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Kia shoher aur bivi aik doosray ko hath say masturbate keraktay hain bivi penis ko aur shoher clotirus to masturbate kary.... kia ye haraam amal he.?? Reply soon

Answer: Shohar or bivi k liay jaiz hay.(Ref: http://www.sistani.org/arabic/qa/0262/). Update on dated 21-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: aslam o alekum maine 7 sal hand practice ki thi ab chore hua 1 sal ho gaya hai to is se mujhe koi nukhsan toh nahi hoga plz meri parishani door karein

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). 2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 22-12-2015.. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Mashat Zani Ka kiay gunha hy or isy kesy bacah jay??

Answer: 1)Mushtzani krna haram hai chahae kisi bhi zarie sai ho. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 462, pg # 253).
2) jis ka nutfa kam ho ya kamzoor ho os k chahaea k sab se pehlay khuda ki bargah me istegfar karay aur is k bad anday(egg) aur piaz kasrat se khaien. (ref : kitab tib e islam pg # 54) 2)Homoeopathic Medicine damiana pentarkan drops(Made in Germany Dr. willmar schwabe karlsruhe) subah, dopeher, raat 10 qatray aik ghoont pani main daal ker istemaal karain insha allah jald hi tamaam jinsi bimariyan khatam ho jay gi. .Update on dated 24-12-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalam o Alaikum My question that jb insaan napak hojata ha to for example hand job say to agar wo nahanay say pahlay kuch kha lay to wo lalah ho ga ya haram .... and i dont know what is Mujtahid-e-Taqleed mean es liye main nay koi b select kar diya koi reply kb tak milay ga

Answer: 1)Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009).
2)Ghusal se phele khana jaiz hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #354 ). Update on dated . (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: musht zani ki magferat k liyea kia krna chahiyea?

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). 2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 25-01-2016. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: musht zani ki magferat k liyea kia krna chahiyea ? mery aek aziz is masly ka shikar hain guzehsta kuch mahino sy, or chor nae pa rhy .

Answer: 1)Istimna (hand practice/ masturbation) karna gunah e azeem hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). 2)sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 25-01-2016. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Asllamu alikum. Darasal main bohat pareshan hoon masturbation Kay huwalay sai main is bemari sai Jan churana chahta Hun main nai kasam bih khai Kai main nahi karoon GA magar phir bhi ho jati hai ...is bar main nai apnay app sai kaha tha Kai agar main nai apnay board Kai paper sai pehlay masturbation ki to meray paper achay nahi hon gai or apne ap sai kaha tha Kai agar dobara ki to to shiat say bahar ho Jay GA .. Main pochna yeh chahta hoon Kai Kia mery kahi hoi bat ka asar ho GA agar ho GA to koi kafara bhi bta dejiay GA im 15 years old. And I am in a big danger plz help me ...it is eating me inside plz plz plz help me help me

Answer: Istimna karna (kise tariqe se mani kharij) karna ghuna kabira hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 2009 )
Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
Jis insaan se ghuna hoya ho wo Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010). . Update on dated 23-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Agar ik unmarried larki fingring krti ha to iske liay usko kya Azaab Dia jay ga ALLAH PAK KI TRAF SY ?

Answer: Aurat k lye apne sharamgha ko itna chaire chaar jaiz nahe k is ki lazat aooj tak pouch jaay aur is ki (mani kharij )hojaay aur agar is se is ki lazat aooj tak pouch jaay aur is ka behne wala mawaad kharij ho jaay to is per ghusal wajib ho gha aur wazu ki jagha ise ghusal per iqtefa karsakte hai .(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg no. 266 masla #506 eidition 5)
Jo shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407). Update on dated 23-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: asslamulikum: masht zani say ghusal karna hay ya nahi.

Answer: 1)Mushtzani kerna gunah e kabira hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 1 , Maslah #30, eidition # 1st ).
2)Agar musht zani k natijaey main mani kharij ho tu namaz or is jaisi deegar ibdaat k liay ghusl e janabat kerna zarori hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #356). Update on dated 15-03-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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