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Question: Bv se gand me mubashert karna islam me jiez he ya nehe me ne suna he k islam me bv se gand me mubashrat kaney se neka toto ta he

Answer: Biwi k peechay (back) k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Note: Bivi se anal sex kerne se nikah nahi tootta. Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam kiya ramzan k rato main biwi say sex karna chahey k nahe ? plz answer me

Answer: Ramzaan ki raato me biwi se sex karsakte hai laikin waqt e namaaz e fajar se phele ghusl e janabat kar lena zarori hai. (Ref: Ayatullah khoie Tauzeehul masail, maslah # 1581,1628). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kiya biwi say pechay(back side) sex karni chahey k na he

Answer: shohar ka bivi se peechay(back side) sex karna ehteyaat e lazim ki bina per haraam hai. (Ref: Ayatullah khoie Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 456). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mera sawal ye hy keh haiz ka khun husband dekh sakta hy kia ????? plzzzz mujhe jaldi ans de dein

Answer: jaiz hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: bivi ko pyar karte waqt kuch word bolna jaise chodna ,land ,chut. kya yeh sahi hai ya nhi. pls rely.

Answer: Sohar aur Biwi aik doosray sai fahash batain kar saktay hain.laikin Jima krtay waqt batain krna makrooh hai. aur Hadees main hai ke Ager jima ke waqt baat ki jaae to khoof hai ke bacha goonga peda ho). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (or riwayat k mutabiq walden ki bolchal ka asar hone wale bachhe per hota hai) (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2,3, masla # 34,5),(Ref : tehzib ul islaam , baab # 4 , topic # mubashirat ke aadaab , pg # 130 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Aslam janab maine bahut se question ask kiya par koi question ka jawab nahi mila Mera question hai kya biwi ko bathroom main Sohbat Karna jayej hai ya nahi Agar biwi raaji Ho to Janab ye important quuestion Apke jawab ka hame behat intajaar rahega

Answer: Jee han jaiz hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30,eidition 1430 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mary husband ko bohat adadt hai mari sharamgah may finger dal kay raknay ki yaha tak kay wo 4 fingurs dai kar tv dakty hai

Answer: Shohar apne bivi ki sharamgaah main ungli(finger) daal sakta hai aur ungli(finger) daal ker mani nikaal sakta hay laikin jism k hissay k alawa koe aur cheez sharamgaah main ehtiyaat ki bina per dakhil nahi ker saktay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236, email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b)+ e-mail rcvd from A.Sistani d.b, dated: Jan 20, 2012)). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mera sawaal ye hain ke kya Husband biwi ki Pechle shahramga(Ass) main Ungli kar sakta hain ya biwi Husband ke Pechle shahramga(Ass) main ungli kar sakta hai ta ke biwi se sex main maza hasil kary plz tafsil se jvb de or mere sawal ka jvb zaror de tannxxxx

Answer: Shohar apne bivi ki sharamgaah main ungli(finger) daal sakta hai aur ungli(finger) daal ker mani nikaal sakta hay laikin jism k hissay k alawa koe aur cheez sharamgaah main ehtiyaat ki bina per dakhil nahi ker saktay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236, email rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b)+ e-mail rcvd from A.Sistani d.b, dated: Jan 20, 2012). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalamalikum. Kya biwi ke saath. Oral sex kar sakte. Hai Aur unki sharamgah me ungli dalsakte hai

Answer: Miyan biwi apas men har qism ki lazzat hasil kr sakte hen albatta agr biwi razi na ho to us se backside se sex krna haram hai. shohar apne bivi ki sharamgaah main ungli(finger) daal sakta hai ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2, masla # 34) , (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 406 pg # 236 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: sir , apni wife k saath back side se jama karne se nikah toot jata he k nahi ?

Answer: Nahi tootta, lekin ager bivi razi na ho to ehtiyaat e wajib ke tor per back se karna haraam hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: ASSLAM O ALEKUM .YA ALI a.s MADAD kia mard apni bivi ki sharm gaah ko chom sakta hai ya chose sakta hai . agar chose le to gunah hai plz hilp me

Answer: Choose sakta hai, mager sharam-gaah se nikalne wali ratobat ko pena (halq se neeche le jana) ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam mer 2 sawal hain(10 meri shadi honay wali hai bivi kay sath kaise sex kro k hamal ho jaye aur kitni dafa sex kro (2) sex krtey howe phele bivi ki dischager hona chaey ya mard ko?

Answer: jima se pehlay masaas(orgasm) k baad jab jima shuru kia jaay tu jab jima k doran aurat k munzil hone (discharge) k bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baytabana harakaat karay, merd se chumtay, liptay, apne hatho ya taango se merd ko kas ker daba,ay. Tab merd bhi jaldi jaldi dkhool(inserting of penis) or ikhraaj(emiting of penis) ker k farigh ho jaay, agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haatho ya taango se merd ko kas k daba rahi ho takeh merd alag nah ho tu merd ko chahiay k is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul(penis) ko aurat ki sahramgaah se bahar nah nikalay jab tak k aurat munzil nah hojaay, phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal ker merd aahistagi se aurat se alag hojaay.(Ref: Mafhoom e Islam or jinsiyaat, mu,allif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg#151). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mera sawal yi hai ap se k mere wife bar bar mujhse talaq mangti hai

Answer: Rasool khuda (s.a.w) se marvi Hadees ke mutabiq Ager ap un ke sath apne rawaiye o aklaak (jese bolne ka andaaz, un ki zaroriyaat ki chezoon ka kayaal wageera) acha bana lain to wo ap se mohabbat karne lagain gi. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 ,Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: A-s-a sir meri shadi ko 2 saal hony ko hn or ak byti b hy 10 mah ki magar mery husband hm sy juri ko zimmay-dari pori nae karty garh ma b hr waqat larayn rahti hn meri sas b in larayn ma barpoor kirdaar ada karti hn mera wahn rahna mushkil ho gaya hy or ak mah pahly meri ami mujy apny garh ly a e the or a b tak koe lyny nae aya jb k mery husbnd ny kaha tha ma aon ga or ab ma wahn jana nae chah rae asal ma mujy ye janna hy k mery liay kaya theek hy ???????? Plz help me ma us garh ma nae jana chahti par ma apny husbnd ko chorna nae chahti plz help me

Answer: Hadees main manqool hai, jis main (aik orat ne sawaal kiya) kiya, ya Rasool Allah! Shohar ka haqq zoja per kya hai (ya bivi per kya kya cheezain farz hain)? Farmaya, lazim hai ke us ki itaat kare, kisi waqt or kisi hal main us ki nafarmaani na kare, jis waqt wo mubashirat ka irada kare inkaar na kare chahe wo unoot ki pusht per hi kun na sawaar ho, phir us(orat)ne arz ki, ya Rasool Allah! Mard per kis ka haq sab se bara hai? farmaya, baap ka, arz ki (orat ne) orat per sab se bara haq kis ka hai? farmaya, shohar ka, arz ki (orat ne) shohar per mera haq itna nahi hai(jitna mere per shohar ka hai)?farmaya, nahi. or ik dosri Hadees main manqool hai ke (orat per farz hai ke )kisi raat is halat main na sooe ke us ka sohar us se naraaz ho, us orat ne arz kiya, ya Rasool Allah! Chahe us orat ke shohar ne kitna hi zulum kiya ho? Farmaya han chahe kitna hi zulum kiya ho. (Ref : tehzib ul islaam , baab # 4 , topic # hoqooq e zojain , pg # 140 , 141).( Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mera sabaal ye hai ki.aksar log bibiki sak kartai hai aur bibi sohar kovi..kya aisa karna gunah hai yah kya hai plz yeska answer chaiye

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat halaq mian nah jaay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: assalam u alaikum. sawal ya ha k bewi ko kis trh leta k chodna chahye. Islamic tareka plz meri 2 mahina bud shadi ha plz plzzz wazaht kejega

Answer: 1,2) jima se pehlay masaas(orgasm) k baad jab jima shuru kia jaay tu jab jima k doran aurat k munzil hone (discharge) k bilkul qareeb ho yani wo baytabana harakaat karay, merd se chumtay, liptay, apne hatho ya taango se merd ko kas ker daba,ay. Tab merd bhi jaldi jaldi dkhool(inserting of penis) or ikhraaj(emiting of penis) ker k farigh ho jaay, agar ittefaaq se aurat is waqt tak munzil nah ho or wo apne haatho ya taango se merd ko kas k daba rahi ho takeh merd alag nah ho tu merd ko chahiay k is waqt tak apne aala e tanasul(penis) ko aurat ki sahramgaah se bahar nah nikalay jab tak k aurat munzil nah hojaay, phir khuch dair baad penis ko nikaal ker merd aahistagi se aurat se alag hojaay.(Ref: Mafhoom e Islam or jinsiyaat, mu,allif doctor muhhammed taqi ali abdi, pg#151).. Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Salamun ale kum mai pahle bhi sawal kar chuka hu lekin mujhe jawab nahi mila plz reply kare. Mera sawal ye hai ki agar wife k sath oral sex karte waqt fluid ka taste tounge pe aye aise ki halaq k niche na jaye to kya ye haram hai. Plz plz reply fast.

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15), Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) kar sakta hay lekin shohar biwi ki breast ko suck karey aur moohn mai doodh aa jaye, to ehtiyat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah pia jay (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org) .). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Kea wife ko pichy sy krna jaiz hy

Answer: Ager razi ho to jaiz hai lekin shaded makrooh hai. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Mera Sawal yeah hy k shadi k bad wife aur hony Waly bachy pr kharch Kis ko krna chaiye agr wo Apny waldain k ghar hu shadi k bad wife k Nan-o-nafka ki zimadari shohr ki h ya ya shohar k ghar waloo'n ki agr shohar out of country hu

Answer: Daimi nikah(Permanent Marriage) k baad biwi ki ghiza, libaas, rehaish aur zandigi ki baqi zaroriyaat ka intezaam shohar par wajib hai or isi tarah bache k akhrajaat shohar per wajib hote hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah # 2014,2376). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Moharram mn kitny dinno tk biwi k sth humbistari nhn kr saktry?? aur woh kon kon sy hain??

Answer: Sharai tor pe to halat e haiz o nifaas ke dino k elawa jima kiya ja sakta hai (Albatta Moharram ul Hram k mahine men jimaa ko tark krna apke apne aqeede or ehtrram se taliq rakhta hai). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 448, 504). Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: AOA... mera sawal ye hai k biwi ki sharmgah ko choom/choos/chaat skte hen or sharmgah se nikalne wala pani pi sakte hen or vegina ,anal suck kr skte hen or fingures in krskte hen??????

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaye ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) Shohar or biwi k liye jaiz hai k wo aik dosray k jism k tamaam hisso(parts) ko jism k kisi bhi hissay(part) say choo(touch) saktay hain.ye choona chaahay lazzat k iraday say ho ya baghair lazzat k, jaiz hay). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaa jus saliheen,maslah #11). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalam o Alaikum..... Kia husband nikah k baad apni wife say un alfaaz k ko bolnay pay insist kar sakta hai jo nazeeba alfaaz hon mtlb body parts k name punjabi mein ganday hotay hain to kia unkay name lene pay insist karna husband ka jaiz hai ya nhi jabkay wife un alfaaz ka name lene say gareez kar rai hun ya hasitation feel karay plz tell me about this........

Answer: Biwi se khud fahash batain ki ja sakti hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 2, masla # 34). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Mera 1 yeh bhi sawal hai k kiya nikah k bad (rukhsati se phle)husband wife 1.2sre k samne a skte hain bat kr skte hr trh ki.?humare kuch ristedar rukhsati se phle husband wife k milne ko bura smjte hein is bare mai islam kya khta h?aur shohr k k chahne p phone aur msgs pr sex?aur rukhsati se phle sex krne k bary mai kya ehkam hain?

Answer: Nikah k baad aurat aur mard aik dosere se baat cheet karsakte hai aur aik dosere k saamne aasakte hai (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2330) Agar Riwaj yahi ho k jab tak rukhsati na hoti is waqt tak larki apnay aap ko apnay shohar ko jima(sex) k lie paish nahi karti, is tarah sai k ise aik zimne shart samjha jata ho to phir aurat k liye nikah k bad rukhsati se phelay shohar k liye apne aap ko paish karna wajib nahi hai, (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 149, pg # 72). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Husband mujhay ami k ghar chor gay hain or koi rabta nahi ha oab meray ghar walay kahtay hain main kula lay lo lakin main asa nahi cahati plz koi wazifa bata dain

Answer: Mian biwi ki aik doosray se mohabbat o ulfat k lie har namaz k bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat # 7 ko 7 martaba parha karain. Is se donoo me bai-misal mohabbat qaim ho jay gi. (ref : kitab naway salaheen pg # 404)
Note apne shohar se kud contract kar ke un se wapis jane ki kuhaish zahir karain, or apni zindagi main ache se ache aklaaq o kirdaar ko apnane ki koshish karain. (Ref : Nawadir ul Ahadees , jild # 1 , Topic # behtreen shaks ki nishaandahi , pg # 62 ).. Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: asalam o alikum sir main ny ap sy puchna tha k 1st night kya biwi ko nutfa sy touch krna zarori ha matlb k condum sy ki ye bagar , kya condum k sath kr skty ha , ma ny puchna tha k condum k sath kry to kya jaiz ha r next day walima jaiz hoga k naio ya nutfa ko bia ksi chez k dena ha biwi ko phr jaiz hai walima . plz haddes ki roshi ma btana or book ka raf bi dna plllllllllz

Answer: pehli raat ko jima karna zarori nahi, or valima ke sahi hone main jima ka hona shart nahi hai, or ager bivi razi na ho to ehtiyaat e wajib condum ka istamaal jaiz nahi hai is k elawa condum use krna jaiz hai. (aqa sistani jaded fiqhe masail ,masla # 465 , pg # 254) , (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 4 , 388 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya shadi ki pahli rat ko orat or mard ko apas my mubashrat karna zarori ha?

Answer: Shadi k pehli raat hambistari kerna wajib nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), email rcvd). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: a.A mera swal hai kya admi apni b.v ki back side sy sex kary to kya nikah ttooott jata hai?

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi na hone ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay albatta nikah dono suraton men nahi tootta). Update on dated 20-11-2015. ( is se nikah nahe toota ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B.) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya b.v sy sucking karwai ja sakti hai or kya admi b bov ki sharmgah may zuban dal kar sucking kar sakta hai plzzz telll me?

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain, magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian na jaye (Miyan biwi ek dusre se har qism ki lazzat hasil kr sakte hen albatta agr biwi razi na ho to phir peeche ki side se sex krna jaiz nahi hai)Ref : Ayat Ullah Sistani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalam-u-Alaikum... Qibla mera nikah ho chuka hai magar abhi shadi nahi hui aur meri wife apnay parents kay ghar hai. Kia is soorat mein apni bv kay sath sohbat kar sakta hoon. Aur agar aisa karta hoon to ye gunah consider ho ga ya nahi? Rehnumai farmaye. Allah ap ko sehat aur lambi zindagi ata karay. Ameen

Answer: Agarche Nikah ka baad mard aur aurat aik dosere per halaal ho jaate hai laikin nikah k baad aur rukhsati se phele agar larki apne baap k ghar me ho to us larki k shohar k lie us larki k baap k ghar me aane jane aur larki se raabte k lie zarori hai k larki k baap se ijazat le
Agar Riwaj yahi ho k jab tak rukhsati nahe hoti is waqt tak larki apnay aap ko apnay sohar k0 (jima) k lie paish nahi karti, is tarah sai k ise aik zimne shart samja jata ho to phir aurat k lie nikah k bad rukhsati se phelay sohar k lie apne aap ko paish karna wajib nahi hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul beore masail 31st edition, maslah #2328 ),(ref: nigha o libaas ,dafter aqa sistani),(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 149, pg # 72). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Mugh sy ak bhoat bra gunah ho gaya ha me bhoat pershan hu plz Sir me ny apni wife ki back side use ki h kia mera nikah tooth gaya h mughy kia krna chahyia Allah pak sy mughfrat ki dua h k mughy muf farmay me ap k answr ka muntazir hu

Answer: Ehtiyaat e lazim k taur per aurat ki back ki janib se jima (intercourse) haram). (Ref : Ayatullah khoe(r.h) Tauze ul masael, maslah # 456. Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Salam, Agha Sahib, sb sy pehly ham Rab e Kareem sy Doa Goo hy k apko iss Azeem kam k krny pr ajr e Azeem Ata Farmayee. Ameen. Molana sahib mera ak question hy kindly jawab jald sy jald send kr dena ap ki mehrbani hoo gii ta ham islam pr amal pera hoo sky. Agha Sahib mera swal ye hy k kia ak insan jis ka nikah hoo chuka hoo magr abi Rukhsti na howi ho matlb abi Shadi na howi hoo aur us ki wife abi apny Parents k gaar ho to kia woo walden parents sy chup kr rat ko ya kisi bi waqt donoo mill skty hy maa baap ko dhoka dy kr ku k abi hamry moshara to uny milny ki ijezaat ni deta ku k abi un ki shadi ni howi just nikah howa hy ? kindly jawab zaroor de dy jald sy jald. kia agr wo donoo chup kr milly aur just kiss hug etc kry to koi gunha to ni hy ku k un k parents to abi ye bardasht ni kry gy naa ? plz give me the answer with detail. Allah paak apki Tofeiqaat mein Izafa farmayee ameeen.

Answer: Sigah nikah k zarie mard aurat per aur aurat mard per halal ho jate hai(yani mian biwi wale talukat qaim ker sakte hai) laikin nikah k baad aur rukhsati se phele agar larki apne baap k ghar me ho to us larki k shohar k lie us larki k baap k ghar me aane jane aur larki se raabte k lie zarori hai k larki k baap se ijazat le . (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) before Masla # 2328) ,(ref: nigha o libaas ,dafter aqa sistani). Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya bibi ka chuchi aur chut peene se nikah toot jata hai

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko monh(mouth) laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay. Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay,leikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moo mai doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah piaya jaay(yaani halaq say neechay nah utara jaay.) Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) ,(laikin is se nikah nahe toota). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf.org). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalamualekum wa rehmatullahi wa barkatahum : hazrat mera sawal yeh hai ki 7 saal pehle mera ek ladki se contact hua woh bhi musalman hai. Uss waqt mera rishta apne hi rishtedaro mai hua tha. Uss ladki ne kaha bhi ki rishta chudwalo aur mujhse nikah karlo. Par uss waqt ke halat dekh kar aisa nahi hua aur meri shadi mere rishte daro mai ho gayi shadi ke 15 din baad woh larki phir contact mai aa gayi. Jisse meri shadi huyi thi usse 2 judwa bache bhi ho gaye. Phir wih ladki aur mai milne bhi lage. Dono ne faisla kiya ki hum dono gunah kar rahe hai to dono ne nikah ka faisla kiya. Aur 2 saal pehle nikah karliya. Nikah se pehle ladki ki shart thi ki tum pehli biwi ke pass nahi rahoge to maine kaha ki aisa nahi ho sakta waha bache bhi hai unka bhi haq hai to hafte mai 2 raate waha rukne ki baat par nikah ho gaya. Woh ladki job bhi karti hai. Iss nikah ke bare mai ladki ki 2 behne hai unko pata hai aur meri pehli biwi ko bhi pata hai. 2 mahine se jisse maine nikah kiya tha woh mujhse baat nahi kar rahi hai. Baat na karne ki wajah yeh hai uska kehna hai ki tum pehli biwi ke saath humbistri karte ho aur mai yeh bardhast nahi kar sakti aur sab mujhe dusri wali kahege. Aur 15 din se woh city se bhi bahar chali gayi hai maine bahut koshish karli uske dosto se aur behno se puchne ki par koi nahi bata raha ki kaha hai woh. Aur jane se pehle jab baat huyi thi to keh kar gayi thi ki dono biwiyo mai se ek ko rakhna padega. Mai dono mai se kisi ko nahi chodna chahta. Uske ghar mai maa bimar hai phir bhi woh ghar se chali gayi. Aur mere ghar mai jo meri biwi hai woh meri haalat dekh kar kehti hai ki agar woh yeh kehti hai ki mujhe talak dedo to usko manzur hai par usko jaha bhi gayi hai dhund kar uske ghar le aao. Iss halat mai mai kya karu. Aur jo bahar gayi hai usme nikah nama bhi phad diya. Deen ki roshni mai app hazrat se guzarish hai ki masle ka solution bataye.

Answer: Aap ke liye dono ko rakakhna mustahab hai, lehaza 1st bivi or bacho ke sath achi zindagi guzaarye, ager 2nd bivi Shariat e Muqaddasa ke hokum se razi ho jayae to dono biviyon ko kush rakhye, or ager na mane to usko talaaq dena jaiz hai (q k unka mutalba gher-sharaee hai). (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 3 , sawaal # 105 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia syed larki kisi gair syed sey shadi kar sakti hai

Answer: shia syed larki kise ghair syed shia larke se shadi kar sakte hai.(Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, Maslah # 221 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya shadi ki pehli raat sex krna zruri hai???

Answer: Shadi ki pehli raat hambistari kerna wajib nahi hay. (ref : E-mail rcvd from sistani(d.b),dated:26. 05-2010)). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Hazrat main ek baray pecheeda maslay main phansa hoon Main married hoon mera ek beta hay 5 months ka or meri wife meray sath or main s k sath rehna nahi chahtay wo pichlay 5 months say apnay ghar per bethi hay,wo aana nahi chahti na us k ghar walay bhejna chahtay hain,bat is qdar barh gae hay k meray walid shb b usay nahi rkhna chahtay or mjh per is qdar tohmain lagai gae meri wife ki taraf say k ab mera b us k sath guzara nahi, dosri taraf main ksi ko pasand b karnay laga hon is qadar k us k siwa kuch dikhae nahi deta or wo ksi or say engaged hay magar wo mjhsay shadi karna chahti hay or us tk pohanchnay ka b door door tk koi rasta nahi hay,main ab shadi karna chahta hon us say,mjhay smjh nahi arha kcuh b yeh sb kia hogya meri zindagi main mera hasnta ghr ujar gya or ab main us larki k sath rehna chahta hon..mjhay kia karna chahye or konsa rasta behta hoga??in sb ki wajha kia hay??

Answer: (Aap ko apne ghar ko bachane ki koshish karni chahiye, lehaza apni zoja ko wapas lane ki koshish karain, or us) larki se dori iktiyaar karain, kun ke is terhan ki dosti o mohabbat jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69 ). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: sir mene apni wife k sath piche se sex kar liya hai kya is ki mafi hai

Answer: Biwi k peechay(back) ke maqam(maqam e pakhana) main jimaa(intercourse) krna biwi k raazi na honay ki sorat men ethiyaat-e-wajib ki bina pr haram hai,agr biwi razi ho tu jaiz hay lekin shadeed makrooh hay). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sir , mai ye poucha chahta hoon kah agar aek banda ( Adult ) kisi aurat yaa apni biwi (Adult ) ka dhood pita hai , to kiya ye jaiz hai ya najaiz . PLZ jaldi bata dain

Answer: Shohar biwi ki breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay,leikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moo mai doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k biwi ka doodh nah piaya jaa (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf.org). Shohar or bivi k ilaawa namehram aurat k jism k tamaam hisso ko touch karna haraam hai .(ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaa jus saliheen,maslah #16). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia husband wife se sex na karein 15 din ke andar.. tu nikah toot jata hai

Answer: Biwi apne shohar ko humbistri se nahe rook sakte maker ye k koi sharhe waja ho laikin is se nikah nahe toota . Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2382, 2462)). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Salamwalekum my shaadi shuda hoo, meri love marriage huie my ab paisa kamane gulf ko aa gaya aur meri aurat mujhe bohut yaad ati jai, my majboor hoon, aur my phone par sex ki baat karta hoon meri biwi se kya ye Jaiz hai Islam me please give me answer quieckly

Answer: Shohar or bivi aik doosray fehesh (sexy) batain ker sakte hain. ( Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),minhajus saliheen,part#, maslah #5+11). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sir quraan me tmhaari biwi tmhaari kheti h jis taraf se chaho dakhil ho Lekin ek sahaba ne Allah ke nabi se pocha mene apni biwi ke saati piche she humbistari Ki Allah ke nabi ne mana kr dya or ye haraam Bhi he ab aap is baat par roshni daaliye aap kis cheez ke according bta rhe ho isko isko biwi Ki marzi ke upar depend he

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna biwi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar biwi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Ref : Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia shadi k bad bv k hath se maqad se sperm nklwaa skte hen .

Answer: Biwi apne shoar ki sharmgah(penis) hathon main lay kar mani nikaal kar sakti hai.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15). Update on dated 20-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalam o alaikum mufti sahib.sir mera yeh question hai k kya shohar aur bivi ikhtai nangai naha saktai hain?kya tubelight ki roshni main 2no humbistri kr saktai hain ya humbistri k liyai andhera hona zaroori hai?plz jaldi jawab dain shukria

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosre k sath nange naha sakte hain aur humbistri karte waqt andhera kerna zarori nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 3, Mafhoom e Maslah #11 , Eidition 1427 hij). . Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: meri wife ko date ha kiya ma us k sath sex kr skta ho???

Answer: Halat haiz main bivi se hambistari kerna haram hay.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Khoe(r.a), Tauzee hul masael, Mafhoom e Maslah #456). ). Update on dated 19-11-2015 (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya bachay ki paidaish k bad 40 din se pahlay mard aurat k sath mubashrat kr skta he ye halal hogi ya haram?

Answer: Agar aurat haiz aur nifaas se paak ho to os se humbistri ki ja sakte hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #448). . Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam wife ke saat sex us ki body par kissing boobs sab kuch us ke saat karsakte hai ye malom hai bus ye bata hay sharamgha par hath laga sakte hai ye bhi malaom hai us par zaban tou nahi phar sakte na wo tou napak chezz hai replay

Answer: sharamgah per zaban lagana jaiz hay, laikin sharam-gaah se nikalne wali ratobat halaq tak pohchana jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Mafhoom e Istiftaat I-2,I-15).. Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: AoA Mera nikaah ho chuka hy but abi rukhsati nai huii Kia mera us k sath physical relation ho sakta hy rukhsati se pehly kiuu k sharaii tor pe hum mian bv hen?? Plz ans

Answer: Jaiz hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2327). . Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey). ). Update on dated 19-11-2015.

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Question: Assalam o Alaikum,, mera sawal ye h k mian r biwi k darmayan bol chal kitne arse k lye bnd ho to nikah khatam ho jata h kindly mere is sawal ka jaldi jawab dijyega...

Answer: shohar or bivi ki dermiyaan bool-chaal katam hone ki wajah se nikah katam nahi hota. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2462 to 2472).. Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kya shohar haiz k dinon mein bivi k pichly sorakh sy dakhil ho skta hy?

Answer: Bivi ki raza mandi ki sorat main jaiz hai laikin shaded makhrooh hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b) Al-masail e mutakhaba,Mafhoom e Maslah #67).. Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: MAIN EK LRKE KO BHT PYR KRTI HU WO QURESHI HN MERA OR UNKA RISHTA KAFI HAD TK GUNNAH TK POHOCH GYA HE PHLE PYR KRTE THE OR SHADI B KRNA CHTE THE PR AB LRTE JHGRTE OR BT BT PR RSHTA KHTM KR DETE HN OR SHADI B NI CHTE KRNA PLZ MHRBANI HOGI MJHE KCH PRHNA BTA DN........... LRKE KA NAME sameer HE OR USKI WALDA KA NAME NI PKKA NI PTA hawa LKHA HE ISLYE MERA NAME warda kanwal OR MERI WALDA KA NAME naseem he

Answer: Is tarah ki dosti or mohabbat jaiz nahi hai. (Ref: Mafhoom e http://www.sistani.com/persian/qa/01029/ ).. Update on dated 19-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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