QURAN-O-ITRAT ACADEMY

Question: jayaz tariqe se pasand karke shadi karna hai kya islam main?kya yeh jayaz hai

Answer: kisi bhi ghair ekhteri amal per shariat koi hukum nahi lagati laikin yaad rahey k shariat kisi bhi aisay irtebat ya mulaqaat ki ijazat nahi deti jo in’hain haram ki taraf le janey wala ho.(insaan apne pasand ki shadi kar sakta hai) (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 3, ques # 137, pg # 65) .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: hi salam alaikum my question is kay kiya sex karna shadi kay baad zaroori hay.aur agar larki yeh kahay kay sex doing after marriage is disgusting to kiya yeh sahi hay kay agar usay yeh sub pasand na ho to is soorat main kiya sex karna zaroori to nahi.please reply me as soon as,many thanks AH

Answer: Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reson) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho. Bivi k liay zarori(wajib) hay k jab bhi shohar os say jinsi lazzat(sex) hasil kerna chahay tu oski khahish pori karay or shar’e uzr(any Islamic reson,i.e:in periods) k baghair shohar ko hambistari say nah rokay.(tauzee hul masail,Aqai Seestani(d.b),maslah #2382,2376) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Asalam o Alekum, mera ye problem ha k mere shohar mujh mein dilchuspi nahe rakhte jis ke waja se mere han olad nahi hoe shadi ko 4 sal ho chuke hein.shadi k 6 month tak mera or unka koe relationship nahi tha ab bhe 2 se 3 mahene mein larae k bad( jo k mein karti hon)ek martaba kuch ho jata ha mein logon k kehne pe doctors se bhi concern kar chuki hon mein medically fit hon magar mere shohar k sath problem ha jiska wo ilaj kara sakte hein lakin nahi karate. mein ek educated larki hon or job bhi karti hon .ap mujhe bataen agar mein alehdgi iktiar karu to mein gunah gar to nahi honge mein khud ab un k sath nahi rehna chahti qu k mein unki taraf se bhi or unke ghar walon ki taraf se bhi azeat mein hun agar un k ghar wale mere sath coprate karte ya sirf mere husband he mujhe khus rakhne k koshish karen to mein sab bardasht kar lon lakin koe bhi flexible nahe ha mere sehat shadi k bad bohat gir gae ha mujhe lagta ha k mein un k sath rahe to mujhe koe buri bemari ho jae ge ya mein mar jaon gi please mujhe mashwara den k mein kia karu. thank you, ALLAH HAFIZ fozia

Answer: 1) Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reson) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho.(tauzeehul masail,Agha Seestani,maslah #2382). 2) jab shohor bivi se kina kash hojaay is terah k nah wo shohor daar rahay or nah mukammal azaad.laikin jahaan shohor bivi ki jinsi(sex) khahish ko mukammal taur per pora nah kerta ho jis se os ka gunah ka murtakib honay ka khatra ho, is sorat main agarchah wajib yehi hay k shohor bivi ki khahish pori karay ya os k talaq k mutaalbay ko pora karay.liakin agar shohor aisa nah karay tu bivi ko sabr or intezaar kerna chahiay.(A.sistani(d.b),jaded fiqhi masa’il, masalah # 428). Mian biwi ki aik doosray se mohabbat o ulfat k lie har namaz k bad surah e mumtahina ki ayat # 7 ko 7 martaba parha karain. Is se donoo me bai-misal mohabbat qaim ho jay gi. (ref : kitab naway salaheen pg # 404).Update on dated 30-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mubashrat kerte waqt ladka or ladki ko ek dosre ka pura jism dekhna kya haram hai

Answer: Jima kartay waqt aurat ki faraj ki taraf nazar karna makrooh he.poray kaprhay utaar(berhana ho ker) ker jima kerna makroh hay. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 , masla # 5) .Update on dated 30-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: maine apne biwi ke piche jema kiya uska kaffara bataye please

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ethiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay or koe kaffara nahi. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). .Update on dated 30-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: meri biwi meri sharam gah ko suck karna pasand karti he mera b dil karta he kya ye theek he thanxxx

Answer: Mian bivi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye khayaal rahay k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.( Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15. ). .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: hum bistaree kay kya ehtram hain

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #.3,maslah #.5) mazeed ye k shohar k liay apni jawaan bivi k sath 4 mahinay say ziyadah jima ko chorna(stop) haram hay.(Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B)Tauzee hul masail,maslah #2382). .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: sir mera qes ya ha k agar laelmi main back se krne se nikaha makrooh ho jae to iss ka hal kia ha.rab se mafi ya phir dobara nikaha.

Answer: Back se hambistri karma ehtiyaat e lazim ki bina per haram hay chahay b.v haiz ki halat main ho ya nah ho.laikin is kaam say nikah per koe asar nahi perhta. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha khoe (r.a.) Masla # 456) .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Hambistari kane se pehle aur karne ke baad kya dua padhna chahiye?

Answer: Hambistari ki dua: Mustahab hay k hambistari say pehlay apna haath bivi ki paishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay or ye dua perhay: (“Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan”) (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part#3,maslah#4). .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: malomat ke liye sex vedio dekhna jaiz hai ya nahi

Answer: Ethiat e wajib ki bina per fehash filmoo aur tasviroon ko dekhna haram he, agarchah haram main perhnay ka shak nah ho aur lazzat k bagair dekha jaay. (Ref : Jaded Faqhi Masayl Ayat ullaha Sistani d.b. Masla # 463 pg # 254). .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam mein ne khawab mein jinsi taskeen hotey hoeay deikha jab ankh kholi to mera hath sharam gha per tha kya mujh per ghusal vagib hai aur yeh bhi bataein k jis ka husband dosray country mein ho wo jinsi taskeen kaisey karey may GOD bless u for solving our problems

Answer: 1)Agar inzaal hua he to namaz aur is jaisi doosri ibadaat k lie ghusl karna wajib ho ga. 2)Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reson) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho.(tauzeehul masail,Agha khoe ,maslah #363 , 2427 ). .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Dear sir i have some questions to be asked i hope you will give me answer in detail 1-Can a husband licks the vagina of his wife?? 2-can a wife sucks the dick of her husband?? 3-can a husband make his sex from the back side of his wife??? plz send me answer on my above e mail address

Answer: 1) Yes, it is permissible for husband to lick the vagina of his wife but it is not permissible to swallow the liquid, which is discharged from her vagina. 2) Yes, it is permissible for wife to suck the dick (penis) of her husband but it is not permissible to swallow the liquid, which is discharged from his dick(penis). (.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) 3) Yes, it is permissible for husband to make his sex from the back side of his wife if she agrees for this act but it is strongly abominable (shaded makhrooh).but if she is not agree for this act then it is unlawful on the base of obligatory precaution for husband to do anal sex with his wife. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70) .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kaya biwi say phone sex ya sexy chat kersaktay..khas jab aap gahr 1 ya 1.5 sal baad jaye..aur kaya app apni wife ka nude pic rekh saktay hai please replay me in my mail only

Answer: Jee haan, biwi say phone per sex ki batain ya chat ki jasakti hay. or shohar aur biwi aik doosray k badan k zahiri aur batni hisson ko dekh sakhtay hein hatta k sharam gaah ko bhi dekh sakhtay hein. Isi terha Shohar aur biwi apne badan k kisi bhi hisse ko dosray k badan k kisi bhi hisse se mus kar sakhte hein chahae lazzat ho ya bageir lazzat k. (ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 406 pg # 236, minhaajus saliheen,part#2,maslah#34). .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: bismillah Asalam-o-elikum mulana sahib mujh ap say yahi pouchna hai k main nay kahin per para hai k miya bv sub libas utar ker humbistari nai ker saktay hain - jab k kahin yai b para hai k dono ko dono per pura pura haq hai - jaisa chahay wo aik dosray ko pyar ker saktay hain dekh saktay hain jahan say b wo chahay chow saktay hain chum saktay hain - ap mujh meray sawal ka pura pura or tafseel say jawab dain next week meri shaadi hai - main os say pehlay sub kuch sahi sahi janna chahta hon or bv ki chaaati ka dod mard nai pi sakta hai lakin chaati ka dod tu bachay ki baidaish k baad start hota hai na os say pehlay mard un k sath kaisa b pyaar ker sakta hai na - os say pehlay tu koi mamanat nai hai na kun k os time taak tu dood nai hota hai na un main - kuch galat laga ho tu mazrat chahta hon bus sahi sahi baat ko janna chahta hon is liya ap say sawal kiya - bohut bohut shukriya Allah Hafiz

Answer: 1) shohar aur biwi aik doosray k badan k zahiri aur batni hisson ko dekh sakhtay hein hetta k sharam gah ko bhi dekh sakhtay hein. Isi terha Shohar aur biwi apne badn k kisi bhi hisse ko dosray k badan k kisi bhi hisse se mus kar sakhte hein chahae lazzat ho ya bageir lazzat k. (ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 406 pg # 236) 2) jima k waqt makhrooh hay k b.v ki sharam gaah ki taraf nigaah ki jay or is terah tamaam kaprhay utaar ker jima kerna bhi makhooh hay.laikin ye amal nah tu haram hay or na hi her waqt makrooh hay sirif hambistari k waqt in dono kamo ko makhrooh shumaar kiya gaya hay. (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part#3,maslah#4) 3) Shohar bivi k breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay,laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moohn main doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k bivi ka doodh nah piaya jaay (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: aslamo alikom. janab mujy islam mai husbend wife kay mubasharat karny ka sahi tareeqa btaye.or kia mard apni bivi k breast suk ker sakta hai.or kia sharmgha ko b sak ker sakta hai?plz reply me as soon as possible

Answer: 1)Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #.3,maslah #.5) 2) Shohar bivi k breast suck(choos) ker sakta hay,laikin agar shohar biwi ke breast ko suck karey aur moohn mai doodh aa jaye, toh ehtiyaat wajib ye hay k bivi ka doodh nah piaya jaay(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), E-Mail from Answers@najaf .org). 3) Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kiya main apni b.v ke saat peeche ass mein sex kar sakta hoon ya nahi please quraan ke roshni se bataye

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia main apni bv ko peeche se sex kar sakta hoon uski razamandi se woh khud kahe toh aur kia main uski vegina ko chat sakta hoon mubashirat k doran ager meri wife khud kahe toh ?? plz ans me

Answer: 1) Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). mian bivi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye khayaal rahay k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.( Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15. ). .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: biwi se sohbat ka tareeqa kiya hai kaisy us k sath sohbat ki jaye.

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #3,maslah #5) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: islam ki roshani main mojhe ye bata dain ke during sex husband & wife penis or vigaina sucking kar sakte hain ?

Answer: Jee haan,mian bivi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.( Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15. ). .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: i want to ask that if a man have 2 wives, then can he make sex with both of them simultaneously (means at the same time with both of his wife)?

Answer: Yes, but It is not permissible for the wives to look at the private parts of each other. (Email Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), Dated:Oct 27, 2011). .Update on dated 27-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: shadi ki pahli rat ki dua kaya ha

Answer: Hambistari ki dua: Mustahab hay k hambistari say pehlay apna haath bivi ki paishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay or ye dua perhay: (“Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan”) .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: AA sir jee mera yeh sawal hai k shadi ki pehli raat bv ko kaise karna chahiye koi khas tareeqa hai to bta dain

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #.3,maslah #.5) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Meray question hay Kay koi admi kis bachay kay sath eglam(اغلام) kerta hy tu wo bacha(when he young) ous admi ki daughter say marriage ker sakta hy ?

Answer: Ighlaam kerne walay shaks ki maa, behen or baiti ighlaam kerwanay walay shaks par haram nahi hain. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2369). Note: layhaza wo bacha ya merd jis k saath ighlaam kia gaya hay wo ighlaam kerne walay shaks ki maa, behen or baiti se nikah ker sakta hay , is k liay koe shart nahi hay.Laikin ighlaam kerne walay k liay ye hokum nahi hay. .Update on dated 27-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Sallam Mera Q Yeh Hai Apni Biwi ko Apnay oper leta ke jema kar saktay hain jema agay se hee ho araha hoo 2 kaya apni biwi ko ghori bana kar jeema karsaktay hain yan har tariqay se kar saktay hain jema agay se he hoo raha hoo pechay se nahin plz is ka ans lazmi dayee kiyoo ke meri shaadi honay wali hai

Answer: Islam ne hambistri k lie puri aazadi aur choot di he, K har insan jis tarkeeb se chahae apni pasand k mutabiq jima kar sakhta he. Lakin Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (Ref :islam aur jinsiat pg no 154) (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). .Update on dated 27-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: shadi ki pehli raat kis tarah sex karna chaiye please islami tariqa bataiye ga i am waiting Allah Hafiz

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #.3,maslah #.5) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: hum sex karnay kay baat kay sura padna hai.

Answer: Hambistari ki dua: Mustahab hay k hambistari say pehlay apna haath bivi ki paishani k baal (hair of forehead) par rakhay or ye dua perhay: (“Alla humma alaa kitaabeka tazwwajtoha, wa fee amanateka akhaztoha, wa bekalematekastahlalto farajaha, fa in qazayta lee fee rahmeha shyan fajalhoo musliman saweeyyan wa laa tajalahoo shirkashshaitan”) (Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus saliheen Part # 3, maslah # 4) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: G mey ap se pochna chata ho k shadisudah larki k sat zana karna chata ho lakin use child ki zarrotat hy jo usey apne husband se nai horea hy hum ne kafi bar kia bh hy howa bhi hy

Answer: Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah khoe(r.h), Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#29, pg#17 ) Shadi shuda aurat se agar koe mard zina karay to os mard per wo aurat ehtiyaat ki bina par hamesha k lie haram ho jay gi. Lakin shohar per haram nahi ho gi. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha khoe(r.h), Masla # 2412) .Update on dated 27-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: is there anything wrong to do sex from backside as a position bt peneteration is in the farj? thnx

Answer: It is permissible. (Ref email rec from ayatullaha sistani d.b. dated : July 27, 2011) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: meri nai nai shadi huwi hai pahli raat meri biwi ki sharamgah se blood nahi kikla sirf pani nikala mainey lagatar 2 humbistari ki magar sex ke waqt kabhi blood nahi nikla kiya woh pahley se kisi ke saath humbistari karchuki hai kaisey janey plz plz meharbani karke tafseel se bataiye

Answer: She may have lost her virginity due to an accident or she may not have had the membrane from the beginning. In case, you stipulated in the marriage contract that should be virgin, you have the right to cancel the marriage. (Ref email rec from ayatullaha sistani d.b. dated : April 21, 2011) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: assalamualaikum,mera question ye ha,k khay biwi shohar ki[laazzat]khay ley[ mouh]khay ander ley kar[choose]sakti ha,[suck]kar sakti ha,or zahban laga sakti ha,or biwi agar shohar ko ijazat dhay to peechay sey jima kar sakta ha,or khay nikha toot jata ha,allama shahib main ap sub khey tafseer sey answer ka inteyzar kar rooga,

Answer: 1)Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 2)Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70) .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: assalamualaikum mera question ye ha,khay biwi apney shohar ka penis mouth key ander ley kar[choose]sakti ha,or zahban laga sakti ha,or biwi ki ahgar [ijaazat]sey,or dono[lazzet]key lehay peechy sey jima kar saktey hany,allim shahib marey question ka tafseer sey answer dena,main inteyzar kar rhooga,

Answer: 1. Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 2. Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70) .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam mera question ye ha,khay shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko zhaban laga saktey hany,

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.(Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15) .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: main ek larkay say payar kerti hon or woh mujh say bohat ziyda per uski shadi pehlay ho chuki hai or woh khush nai kiya shadi shuda insan say shdai kerna gunah hai ager nahi to mujhey koi hal bataiye

Answer: 1)Mard k lie aik se ziada shadi karna riyawat ki roshni me mustahib he. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 105, pg # 53) 2) kawari(virgin) lerki os waqt tak nikah nahi kersakti jab tak k lerki ka Baap ya Dada lerki ko nikah ki ijazat nah day day. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2341). 3) jins e mukhalif se dosti kerna jaiz nahei koun ke ghuna me mubtila hone ka khof majood he. ( kitab nigah aur libas ques # 106 , pg # 69). .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia shadi shoda mard aurat ek dosray ki sharam gah ko choss saktay hain?

Answer: Jee haan, mian bivi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye k sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay. ( Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15. ).Update on dated 04-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: aisa karna haram hai shohar or biwi aik dosre k jism ke hisse ko dekh nhai sakta dekna haram hai Shohar or bivi k liay jaiz hay k wo aik dosray k tamaam jism ko daikh saktay hain,or isi terah aik dosray k jism k tamaam hisso(parts) ko jism k kisi bhi hissay(part) say choo(touch) saktay hain.ye choona chaahay lazzat k iraday say ho ya baghair lazzat k, jaiz hay

Answer: Shohar aur bivi aik dosray ky badan ky zahari aur batni hata sharam gah kw bhi dakh saktay hain . isis tarah ya dono apny badan ky ksi bhi hassay ke dosray ky badan ky ksi bhi hassay ky sath choo saktay hioan . chahay lazzat kay sath ho ya ya lazzata kay bagair. (ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 406 pg # 236) .Update on dated 04-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia bivi ko pachay say karna suwab hai

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nahei honay ki sorat main ethiat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67) .Update on dated 06-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: kia marad apni aurat ko peechay say fuck kr sakta hai agar nahi tu y? q k Quran mai aata hai k aurat tumhari khaitee hai is ko jaisy chahy istamaal kro...reply me sson

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi naha honay ki sorat main ethiat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 67). .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mulana saheb mera sawal hain k kiya biwi ko beche se sex karna jayez hain k nahi plez mujhe zaroor batayega.

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70). .Update on dated 07-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Valima say pehlay sex lazmi hai warna valima halal hojata hai? Agar valima say pehlay jaan kay sex nahi kia ho tou?

Answer: Shab e zafaf se pehlay ya bad me valima karna mustahab he. Islam ne 5 maqamaat per valima kerna mustahab qaraar diya hay jin main se aik ye valima bhi hay.valimay se pehlay jima kerna zarori nahi hay. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 masla # 4, 388). .Update on dated 16-10-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mujhau yeh pooch na hai mai sunnie hoon or shadi shuda hoon mai apni biwi ki behan se nikah ya mutta karna chata hoon meri biwi ne nikah ki ijazat dedi hai mujhai or ghar walay b razi hain plz iska hal bata dain..or nikah karna zaroori hai larki bebas hain os sey koi our nikah nahi karay da ap koi hal bata dain

Answer: Agar koi shakhs kisi aurat se nikah karay to chahae wo nikah daimi ho ya mutaa ho jab tak wo aurat is ki munkooha he wo mard is ki bahn sse nikah(chahae wo nikah daimi ho ya mutaa) nahi kar sakhta. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2355) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam meri shadi boat jald honay wali hai lehken mujay sex k baray mai nai maloom.. mera matlab hai kis position may miya biwi laith k intercourse kary.. pls help me how to do ??thankz

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #.3,maslah #5) .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam sir kia apnay biwi kay sharamgah ko zaban lagah sakta ho chusakta ho plz reply

Answer: shohar aur biwi aik dosray k badan k zahari aur baatni tamaam hisso ko hatta keh sharamgah ko bhi dekh sakhtay hein. shohar aur biwi dono apne badan k kisi bhi hissay ko dosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay se mas ya cho saktay hein. ref : Aayat-ul-Allah Khumeni tehreer ul wasila masla no 15 pg no 433) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: mujhe yeh janna hai ke main apne wife ke sath back side sex kar sakta hun ya nahi 2. woh pregnant hai to sex kar sakta hun ya nahi

Answer: 1) Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70) 2) Jab biwi hamila ho to baa wuzu ho kar jima karna mustahib he. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 3 , masla # 5) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalamalaikum.mere shohar garam mizaj k hai aur wo har roz jima karna chahte hai.aur main roz nahi karsakti.kyu k mai tayyar hi nahi huti hoon karne k liye. tu agar mai inkar karon tu gunah to nahi huga. kyu k mai ne suna k bivi agar inkaar kare tu laanati huti hai.aap mujhe koi rasta bataye

Answer: 1)Bivi k liay zarori(wajib) hay k jab bhi shohar os say jinsi lazzat(sex) hasil kerna chahay tu oski khahish pori karay or shar’e uzr(any Islamic reson,i.e:in periods) k baghair shohar ko hambistari say nah rokay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2376) 2) Agar koi aurat hambistri aur jinsi lazzat k silsile me ki khowish puri na karay to shohar us ki roti , kapray aur makan ka zimadar nahi he. Agar chahe wo shohar k pas hi rahay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2377)

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Question: salam.alaikum jb hm apni bewi k sath sohbat krte hen tou jo jaez tareka he wo theak he. swal ye he k agr hm apni bewi ki back me sex kren apni bewi ki marzi se tou kya ye jaez he ya nhe? agr kr liya jae tou gunah he ya nha? kr liya jae tou nikah toota tou nhe?agr kr liya he to kya galt he ?or iska hal kya he

Answer: Biwi k peechay k maqam(maqam e pakhana) main hambistari kerna bivi k raazi nah honay ki sorat main haram hay, agar bivi raazi ho tu jaiz hay laikin shadeed makrooh hay. Lakin is se nikah nahi toota he (ref: Ayatullah Seestani(D.B) Al-masail e mutakhaba, maslah # 70) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalam o Alaikum Mera ques. ye hai k kya bivi shohar k penis ko zaban laga sakti hai ya mounh main le sakti hai

Answer: Shohar or biwi aik dosray ki sharamgaah ko mou laga saktay hain,magar ye kay sharamgaah say nikalnay wali ratoobat Halaq mian nah jaay.Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Istiftaat I-2,I-15 .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Assalam-o-alekum mae bohat pareshan hon is ley jal jawab ka muntazir hon.mer shadi ko 3 saal hogae hain ,lekin abhi tak mubbashrat nahi hosaki hae.meri bevi dar jati hae .hum dono ek dosrey sae bohat pyar kertey hain sub kuch normal hae normal love making kertey hain,lekin jab mubashrat ka waqt ata hae to meri bevi dar jati hae.koi dua kuch esa bataen kae hamar kaam hojae.please meherbani kerkey mujhey jald merey emailpae jawab dedain.duaaoon mae yad rakhain .faisal

Answer: Bivi k saath jima (intercourse) ka islami tariqa ye hay k jima k waqt mustahab hay k bismillah perhi jaay, or baa wuzu hon khaas taur per jab bivi haamla ho,or jima k waqt jo kaam makroh hain on main say kuch ye hain 1.soraj or chaand gerhan ka hona,2. zawaal e aaftab ka hona siwaay jumayraat kdin k,3. groob e aaftaab k waqt ka hona,4.chand ki aakhri 3 raaton main jima kena,5.fajar k baad soraj nikalnay say pehlay,6.islami mahinay ki pehli taarikh siway Ramazan ki pehli raat(Chaand raat)main ,7. islami mahinay ki dermiyaani or aakri taarikh main jima kerna,8.qiblay ki taraf rukh ya pusht kerna,9.berhana (naked) halat main jima kerna,10.ehtilaam k baad baghair wuzu k jima kerna,11.jima k waqt bivi ki sharamgaah ki janib nazar kena,12.jima k doraan baat kerna siwaay Allah k zikr k. ye tamam kaam makrooh hain jin say perhayz kerna behtar hay.)Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B) minha jus saliheen Part #.3,maslah #.5) mazeed ye k shohar k liay apni jawaan bivi k sath 4 mahinay say ziyadah jima ko chorna(stop) haram hay.(Ref:Ayat ullah Seestani(D.B)Tauzee hul masail,maslah #2382). .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salaam, biwi ke saath kitnay din ke waqfay se jama karna chahiay. maximum kitnay din ka waqfa kar saktay hain? or agar rozana jama kia jae to is ka kia hukm hay?

Answer: Shohar apni jawaan bivi say 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat(time period) k liay hambistari(intercourse) tark nahi kersakta magar ye k(except) hambistari os k liay nuqsandah ya ziyada takleef ka sabab(reason) ho ya oski bivi khud 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay par raazi ho ya nikah kertay waqt nikah k zimn(agreement) main 4 mahinay say ziyada muddat k liay hambistari tark kernay ki shart rakhi gae ho Bivi k liay zarori(wajib) hay k jab bhi shohar os say jinsi lazzat(sex) hasil kerna chahay tu oski khahish pori karay or shar’e uzr(any Islamic reson,i.e:in periods) k baghair shohar ko hambistari say nah rokay.(tauzee hul masail,Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),maslah #2382,2376). .Update on dated 18-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salaam, kia biwi ka sara jism lick kar saktay hain, khas kar pechay say lick kar saktay hain?

Answer: shohar aur biwi aik dosray k badan k zahari aur baatni tamaam hisso hatta keh sharamgah ko bhi dekh sakhtay hein. shohar aur biwi dono apne badan k kisi bhi hissay ko dosray k badan k kisi bhi hissay se muss ya cho saktay hein chahae lazzat se ho ya baghair lazzat k. (ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 406 pg # 236) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salaam, kia biwi ke jism ke kisi bhi hissay per honey ya cream laga kar lick kar saktay hain? or kia biwi bhi esa kar sakti hai?

Answer: shohar aur biwi danoo apne badan k kisi bhi hissa ko dosray k badan k kisi bhi hissa se mus kar sakhte hein. (ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), jaded faqhi masayl masla # 406 pg # 236) .Update on dated 05-11-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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