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Question: Agr shadi sy phly ksi k sath physical contact rha ho lkn phr toba kr lain n dbara aesa na krain tw kya günah ki sza mly gi ya magferat k liyay koi amal krna pry ga?

Answer: 1: Zina haram aur gunahan e kabeera mai sai aik hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1439 hij).
2: Zina ka kuffara sache dil se toba karna hai lehaza Hazrat Rasool Allah se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (sura no 66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baarga main toba kijiye.(Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37).
3: Tauba ka sahi mafhom ye hai k sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain. Yaqeenan Allah taala Gafoor o Raheem hai.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 30-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Agr 1 larki k sth koi shakhs zyadti krta ha..to kya us larki ka is bat ko chupana jaiz ha(apny parents ki izzat k liea) islam ma??

Answer: Jaiz hai. (Ref: Mujtahid say pochay gaey sawalaat, part#2, mafhoom e pg#88).
[Updated on 29-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalam o alykum mera sawal ha ka agr kisi orat ka olad ni ho rhi or majbkri ki bina par. Orat or shohaar ki rijazat se kisi or mard se hum bistri kr ka olad lena chahy to kya ye jaiz ha ya haram. Majbori ki bina par agr wo asa krti ha to kya ye jaiz ha ka wo dusry mard se hum bistri kr ka olad la la. Is bary ma rehnumai farmain.

Answer: w/alaikum salam, Ye jaiz nahin hai aur haram hai. (Ref: Ayatullah sistani d.b, Minhajus saliheen part#1, edition#1439, maslah#30).
[Updated on 29-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: ma larka hon..Meri 1 classfellow larki ha us kii shaddi 2 saal pahly hoee aur us ka husband us kii khawahish porii ni kr sakta 1 br bhee us k husband ny us sy humbistri nii kii. wooh larki bht pareshan ha aur khtii haa ma is kami ki wajah sy bht ziada bimar rahtii hon aur bht mushkil ho gae ha zindgi.. ma marna chahtii hon.. Abh wooh mjhy khtii ha kh please tum meri khawahish porii kroo warna ma mar jaon gee... wooh 2 saal sy minaten kr rahe ha... abh mjh sy bhee control hona mushkil ho gya ha.. wooh mjhy har roz gunnah ki dawat datti haa.. mjhy kia krna chahiay? please guide.. ma bhee bht ziada upset hon...

Answer: jee nahi zina karna gunahan e kabeera mai sai hai
shohar par wajib hai k jawan biwi sai 4 mahine ai ziada humbistri tark na karay.
lehaaza usay chahye ksi mujtahid ya wakeel sai raabta karay wohi koi sharai raasta bata saktay hai.(Ref:tauzeeh ul masail ayatullah seestani edition 41 maslah no 2366,2382).
[Updated on 08-Dec-2020 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalam walaikum mai ek ladke se bohot pyar karti hu lekin wo mujhse pyar nahi karta wo bas meri khushi ke liye relationship me aaya or mera boyfriend ban gaya ham kayi baar mile or hamne kiss bhi kiya or sex ki baat ki or ek dusre ko begair kapdo me dekha or masturbation wagaira wagaira kiya to aap mujhe bataye ke is gunah ko mai kaise sudharu?

Answer: 1: Jinse mukhalif sai is had tak dosti karna k mohabbat ki had tak pounch jay, ye jaiz nahi hai q k ghunnah mai mubtila honay ka khof mojoud hay. (Ref : Nigah aur libas sawal # 106 pg # 69).
2: kisi na mehram se doosti karna Jaiz nahi he. (Mujthid se poushey gye sawalat part # 4, ques # 125, pg #65 ).
3: Na-mehram se aisi baatain ki jasakte hain jin ka nateja kise akhlaqi fasaad ki sorat me na nikal raha ho jab k koe aisi baat bhi nah ki ja rahi ho jis ka kise ajnabi k saath kiya jana munasib nahi hota. or agar gunah mai parhne ka khof ho agarcheh ahista ahista parhne ka hi khoof Q na ho baat karna jaiz nahi hay isi tarah gher akhlaqi or mazaq mai bhi warid hona jaiz nahi hai. .(Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) & http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01845/).
4: Na mehram aurat k jism k kisi hissay ko choona ya os ka bosa(kiss) laina ya gale lagana haram hai, chahae lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k baghair aur chahay baad mai shadi hi Q nah karni ho. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzee hul masail, maslah # 2397).
5: Istimna (yani kisi bhi tariqe se mani kharij) karna haram hai..(ref. jaded fiqi masail aqa sistani pg #253 masla #462)
6: Mani kharij hone se ghusl janabat wajib ho jata hai. lekin agar mani kharij na hoi ho to gusl wajib nahin hota.(Ref: Tauzeeh e ul masayl, Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.), edition 39th, Masla # 344 )
7: Sub se pehlay shermindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gay, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahay hain.wo koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo us ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karain. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa saktay hoon to roza rakhain q k roza ghunahoo k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai. (E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 29-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Asalam o alaikum. Mai zina kar chuka hu bht dafa. Jb karta hu to dedamat hoti hai phir thoray arsay baad dil karta hai to phir zina kar leta hu. Mujy is gunah say bachnay ka tariqa bata dain

Answer: 1: Zina haram aur gunahan e kabeera mai sai aik hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1439 hij).
2: Zina se bachne ka tariqa: ye hai ke aap shadi kar lain, Q k Jo shakhs shadi na karnay ki wajah se fail e haram me mubtila hota ho os per wajib he k shadi karay. (Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
3: Is ke elawa Gunahoon se bachnein k bohat se tariqe hain jin me se chand ye he k 1)mout ki yaad ko dil main bassaain. 2) ye tassawur karain k khuda aap ko har waqt dekh reha hay. 3)khaas taur per namaz e shab ki pabandi karain. 4)Pakiza aur halal ghiza kahain. 5) apne aap ko sport(khail) study(parhai) men masroof rakhen, is ke elawa aur mufeed kamon men apne aap ko masroof rakhen…. etc (Ref : kitab tark e ghunahan ke 40 tariqay).
[Updated on 29-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Kisi na mehraam larky k sath sex ki baatien krna or sex imagine krna sirf chatting main. Real main touch b na kiya ho. Kya ye b zina hai?

Answer: Na-mehram se sex ki batain karna jaiz nahin hai, na mehram se aisi baatain ki jasakte hain jin ka nateja kise akhlaqi fasaad ki sorat me na nikal raha ho jab k koe aisi baat bhi nah ki ja rahi ho jis ka kise ajnabi k saath kiya jana munasib nahi hota .or agar gunah mai parhne ka khof ho agarcheh ahista ahista parhne ka hi khoof Q na ho baat karna jaiz nahi hay isi tarah gher akhlaqi or mazaq mai bhi warid hona jaiz nahi hai. (Ref : Mujtahid se pochay gaey sawalaat, part # 4, sawaal # 127,pg # 66) (Ref:nigha aur libas pg: 31 eidition 1) & http://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01845/).
[Updated on 29-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Asaalam walikum bhai jan mera sawal h mra bhai ek lrki sy sth 4 saal sy hai us ny zina bhe kiya hai wo nikkah krna chahta h pr larki k maa bap razi nhe ho rhe kr us k maa bap uski shi krwana chahte hain use kya krna chahte use us lrki k lye jis k sth hambastri ki h us k lye apne ghr walo k smne stand lena chahye ya kisi or sy nikkah krlena chahye please bta den usko us larki k lye khare hona chahye k nikkah us sy he krnga chahe jitna bhe wqt lgy

Answer: 1: Zina haram or gunahan e kabeera mai sai hai. Aur Shohar aur biwi k ilawa kisi aur tariqe se jinsi lazzat hasil karna jaiz nahi hai. (Ref: Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. Part #1 masla # 30).
2: Agar koe shaks aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho tu ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba karne se pehle is se shadi nahi kar sakta. Aur nikah kahin bhi karay lekin agar larki kunwari ho or apne umoor men wo khud mukhtaar na ho tu nikah karne ke liye wali (yani baap ya dada) sai ijaazat lena zaroori hai. (Note: baap ya dada ki ijazat ke bager nikah jaiz hai). (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzeehul masail, 41st edition, maslah #2341,2364).
[Updated on 29-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Mera sawal main shadi shuda larki hun main apni cousion sath fursat sath hambistri ki hai ab shohar aya hai kuwait se main apne shohar ki hamla hun kia mera nikah tut chuka tha or yah anay wali olad halal hai ya haram...

Answer: Zina aik gunah e kabeera hoy hai lehaaza lazim hai k zaani khuda sai tauba karay. Shadi shuda aurat sai agar koi zina karay tou ehtiyaate e wajib ki bina par wo zaani par hamesha k liay haraam ho jaati hai. laikin apne shohar par haram nahin hoti (yani nikah baqi rehta hai). (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail Ayatullah Sistani, edition #39th, maslah#2367)
Zina k zariay jo aulad ho gi wo haram zada ho gi lekin agar aurat pehly se hi apne shohar se hamila thi to aulad halal zada hogi. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayatullah sistani(d.b), part #1, masla #30)
[Updated on 29-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Sir agar ak 14 Saal Ka larka 13 Saal ke lrke say sex lite lekin leken larke Ka sharamga to band hota aur larka aus ke saat Kuch kiss aur Kuch about kre to ye zina hai

Answer: 1: Zina haram aur gunahan e kabeera mai sai aik hai. Zina ye hota hay k aik baligh or aqil merd(yani jo pagal na ho) apne uzo e tanasul(penis) ko hashfe(glanspenis) ki miqdaar k baraber aik aisi aurat ki agli(vegina) ya pichli(anus) sharamgaah main daale jo is merd k liay halal na ho.
(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part #1, Eidition 1439 hij, Maslah #30) & (Ref: Al-Lumatud damashqiyah, part #3, chapter kitab e hodood, pg #313)
2: Na mehram aurat k jism k kisi hissay ko choona ya os ka bosa(kiss) laina ya gale lagana haram hai, chahe lazzat k iraday k sath ho ya is k baghair ho.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzeeh ul masail, Edition #39, maslah #2397)
[Updated on 03-Dec-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Aoa . Mene apni mami(means mamu ki wife) k sth zanna kiya hei almost 8-10 times.. Start unho ne kiya tha ...aur phir mjse control nai huwa ...unho ne meri masoomiyat ka faida uthayaa...aur mjy esa lgta hei zanaa krne se meri zindagi tabaaah ho gae hei...aur yeh baat mene parents ko bi btaa di hein..abb mei kya krun?? Aur apni mama se halal relation rkhu yn nai??? Yn sucide kr lun Now i'm 21 and she is almost 28-29 years old

Answer: Zina haram aur gunahan e kabeera mai sai aik hai.(Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part # 1, Mafhoom e Maslah #30 , Eidition 1439 hij).
App sachay dil se toba karen, Aur Hazrat Rasool Allah(s.a.w.w) se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (sura no 66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baarga main toba kijiye. (Ref : Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal pg # 37). Tauba ka sahi mafhom ye hai k sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi. or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain. Yaqeenan Allah taala Gafoor o Raheem hai.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 02-Jan-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: bhai bhen ka sex ka dill qu karta hea

Answer: Zina ko gunah e kabeera mai shumaar kia gaya hai.
(Ref: Minhaj us salaheen Ayatullah sistani(d.b), part #1 Edition 2009, masla # 30)
Jo shak shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam(zina) me mubtela hota ho is per wajib ha k shadi kar le.
(Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b.) Edition 41st Maslah #2407)
Gunah se bachane ke liye, koshish karain k khuch mufeed kamo main khud ko masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karer. Agar koi khud par qabo nah paa sakta ho to roza rakhe Q k roza ghunahon k muqabilay mai dhal ka kaam karta hai.
(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 27-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: mera swal ye hy k agr bchu( bchy or bchi ) ny nadani m aik dusry ko hath se jism ko touch kiya or nzrun se daikha to kya ye zina hy or is k liye kya krna chaeye ?

Answer: Ye zina nahin kehlata, balke Zina ye hota hay k aik baligh or aqil merd(yani jo pagal na ho) apne uzo e tanasul(penis) ko hashfe(glanspenis) ki miqdaar k baraber aik aisi aurat ki agli(vegina) ya pichli(anus) sharamgaah main daale jo is merd k liay halal na ho.(Ref: Al-Lumatud damashqiyah, part #3, chapter kitab e hodood, pg #313)
(Note: Agar bache mumayyiz(samajhdar) hon yani jo ache aur bure ko samajhte hon to aap unhen samjain aur batain ke ye chizen islam men haram hain aur is se gunah milata hai. aur walidain ki bhi zimedari hai ke wo apne bachon ki achi tarbiyat karen, aur unhen achi aur burio chizon agah karen.)
[Updated on 26-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Aslam Alaikum Sir kon see majboori ke mutabi ourat per zina jaiz he? Plz detail me btain or samjhaen

Answer: Jee nahi, zina jaiz nahi hai. Q k zina (sex) haram aur gunah e kabeera hai. (Ref : Minhaj us salaheen Ayat ullah sistani d.b. part # 1 masla # 30)
[Updated on 08-Jan-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Aik bandy ny puchwaya ha kia behn k sath sex krny sy ma bap ka rishta tut jata hai

Answer: Agarche zina haram aur gunahan e kabeera mai sai hai. aur is ki wajah se tauba karna lazim hai. lekin zina wajah se koi shakhs apne maan baap ke rishte se nikal nahin jata. (Ref: Ayatullah Seestani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen Part #1, Eidition 1439 hij, Mafhoom e Maslah #30).
[Updated on 13-Jan-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Agr koi ladka zinaakari me mubtela ho, to use is galat adat se bachane k liye kya wazifa ya dua h??

Answer: Zina karna gunah e kabira hai. Gunah se bachne or jinsi taskeen ka sharei halaal rasta shadi karna hay. (Ref: www.sistani.org topic istimna).
[Updated on 03-Feb-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: larka jawan ghar me ho shehwat bardasht na ho kia maa se hambestre kar sagta he

Answer: Jee nahin, ye kaam haram aur gunah e kabira hai. Aur is gunah se bachne ka sharaei rasta ye hai ke shadi kar li jaye Q ke Jo shakhs shadi na karne ki waja se fail e haraam me mubtela hota ho (Jaise zina, istimna wagera...) to us per shadi karna wajib hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzeeh ul masail, edition #42, maslah #2407)
[Updated on 09-Feb-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: AGAR SHADI SHUDA AURAT SAY ZINA HO JAEY TO KIYA US KA SHOHAR USKO MAF KAR K APNY SATH RAKH SAKTA HA AGR AURAT APNY KIYE PAR SHARMINDA HO AUR SHOHAR SAY MAFI MANG KAR 1 MOKA MANG RAHI HO TO SHOHAR KIYA USAY MAF KAR K WAPIS APNY SATH RAKH SAKTA HA ?

Answer: Zina aik gunah e kabeera hai lehaaza lazim hai k zina karne wale khuda sai tauba karain. Agar shadi shuda aurat zina karay to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zaani (zina kernay walay shakhs) par hamesha ke liye haram ho jati hai Yani wo aurat phir khabi bhi zaani (zina kernay walay shakhs) sai nikah nahi kar sakti hai. Laikin shohar per haram nahi hogi. lehaza dono mian biwi aik sath reh sakte hain aur aik sath zindgi guzar sakte hain. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzeehul masail edition #42, maslah #2367).
[Updated on 09-Feb-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Agr shohar mardana kamzori ka shekar ho elaj na karwye aur bv ki hajat b pori na Kary 6 saal guzar geye hon bv akhir kaar tang aa kar zinq kar lay iska gunah shohar k sir higa ????

Answer: Zina aik gunah e kabeera hai lehaaza lazim hai k zina karne wale khuda sai tauba karain. Agar shadi shuda aurat zina karay to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zaani (zina kernay walay shakhs) par hamesha ke liye haram ho jati hai Yani wo aurat phir khabi bhi zaani (zina kernay walay shakhs) sai nikah nahi kar sakti hai. Laikin shohar per haram nahi hogi. lehaza dono mian biwi aik sath reh sakte hain aur aik sath zindgi guzar sakte hain. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzeehul masail edition #42, maslah #2367).
(Note: Jee nahin ye gunah shohar ke zimme nahin hoga bakle aap ke zimme hoga aur aap apne shohar ko is Medicine ka bolen aur wo ye Medicine istimal kare inshallah is se faaida milega. (Damiana Pentarkan Germany ki homeopathic medicine hay or is k koe side effect nahi hain. aur tamaam jinsi amraaz se nijaat hasil karne k liay Mektum homeo Phrama k medicine T49 istemal kare. ye medicine bhi bohot mufeed hay.(Ref: http://www.hmlinks.com/mektum/product.php).
[Updated on 18-Feb-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Agr koi larka kisi larki sy shadi ka wada kary or kahay k bas ek maah m apnay ghar walon ko mna lay ga per do mah badd wo apany waday sy mukar jaye or is asna m zina b kr chukay hon dono q k larki ko itna yakeen dila dia gya ho k shadi tw karni hi hy. larki ki ghalti hy k wo na mehram ki baton m q ai magar kia us larkay py koi sharai hukam lago nahi hty ? kia uski koi ghalti nhi hy ? jb tak larki us larky ko maf nhi kary gi tw kia us larky ki tauba qabool ho jaye gi ? dhoka tw larki ko dia hy us ny tw tauba kesy qabool ho gi jb tak larki maaf nahi kary gi ???

Answer: Zina karna haram aur gunahan e kabeera mai sai aik hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen, Part #1, Eidition 1439 hij, Maslah #30).
(Note: Koi larka shadi ka wada kare ya na kare, zina karna har soorat me haram aur gunahan e kabira hai yani zina karne ki kisi soorat men ijaazat nahin hai. aur is ki wajah se tauba karna lazim hai.
Sache dil se tauba karen aur Tauba ka sahi mafhoom ye hai k sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi. or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010)
[Updated on 22-Feb-2021 :: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalam O Alaikum! Hazoor agr kisi larky se zina ho jaye to us k haq me kia behtr hy k woh usi larki se nikkah kry ya kisi or se..

Answer: 1: Zina karna haram aur gunahan e kabeera mai sai aik hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen, Part #1, Eidition 1439 hij, Maslah #30).
2: Agar koe shaks aisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare jo iddat main nah ho tu ehtiyaat e wajib ki bina per zaani (zina karne wala shakhs) us aurat k tauba karne se pehle us se shadi nahi kar sakta. han larki k taubah k baad usi larki se nikah kia ja sakta hay. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzeehul masail, edition #42, maslah #2364
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Question: ماں کے ساتھ زنا کرنا

Answer: Zina haram aur gunahan e kabeera mai sai aik hai. chahe maan ke sath kiya jaye ya kisi aur ke sath. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen, Part #1, Eidition 1439 hij, Maslah #30).
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Question: Asalam u Alaikum sir, agr kisi ke abbu beemar hon or unki ami ger mard ke sath sex karti tw kiya unka beta apni maa ko iss kam rokne ke liye khud humbistari karskta hai?

Answer: Kisi bhi Aurat ka apne shohar k alawa kisi se jismani talluq rakhna gunah e kabira hay. Biwi ke zina karne se wo apne shohar per haram nahin ho jati or agar tauba o istighfar nah kare or apne amal per baqi rahe (yani zinakaari tark nah kare) tu behtar ye hay k shohar osay talaq day day laikin shohar ko chahiay keh os ka meher day day.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus saliheen part #1, edition #1439, maslah #30) + (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail edition #42, maslah #2367)
(Note: Shohar ke elawa Kisi se bhi is tarh ka kam karna chahe wo beta ho ya koi aur ye haram aur gunah e kabira hai. aur bete ke liye bhi aisa karna haram aur gunah e kabira hoga, aur bete ke liye amar bil maroof aur nahi anil mukar ke tahat ye kam bhi wajib hai ke apni walida ko is gunah se roke ).
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Question: Mami sy zinha ho gya hai Allah maaf kaisay karay ga toba jaiz hai kafara kro ya kuch aur

Answer: 1-Zina karna haram aur gunahan e kabeera mai sai aik hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen, Part #1, Eidition 1439 hij, Maslah #30).
2-Zina ka kaffara nahi hai lekin tauba laazim hai.
3-Sache dil se tauba karen aur Tauba ka sahi mafhoom ye hai k sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi. or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.(E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010)
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Question: Assalam o Alaikum Main nadani main zina jaisay gunah e kabira main phans gaya tha lekin ab Alhamdolillah 6 saal say main nay is gunah say apnay apko bacha liya hai. Allah pak mujhay muaaf farma dain. kya zina ka kaffara hai ya suchi toba ?

Answer: Sachay dil say tauba karain Parwardigaar ne quran me wadah kia he k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he aur aisa hargiz nahi ho sakta he k wo apne wadeh per amal na karey. Aur gunah se bachney kw liye mazboot irada chahiye. (Ref: sistani.org ques #1, toba).
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Question: aslam o alaikum jnab kya aik larka apne se bari umer r shadi shuda aurat se humbistri kre to kya larke kelie nuqsandah he

Answer: 1: Na mehram ke sath hambistari karna zina kehlaye ga Aur zina karna haram aur gunahan e kabeera main sai hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen, Part #1, Eidition 1439 hij, Maslah #30).
2: Agar shadi shuda aurat zina karay to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zaani (zina kernay walay shakhs) par hamesha ke liye haram ho jati hai Yani wo aurat phir khabi bhi zaani (zina kernay walay shakhs) sai nikah nahin kar sakti.
(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzeehul masail edition #42, maslah #2367).
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Question: Kiya Shadi Shuda Shohar Wali Aurat Jis k 4 Jawan Bachay bhi hoon Kisi aur Shadi Shuda Mard sy Sex Kar Sakti hei. Baqol Mard o Aurat kay Dono ko Apnay Sharaye Partners sy Zada Dono ko aaik doosray mein Sex Enjoyment Zada hoti. Mard Us Shadi Shuda Aurat ki Poori Tarah Kafalat bhi karta hai

Answer: Jee nahin, is ki hagiz ijazat nahin hai aur zina karna haram aur gunahan e kabeera hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen, Part #1, Eidition 1439 hij, Maslah #30). 2: Agar shadi shuda aurat zina karay to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zaani (zina kernay walay shakhs) par hamesha ke liye haram ho jati hai Yani wo aurat phir khabi bhi zaani (zina kernay walay shakhs) sai nikah nahin kar sakti. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Tauzeehul masail edition #42, maslah #2367).
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Question: Ager galti se 1 ya 2 bar jina ho jay to kya saja h

Answer: 1: Zina karna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhajus Saliheen, Part #1, Maslah#30).
2: Jis kisi ne gunah kiya ho use chahiye ke wo sachay dil se toba kare. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai ke wo toba karney waloo ki toba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahin ho sakta ke wo apne waday per amal na karay. (Ref: website Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), ques #1, toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ).
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Question: A.O.A : Sir mera sawaal ya hai ka mera ek dost nay jantay boojhtay hoa ek larki ka saath haram fail kia (zinna nahin) r us ka baad us na ghalti sa ek dost ko ya baat bata di .... Jo us ki ya baat sab ko bata raha hai..... Kia abhi bhi koi chance hai ka us ki touba qabool hoo jaye gi ..... Q ka jitna mein na sunna hai to ya hai ka khuda hr wo gunah maaf kr day ga siwai shirq ka jiss ka koi gawah ni ho ga....please guide ....

Answer: 1: Na mehram ke sath jinsi lazzat hasil karna bagair intercourse ke (yani mard ne apna aala tanasul aurat ki sharamgah men dakhil na kiya ho to) zina nahin hai magar ye kam haram hai. (Ref: kitab nigah aur libas, maslah, #109, pg #70).
2: Jis kisi ne gunah kiya ho use chahiye ke wo sachay dil se toba kare. Parverdigar ne quran majeed me wada kia hai ke wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta he. Aisa hargis nahin ho sakta ke wo apne waday per amal na karay. (Ref: website Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), ques #1, toba http://sistani.org/local.php?modules=nav&nid=5&cid=888 ).
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Question: Sir aik shadi shuda aurat ko kisi or larky say zina hojay or bacha hojay to usko kia karna chahiay?

Answer: 1) Zina kerna gunah e kabira hay.(Ref:Ayatullah sistani, Minhajus Saliheen,Part#1, Maslah#30)
2) Agar koe shaks kisi bay shohar aurat k sath zina kare or wo aurat iddat main bhi nah ho, Aur baad men us sai shadi karna chahae to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina wo shaks is(aurat) k tauba kerne se pehle is se shadi nahi ker sakta.(Ref:Ayatullah Sistani(d.b),Tauzeehul masail 31th edition,maslah #2364)

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Question: Kisi gair aurat ko paise dekar zina karna kaisa hai jab ki wo khud zina karne ke liya taiyyar ho

Answer: Haram hai hr surat. (Ref: minhajus saleheen part 1, masla no. 30)
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Question: As salaam alaikum maulana Mai ek aurat se mahobbat karta tha jo shadi shuda hai Par maine uske saath zinaah hum bistari ki hai par bura lag raha hai aur bht ro ro kar tauba kia hai allah paak se To kya mai us aurat se nikaah kar sakta hoon Us aurat ne apne shahor se tallah le liya hai 8 mahinay pehle merey liye Aap plz koi raasta bate jisse mera nikaah jaiz ho maine bht allah pak se faryaad ki apne gunaah ki maafi ke liye

Answer: Shadi shuda aurat sai agar koi zina karay tou ehtiyaate e wajib ki bina par wo aurat zaani par hamesha k liay haraam ho jaati hai. Aur zina aik gunah e kabeera hai. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), edition #42, maslah #2367).
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Question: As salaam alaikum maine ek shadi shuda aurat ke saath zina kia tha Par mai usse mahobbat karta hoon Usne usne uske shauhar ko tallaq bhi de diya hai aur 8 mahine ho chukey hai Nai mai uske binaah reh sakta hoon aur na wo merey bina Aur hamne allah paaak se bht ro ro kar tauba kia hai Ahed bhi baand li ke ainda aisa na karengey Mujhe usse nikaah karna hai Merey lie usne saari dunya chord di hai Mai ussey akela nahi chord sakta Koi hal bataye nikaah karne ke liye Quroon aur hadees e ahlebait a.s ki raoshni me

Answer: Shadi shuda aurat sai agar koi zina karay tou ehtiyaate e wajib ki bina par wo aurat zaani par hamesha k liay haraam ho jaati hai. Aur zina aik gunah e kabeera hai. (Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), edition #42, maslah #2367).
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Question: salam agr apni 3 year beti k sath bap zina kare to us ki bv us k ly haram hojay gi kia ?

Answer: Is se biwi apne shohar par haram nahin hoti. lekin Is tarah ka amal jaiz hay or gunah e kabira hay nahin Q k beti, baap apas men mehram hen or unke darmiyan is qism k taluqat jaiz nahin hen.
(Ref: Minhajus Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Part #3, edition 2006, Maslah #16).
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Question: Assalam o Allikum mera sawal yeh hai k larki ki sharam gah me half penis in hwa hai tw yeh zina kehlaega or virginity bhi nh tooti

Answer: Zina se murad hai ke kisi mard ka kisi aurat ke sath nikah ke baghair hambistari ki jaey. or aisa karna gunah e kabira or haram hay.
(Ref: Minhaj us Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #1, maslah #30).
Zina ye hota hay k aik baligh or aqil merd(yani jo pagal na ho) apne uzo e tanasul(penis) ko hashfe(glanspenis) ki miqdaar k baraber aik aisi aurat ki agli(vagina) ya pichli(anus) sharamgaah main dakhil kare jo is merd k liay halal na ho. (Ref: Al-Lumatud damashqiyah, part #3, chepter kitab e hodood, pg #313).
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Question: Kya husband wife ek dusre ki razamandi se dusre shakhs ke sath sex kar sakte hai like threesome ya swap

Answer: jee nahi yeh zina k hukm hai or zina karna haram aur gunahan e kabeera main sai hai. (Ref: Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Minhaajus Saliheen, Part #1, Eidition 1439 hij, Maslah #30).
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Question: Agr kisi ki mother dosri shadi kr ly or phir unka shohar uski beti pr buri nazar rakhy usky sath zina tak krly tw kiya is sorat mei maa ka nikka jiaz hoga ga ya tot jai ga or phir beti tuba kasy kry gi ?sir iska haal bta dy

Answer: Sotelay baap ka apni soteli baiti se zina karne se os baiti ki maan ka nikah batil nahi hoga. Agar baiti bhi is amal per raazi thi tu mard k sath sath os baiti per bhi tauba wajib hay.(Ref: Minhajus saliheen, Ayatullah sistani, maslah#29-30)

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Question: Kya beta apni ma ke sath sex kar sakta hai

Answer: Jee nahin, Yeh Haram or gunahan e kabira men se hai Q ke Maan, Beta apas men mehram hen or unk darmiya is qism k taluqat jaiz nahin hen, Jo mard aur aurat apas mai mehram hon agar wo lazat ki niyat rakhtay hon aur haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho to badan ko chhoona yahan tak ke dekhna bhi haram hai.
(Ref: Minhaj us Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Part #3, Maslah #13).
Us bete par shadi karna wajib hai Q ke Jo koi shadi nah karne ki wajah se haram kaam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay ke shadi karay.
(Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #42: Maslah #2407).
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Question: Mummy papa ke allow karne pr kya beta apni ma or bahen se sex kar skata hai

Answer: Jee nahin, Yeh Haram or gunahan e kabira men se hai Q ke Maan, Behan, Beta, Bhai ye sab apas men mehram hen or unk darmiya is qism k taluqat jaiz nahin hen, Jo mard aur aurat apas mai mehram hon agar wo lazat ki niyat rakhtay hon aur haram mai mubtila honay ka khof ho to badan ko chhoona yahan tak ke dekhna bhi haram hai.
(Ref: Minhaj us Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Part #3, Maslah #13).
Us bete par shadi karna wajib hai Q ke Jo koi shadi nah karne ki wajah se haram kaam main mubtila hota ho os per wajib hay ke shadi karay.
(Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Edition #42: Maslah #2407).
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Question: Aslamoalekum agar kisi shkas se bina shadi kiye bina ladki pragnent ho jaae to uski kya saza hogi, aur use kya karna hoga is gunha se bachne ke liye

Answer: 1: Na mehram ke sath hambistari karna zina kehlaye ga Aur zina karna haram aur gunahan e kabeera main sai hai. (Ref: Minhaajus Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Part #1, Edition #1439 hij, Maslah #30).
2: Sachay dil se toba ki jaye, Aur Hazrat Rasool Allah(s.a.w.w) se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (surah #66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baargah main toba ki jaye. (Ref: Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal, pg #37).
3: Tauba ka sahi mafhom ye hai k sab se pehlay tu apnay aap ko is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahin donga. or hamaisha yaad rahe k Allah har waqt daikh raha hay or is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain. (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 12-Jul-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Kia zina karne k baad nadamat hona maafi mangne sy maafi milskti hai?? Kiun k mene esa suna hai bure mard k liye buri orteein hai or agar kisi nai esa kia to uske ghar me sy kisi k satt b esa hoga like sister,mother,ya wife k sath!!kia maafi mangne k baad b usy apne ghr sy kaafara dena hoga kia uske ghr mai sy b kisi k sath hoga ya phr agar wo kisi pakeeza insan sy mohabbat krta hoga to ya wo ussy nahi milegi?

Answer: 1: Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain, Agar inssan tauba karay tou usay ye yaqeen hona chahiye k parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat bohat wasee hai wo maaf karne waala hai. Q k Parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta hai. aur aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta k wo apne waday par amal na karay. Haqiqat e tauba gunah ki anjaam dahi per nidamat hay. or isi liay kaha gaya hay k “ nidamat hi tauba hay ”. or waazeh hay rahay k haqiqi nidamat hamesha gunah k tark k mazboot iraday or dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay k iraday k saath hoti hay. or haqiqi nadim shakhs zaroor bil zaroor apnay pichlay gunahon ka izala or tadaruk karta hay. agar os ka gunah huqooq e khuda main se ho tu khuda ki baargaah se maghfirat talab karay or agar qaza ya kaffara ya dobara amal ka anjaam daina wajib ho tu anjaab dain. Or agar huqooq e naas os k zimmay ho tu zaroori hay k sahib e haq se os haq ka apnay oper halal honay ki ijazat lay lay ya oska haq os ko day day. taubah faqat astaghfirul laah kehnay se nahin hoti, balkeh nidamat or hamesha gunah k terk kernay ka mazboot irada or os ka tadaruk laazim hay. albattah agar tauba k baad gunah karay tub hi remat e Khuda se mayoos nah ho balkeh zaroori hay k dobarah tauba karain. kyun keh Khuda kareen or meherban hay. or bakshnay wala hay. or tauba karnay walo ko doost rakhta hay. hadees e shareef main hay k: “ Aik lamhah fikr karna 60 saal ki ibadat se behter hay” or tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hay k azmat e Khuda or os ka apnay bando per haq or khuda ka her jagah hazir o nazir honay per fikr karna hay. or isi liay hadees main aya hay: “ tanhaae main bhi gunah k anjaam dainay se parhaiz karo k Khuda hazir or daikhnay wala hay ”.
2: Na-mehram larkay or larki ka apas main doosti karna or piyaar o muhabbat jaiz nahin hai. Aur aik larke ka kisi larki se is etebar se dosti karna ke shadi to ek dam nahin hoti balke shuru men baat cheet hoti hai to ye jaiz nahin hai. Albatta Islam pasand ki shadi se mana nahin karta. or shadi ke liye jaiz khoshish kar sakte hain or dua kar sakte hain laikin haram kam karne ke ijazat nahin hai.
Ref: Ayatullah sistani(d.b) ques #1, toba, https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766/. + email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated:17-08-2011. + Mujtahid se pochay gaye sawalaat, part #4, sawaal #125,127, pg #65,66).
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Question: کسی سے زنا ہو جائے وہ اُس کی سزا چاہتا ہو تو اُسے کیا کرنا چاہیے کیا وہ شخص خود کو کوڑے مار سکتا ہے؟

Answer: Jee nahin, balkeh Aap Allah taala se sachay dil se maafi talab karen, Sab gunah maaf ho saktay hain agar inssan tauba karay tou usay ye yaqeen hona chahiye k parwardigaar e aalam ki rehmat bohat wasee hai wo maaf karne waala hai q k parwardigar nai quran majeed mai wada kia hai k wo tauba karney walon ki tauba ko qabool karta hai aur aisa hargiz nahin ho sakta k wo apne waday par amal na karay haqiqat e tauba gunah ki anjaam dahi per nidamat hay or isi liay kaha gaya hay k nidamat hi tauba hay or waazeh hay rahay k haqiqi nidamat hamesha gunah k tark k mazboot iraday or dobara is ki taraf nah palatnay k iraday k saath hoti hay or haqiqi nadim shakhs zaroor bil zaroor apnay pichlay gunahon ka izala or tadaruk karta hay agar os ka gunah huqooq e khuda main se ho tu khuda ki baargaah se maghfirat talab karay or agar qaza ya kaffara ya dobara amal ka anjaam daina wajib ho tu anjaab dain or agar huqooq e naas os k zimmay ho tu zaroori hay k sahib e haq se os haq ka apnay oper halal honay ki ijazat lay lay ya oska haq os ko day day taubah faqat astaghfirul laah kehnay se nahin hoti balkeh nidamat or hamesha gunah k terk kernay ka mazboot irada or os ka tadaruk laazim hay albattah agar tauba k baad gunah karay tub hi remat e khuda se mayoos nah ho balkeh zaroori hay k dobarah tauba karain kyun keh khuda kareen or meherban hay or bakshnay wala hay or tauba karnay walo ko doost rakhta hay hadees e shareef main hay k aik lamhah fikr karna 60 saal ki ibadat se behter hay or tauba main asar andaaz cheez ye hay k azmat e khuda or os ka apnay bando per haq or khuda ka her jagah hazir o nazir honay per fikr karna hay or isi liay hadees main aya hay tanhaae main bhi gunah k anjaam dainay se parhaiz karo k khuda hazir or daikhnay wala hay. (Ref: website Ayatullah Sistani(d.b,) ques #1, toba, https://www.sistani.org/urdu/qa/01766 + (Ref: email rcvd from Aqae sistani(d.b), dated 17 08 2011).Jo shaks shadi na hone ki waja se fale haraam me mubtela hota ho is per wajib hai k shadi kar le.(Ref : Tauzeeh e ul masayl Ayat Ullaha Sistani (d.b.) Masla # 2407)
Kisi dosre ke saamne apne Gunah ka izhar karna jaiz nahin hay.(Ref: Mujtahid se poche gaey sawalaa, part #3, maslah #229).
[Updated on 16-Feb-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Mera swal y h ky.main ksi sy zina main mubtla hun..lakh koshish ki h pr nikal hi ni pa rhi...allah sy darr b lgta h. prjb qo bulata h main khud ko rokk ni pati..main kya kron?

Answer: Tauba: ye hai ke Sub se pehlay sharmindagi ka ehsaas karain or Allah se maghfirat talab karain or khud se ehed or wada karain k is gunah ko dobara anjaam nahi dain gi, or hameshah yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko daikh raha hay, or is gunah ko anjaam day ker wo shaitan ka hokum maan rahi hain or Allah ki na-fermani ker rahi hain. Koshish karain k khud ko degar mufeed kamon main masroof ker lain jaisay sport, perhai, ghar ke kam kaj waghaira, or har os cheez se bachain jo Aap ki jinsi khahish ko ubharay ya baydaar karay. Agar wo khud par qabo nah paa sakti hon to roza rakhain Q k roza gunahon k muqabilay mai dhaal ka kaam karta hai.(E-mail rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b), dated: Sep 27, 2010).
[Updated on 08-Feb-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalamualaikum, maine ek shaadi shuda aurat ke saath sex kia ham dono ek doosre ko bohat chahte hai but woh apne husband ko abhi nahi chod sakti aur mujhe pata hai hamne gunah kia hai. To kya allah se maafi maang kar future me nikah kar sakte hai. Mai bohat sharminda huh magar mai sirf isi aurat ke saath nikah karna chahta huh. Mai jo maafi hosake maanuga khuda se magar mai sirf issi aurat se nikah karna chahta huh. Maine isse dil me biwi bhi maan lia hai khuda ki kasam

Answer: Us shaadi shuda aurat ka apne shohar sai nikah nahin tootay ga lekin jis se is aurat ne jinsi talukaat qaim kiye they ab ye dono Ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par aik doosre par hamesha k liay haraam ho gaey or shaadi bhi nahin kar saktay.
(Ref: Tauzeeh ul masail, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), edition #42, maslah #2367).
[Updated on 08-Jan-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Ayk talaq yafta sunni lrki ka nikha ho gaya hy rukhsati nae hoi, or hm ne us k nikha k bad zina b kra hy, kia main us lrki sy nikha kr skta hon gr wo apna nikha khtm kr dy?

Answer: 1: Zina aik gunah e kabeera hai lehaaza lazim hai k zina karne wale khuda sai tauba talab karain.
2: Agar shadi shuda aurat zina karay to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zaani (zina kernay walay) par hamesha ke liye haram ho jati hai Yani wo aurat phir khabi bhi zaani (zina kernay walay) sai nikah nahin kar sakti hai. Laikin shohar per haram nahi hogi. or agar tauba o istighfar nah kare or apne amal per baqi rahe (yani zinakaari tark nah kare) tu behtar ye hay k shohar osay talaq day day laikin shohar ko chahiay keh os ka meher use day.
(Ref: Minhaj us Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #1, maslah #30. + Tauzeeh ul Masail, edition #42, maslah #2367).
(Note: Ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par Aap dono nikah nahin kar sakte).
[Updated on 03-Jan-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Assalamualaikum, Ustad muhtaram sawal yeh hai ke, Agar kisi ke ghar mein bad chalan ya zani Aurat ho aur uske bhai shohar ya devar ko pata chal gaya ho aur unhon ne ussay kaafi baar samjhane ki koshish bhi ki ho lekin woh aurat phir bhi naa sudharay toh uskay shohar, Devar ya bhai ko kia karna chahiye? Note: Teeno Rishton Ke Lye Jawab Dena Lazmi Hai.

Answer: Zina aik gunah e kabeera hai lehaaza lazim hai k zina karne wale khuda sai tauba karain. Agar shadi shuda aurat zina karay to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zaani (zina kernay walay shakhs) par hamesha ke liye haram ho jati hai Yani wo aurat phir khabi bhi zaani (zina kernay walay shakhs) sai nikah nahi kar sakti hai. Laikin shohar per haram nahin hogi. lehaza dono mian biwi aik sath reh sakte hain aur aik sath zindgi guzar sakte hain. or agar biwi tauba o istighfar nah kare or apne amal per baqi rahe (yani zinakaari tark nah kare) tu behtar ye hay k shohar osay talaq day day laikin shohar ko chahiay keh os ka meher use day agar meher na diya ho to. (Ref: Minhaj us Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #1, maslah #30. + Tauzeeh ul Masail, edition #42, maslah #2367).
[Updated on 10-Dec-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Agar bivi ko kafi saal k bad pata chaly k us k shohar ny kam wali bachi k sath zabardasti zinah kiya hai to us surat mai biwi ko kya karna chahiye, us sy us ki ulad bui hai ur wo shohar bowi sy muhabbat bhi karta hai

Answer: Zina aik gunah e kabeera hai, lehaaza lazim hai k zina karne wale khuda sai tauba karain. Laikin shohar aur shohar ki biwi aik dosre par haram nahin hote lehaza dono miyan biwi aik sath reh sakte hain aur aik sath zindgi guzar sakte hain.(Ref: Minhaj us Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #1, maslah #30. + Tauzeeh ul Masail, edition #42, maslah #2367).
[Updated on 06-Nov-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Agr husband boly mery dos sa sex kro to kya ya jaiz hy islam mn plz jwab zrur dijiya ga

Answer: Jee nahin ye jaiz nahin hai aur shohar ke liye bhi ye jaiz nahin ke apni biwi ko kisi aur ke liye paish karey. ye gunah e kabira hai. (Ref: Minhaj us Salaheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Part #1, masalah #30).
[Updated on 25-Sep-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Asalamualikum hafiz saheb mai sawaal ye hai ke mere biwi kisi gair mard ke saath ham bistari kar chuke hai aur ek bar nahi balke kaye bar kya mai uske gunah ko maaf karke aage unke saath zindagi kar sakta hu pls help kare

Answer: Zina aik gunah e kabeera hai lehaaza lazim hai k zina karne wale khuda sai tauba karain. Agar shadi shuda aurat zina karay to ehtiyat e wajib ki bina par wo zaani (zina kernay walay shakhs) par hamesha ke liye haram ho jati hai Yani wo aurat phir khabi bhi zaani (zina kernay walay shakhs) sai nikah nahi kar sakti hai. Laikin shohar per haram nahi hogi. lehaza dono mian biwi aik sath reh sakte hain aur aik sath zindgi guzar sakte hain. or agar tauba o istighfar nah kare or apne amal per baqi rahe (yani zinakaari tark nah kare) tu behtar ye hay k shohar osay talaq day day laikin shohar ko chahiay keh os ka meher use day. (Ref: Minhaj us Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), part #1, maslah #30. + Tauzeeh ul Masail, edition #42, maslah #2367).
[Updated on 25-Sep-2021:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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Question: Sage baap beti ka rishta sex kar ne se khatam ho jata hay email kare faahkir@gmail.com

Answer: 1: Baap or beti apas me mehram hain aur mehram afraad ka aik dosre ke sath sex karna haram hai. or is se tauba karna lazim hai. lekin is se baap or beti ka rishta khatam nahin hota or wo baap or beti hi rahen ge.
2: Zina ka kuffara sache dil se toba karna hai lehaza Hazrat Rasool Allah se marvi hadees ke mutabiq Sura e Tahreem (sura no 66) ki tilawat karte howe Allah Taala ki baarga main toba kijye.
3: Tauba ka sahi mafhom ye hai k sab se pehlay tu aap ko apnay is gunah per nidamat honi chahiay or Allah se istighfaar or tauba talab kerni chahiay or apnay aap se ehed or wada kerna chahiay k is ghunah e azeem ko phir kabhi anjaam nahi dain gi.or hamaisha yaad rakhain k Allah aap ko har waqt daikh raha hay or aap is gunah ko anjaam day ker shaitan ka hokum maan rahay hain or Allah ki na fermani ker rahay hain.

(Ref: Minhaaj us Saliheen, Ayatullah Sistani(d.b), Part # 3, Maslah #90,155, Edition 1427 hij. + Dunya Wa Akhirat ki 100 Pareshanion ka hal, pg #37.
+ (E-mail Rcvd from A.Sistani(d.b) Sep 27, 2010)
[Updated on 23-Aug-2022:: Khuda aap ko Uloom e Aal e Muhammad(s.a.w.w) sekhne ka ajar ata farmaey]

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