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84453
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kia aurat Ka 10 moharram ke jalose mn Jana sahi h q ke wahan WO parody Ka khyal nhn rakhti

Answer: Agar aurat mukamal sharai hijab k saath shirkat karey tou koi haraj nahi hai. (ref: http://qoitrat.org/video_clip.php?id=56) . Update on dated 16-11-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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84594
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kci na mehram sy rohaniyat ki taleem lyna ucse haq ka jana.. Na mehram sy mlna ya bt krna maqsad haq ki taleem py hu kia ye jaiz... Hum kci na mehram sy bt kr skty ya ml skty ic maqsad k lye rohaniyat ki taleem

Answer: Agar haram mai mubtila honey ka khouf na ho or is ka nateeja Akhlaqi fasad ki surat main nah nikal raha ho tu jaiz hai.(Ref: Mujtahid sai poochey gaey sawalaat, part#3, sawaal# 127). Update on dated 16-11-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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84633
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Asalam u alikum warahmatullahi wabarakatah hoo jinab mera rishtah fix howa engagement ya nikkah nahi howa kya mai us ladki sai baat kar sakhtah houn?

Answer: Aap ka nikah nahi hoa lehaza wo aap k liye na mehram hai oraik (namehram) khatoon se aise baatain ki jasakte hai jin ka nateja kise akhlaqi fasaad ki sorat me na nikal raha ho jab k kohe aise baat bhi na ki jarahe ho jis ka kise ajnaben khatoon k saath kiya jana munasib nahe hota .or agar gunah mai parhne ka khof ho agar che aista aista parhne ka hi khof q na ho baat karna jaiz nahi hai isi tarah ger ikhlaqi or mazaq mai bhi warid hona jaiz nahi hai. . (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) (Ref:nigha aur libas pg: 31 eidition 1) and http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01845/ ) Update on dated 26-10-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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78614
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Salam agr koi larka kisi larki ky sth drma kr rha h pyar ka or wo usko use karta rhy phr wo shadi ky sary waday tor kar apni family ki marzi sy shadi kr ly to kia is my gunnah or saza dono ko mily ge

Answer: Na-mehram say izhar-e-muhabbat kerna haram hai or is k muqadimaat(starting step) haram hain. (Ref: book nigah aur libaas,pg#69,mafhoom e maslah#106). Update on dated 27-04-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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78288
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: agr ik esa insan jis sy maa bapp ny mangni ki ho or larki larka apny ap ko dil sy ik dosry sy suchy ho or ik dosry sy mill ly uska kitna guna ha or us guna sy kesa bacha ja skta h

Answer: Mangeter mard k liay namehram hoti hai aur mard apni mageter se jinsi lazzat k irade k beghair aur haram me mubtila hone k khouf k baghair saaf sutri phone per ya aam halat me baat cheet kar sakta hai or aap ka os se hath milana ya os ko chuna jaiz nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah khumeni(r.a), Tauzee hul masael, Mafhoom e Maslah #2429). Update on dated 17-04-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
77958
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Agar koi mard mar gaya ho gusl ke baad deedar karwate h toh us waqt jo aurte rishtedaar nahi hai kiya woh aurto ko deedar karna jayaz h yaa nahi

Answer: Namehram aurat merd k jism k on hisso maslan sar, dono hatho or dono pindliyo per jinhain umoman merd nahi chupatay, lazzat k irade k baghair daikh sakti hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2397). Update on dated 08-04-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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77412
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kia Kesi larke say sachi mohabbat krna Islam mai jaiz nai ?? Or agr aurat mard se beintaha mohabbat krti ho uske leye khud Ko badal dai jaiz nai ?or agr wo aurat mard k sath lagti hai usse chumti hai wo bhi pyar krta phir usse chordeta hai toh wo kia karay?

Answer: Na-mehram say izhar-e-muhabbat kerna haram hai or is k muqadimaat(starting step) haram hain. Update on dated 11-11-16. (Ref: book nigah aur libaas,pg#69,mafhoom e maslah#106). Update on dated 23-03-17. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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74555
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Question: kya ghair mehram larki say kiss karnay k baad gusal wajib ho jata hai. aur agar is doran koi qatray a jain to Gusal wajib hai ya nahe?

Answer: 1)Na mehram aurat k jism k kisi hissay ko choona ya kiss kena haram hai, chahae lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k baghair aur chahay baad mai shadi hi Q nah karni ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397). 2) Mazi k qatre paak hote hain, or in k nikalne se wuzu bhi nahi tootta. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #70). Update on dated 16-12-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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72674
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: ager larka larki aik dosre se nikah ka irada rakhte hon to nikah se pehly kis had tak wo batain kar sakte hen ?kiya unka messages ke zariye kiss karna jaiz he kiya Wo aik dosre se mohabbat Qaim rakhne k liye (i love you )leh sakte hen ?

Answer: Agar darmeyaan me esi baten na ki jaen jo aik musalman ke shayan e shan nhy hen to koi haraj nahi hay.(Ref: Mujtahid se poshy gae sawalat , part# 4 , sawal#124). Update on dated 17-09-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
72683
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Kia na mahram larki ki tasveer ko dekhna(jab k lazt ka irada na ho) jaiz hai jb ko shrae tor pr mukamil hijab mn ho

Answer: Agar tasweer men khatoon hijab k sath ho our lazat ka irada na ho,or haram me perhny ka khoof nah ho,fitna peda hony ka andisha bhi nah ho to jaiz hay.(Ref: Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawallat Part#4 pg#66, sawal #129 ). Update on dated 17-09-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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70295
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: jnb Adb mujhy ik ladki s pyar ho gya mgr vo mujsy km pyar krti koi dua btao jo usk dil m sirf pyar paida ho jy

Answer: • Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas aqa sistani ,sawal # 106 pg # 69) • Rasool allah ne farmaya: surah yaaseen ki tilawat kiya kare is me 10 barkate hai (us me se aik ye hai k ) jin ki shadi nahe hoi hai wo shadi shuda ho jaay ghe. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 18). Update on dated 23-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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70296
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Assalamalaikum Mera question yeh k my ek ladke se bahut zyada pyar krti hoon aur o bahut acha ladka hai aur hum alehda alehda state me rehte hain aur hum fb pr mile teh aur hum ek dusre k baghair reh nhi sakte humare bich her roz batein hote hain lekin koi shaoq k nhi sirf islamic discussion chalti hai aur bus haal chal aur hum ek dusre se bahut pyar krte hain lekin aaj tak koi b haram kaam me mubtela nhi howe...... Humare ghar wale hume kabhi b shadi krne nhi denge kyun k onhe hum dono ka rishta pasand nhi hai Plz aap kch aesa wazifa bataiye jisse hum bina koi tension k ek hojaein Plz ans jaldi dijiye koi wazifa bata dijiye... Jazakallah

Answer: • Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas aqa sistani ,sawal # 106 pg # 69) • rasool allah ne farmaya: surah yaaseen ki tilawat kiya kare is me 10 barkate hai (us me se aik ye hai k ) jin ki shadi nahe hoi hai wo shadi shuda ho jaay ghe. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 18) . Update on dated 23-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Larki sy bat karnay kay dorana light pani ky 1 2 qatray nikalny sy ghusal wajib hojata hy kia ?

Answer: Nahmehram se aam mamool ki bat cheet karney me jis k under koi shawat angaiz bat na ho koi haraj nahi hai lakin is me bhi shart he k is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil na ho aur na hi haraam me pernay ka khof ho. Warna haram hai. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57) Wo ratubat jo khabi khabi shehwat ubhrnay par mard ki penis sai kharij hoti hai osay mazi kehtay hain, wo pak hai. Agar kise shaks k badan se kohe ratubat kharij ho aur wo ye na janta ho k mani hai ya phishab ya kohe aur chease ,agar wo ratubat shewat k sath aur uchal kar nikle ho aur is nikalne k baad badan soos ho ghaya ho to wo ratubat mani ka hokum rakhti hai aur namaaz k lie ghusal karna zarori hai.laikin agar in 3 ealamaat me se sari ki sari ya khuch moujood na ho to wo ratubat mani ka hokum me nahe aai ghe.aur ghusal wajib nahe hoga. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #,,70,1553,344,345 ). Update on dated 22-08-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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71806
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Mai ek ladke se be imteha mohobat karta hu uske dil me mere leye kya hai pata nahi lekin mai jab use dekhta hu to wah be mughe dekhate hai aaisa karib 6 saal se chal raha hai mera dil uske liye seese ke trah saaf hai kya ayesa karna gunah hai

Answer: Jo shakhs shadi nah kernay ki wajah sai feil e haram mai mubtila hota ho os par shadi kerna wajib hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2407) . Update on dated 26-06-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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70562
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Question: Mara sawal ya hai k ma apni Bhabi ko pyare sa haat (hand) ma ya face (cheeks) ma kiss kr sahkta ho ya nai? Magar ma unhe maa k barabar samjta ho. Ma unhe apni maa ki nazar sa dakhta ho. Kia un ko bhosa Dana sahi hai ya nai?

Answer: Bhabhi na-mehram hain or on ko choona ya onka boosa laina haram hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #). Update on dated 30-03-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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70608
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Question: Ek ladka aur ladki ek dusre se pyaar karte hai aur unki shaadi bhi hone wali ho tho wo dono bat kar sakte hai kya

Answer: Is terah sai bhai bananay sai wo larka mehram nahi banay ga. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah # 2397-2406). Update on dated 26-03-16. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
70233
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Assalamu Alekum...pehla sawal a hai ke meri ek girl friend hai aur mai usse physical relation banachuka hoon. lekin zina nahi kiya hai. kiss karna sharmgah ko chuna zina hai? aur dusri baat a hai ke mai jabbi apne nafs ko kaabu nahi kar paata to usse sex ke baate karleta hoon aur sex videos dekleta hoon....mai apne aap par kaabu nahi kar paata. mai karun aur kaise apne gunahon ki maafi maangun aap please batayiye mujhe.

Answer: 1)Mard k liay na-mehram aurat k tamaam badan or baal ko chuna jaiz nahi hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 3, Mafhoom e Maslah #12,16) , Eidition 1427 hij). 2)Ehtiyat e wajib ki bina per fehash filmo aur tasweero ka dekhna haram he, agarchah shak aur lazzat k baghair dekha jaey. (Ref : Ayatullah Sistani, Jadeed faqhi masael , Mafhoom e maslah # 463 , Pg # 254 , Eidition# 5). Update on dated 05-03-2016. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
69545
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Na meharam ka ek dosray ko hath lagana ya bosa dena is ka kafara kya hai astagfaar k sath?

Answer: Na-mehram ko hath lagana ya os ka boosa laina haram hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), nigah or libas,Mafhoom e Maslah #109). Update on dated 27-01-2016. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
948
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Salaam,mera sawal yeh hai key main balig hoon aur mera cousin na balig hai to kya mera os key samney parda karna wajib hai ya nahi

Answer: Aihtiyaat e lazim ki bina par apna badan aur aar k Baal us larkay say bhi chupaey jain jo abhi baligh to na hoa ho laikin achay aur buray ko samajhta ho aur aihtimaal ho k aurat kay badan par us ki nazar parhnay say us ki jinsi khwaahish baidaar ho jaey ge,Is k alawa main na-baligh say badan chupana wajib nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399). Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
1109
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khumeni

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Question: in hijab kiya yeh zaroori hai kay apna munh poora chupaya jaye

Answer: Aurat kay liye zaroori hay kay apna badan aur baal Na Mehram say chupaey Laihaza iskay alawa main chehra aur kalaiyoo tak haath chupana zaroori nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2399) Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey)..

Id:
2569
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: Assalamo-Alaikum, Khawateen Ka Apney Chehrey ke Bal(Face) Jo Nikaltee Hain Ya Saf Kertee Hain, Ye Jayez Hey? Iltemas-e-Dua

Answer: Khawateen Ka Apney Chehrey (face) k baal saaf Kerna or abroo (eye-brow) ko sidah kerna jaiz hay. (ref: Ayat Ullah Seestani (d.b), Jadeed fiqhi masail, Maslah #513) . Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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3160
Mujtahid:
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Question: If a ten years old boy is not mumayyaz, is it neccessary for a women to do hijab from him?

Answer: As an obligatory precaution, women should conceal herself even from a Na-baligh boy who is able to discern between good and evil, and could probably be sexually excited. But If he is not mumayyaz then its not necessary to conceal. (Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzihul masa,il, Maslah#2399) . Update on dated 15-08-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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66318
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Question: mai ik lrki se school wqt se muhbat krta hn but wo lrki ko mnaty us ka tnz suntay suntay 8 month ho gaye hain wo zra b respect nhi krti doubl minded hai kahti hai mai sochn gi fir kahti tmhy jaldi ku kbi kahti mai nhi kbi b nhi mai us se nikah krna chahta hn please muje btaya jaye hazoor paak s.w.a k pass koi shakhs aisa msla lle kr gya howa hai kya muje wazeefa b btayen or kya behtr hai mai us ko khona b nhi chahta

Answer: Kisi merd k liay na-mehram aurat se doosti ya muhabbat kerna jaiz nahi hay. Haan aap faqat os k ghar nikah ka paighaam behjh sakte hain or dua ker sakte hain. (Ref : Nigah aur libas Mafhoom e sawal # 106 pg # 69). Update on dated 12-07-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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66331
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Question: assalam waleikum .. mera swal ye hai ke kya nikaah se pehle boy friend aur girlfriend phone par sexy batei kar sakte hai kya jabki dono sadi karne wale hai isme dono ke gharwale taiyar hai.. plz mere is sawal ka jwaab mere id me send kar dijiye.. inamulhaq78611@outlook.com

Answer: Agar baat cheet aam mamool ke mutabiq ho or is main koi shehwat anggeez guftugoo bhi na ho or na hi is se koi jinsi lazzat hasil ho or na hi haraam main pharne ka der ho to in ke baat karne main koi harj nahi hai.(Ref : Mujtahid se poche gaae sawalaat , hissa # 3 ,Mafhoom e masala # 115). Update on dated 08-07-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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66137
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Question: sir i am a girl and i am a just 14 years old.... in this age every girl is fly in a sky....sir main facebook bhi buhat use kartti thi larkon or larkiyun buhat sy main baat bhi kartti thi ik din ik larky nain mujhy kaha k main ap ko like karta hun...to main na kaha k main hi ap ko like kartti hun ...phir hum donoun batain karny lagy ...marry ghar walon ko is bary main kuch bhi ni pata ....lakin ab main buhat gilt feel kar rahi hun aisa lagta hai k main buhat galt kar rahi hun khud k sath bhi aapny parents k sath bhi main ab yeh sub nhi karna cahatti ab ap hi batain main kiya karun main buhat giltty feel kar rahi hun...plz ask me what i am now doing?

Answer: 1)Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai Q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas, Mafhoom e sawal # 106 pg # 69) 2)Sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ko in kaamo ki janib ubhaaray. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010). Update on dated 02-07-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: salam ik sawal ha hum orat ko khan khan sy tuch kr sakty hen ...cho sakty hen khan khan sy

Answer: Mard k liay na-mehram aurat k tamaam badan or baal ko chuna jaiz nahi hay. mehram kawateen k baal o badan ko baghair lazzat k chuna jaiz hay or shohar or bivi ka apas main aik doosre k tamaam badan or baal ko lazzat or baghair lazzat k sath chuna jaiz hay. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 3, Mafhoom e Maslah #12,16) , Eidition 1427 hij). Update on dated 30-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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65839
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Question: Kia Kasi ko apni shram gaha(kipro k begar) pic bana k Dana ya movie dana or 2ra ke dakhna zinna h Kia agar ya gunah ho jia to khuda sa mafi kasa manga

Answer: Ye amal gunah hay. sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gay.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.aap koshish karain k aap khud ko dosri mufeed kaamo main masroof ker lain jaisay khail, perhae waghaira waghaira or har os cheez se perhaiz karain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubhaaray.or agar aap khud per qaabo nah rakh saktay hoon tu aap k liay wajib hoga k aap nikah karain.(Ref: Mafhoom e E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated Sep 27, 2010+ (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). Update on dated 24-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: I am a Sunni...but not here to discuss it....kindly guide me and tell me if someone (na mehram) compelled a (na mehram) girl to be un dressed for him and he looks her body...than whats the order about a girl? Is she also as same sinner as a boy?? I know Allah SWT is the most magnificent the most merciful.... How to ask for His forgiveness? How to attain the comfort of heart??? Whats the punishment for that guy who compelled a girl for this?? Kindly guide

Answer: The Girl and the boy both are sinner. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). Update on dated 24-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: Meri umer 20 saal hai mjse 3 saal pehle shadi ka wada kiya larke ne mujse bohat pyar krta lekin choty si baat ho to aise chala jata Jese janta nahi or is sal ramazan Mei b yehe kiya usne muje madad kijiye k Mei apna pyar izzat k sath Pasku .. Wo bat krta to kehta hai k Mei tumse abi shadi nah kr skta or Mei tumhare lye possessive hojauga Islye dur rho lekin mohabbat krta hai mere sath ni deta Mei chahty hu k wo meri izzat kre pyar kre or sath de apna mehram bnaley madad kijiye .....

Answer: Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Rishtay k lie chand ki 11 sai 20 tak k darmiani jumay ko bad namaz e asr surah e taha surah no20 ki ayat no 131,132 ko likh kar pas rakhain or doh kar pie to shadi ho jae gi. (Ref : Naway e Salaheen, Mafhoom e pg # 352) Update on dated 23-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
65638
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khumeni

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Question: Aslam Alaikum Ya Ali Madad hamd o sana Khudae La Shareek ki k jis k kbzae udrat men kainat ka hr nizam he durood o salam Aaqa o Maula Janabe Muhamad Mustafa aur uki All p Basad Izat o Ehtram Janabe Mujtahid mera sawal he ap se k meri mangni ho chuki he ab kiya men apne mangetar se phone p baat kr skta hun ya unse mil skta hun bger ksi bure biyat misal k jese men unke ghr jata hun to jese aam log hath wgera milate hen ese mila skta hun Muntazire jawabe Mujtahid W Salam

Answer: Mangeter mard k liay namehram hoti hai aur mard apni mageter se jinsi lazzat k irade k beghair aur haram me mubtila hone k khouf k baghair saaf sutri phone per ya aam halat me baat cheet kar sakta hai or aap ka os se hath milana ya os ko chuna jaiz nahi hay. (Ref:Ayat Ullah khumeni(r.a), Tauzee hul masael, Mafhoom e Maslah #2429). Update on dated 17-06-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
63726
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: meri ammi ki death ho gayi hai kiya esaal sawab book per un ki tasveer print ki jasakti hai

Answer: Ager tasweer pore hijaab k sath ho to print kar sakte hain. (Ref : Nigaah o lebaas , baab # 2 , sawaal # 44 , 45 , Mafhoom e pg # 42). Update on dated 02-05-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
63745
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: aslam o alikum sir main eak larke se bht pyar kerti ho lkn woh mujh se ni kerta infact bt bhi ni kerta or usk dost use drink wagera k chakro p lgate haI mujh plzz sir koi esa wazifa bataein k woh mujh se pyar bhi kere or sare galt kaam bhi choor de plzzz sir

Answer: Wssalam o alykum, is terah ki dosti o mohabbat jaiz nahi hai, lehaza. (Ref : Nigaah o lebaas , baab # 4 , sawaal # 106 , Mafhoom e pg # 69). Rasool Allah (s.a.w.w) se marvi riwayaat k mutabiq, rozana raat ko sone se pehle Sura e Yaseen ki tilawat kar k Allah Taala se dua karain. (Ref: Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal , pareshani # 18 , Mafhoom e pg # 18). Update on dated 02-05-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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63818
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Question: Asalamoalaikum me jisko pyar karti hun WO kise se karta tha WO use chor gai koi ase dua btayn WO mujhay junooni pyaar kare mere tarah plz.. Plzzzzzzzzzzkoi dua btayn..

Answer: Wssalam o alykum,merd o aurat ka is terah mohabbat kerna jaiz nahi hai. (Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Nigah o libaas, Mafhoom e sawal#106). Update on dated 01-05-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: engagement ke baad or jis ladki se shadi honi hai uske sath dono ki razamandi se Shadi se pahle ladki ki sharmgah dekhna or Sex karna kya ye Zina hai ( ladki ne ladke ke upar bharosa karke uske kareeb aayi ye uski mohabbat hai ya phir kuch or ladka ladki ki sharmagh touch hui lkin jism me dakhil nahi hua ladkey ka jo sperm tha wo ladki ki sharmgah pe nikla na ki andar ) plz jaldi jawab de

Answer: Mangeter namehram he aur nikah k baghair aurat k sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna baghair hambistari (intercourse) k zina nahi hai magar haram hai aur gunah e kabira hay. (Ref: Mujtahid se pouchey gaey sawalaat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57+ Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127, pg # 66+Nigah aur libas pg#31+109+ (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1430 hij). Update on dated 30-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
63803
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: assalamoalaikom kuch arsa pehlay meri university me ak larki thi ,,, mene ose behan banaya .. phir kuch arsa bad ose beti kehna shoro ker dia ,, wo muje apni betiyon jesi lagti thi .. me hamesha ose beti keh k bulata tha or mere dil me b yehi tha k wo meri beti he .. or mene ALLAH TAALA se b yehi bat kahi thi k AY ALLAH mera os k sath taluk bilkul saaf he wo meri beti he ,, lakin kuch arsa se muje lag raha he k wo larki muje pasand krne lag geyi he or shadi ki khawahishmand he mere sath .. me ne os se khul k bat ni ki is topic pe .. me ye pochna chahta hon k mom boli beti kon hoti he .. or kis terha se banti he .. kya kafalat lazmi he mon boli beti bananay k liye ..? or kya me os larki se shadi ker sakta hon .. ? or mon boli beti k baray me kya aehkamaat hain ?

Answer: Moo boli beti haqiqi beti ki tarah nahi hoti .wo larki namehram hai aur larki k lie namehram mard se perda karna wajib hai . moo boli beti k akhrajaat namehram mard per wajib nahi hai aur moo boli beti se shadi ho sakti hai. (Ref:Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Tauzee hul masael,Edition# 35,Mafhoom e Maslah #2349,2399, 2014). Update on dated –2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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63901
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Question: Assalmualaikum mera sawal ye hai k islam me kisi dusri ladki ya ladke ko apna bhem ya bhai manna kaisa hai

Answer: kisi larke ya kisi larki ko behen banaya to jasakta hai laikin kisi ko bhai ya behen banana se sage behen ya bhai wala rishta paida nahi ho jata lehaza ye aik dosero se meraas nahi paate aur agar koi aurat hai to us ko namehram mard se perda karna zarori hai. (Ref: http://www.sistani.org/persian/qa/0816/ ). Update on dated 24-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
63220
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: Asslam o Alikum mera ek dost ka main oss se boht pyar kerta hon main ny oss k sath french kiss ki ha.. kia ye theek ha ya nahi.. kindly guide me..

Answer: Agar koe mard kise larkay ka shehwat o laazt k sath bosa le to ye gunah hai aur haram hay. (Ref: Ayatullah khoe(r.h) ,Tauzihul masael,jadeed masail , Mafhoom e maslah #2800, Pg# 416 ). Update on dated 21-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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Question: AOA,mera masla ye hai k mere behnoyi ne muje rukhsar par bosa diya jis mein meri merzi shamil nhi thi ...is waja se mein bht preshan hn mehrbni kr k btain k kOi darne ki BT to nhi?..or muje wazeefa b bta dein k WO mujh se or mn un se door rahon or WO muje behno ki tarhan smjhain.shukriya

Answer: Larki k lie us k behnoyi na-mehram hote hain. Na-mehram mard k lie k ne-mehram aurat k badan ya baal ko mass (touch ) karna jaiz nahi. (Ref : Ayat Ullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 3, Mafhoom e Maslah #16 , Eidition 1417 hij). Update on dated 21-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

Id:
61917
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: asSalam wa alikum, i love my cousin but i did not tell her yet, can i talk to her and make intraction so that she may know that i love her. also y uncle is dead and i dont want her mother to know that i love her. she might fight with my parents...

Answer: Kisi merd k liay na-mehram aurat se doosti ya muhabbat kerna jaiz nahi hay. Haan aap faqat os k ghar nikah ka paighaam behjh sakte hain or dua ker sakte hain. (Ref : Nigah aur libas Mafhoom e sawal # 106 pg # 69). Update on dated 17-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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61945
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Question: Meri paros me ak anti rehti hy mne unk dewar se bat ki hy or me unko bhai bh bolti ho or hum ak dost ki trha bat krty thy koi ghlt bat nhe ki dil me na aesa kuch mehsos kya or wo mjse umer (age) me bare bhe hy or ab unjo ne jae bat krna yani meri nzar me dosti khtam krdi plz batea kuch.

Answer: Jins e mukhalif say batain kerne se fasaad, burae, or gunah main mubtila hone ka khoof ho tu jaiz nahi hay. (Ref: Nigah aur libas Mafhoom e sawaal # 79 pg #58). Update on dated 17-04-2015. (Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey).

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62927
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Question: A.o.a mjhe ye poochna ha k ma kisi se bhot pyar krta hu dil se nikah krna chahta hu mjhe kisi cheez ka garoor ni na e lalach to kia mera wahan nikah ho skta ha plx tel me now also tell me wazifa

Answer: Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Rishtay k lie chand ki 11 sai 20 tak k darmiani jumay ko bad namaz e asr surah e taha surah no20 ki ayat no 131,132 ko likh kar pas rakhain or doh kar pie to shadi ho jae gi. (Ref : Naway e Salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
62932
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: Engagament ke baad hone wali biwi ke saat phone me baat kar sakte hai Aur bahar leke ghum sakte hai please bataiye

Answer: Mangeter mard k liay namehram hoti hai aur mard apni mageter se jinsi lazzat k irade k beghair aur haram me mubtila hone k khouf k beghair saaf sutri phone per ya aam halat me baat cheet kar sakta hai . (Ref: Ayatullah khoie Tauzeehul masail 31st edition, maslah #4243,898) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Sir meri age 27 hy. 2014 may me meri mangni hui aik lardky sy. Usny mje khud psand Kia maa baap k sath 2 bar ghar mje dekhny aya. Pir 1 bar mangni Waly din b aya. Bad me November me jaa k usny mangni tord di waja b nhi btai Mery maa baap shareef hn bht kuch nhi kaha unho ny. Meny b Allah ki raza ki khatir us bandy ko maaf kr dia. Masla ab yeh hy k wo mjsy daily baat Kia karta tha Mery parents ki ijazat sy. Me usky sath bht bht Ziada attached ho gai hu. 2 maah ho gae hn me bht bht bht ro ro k Allah sy usko wapis mangti hu. Kia ap mje koi esa wazifa btaengy jis sy hm pir sy mil saken or bina Kia rukawat k shadi ho saky. Wo aj kal Saudi Arabia me electrical engineering ki job kr raha hy. Usny mje bht sy khaab dikhae thy k tume b sath ly k jaonga. Jaha gya sath rakhun ga. Ab ye jo dhoka usny dia mje chordny wala mjsy wohi bardasht nhi hota. Ab plz Allah ka naam ly k meri madad Karen. Meny pehly b 1 do waziaf unki wapsi k kiye hn mgr abi koi asar nhi hua. Sir me naik niyati sy unki mail bivi ban k achi or Islamic life ghuzarna chahti hu. Wo khud b bht acha insan hy hmesha Namaz rozy ki talkeen karta tha naik Banda hy wo. Bas ap meri madad kar den. Allah apko iska jaza-e-khair ataa Karen ameen summa ameen

Answer: Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) • Rishtay k lie chand ki 11 sai 20 tak k darmiani jumay ko bad namaz e asr surah e taha surah no20 ki ayat no 131,132 ko likh kar pas rakhain or doh kar pie to shadi ho jae gi. (Ref : Naway e Salaheen pg # 352) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

Id:
62957
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Khoie

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Question: Assalam alaykum, mai jab apne mangetar se phone pe baat karti hu ya koi khayal ata hai to mujhe sperm ate hai mujhe pata nhi tha k is haal me mai paak hu k napak ....plz help me to answer this question.is haal me kya mai namaz nhi par sakti hu?

Answer: Mangeter aurat k li namehram hota hai aur aurat apne mageter se jinse lazzat k irade k beghair aur haram me mubtela hone k khouf k beghair saaf sutri baat cheet kar sakti hai . Agar kise shaks k badan se koe ratubat kharij ho aur wo ye na janta ho k mani hai ya phishab ya koe aur cheez ,agar wo ratubat shehwat k sath aur uchal kar nikle ho aur is nikalne k baad badan sust ho gaya ho to wo ratubat mani ka hokum rakhti hai.Laikin agar in 3 alamaat me se saari ki saari ya khuch moujood na hoon to wo ratubat mani ka hokum me nahi aai ghe. Aur ghusal bhi wajib nahi hoga aur wuzu bhi batil nahi hoga (Ref: Ayatullah khoe(r.a) Tauzeehul masail, maslah #4243,352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Salamz..sir aik lrki jo k meri class fellow rhi h 10th class tak meri vo mujy achi lgti hai lekin mera us sy koi rabta nhi rha kbi lkn meri ab vo facebook account p friend h m chahti houn k vo muj sy khud dosti kray aur us k dil m pyar peda ho mery lye qk vo khud ksi sy bat nhi krti...

Answer: Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) . (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye)

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Question: as salam o alikum, mujhay ek larki se bohat pyar hai woh b mujhsay pyar karti thi par kisi bat pe sakht naraz.hogaye, me ya wadodo ka amal 3 months se kar raha hun ijazat lekar, lekin ab tak koi itna khas farak nahi aya. me chahta hun woh pehlay jaise hojaey aur shadi b sirf.mujhsay hi karey... plz madad karen

Answer: Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) • Jis se ghuna hoya ho wo Suche dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba) Suraurh e ahzaab ko hath say likh kar aik dabbay(box) mai band kar k apnay ghar may hifazat say rakh dain aur is surah ko har rooz aik bar parh kar dua mangain to hisb e manshah rishta distiab ho ga. (Ref : Naway e salaheen pg # 352) ya Rishtay k lie chand ki 11 sai 20 tak k darmiani jumay ko bad namaz e asr surah e taha surah no20 ki ayat no 131,132 ko likh kar pas rakhain or doh kar pie to shadi ho jae gi. (Ref : Naway e Salaheen pg # 352) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

Id:
60445
Mujtahid:
Aayat-ul-Allah Seestani

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Question: mjh s na chaty hoy zina hoa,jis p m buhat sharminda ho m n apny shohar ko b bataya,m allah s mafi b mang ri ho,keya m us larky s phr mil sakti ho ya cll p bat kar sakti ho?zina k irady s ni sirf 1 2sry ki help k irady s,q k hm 2no buhat izat dar gher s taluq rakhty h,plz baty

Answer: zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30).Agar shohar dar aurat zina kray to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zani (zina krne wale mard) par hamesha k liye haram ho jati hai laikin sohar par haram nhi hoti hai aur agar toba aur istegfar na karay aur apnay amal par baqi rahay (yani zina karti rahe) to behtr ye hai is ka shohar isay talaq day den.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2367) Jina e mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69) Jis se ghuna hoya ho wo Suche dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: Sir mera ye bore adat hai ke me har kese larke ko ghalat nazar se dekta o muje is ghalat nazar se kese chutkara asel karo

Answer: Mard k lie lazzat k iraadat se na-mehram aurat ka jism dekhna aur isi terah in k baloo ko dekhna haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407). (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: asalamoalekum mere sawal ye hay k may jb b apne mangetar se bat karti hon to mamoli si bat par geli ho jati hon kia es k lia ghusul wajib hay

Answer: Mangeter na-mehram he aur Aik (na-mehram) khatoon se aise baatain ki ja sakti hai jin ka nateja kise akhlaqi fasaad ki sorat me na nikal raha ho jab k koe aise baat bhi na ki jarahi ho jis ka kisi ajnabi khatoon k saath kiya jana munasib nahi hota. Ise tarah baghair lazzat k irade k is ki batain bhi soni jasakti hai jab k haram me bhi na perhne ka itmenaan ho. Albata aurat ki zimedare bhi hai k wo apne awaz ko itna khubsurat aur bareek na banaye jo isaan k jazbaat ko obharne waali ho. (ref : Mujtahid se pouchey gay sawalat part # 3, ques # 115, pg # 57). (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) (Ref:nigha aur libas pg: 31 eidition 1) Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407) Jis se ghuna hoya ho wo Suche dil se toba karni chahea. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai k wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahi ho sakhta k wo apne waday per amal na karay. (ref : website ayatullaha sistani d.b. ques # 1 , toba) Wo ratubat jo aurat say shehwat k saath Khaarij hoti hay agar is Hadd tak ho k usay Inzaal Kaha ja sakay aur libaas ko aalooda kar day , jo aam tor par us waqt nikalti hay jab aurat jinsi shehwat ki Intihaa tak pohunch jaey to ye Najis bhi hay aur is aurat ko Mujnib shumaar kiya jaey ga aur us par ghusl e janabat bhi wajib hoga.ise tara ehteyaat waajib ki bina agar hizaan shewat ki inteha tak nab hi pouche maqar paani itna ziyaada ho jitna pure razamandi k mouqe per kharij hota hai to ye Najis bhi hay aur is aurat ko Mujnib shumaar kiya jaey ga aur us par ghusl e janabat bhi wajib hoga. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 345) Note: Likoria (safeed yellow color ki ratubat) mani nahi hay. Ye paak hay or is k aanay se ghusl bhi wajib nahi hota. Aur namaz aur doosri ibadaat bhi kar saktay hain. (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).

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Question: AOA mein aur mera cousin apas mein muhabbat krty hain hum ny kbhi bhi direct bt nai ki lekin kbhi kbhi messaging ho jati hai lekin. Kbhi bhi koi ghalt bt nai hoi sirf haal waghaira pooch lety hain kia is trah sirf haal waghaira poochna ya sarsri si bt karna bhi gunah tu nai

Answer: Ak (namehram) khatoon se aise baatain ki jasakte hai jin ka nateja kise akhlaqi fasaad ki sorat me na nikal raha ho jab k koe aise baat bhi na ki jarahe ho jis ka kise ajnabi khatoon k saath kiya jana munasib nahi hota, ise tarah beghair lazzat k irade k is ki batain bhi suni jasakte hai jab k haram me bhi na perne ka itmenaan ho. Albata aurat ki zimedare bhi hai k wo apne awaz ko itna khubsurat aur bareek na banaye jo isaan k jazbaat ko obharne wali ho. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) (Ref:nigha aur libas pg: 31 eidition 1) (Khuda aap ki tawfiqaat mein izafa farmaye).